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writes:Me and this guy have dated for 3 years off and on. We argue about dumb things that don't matter like I didn't tell him i was at the baseball game with my best friend (which is a girl). He gets very jealous and makes me feel like crap when i haven't even done anything. However, this past weekend, we were out with friends and he left me there. I tried to call him and he wont answer. It has been 3 days now and he is still not answering me or returning my text messages. How can he just up and leave me after 3 years without any reasoning?
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (23 February 2010):
 think about it like this
right now i can see how it is hard to break up after 3 years ...
you are 22-25
you have 60 years left in yo ur life...
do you want to look back on your life and see 60 years of that story repeated again and again.
60 years of misery, not just for you, but for the people you could potentially bring into the thing as well.
Literally ruining the rest of your life because you feel too comfortable to let a mistake go is really what you are doing.
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reader, Jacob Maluleka  +, writes (23 February 2010):
A good relationship is built on a foudation of trust and communication.An I've got to say that trust is something he dismally lacks for you.Without proper lines of communication there's no relationship.I know it's been too long you two been going out,but is the pain worth enduring or worse,is it worth 3 years,not to mentiton the on and offs.Ask yourself what is it about this fella that got you on your knees begging please.Is it love? Well love is not love when it hurts.And worse,love hurts too much when the one you in love with does not appreciate what he has or doesn't truly love you.Stop calling him anymore and see if he'll call or text you,and if not,just give it a break.Guys are not always that confident enough to break-up with their girlfriends.....which means he might be scared to.If he doesn't bother to change his attitude towards you then......leave sister before you reach the burniong depths of no return and get hurt worse than you thought.Wish you all the best......peace.
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