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Heartbreakers...??

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Question - (22 February 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2010)
A female Nigeria age 36-40, *yinkansola writes:

Please i need help.... my boyfriend says he is still in love with his ex girlfrnd, even when she clearly told him she was not in love with him... he says he can't fall in love with me because he believes all ladies are heartbreakers. He said he is staying with me becoz he does not want me to feel bad!!! Gosh i really dont know what tp do because i love him and i dont want to lose him!!! please advice me on what to do

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2010):

You already have lost him. He's still in love with his ex and says that you are effectively the same as her. Until he faces his own problems and moves on from her, he will be useless as a boyfriend to you, and it's actually unfair of him to have you around him knowing that he won't do anything with you. He's basically keeping you around just to use you at his convenience, to take his anger and revenge on you. The best thing you can do is leave him and focus on your own life.

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