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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm tired of playing games with women

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it a good idea for me to isolate myself from women forever? I don't think anything good can come out of a relationship for me, and I often worry about catching STDs. I have had it off with prostitutes before. I don't think I have any STDs at the moment. But I am tired... (144 words)

I've become very moody -- what's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What's wrong with me??? I don't know iv anyone can help. Over the past 2 years I have become very bitchy and moody. I used to be on antidepressants for panic attack but have been off them just over a year. I went to see my doctor and explained how I was feeling and she... (296 words)

He's been taking me for granted, but now he's talking about how much he needs me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has been taking me for granted lately and I began pulling away to do my own thing. Last night he told me that I don't love him or care about him anymore. I responded "if this is a break up, just be up front with me and I will go on with my life. I guess he did not ... (126 words)

Should I comfort him in his time of need or wait to see if his girlfriend wants out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so there's this guy me and him went out a couple months back and we recently started back talking . I believe that my feelings for him are coming back and I want to go back out but the problem is he has a girlfriend.he already knows I still like hym because I tld him when we ... (173 words)

I only seem to fancy gay men!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have a problem thats kinda strange but I only seem to fancy gay men. sometimes go out with my friends I see some really gorgeous guys and I go over and start fliting with them but i find out most of them are gay. One of my best friends is Gay and one of my other friend who ... (118 words)

Should I be bothered that my male friend never calls me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

- Men please give me your perspective on my situation. I have had a male friend from a dating site that I have been seeing for around 10 months. We both agreed we do not seek a sexual relationhip just yet so exclusivity or commitment is not expected. However, I am a bit stuck b... (373 words)

I've got a child-like mind, I daydream, and believe in things that aren't real. Is this normal or am I stupid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I,ve not really had a great childhood when i was five i moved house to the middle of nowere where there were no kids or anythin and I lived on the main road so i couldnt really go out anywere to explore. Now I,m 18 I tink myself I,ve a very child like mind like I daydream the ... (87 words)

Is he playing stupid games with me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i havent been together that long but he told me he was crazy about me. recently though, he said that we rushed into it and he's too busy w/ work and school right now, he doesnt want to fail classes anymore because of girls, which he's done in the past. i know ... (214 words)

Should I have outgrown fancying celebrities?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I,m 18 years old and I still really fancy celebritys shouldnti,ve grown out of this?... (16 words)

Bumps seem to be multiplying!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I have bumps on my vagina that look to be acne that have little white heads... well they have been multiplying since i got this ointment given to me by my doctor... IS IT TRUE THAT IT ONLY GETS WORSE BEFORE IT GETS BETTER?... (45 words)

A girl with bad luck! A tale about two brothers...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help... and God knows I cant talk to anyone about it. Pleas help me :( I started out going out with this guy for 8 years things I was little and things were too cute and too good to be true. I lived in the U.S all my life. and he was back in my country. when I ... (581 words)

I want to have her back, I know we are meant to be together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - OK, My ex gf and I broke up 4 mo. ago. We got in contact about two weeks ago, started talking, then she wanted to hang out. We did, everything went great. I had tried to get her back in the past to no avail, and after a few days got scared bc I thought she was stri... (340 words)

Help How do I Snog my Boyfriend for the first time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi im a teenager and im in love with my boyfreind and i want to take my realtionship a little bit further and i dont know how to kiss because i never have please can you help me? ... (38 words)

Why does my ex's girlfriend act so mean. He dumped me for her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of two years and I just broke up in Janaury and its been really hard for me espically since he left me for somebody else. But the girl he left me for is really mean to me. I knew who she was before they started dating but ever since they started I only have gotten ... (210 words)

I never overcame his past infidelities, am I being too insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age - My husband cheated on me 14 years ago, since then we have rebuilt our relationship and have gone forward. He has been the best husband and father ever and Iam so glad that we made it work. He had recently hooked up with an old girl friend from high school. They call and co... (375 words)

Was my husband cheating with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F) age 41-50 - My husband is a van driver who took a female rider to a church function they got back and sat in the van for 10 or so mins in the dark with no light in the van or on the streets. I got a strange feeling in my gut something happened between them. He said they were talking ... (104 words)

Why does my ex avoid me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Breaking up with my ex on a phone is very mean. But when he ran back to his previous ex immediately, I thought that at least we could be in the same room but he left his friend place right when he saw me. Everyone knows he leaves because of me and I want to get rid of this ... (91 words)

How will I find a girlfriend when I get out of university?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 22 and single, I've had 2 short term girlfriends but nothing much at the moment. I am studying to become a civil engineering and at the moment I just want to concentrate on my studies and being with friends. My main worry however about being single is that as I'm planning... (162 words)

I'm bi-curious, should I give it a try?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i just found out my friend is a lesbian. i am totally grossed out. she has asked me to get physical with her but i said i dont know. i then had a dream the other night that we had sex and i liked it. i kind of want to give it a try now. what do you think?... (61 words)

I feel a connection, but am I reading too much into her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (M)

age - I work with A lady who is 31 and I am 49 and we I feel a connection today I bought her a chocolate bar and she said thanks and you didnt have to buy me that ! am I reading too much into it ?... (46 words)

I can't let go of her past

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

22 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - well ive been married for 2 years and everything seems typical , but i have a problem i cant let go of , my wife told me she has had over 50 one night stands ! it bothers me sometime i feel like a sucker , she also has had three ways with guys and girls ,my first problem is i ... (108 words)

I like her but she only wants to be friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14, female, and bi. My close friend, who is also a female has been changing her mind with me for the past 7 months. She's said that she might have feelings for me, then takes it back. We've kissed before (my first kiss) thats when I first started getting feelings for her. ... (274 words)

Escaping the friend zone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been friends with this girl for about 5 months now. We hang out like every other week and text for like a few days at a time during random weeks. When i first started talking to her i told her i liked her and she told me she didnt want to ruin our friendship and i ... (92 words)

I wish she would come back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am still so in love with my ex girlfriend I can't stop thinking about her a year later. We met at the place I used to work went out for 8 months and both fell in love. She ended things cos I was always so picky and messed everything up..completely my fault but I've changed ... (220 words)

Would I be naive to believe my husband will change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of 9 years (together for 16) had an almost 4 year long affair with his office manager who had a live-in boyfriend. Although I've decided to give him a second chance he has not stopped all contact with her as she still comes into the office to do billing and I've ... (750 words)

I love my husband but he suddenly abandoned me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age - Hello, My husband abandoned my in August 2008,Just up and left,took things he should not of and so on.I haven't seen him and only talked with him via phone 4 times.Last week I saw him out and we got to talking he told me his parents (husband is 47) gave him 500 dollars ... (193 words)

How do you know if he's cheating or losing interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you know if your boyfriend is cheating? If he doent call you as much a s he used to or not very affectionate nor compliment you as before.. does it mean that he's cheating or losing interest? If he's calls changed.. and seems to be in a hurry to hang up at certain hours ... (105 words)

Do I worry about her or continue to trust my boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear readers I am in a new realtionship with a Man for 4 months now. He have a female friend whom he's very closed to and so does she to him. It makes me quite uncomfortable-- especially that i can see how excited and proud he is of her-- I noticed that they really like each... (273 words)

Why does everybody think it's bad when girl cheats but cool when a man cheats?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like to know why when a gurl cheat everybody think it's bad but when a man did the samething they think it's cool I would like to know why? Please... (39 words)

If he really cared about me wouldnt he ask how I'm doing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my friend havent been talking because i guess hes never around to answer my texts or emails. Were on april vacation and he never talks to me fully when were not at school. I hurt myself by burning myself at work so i told everyone including him. He was at a bruins game ... (213 words)

He was staring at my ass, what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i told a boy i liked him, since we say hi everyday(its a step up from saying hi once a week, waves to me, smiles at me, and one of my friends says he was staring at my ass. what does this mean?... (43 words)

Should I tell my parents about him now, or wait until I am fully independent? He's 4 years older than they are.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question involving age difference. I have been dating a man for a year now, I just turned 20 and he is turning 43. We both are very serious about our relationship and I feel we have been very realistic when it comes to dating and the progression within a ... (293 words)

I feel like I can't tell him when I'm upset! It's always me in the wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i live 30 miles away from my boyfriend, and we do see each other as much as we possibly can. on monday my boyfriend didn't visit because he had a lecture on the tuesday morning. then tuesday my boyfriend came to visit. i didn't realise until the wednesday morning that i h... (382 words)

Dominated by wife and in need of some advice.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, i am indian husband, just married to beautiful girl four months ago....she is very dominating in our relationship. She earns almost double than me, she forciblly insisting me for leaving my job and be full time househusband. She wants me to do all house hold work. She also ... (91 words)

Slept with him and now don't hear from him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i slept with this guy for first time and he said he liked it now he wont return my texts at all why... (23 words)

Anyone have experience with Cerezette?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, just a quick question... I've been on the contraceptive pill Cerezette for the past 6 months and throughout everytime I've had sex with my BF I've bled. It's not a lot, a little on his penis and I bleed out a little, was wondering if anyone else had had this experience ... (71 words)

I'm 18, she's 14 and may be pregnant. Could her dad file charges?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

22 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and she is 14 turning 15 in less than two months she might be pregnant?Her mom has legal custody her dad doesn't,does that mean only her mom can determine whether to press charges,but her mom is okay with me and her daughter.Help me? what do i do?... (49 words)

How do I make myself seem sick so I don't have to go visit his family?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am supposed to go up north (Michigan) with my boyfriend's dads side of the family. i don't want to go because he has never been close with them and it's uncomfortable. The last time i went i had a horrible time. I want to make my boyfriend think i am sick so i don't hurt his ... (97 words)

My ex showing mixed signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - She is now dating a girl and she hated my guts for a while but recently, she called my name out really loud in the hall, told me to come here, and hugged me.... I confused.... Does she still have feelings for me? I've been avoiding her for a long time but today she hugged ... (154 words)

How long till I'm fully protected?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Hi. I've recently just started re-taking microgynon 30. I used to take it a few months ago, but have only just been allowed to continue it, as I've been ill. I started the first packet yesterday - but it was after my period (the week before) had finished. I know that if you ... (129 words)

Is this heavy petting and will it lead to sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend whom i have been together for 2 months want to touch my breast and vagina when we are french kissing. Should I allow him to do that? Is that considered heavy petting and if I agreed to it will that be leading him on to sex?... (51 words)

Is there anyway we can maintain a good and healthy long distance relationship while I'm on a summer exchange program?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are happily attached for about 2 months already. But now I am going for a summer exchange programme overseas for a period of 3 months. I really feel very insecure about long distance relationship and so does he. As he is not someone who talks alot so I ... (120 words)

Is visiting a live porn room with cameras the same as watching porn videos?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 April 2010 (?) age 41-50 - How do I interpret the fact that my boyfriend of over 10 years visits live porn rooms? I found out about the online porn videos and live rooms 5 o 6 years into our relationship and found it in my heart to get past it after he agreed not to visit these sites. Well I just found ... (136 words)

Boyfriend told he his fantasies, and asked about mine. But I don't know if I have any! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend has a few fantasies and told me them. he asked me if i had any. thing is he is one of my first boyfriends so i don't really know any. what are some of them?... (37 words)

I always fall in love with straight guys. Can it stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I am gay.. even though I have not admited openly to anyone yet (and mean it.. i did a couple of times but guys around or girls think I am kidding, even though I say it seriously), 21 years old and a virgin. Well, the fact is that i fell in love with some of the gu... (420 words)

My boyfriend's past bothers me. I am suspect of being able to have a healhy relationship with him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a 24 year old girl having a great boyfriend.We are really commited to each other and planning on getting married next year. Before we got together,we were friends for almost one year. during that time,i knew about a girl who was madly in love with him and used to stalk... (393 words)

Why did my shy crush stalk one of her brother's friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - For a good while now I've noticed that almost every time I go over their house she watches me while I'm watching TV with her brother. One time I could even hear her giggling. I know that her brother also has another friend that comes over frequently, but not when I'm around. I ... (159 words)

Why have I been getting nightmares every night? And why did they stop when I met this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - [OP's original title] I don't get many nightmares, only every once in a while. But recently I've been having them everynight,there usually dreams where I'm about to get killed or die. I wonder if it's cause there's too many things going on in my life right now, bad things that... (146 words)

How long do I wait to get tested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - how long after having sex do you have to wait to get tested for any kind of diseases?... (18 words)

I see her point of view, does she see mine?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in love with a woman at work. She knows that and has been a very good friend. We hang out every now and then and talk to each other lots everyday. I had recently proposed to her to give our relationship a chance. She asked me to wait and give her some time. I was fine with ... (230 words)

Should I really have a baby with this kind of man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - am having a problem with my boyfriend,we are for ever arguing even if its a small mistake that comes up. he just got rude with me since he found out that i cheated on him. sometimes he even just want to beat me while he also cheats with other ladies. i dnt know what to do to ... (106 words)

Should I move, or stay here to let him see the kids?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out my husband of 9 years (together for 16) was having a 4 year affair with his office manager on Christmas of last year. We decided to try to repair our marriage for the sake of our two children ages 6 and 4. I was willing to forgive his mistake if he was truly ... (240 words)

Is it okay to show off my new body?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a girl that was 25 pounds overweight. I have been working out and have lost the weight and am in the best shape of my life. Summer is coming and I have purchased some skimpy clothes, such as short shorts, micro miniskirts, tubetops, and some short sundresses. I have worn ... (79 words)

Am I asking for trouble moving nearer to his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my on off boyfriend are thinking about moving out somewere different, he wants to move down the country to where his ex girlfriend lives. Now me and his ex used to be mates like she told me she and him where bests friends and while we were together she was sleeping ... (149 words)

Should I even try to save my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everybody, I need some advice so i turn to you. I am in a relationship with a good person for 2 and a half years. We've had our ups and downs, as everybody i guess, but every time we managed to get through it. I am 20 he is 21 and we've lived together the last year. ... (404 words)

My online friend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age - I met a man online four months ago. We have been communicating steadily. We are meeting in two weeks. After we exchanged pictures of each other and started getting to know one another the sparks were flying. I have not had sex in years as I am waiting for the one so i engaged ... (95 words)

My ex knows my Facebook password, do you think it's him deleting my male friends???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey cupid my ex had the password of my email when we were together he went into my myspace account when we was broken up and I was very upset we still didn't get back together... I just realized that on my facebook that every time I request a guy friend that they are the only ... (275 words)

How do I express my feelings better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm looking for advice on how to express my feelings better. I've never been the one to share my feelings, to hug people, to cry and so on. I feel that it makes me vulnerable to others and therefore I don't like to reveal how I feel. I appear strong and emotionless to m... (346 words)

What do you do if you love someone so much but you feel you'll always be plagued with feelings of betrayal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Help, I need people outside the situation to give me their best advice. My (now) ex boyfriend's emotional affair is out in the open. I found out about it through doing detective work. Here's what happened. I was extremely busy in my career last year. This longtime... (1018 words)

He comments on other girls and keeps looking at them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi am married for 2 years nw and when i go out with my husband for a movie or to a restaurant and when he finds some good looking girls he tells me look at that girl she is so pretty for example she is so lean or she has beautifull complexion or beautifull hair and he would ... (83 words)

I wanted to show I didn't care, but in a positive way. Is that bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F) - my ex and i have been talking for a few months..we might eventually see each other slowly. He isn't ready right now. I do still care about him and would love for us one day to get back together. I called him last night and he picked up..we spoke for about 10 minutes but then... (280 words)

She says I'm being rude and has given me an ultimatum!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having fights with my fiancee almost everyday which she is a woman btw....for instance this morning she takes me to work every morning and drops me off i was tired and didnt want to drive so i asked her the night before if she wouldnt mind driving she said sure she didnt ... (129 words)

Do I need the morning after pill? Or am I protected?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all quick question involving my contraceptive pill, im a bit confused with the information given. I take the contraceptive pill yasmin, and i started taking my first pill on saturday after my seven week break. Yesterday i went out on the town and hit some clubs and bars w... (366 words)

Is this acceptable behaviour for a man in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please tell me what is acceptable behaviour for a man in a committed relationship. You meet a bunch of drunk girls out, you talk, you have photos taken, you laugh and have a party. A girl is standing with her hand on your leg while she turns around to order a drink at the b... (247 words)

Is taking a break a good idea for a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

22 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - *Op's own title* My relationship has reached a point where I am very vulnerable to cheating on my girlfriend. The truth is that she didn't take care of me (and she acknowledges it) and avoided the subject for far too long. After our conversation, her attitude changed but I'm ... (143 words)

It's my birthday, ..and I'll invite who I want to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm organising a meal for my birthday this month and I have a huge group of people coming- some are friends from school, some current and ex colleagues etc... Now i have invited an ex colleague if mine who I often see out of work. She was only a temp and was asked to leave ... (166 words)

Pregnant in the Desert?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am a military member currently deployed somewhere in the desert, I am single so I was told before coming out here to be careful because everyone cheats on their spouse out here and that it is just apart of the culture for people to reinvent themselves and b... (599 words)

I am hoping to spice things up in the bedroom - any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was wondering whether I could have some advice? I would really like to spice things up with my boyfriend.. as over the yeas, our sexlife has become pretty bland. I was wondering if there were little things I could do to help attract him to me in THAT kind of way? ... (197 words)

Flat mate got me pregnant, dumped me, and moved away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a problem. i live in a flat and theres this guy who used to live there. im 17 and he's 21. we had sex a few times and now i might be pregnant. i fell in love with him really quick. but then he dropped me and now hes moved away :(. i dont know what to do! helpp?? x... (62 words)

2 guys and I"m unsure which to chose!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have somehow managed to get involved with 2 guys at the same time and now I don't know what to do. The first guy I've been seeing for 18 months, with most of that as long distance (flying back and forth a lot). He helped me get out of an abusive relationship and... (335 words)

Afraid I wont find love because of sheltered life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im want to find love but im worried that i wont. i am 20 an have had 1 serious girlfriend wich ended in disaster she totally ruined my self confidence. i was never very good at meeting new girls and just finding the confidence to talk to a good looking girl was a very rare ... (95 words)

What signs do I look for if hes cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Been with my Boyfriend a year, im 18 and he is 24. im 2 months pregnant, getting rid of it wasn't an option we are so happy about it although im scared but i will be ok. now i feel like he thinks he's got me right where he wants me because im pregnant and cant do the things i ... (212 words)

B/f says don't mind her shes crazy...but I DO mind!

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi! I just meet a new boyfriend now is about two month, I love him soo much, but I dont trust him, my boyfriend is also my boss and their like 7 girls working with him before I started working with them. but one girl since I work there I always find her sitting beside him ... (156 words)

Start a new relationship to get over the ex?

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22 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i posted a question on my relationship troubles about 2weeks ago on how i asked my gf to let go of me and later regretted it.i got an advice from one of the readers and it helped a lot.first i set a target of 1week in which i was neither going to ring or text her and i was able ... (156 words)

Addicted to columbus coffee and him

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Drama, drama, drama! I am in my last year of school, and I am completely infatuated with a guy who is already taken. Now, before I say anything else, I am NOT a house-breaker. Now we have that cleared up... Next to my school is a (very convenient) cafe, which is the hub o... (444 words)

Letting go when I love him with all of my heart

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with a guy that I've been sleeping with off and on for 6 years. We've been friends for almost 9 years and I've always had really strong feelings for him, but not until recently did it get more serious for me. He is literally my best friend, but the intimate ... (164 words)

What do I do about controlling boyfriend?

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - 2 posts..combined....MOD NOTE: Ok here's the problem, it's my nephews 1st birthday party on Sunday and my boyfriend doesn't want to go, and doesn't want me to go either, in general, he doesn't like visiting my family, he seems to think they have got something against him, whi... (384 words)

Home sick from work and mom has all these chores for me!

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Morning all. This is probably trivial but it's made me so angry I would like to pick your brains! I called in sick today at work because I am unwell, I have a horrendous cough which I've thrown up with and a very sore throat. All week I been struggling but I've gone in but b... (231 words)

How do I approach him?

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I guess my situation is the typical girl meets guy and has an interest but doesn't know how to go any further than that kind of situation. I've gone to this specific church building for the past two years and there has been this one guy there the entire time, though I'm sure ... (379 words)

Problems already in a new relationship! Move on?

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined...1st post..I have been in a relationship for about 6weeks and already had a few problems. I thought he was divorced, but it turns out he has only been separated from his wife since christmas, and she rang me to warn me off her husband. He insists ... (260 words)

Will he try to come back later on?

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - good morning everybody,i thank everyone who takes time to read my question and give me an advice.I'm pregnant but my boyfriend acted stupid at the beginning,he lied to me,cheated,and even injured me.he ran away for twq months,and come back when i was 4 months to apologize.i ... (190 words)

Get over him? or love him in silence?

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been in love with a guy for almost a year now, but he has a girlfriend.they have been together for almost 3 years now.They're very much in love and are planning to settle down together in the future.He is unaware of my feelings for him and he says that he cares for me as a ... (109 words)

Should I try to hold on to her when she shows little attraction toward me?

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22 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright, long story short. My girlfriend and I started off as a long distance couple, and moved together for about a year before we had to return to long distance due to schooling and college. However, due to a lifetime of abuse from my father, and her kissing my now ex-best ... (106 words)

My boyfriend is jealous and doesn't respect me, but I want to try.

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am undoubtedly a hopeless romantic. I'm kind of traditional in the sense that I want my man to court me and not the other way around as it happens to be so popular these days. I do like to be my own person; be an individual and not a clone. So how is it that I find myse... (475 words)

My emotionally unstable ex-girlfriend wants to get back together, how do I say no without crushing her?

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22 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so, I ended a long distance relationship that I had with a girl the next state over from me, we were together for 3-months, I ended it in February. I ended it for a number of reasons, the main one being that I couldn't cope with the distance any more. It was getting t... (749 words)

I lost a bit of respect for him when he didn't defend me

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - While hanging out with my boyfriend and his friends. one of his friends, who is usually a nice guy, was drunk and chatting with me about his girl problems. Out of nowhere, he lifts me and slaps my butt in front of everyone. I felt offended of course and and put a stop to it. ... (243 words)

Is there any way to prevent myself from thinking I could lose her?

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22 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I need some help about this. It's been a pretty good couple months going out with my girlfriend. But it's like every minute i spend worrying i could lose her. I don't think it's normal to think this. I trust her 100% but i just live my life thinking that i could lose her. Can ... (65 words)

Next step: should I run for second base?

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 years, i am 14 years old and so is he. We have made out, kissed, cuddle, and stuff but i don't know what the next step should be? Should it be more sexually or something else? i am not sure what to do.... (52 words)

Fallen for three guys

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confuse... I'm falling for the total of three guys...One of the guys is my Boyfriend....I felt bad...guilty. I feel like a wh****...But I cant help this feeling deep within me. The first guy C...He's awesome. He's nice towards me all the time and when ever he sees me lon... (323 words)

I'm about to be a dad for the third time and don't know how to tell my parents!

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22 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - When I was 17 I got my then gf who was also 17 pregnant. We were young and didn't use protection. A few weeks after my son Shade turned 1 we broke up and she left Shade with me and moved out of town. My parents were really supportive and helped out so I could go to college. On ... (315 words)

Would you date someone like that?

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend has a high school diploma ad he does not know if he wants to go back to school, while i am getting my bachelors. he does not have a bank account, he is not that intelligent meaning he can not really read or spell that great. he spends money very stupidly an... (208 words)

Guys, how would you feel if your girlfriend dumped you?

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys this question is for you, how would you feel if your girlfriend dumped you, if you really loved her?... (20 words)

He likes me but he won't make any moves! Ugh!

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - The guy I like at school is pissin me off! He likes me but he won't make any moves. I guess I've been complaining to my friends too much because now they're on his case. It's so awkward around him now because he used to txt or call me everyday...in December/January. We still ... (227 words)

I get so scared and nervous around him!

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22 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - So for back ground information, I"m a 16 year old gay male and my boyfriend is 17. We've been together for 4 months. Well everything is perfect with our relationship, he's the perfect bf. We could spend hours talking about nothing. Hes smart, funny, kinda and is beautifu... (137 words)

I'm a day late!! Could I be pregnant?

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just lost my virginity on sunday, it is now Wednesday of the same week, i am on the pill and have been on it for quite a while(for my skin and cramps) im supposed to get my period today! however i dont have it! we didnt use a condom because im on the pill but he definitel... (89 words)

I really like him but... he's got a girlfriend.

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been really having a serious crush on this guy.. I have been told that yeah he is flirting with me and seems to be interested in me. There's only one problem he has a girlfriend. I don't know how long they been together or anything. These are the signs that he is giving ... (291 words)

I need an opinion, does he miss me?

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was seeing this guy for a few months and I really really liked him but all of a sudden things weren't going too well in his life, he quit college (where we met) and told me he didn't want to see me anymore because he wasn't ready for a relationship and it the usual clique q... (206 words)

My friend is putting alot of rules on me making it difficult to see my boyfriend

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive posted quite a few questions about this guy...well things flourished between us and we are now a couple. He is about 6 years older than me and has two kids and an ex wife. He also works with me. I never thought we would see each other out side of work..let alone go on dates ... (313 words)

I don't know if I want my wife back but I want revenge!

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22 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have posted here before and have liked the advise, I'm giving it another try since I'm still having issues with my wife. I am the original poster of "should I confront my wife or let destiny run its course" To minimize I caught my wife cheating on like 13 yrs ago and ... (178 words)

Teacher avoiding me like the plague

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ...Okay im confused. Suddenly one of my teachers that i talked to all day almost each day is avoiding me like the plague...I know it, its obvious. He wouldnt talk to me anymore. He just nodded to me and hurry and walk away, when I called his name. He just ignored me. He never ... (93 words)

I just want to spice things up

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I been wanting to spice my relationship up with my boyfriend. I bought a couple of lingerie outfits but everytime I say I want to get dressed up for you he just says WHY ... I ask what man wouldn't want that he just says he dosent so how do I get him to say yes or what do I do? ... (112 words)

He's seems angry all the time and I don't know why

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22 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I, (we are both gay) recently moved in together about a month and a half ago. Lately, however, he seems like he's always angry at me or just cranky. Today, when he came home, he didn't even smile or say hello to me. He just went straight to the TV to play some ... (385 words)

He's trying to talk me into a threesome

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice on something girls an guys... me an my boyfriend been together for 3 years we have a 8 month old baby together and he has been asking me to have a 3 some with another girl! I don't what to do I feel it can ruin our relationship but he says " if I do this it ... (93 words)

It was just supposed to be a rebound thing, but she might be pregnant

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22 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i need help, a girl i started going out with a few days ago(less than ten) might be pregnant because of a burst condom and i don't love her, this was just suppose to be a rebound thing, last a few weeks at max, she cant have an abortion or anything like that because of her ... (104 words)

I just want him out of my mind, and to heal

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22 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When you know something is over and you have tried so hard..how the hell do you skip over the crying, healing process..god it just sucks and I have been avoiding it for months..trying to work on a relationship that had no trust on my behalf for good reason..I just wnat him out ... (80 words)