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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think I'm in love with my track coach!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 years old and i run track. my coach is 33 years old and married and i think im in love with him. he's so sweet and helpful and he always encourages me. he's just so wonderful. and i dont know what to do. he sometimes flirts a lil, but not anything outragous. i really like ... (255 words)

He cheated on me and its literally killing me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age - i am 52 and dont know how to get him from under my skin. I was seeing a man for three years and then found out six months ago he was still in love with his ex and had been telling her he wanted to get back with her, i broke down when i found out and ended up in hospital with ... (283 words)

Do I just move on or tell my ex how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Really need some advice! My girlfriend finished me a few months ago because she hated the LDR we were in. We got along amazingly well but she hated not seeing me. We had been together about 6 months and everything was perfect, the best relationship i have ever had. Then i h... (390 words)

Boyfriend Does Not Let His Exes Know About Me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are in a serious, committed, relationship. But there is one problem.. he stays in contact with a lot of his exes constantly. I've learn to deal with that, but the big problem is that he NEVER tells them about me. For example, if we went on vacation, he ... (143 words)

How do you make a person see that they are in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Oay well I don’t know where to start .... my dad has meet this women and she is 40 something... he has just moved out of her house because he said he loved her but was not in love with her... my dad started dating this young girl again and she is almost the same age as his ... (273 words)

How do you get over a crush when life keeps you together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you get over a crush when you can't avoid contact with the person? I've had a crush on a co-worker for a long time. I've tried different things to try and get myself over her, but none of them seem to work. I've tried dating, limiting my contact as much as possible... (91 words)

Boyfriend makes fun of my boobs

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has this obsession with boobs. He is constantly grabbing mine. In the beginning, when we were first dating.. he grabbed mine and said "These are D cups". He claimed to be an "expert" in boobs. The last woman he was with before me that he fell hard for had ... (299 words)

Is there a possibility he could like me more than he lets on?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and i have been friends for two years. I like him but I accept that its never going to happen. He has been in a good mood lately. Today I was playing with him on the bus, friendly. Everytime I sit in front of him on the bus he always puts his hand over the seat ... (183 words)

Drunk and cheated on b/f with his best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, ok so i am 17 and have been dating my 20 year old boyfriend for 8 months. 2 weeks ago i made the biggest mistake of my life and when i was unbelievably drunk i cheated (not fully just foreplay) with my boyfriends best friend. i know! awful. ive cried ever since, ive ... (235 words)

Do I write a letter of closure to my ex? He has a way of coming back in my life when things settle down!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been thinking of writing a letter of closure and don't know what to do.I feel as if it will make me feel better and yet no matter who I ask, they all say just leave it.my ex promised me the earth,and I was so taken in by him that I ended my marriage, but he ended up ... (373 words)

Casual sex with a stranger.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Lately I have been having fantasies about random sexual encounters, and it is something I really want to try. But I have no idea how to go about this. I have been in relationships for so long and I find all these men that just want to fall in love and as wonderful as that may ... (95 words)

She's talking to other men online...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I caught my gf back on a dating website communicating with a guy living in the same city as us. I told her to stop using the website because I feel uncomfortable about her using it (who wouldn't?). The sad thing is that I sacrificed a lot to come here for her and tried my har... (477 words)

I want a relationship, but he wants no-strings sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have met this nice lookin guy he says his single but just got out of relationship like 3months ago. We wanted to see each other so I invited him to my house to chill and watch TV. Why did I do that ? He was tryna touch me all over kissing me on my neck and of course I was ... (159 words)

How do I tell my homphobic family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I think i may be lesbian or bisexual. Though I don't know if i should tell my mom because she doesn't like her family to be gay she wants family to be a 100% straight. My sisters idk if they mind. My rest of the family thinks gays are really bad so I'm lost and don't know what ... (61 words)

Could my husband sue?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been having an affair with a man for 8 or 9 months. Last month, I became pregnant with his baby, but I recently had a miscarriage. Because of that situation, my husband found out. He knows everything at this point and has obtained all the emails and text messages ... (144 words)

Will his feelings change while he's away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend who i love for almost 4 months and already, he has told me that he thinks i am the one and that he has never felt this way about anyone before. We see each other all the time and we pretty much live together. We have also talked about the future ... (692 words)

Did my sister's relationship lead to the end of mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend left me nearly a month ago now after we've been dating for 3 years. We had the most amazing relationship, We both had what we've always wanted in someone, she'd even tell me that I'm better than what she's always desired in a man. Then beginning of last month she ... (373 words)

I prefer his mate! Should I leave to be with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im 19 and have been going out with my boyfrend MD for 3 years. We were perfect for the first year and a half but he moved away for 6 months and things have never got back to normal, its like were just stayin 2gether for the sake of it.. Weve been together so long that were ... (816 words)

Falling out of love with my wife...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi everyone im like don't know what to do this is eating me alive i have a wife but im not in love with her when i meet her she already had 2 beautifull girl and we had a baby boy i love them with all i have but the thing is im not in love with my wife no more and i don't know ... (128 words)

Obsessed with my ex boyfriend's new girlfriend!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! My ex boyfriend left me for another woman while he was in rehab for drugs and alcohol and she in there for a nervous breakdown and an eating disorder! They fell in love in two days in rehab? It has been almost two years and they are still together. I sent my ex boyfriend ... (134 words)

A woman says she was with my husband, but he denies it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I think im going to leave my husband because I can't take it anymore. About this women that keeps sending me messages about him. I think he was with her last year when he went on a trip to florida. And we had just moved into our house. She keeps saying that she was with him ... (128 words)

Finding his porn last night made me think....he has a different 'ideal' and it is NOT me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I hope to receive some input here - this issue has given me a great deal of grief over the last two years I have been dating my current BF. My history - I dated a boy my age for 8 years. I was his 'ideal'. He liked pink skinned, blue eyed, tall, B cupe, brunette Europea... (735 words)

Should I go with my best friend to the prom since his girlfriend can't go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My 2 bestfriends are dating each, one is a senior and the other is a freshman, prom is comming up and she can't go with him because her mom won't allow it. So he's been getting upset since he couldn't find someone to take to prom, so I mentioned to his girlfriend that he could ... (182 words)

I cheated, we broke up but are still seeing each other, should I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i cheated on my boyfriend and we have been together for a while but he asked for sometime apart but we are doing everything we did when we were together except kiss what should i do move on or stay because i was the one who messed up... (48 words)

I'm late for first time, could I finally be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 20 and have been with my man for 2 years. its been nine months since we started having sex without using anything (we do want a baby), we have sex a few times during the week, and at weekends we do it like 2-3 times in one day, he usually does always come. but for all that ... (191 words)

Involved with much younger sister in law and now we broke up, should I try to get her back?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

6 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I posted my problem on here last year and got really lambasted. I was having a clandestine relationship with my step-sister and she was 25 years younger than I. She is 18, I am 43. Our parents are not actually married but obviously, our links to the family make this a difficult ... (345 words)

I'm 14, he's 15, LDR and he proposed to me but I know my parents won't like it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well ummm, my internet boyfriend and me have been going out for two years now, we met on imvu, he lives in south grafton, nsw, and i live in adelaide, sa. While we were on facebook one day, he proposed to me (he's 15 turning 16 and i'm 14 by the way) and now i want to meet him... (143 words)

Girlfriend wants a MMF, how do I go about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

6 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my GF are very comfortable with our relationship. We have always tried new things and been honest with each other about things we don't want to try and we respect those limits completely. My GF organized a FFM several years ago and has never directly asked for retrib... (280 words)

3 years of dating and he says I'm beautiful but he's not attracted to me because I'm a bitch!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years, been living together for 2. About 6 months ago, I had reason to believe he was cheating on me and I became very suspicious of him. I would acuse him of things often and ask him questions that would soon turn into fights. We ... (370 words)

Is she the one for me? Or is she too young?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i am a 32 years old guy in a relationship with a 25years old girl. She is someone i truly love and have made it known to her that i intend to marry her. Truly i mean this. But my problem is the age - difference between us. At one point i feel she is the one i need. At another ... (157 words)

I don't want to go to Cancun! Why does my family keep trying to get me to go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 25 years old. Every year for the past four years, my family and my sister-in-law's family went to Cancun, Mexico. My problem is they (both families) keep trying to get me to go again. Why would I want to go when I did once and hated it. I went the first year and h... (349 words)

What would be the perfect date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi just wanted to hear your views on what would be the perfect date (not the person, but destination, activity, w/e) thanks... (22 words)

Do men only want women in their 20's?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

6 April 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Do men only want women in their 20's? What happens when you get to 30, 40 or even 50? What happens then? Will all the guys be busy chasing all the hot young 20 year olds and ignore the older women? So guys- who do you prefer?Women your own age or considerably younger A... (76 words)

Is this sex addiction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I think im addicted to sex! Here's the story: For a while I had a dry spell without any sex at all. And THEN I joined a website which is dedicated to the "no strings attached" hook up. My intention was to find one guy or girl, have a little fun, and let that be that. So I ... (377 words)

Help with the universal contour wrap

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Help! Last year I purchaed a universal contour wrap to do at home. Now I have lost the instructins and don't know how long I'm supposed to keep the wrap on for! I have searched the Internet but no info! Anyone got any idea??? Thanks.... (46 words)

Visiting ex on vacation, should I make a move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently reconnected with an old girlfriend. We are both fresh out of relationships. Since we got back in contact, she has been asking me to come and visit her. She lives across the country so we're separated by quite some distance. After quite a bit of discussion, I ... (245 words)

What do you think, could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay,so I have a BIG problem. On March 23rd,2010, I had unprotected sex. We're both disease free and I know this for sure, so we both agreed that it would be okay to go unprotected and do the pull out method (not the smartest idea, i know). Additionally, i've got an ovulation ... (286 words)

Is being on top less like to get a girl pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey my friend told me if a girl is on top during sex its less likely to get pregnit with out a condom is that true?... (26 words)

My husband gave oral sex to a female friend who had passed out at the party we were throwing!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - we had a party in our home and my husband decided to give oral sex to an old female friend that was passed out in the room down stairs while i was upstairs sleeping. he never said anything to me until the girl called me the next morning and told me. i have been so angry with ... (103 words)

My brother-in-law sexually molested me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear kind soul out there, I want to overcome the sadness that is haunting me for almost 7 years now. I just felt I need someone to tell to ease the pain. It started when I was 18 years old in August, 2002. I live on the 5th floor apartment with my parents and younger sister. ... (707 words)

B/f shows no signs of committing and I want to get married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to get married but my boyfriend shows no signs of committing. We have been living together for a year, dating for two... He talks about the future, initially spending it with me, wants a son and his daughter adores me, yet the idea of marriage or even a long engagement ... (78 words)

My mental health is declining and I can't seem to have a good relationship with my 12 year old daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Readers, Hello again and thank-you for your past advice. It has been a while, but I find that I am back here again despite my daughter seeing a Child Psychologist, myself seeing one and also going to Family Therapy all to no avail. If anything I have learnt to be mor... (803 words)

My hubby is a good provider, my ex has nothing to offer. Who do I choose?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i have Been with my husband for 15 years. he did something about three years ago to a friend that he went to school with. pretty much cheated. i can't seem to forget and don't know if i have forgiven him. so heres the other thing. my ex from twenty years ago came back in my ... (118 words)

Questioning my phone calls and texts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age - *Op's own title* My boyfriend wants to know who "I" am texting and who is texting me all the time. Most of the time it is between my kids and I. I resent telling him what I am doing all the time. I get annoyed and feel that he is being too nosy. I have nothing to hide from... (169 words)

How do I convince him to go to anger management?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age - I would like to suggest to my anger natured boyfriend (Italian) to go to anger management. I know he will resist ....any ideas how to convince him to go? Where do I find such help for him (us). I assume I should go with him, should I?... (50 words)

One night stand role play. Is this weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (M)

age - My wife and I have been married for 7 years. She cheated on her first husband. She now wants to role play and have me pick her up in a bar - she never had the experience of dating, and now she wants me to pick her up and take her somewhere for sex as if it's a one night stand. ... (72 words)

Sore, red, and itchy after unprotected sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend about a month ago.my vagina was sore and red for a couple of days a think its only because we did it like 8times in like 3days aha oops! i got my period last week and that was fine :) but now its itchy and a dont know why :/ and a ... (71 words)

Are we on the rocks? His arguing is getting me down..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *Op's own title* Hi, I am currently in a long term relationship, and until recently it was great, just the normal sort of thing. We would argue like any other couple, but make up quickly and laugh about it after. I was really happy, and after a while we started talking abou... (303 words)

Seeing my ex with his new wife is upsetting me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My Ex B/f is my neighbour. I do not know why he left me after having 8 good years together. During those years, I and my family did a lot to make him stand financially and in almost every way.My parents treated him as their own child. But he left me and got married with a ... (174 words)

My high sex drive is running and ruining my life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a young woman and my sex drive is off the charts and it always has been, as far back as I can remember. My core values won't let me sleep around, I have never had a one night stand and always been in long term relationships. At the moment I am single and my mind is plagued ... (227 words)

Will this retreat help with my prostitute problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello again I know this is stupid and im ashamed and annoyed with myself along with hating myself right now. I slept with a prostitute again and have no idea why i was doing well... booked my retreat holiday to thailand where im doing a fitness camp ( intense) for a m... (428 words)

Did a drunken phone call ruin my chances?

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6 April 2010 (F) - First off, i have been dating and trying to keep busy. Was with my ex for 3 and a half years..it was petty stuff i think that broke us apart.. fighting over things i regret.. no one cheated.. we did have alot of love.. he broke it off... a year later i leave him a vmail and ... (495 words)

Was I too harsh? Will he love me in the same way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I recently found out that my husband had a close (non sexual) relationship with a work colleague. It has now all stopped as they don't work together any more and I am sure my husband is telling the truth as he is devastated at how hurt I am. It was after I had our seco... (248 words)

Does my sister need a kick up the backside?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my sister is driving me crazy. she broke up with her bf and is now living with my grandma. she had offers to live with friends but declined, so she chose to go there. we have no room at our house but she still lives here when i am at my boyfriends. i wouldnt have a problem w... (277 words)

More than friends but not a relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I'm so confused. I am STUCK in a Dawson/Joey type relationship. This guy and me have been in each other's lives since we were young. We were each other's first loves. We know everything about each other and have so many years of wonderful history together. We we... (895 words)

Will I regret losing the chance to get back with my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Before I start, please don't judge me too harshly. I love my boyfriend more than anything, and I cannot imagine my life without him. I want to spend the rest of my life with him and I would never leave him. The only thing is he was my first time, and there's a part of me that ... (436 words)

Would he want to date me knowing that I've slept with his best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - omg...ive like my brothers best Friend for 4years now:( i think about him all the time. hes soo sweet, charming, caring and very sexy. the way he looks at me..you know sometime i think he feels the same way,. when we hug he squeeze me and holds me tight. i really really ... (286 words)

How do I turn this casual relationship into a serious one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy recently and I have really started to fall for him. He is gorgeous and a nice guy. However, recently he told me he isn't looking for anything serious. I dont think it is because he is a player but more so as he recently moved to the city to a new school and I ... (253 words)

Should I tell him that she cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in the trickest, most childish situation i have been in, in a long time. Im 19 years old and ive been best friends with two girls for a very long time. One is a childhood friend and has been there since birth, and the other i met in highschool and ive known since i wa... (712 words)

Why do men turn to protitutes?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this may sound like a random question, but why do alot of men visit prostitutes? most of them are dirty crack addicts who are really ugly and are tramps, and why would men want to do that if they have a pretty girl at home who is willing to do anything for him? also what are... (79 words)

Could it have been an ectopic pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello ive recently took the morning after pill 3weeks past now and i am still bleeding heavily.i have had unprotected sex after taking it and have took a home test and doc test which have both came bck negative but i think it may b too soon 2 tell.Im worried about the bleeding ... (68 words)

Should I keep going back to him or end it for good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend keeps getting jealous over two of my ex's. he feels they are better than him in very way, and no matter how many times i tell him i love him he always treats me bad, calling me a slag and saying he regrets being with me, but then he always says he didnt mean it and ... (98 words)

Any ideas for a special anniversary?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have had a kind of rocky relationship, breaking up and getting back together. That happened for six months, and in the middle we both went out with other people. Our relationship hit a good, steady place six months ago, and so our six month (continuous) ... (98 words)

Should I confront my friends about leaving me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i am havving some issues with my friends. they seem to arrange outings e.g shopping or swimming but they never ever invite me. i feel really hurt and let down by them becuase they always do this and even my best friend doesnt care but its ok for her becuase she always gets ... (104 words)

Losing love for my brainy boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey..m in a comitted relationship since 9months. its a ldr..and last time i visited my bf was 3months back.well in terms of acaedemics my bf is very brainy.he studies in india's top coaching class.. last year he only studied for few days and left studying!!he was thrown out o... (182 words)

Do I have the right to confront him about these emails to his ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help. last few days i found a chat on my bf facebook with a woman he was dating four years ago. they were talking about meeting up again and all. How they had great relatonships with great love making. I really felt bad, jealous and betrayed. Well i confronted him and ... (274 words)

Why do I struggle to enjoy myself when receiving a hand-job off another person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

6 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi when im recieving a hand job off another person i cant always cum, but I have no trouble when going it alone! help??... (24 words)

What could be wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i had a vaginal infection 8days ago then i went to my doctor who gave me something to get rid of the itch...yesterday i started my periods it was just a spot of pinkish blood but today its heavy.... i'm scared somthing might be wrong with me because i have been nausea... (67 words)

My girlfriends dad does not like me at all and is trying to get her to come home to be with someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 4years now, we have a 11months baby girl and we are staying together. But her parents wants her to come back home because her dad don't like me at all, there is someone that her dad wants her to be with. So Hes trying everyt... (86 words)

I'm worried about kissing for the first time!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

6 April 2010 (?) age 26-29 - what is the best and easiest way to gain confidence in kissing because i've never been kissed before and i've asked people who i know that have kissed but all they say is to just do it. THAT DOESNT EXPLAIN HOW TO DO IT!!! so i worry about little details like where to put my ... (131 words)

How long does it take for a man to get over a significant girlfriend who hurt him?

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6 April 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I really hope you can give me some insight into this issue that I am having. I have been with my bf for 3 years now but two years before we got together he was with another girl for three years. They lived together, he supported her and in the end she... (228 words)

Does he have feelings for me despite having a girlfriend?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I know if this guy I talk to likes me? I guess it's complicated because he lives in another country but we talk on msn quite often. He's done things like give me his fb password, introduced me to his sister, and he tells me a lot about his life. But at the same time he... (197 words)

Is he gay/bi-sexual?

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6 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I have a question about someone's sexuality. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years now and I think her brother might be gay or bisexual at least. About him - he is 26, likes shoes a lot! He had a job that was dressing people, like what you see at Tillys and st... (510 words)

I'm in a relationship with a great guy but I feel nothing for him, plus I am in love with someone else who lives 400 miles away!

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So.. I've really gotten myself into a mess now. Here's the summary of the situation: I'm in a relationship with a very sweet guy, who would never even dream of doing anything to hurt me, yet i feel nothing for him. Romanticly, anyways. (hope that's spelled right). Anyway,... (144 words)

I want to feel the way I used to about him to save our marriage, what do I need to do to get it back?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my husband are both in the Marines and we got married each other after knowing one another only 5 months. We were so crazy about each other at that time though. The problem is, the first year of our marriage was horrible. I felt like he wasn't attracted to me anymore and ... (461 words)

How do I control my urge to talk to him? We have no future together and I don't want to get too attached to him....

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy whom i know from past 2 months....we met through some common friends...he said he found me cute and stuff...honestly i found him cuter :-) we started chatting online, on phone, text messages etc....he was the guy i always wanted....he too admitted that he ... (149 words)

Do I contact this guy from 8 years ago?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My question is do i or dont i contact him? I met this guy about 8 years ago whilst I was travelling and we had a very full on and passionate affair as most travelling relationships are. It all ended when my visa ran out and I had to go home. we emailed each other on and off ... (194 words)

Fallen for my BFs wife

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6 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in need of advice, constructive critisim, and feedback. Please do not tell me how terrible of a person I am. I already know this. I have beat myself up emotionally for years now. I can't get away from these feelings, so here is my story. I became attracted to my ... (263 words)

Need help not feeling guilty for wanting to move on from me ex who cheated on me..

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I stay strong and not feel guilty for wanting to move on from my ex who cheated on me and made a child as a result? Im finding it extremely difficult not to feel sorry for my ex.. I want to move on and heal my heart, so I changed my phone number so he couldnt contact ... (233 words)

Is making out with another girl considered cheating?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a serious relationship over for a year and a half. Occasionally, when I go out with my friends, I make out with other girls. My boyfriend is aware of this. However, the other night, I ended up sleeping with another girl. Should I tell him? And is it considered ... (54 words)

I used her frienship to vent my frustration. Now that I got to know her I don't want her frienship. How do I reject her?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been going through a lot of stuff with being unemployed and without a significant other in my life. Seems people in my life including family want me to talk only about happy things and I've felt kind of rejected for a serious amount of time. I've felt depressed too. I ... (1157 words)

My husband of 3 months has been cheating on me with a whore!

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so devastated my husband of three months has been cheating on me. I found emails were he has gone back and forth discussing price etc.the woman was a hooker on Craigslist. He tells me this is the only one but it still doesn't make it better. I have shared the emails with ... (250 words)

Help in deprogramming the Subconscious!

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - If you've been deeply influenced through martial arts (brainwashed) to be "under" the teacher and have been in a serious relationship with him for 10 years, what are some resources to help deprogram the subconscious if all other avenues of strength and holistic help have been ... (69 words)

He goes out of his way to look at other women!

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am dating a man of 11 years who is older than me and especially in the past 5 years he has been behaving in very concerning ways toward other women. He was much a gentleman for the first 5 years, however I'm not sure what caused such change... hormones? Hereditary? Or ... (200 words)

Not your usual crush on a teacher

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm in college and I've never ever liked a teacher, but this semester I'm taking a French conversation class, and the language resident teaching it is a young (student-young) guy who I find, well, really hot. He's quite professional about the classes he's responsible for, ... (88 words)

I'm 13, b/f 16, and we think I'm pregnant! HELP!

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 years old almost 14 and I think.I am pregnant my boyfriend said he would stay but I'm scared about our parents reaction me being almost 14 and his being 16. We both don't believe in abortion.I'm scared.... Any advice?... (42 words)

Why is this guy acting this way?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i met a guy the other week, he was really into me and couldnt stop looking at me and asking me questions. I am considered to be very attractive but i dpnt take compliments well!!! he works away and was even suggesting that i got a job with him so i could go with him. we ... (332 words)

New relationship and I'm starting to feel trapped! Do I tell the guy?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Since I finally got out of an abusive relationship about 18 months ago, I tend to feel trapped and run in the early stages of any new relationship. A few days ago I slept with a guy from work and I felt ok about it because I thought he was a bit of a player. But since then, ... (146 words)

How can I kiss her? She's almost a foot shorter than I am!

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6 April 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I need to know the best way to kiss a girl who is almost a foot shorter than me because I really love this girl but I cant figure out how to kiss her because I dont want to bend at the knees cause that just ssems like it would be rude to do and i dont want to offend her. i've ... (101 words)

I'm clueless about making out!

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this guy thinks im like super gorgeous and we have been txting each other for the past few days hes a freshmen and im a sophmore. im not very experienced in kissing like where to put my hands, when to stop, what to say afterwards, and im pretty sure hes gonna ask me out! my ... (88 words)

Ex doesn't want to forgive me! What can I do?

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6 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear all, My girl and me had a fight. We did not speak for about 3 months now we are back to talking terms. But she says she does not want to forgive me. She is talking to me because i told her to. she still cares for me. I cant handle the tension any more feels like i am ... (82 words)

I love my boyfriend and want to marry him. He's not ready. What do I do?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with a boy, and we have been together for four years. We live together, and we have been living together for three years. I am almost finished with grad school and he is mid-B.A. - I said he was a boy but it's really a term of endearment. We're in our late ... (339 words)

Will I have to watch my ex continue to be with this new girl or should I do something?

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6 April 2010 (F) age 36-40 - This is a long winded story, but here goes... I was in a relationship with a guy for five years, and then we split up. If I'm being honest, we kind of needed a breather. We had a few things that needed to be sorted out, like lifestyle issues but for the most part we were ve... (545 words)

I'd rather just cuddle than have sex, what does that mean?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years, we've had our ups and downs, but we really love each other. We dont live together anymore because neither of us can afford it (we both pay for our own schooling and work full time, etc etc), but we see each other during ... (135 words)

I have a boyfriend but want to try something with the new guy I met!

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey:) Ok i have a boyfriend of 4 yrs and were both 21 yrs old. Lately we havent spend any time together and i feel lonely and need some attention and he is not really making a effort. So a few days ago i met this guy and we had alot fun togethet and i felt good atoumd him ( i ... (195 words)

Was I what is classed as "easy"?? Is it ruined?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I came out of a long term relationship since I was 16. I havent much experience with guys. I went on a date with a guy I recently met - make a long story short on our first date he ended up staying with me at my friend's house as he missed his last train. We slept together in ... (254 words)

Does the vagina change after giving birth?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 4 months pregnant. I'm thinking of going for a natural birth if my health is good at the time of delivery. But I have some serious concerns. Does the vagina change after a natural birth? Does it affect the sex life later on? Does the vagina become loose or somethin... (71 words)

Never mind the presents - My family don't even acknowledge my birthday!

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6 April 2010 (F)

age - Am i being selfish and self centred or am i allowed to be sad over this? is it me or is it them? I just recently had my 20th birthday last wednesday, i live away from home to study and on my birthday neither of my called to say happy birthday. I didnt get any presents but tha... (335 words)

How do I be content and happy with what I have, and not always seek out the excitement of something new?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Before my current BF, I've never had a proper BF. I've been on dates but never a long term relationship. I usually chased all the guys and I always ended up getting hurt. But the chase was so exciting and I love the feeling of something new and mysterious. My current BF (... (314 words)

Am I over reacting to his comments pertaining to our relationship

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I've been seeing a man in another country. We see each other a few times a month for over a year now.Originally we decided that after a year we would decide if we were gonna work towards marriage or not. It's been almost 15 months and he doesnt bring up subject anymore.... (213 words)

What s up with these unuusal headaches

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6 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - For the past month I have had headaches on and off. Only in the morning, and they get better as the day goes on..But they're not really headaches but this weird feeling in my head. I also have a stuffy nose, especially when I lay down. I can't really explain. I don't know if ... (144 words)

His ex gf moved in with 'his' Mom! This has upset me! What can I do?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Long Story short. Me and my guy have been together for a couple years now. His ex-girlfriend of 6 years just moved in with his mom and it's driving me crazy. My BF and I live together about 20miles away from his mom, "all of a sudden", his mom calls him a lot more often, and ... (219 words)

We don't have sex because he doesn't make me feel attractive! What should I do?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age - I'm in desperate help i love my man i have been with him for about a yr and a half .But we don't have sex he says because of my comments i give once in a while but he don't understand its because of the no sex in our lives .I know he ain't cheating because we are always ... (259 words)

I feel like I haven't a friend in the world

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like i haven't a friend in the world. I finished school last year and all my friends went to collage and I didn't get into collage. I did have two close friends but one decided she,d rather be with her boyfriend and the other sees me like once every 2 weeks. Its hurting ... (116 words)

We had sex and now he's acting strange toward me. Is it him? Or me?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not exactly sure what to do here... i've been so into this guy and our little "fling" has been going on for 3 months now. Just the other week we ended up hooking up and we finally had sex. Everything was fine the day after and we talked like normal but they day after that ... (200 words)

Mom found out about b/f & I having sex and now we have no contact at all!

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my very strict mother found out that me and the love of my life hes 17 and im 16 have been having sex. and now we are banned from seeing eachother. we used to text eachother like every second and now i dont have a cellphone anymore, and the house phone has been removed from my ... (110 words)

Divorced husband but feel really upset and sad

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I filed for divorce today and it was absolutely the hardest thing I've ever done. My hands were shaking when I signed the paperwork and had it notarized. My heart was pounding when I took it to the courthouse and paid the filing fee. My husband was in tears but I have waited ... (327 words)

Do I ignore my boyfriends anger?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age - I have written previously about my boyfriends anger problem...which I think is hereditary. He is Italian and hot tempered. I wonder if my only recourse is to ignore it if I want the relationship to work. He gets upset all the time. If something upsets him, hes mad at ... (100 words)

In love with my best friend and I don't know what to do! Help!

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6 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I'm in love with my best friend. This is probably gonna be a long one so please read all of it and give me the best advice you can. I really appreciate it. We'll call her Carl. I've known her for going on 14 years now. Two years ago I developed feelings for her and I ... (470 words)

First time sex and he couldn't cum, is this common?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have only been going out with my boyfriend for a couple of weeks and yesterday we had sex for the first time together. it was ordinary sex apart from the fact that he didnt (or maybe couldn't?) come. afterwards he apologised for this and said that he doesnt usually come..... (114 words)

Settling in with partner but wondering if I'm missing out on the love of my life?

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6 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im facing a love life dilema... well facing isnt the right word. This is a situation ive been living with for a long time now. Im in a happy steady relationship, i own a car with my partner, were relocating together and we have to kittens together. I love him very much. Howe... (308 words)

How do I get really physically comfortable with her?

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6 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - About 2 months ago I got out of a long relationship. Based on all the various issues I've had in my relationships I'm certain that being single for a while is the best thing for me. There's this girl I've been seeing casually who is really great. I've told her I don't want a ... (144 words)

Should I call ex and wish her a happy birthday?

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6 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well this is my second attempt at this question. It was rejected because there wasn't enough detail. I didn't want it to have detail. It was a simple question should I or should I not call my ex and wish her a happy birthday. Now because of this I probably won't have my advice ... (178 words)