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Should I try to hold on to her when she shows little attraction toward me?

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Question - (22 April 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2010)
A male Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Alright, long story short. My girlfriend and I started off as a long distance couple, and moved together for about a year before we had to return to long distance due to schooling and college. However, due to a lifetime of abuse from my father, and her kissing my now ex-best friend. I have gained alot of insecurities in our relationship, and unlike a typical male. Tend to feel upset, and offended whenever she make's comment's about how she "Love's" other people, or describe's her physical attraction's and they are nothing like me.

Any advice for a less than normal male?

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A female reader, Just Diana South Africa +, writes (22 April 2010):

Just Diana agony auntDefine normal?

End the relationship. She is manpulative, controlling and insecure.

Take an NO CONTACT rule, and heal yourself. Date yourself for a time. Seriously. Make yourself priority NO 1. Get some therapy......take time out and be kind to self.

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (22 April 2010):

YouWish agony auntFind someone else. She's kissing your friends (pretty much cheating on you). Just because you had an abusive upbringing doesn't mean you should settle for someone who does this to you. You deserve someone who cherishes you for who you are.

Sorry I'm not a guy, but your question made me feel bad for you. Good luck!

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