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He's trying to talk me into a threesome

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Question - (22 April 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *alente_09 writes:

I need some advice on something girls an guys... me an my boyfriend been together for 3 years we have a 8 month old baby together and he has been asking me to have a 3 some with another girl! I don't what to do I feel it can ruin our relationship but he says " if I do this it will open my eyes an I won't want to talk to other girls" which I know for a fact it isn't true which guy says that he wouldn't look at other females?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010):

threesome but with a guy.

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (22 April 2010):

YouWish agony auntThe anonymous guy is absolutely right! :D

But his reason "I won't look at another girl" after having a threesome...LMAO!!!!!! That's like a 2 year old saying "Please give me a cookie! I'll never want one ever again!" The kid will want another one within 5 minutes!

This guy has been watching too much porn. Tell him you want a threesome with another guy. :D

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A female reader, calente_09 United States +, writes (22 April 2010):

calente_09 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

calente_09 agony auntThanks everyone for giving me advice.... :))

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (22 April 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntIf you can believed his words, then pigs can fly.You are a smart and intelligent woman and you should not venture there.

Things will never be the same again if you have a threesome.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (22 April 2010):

Tisha-1 agony auntHi there, didn't you ask this question too? http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-just-want-to-spice-things-up.html

I think you need some help in communicating with each other. A relationship counselor should be your next call, especially if you are trying to hold together a family.

Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010):

Hey that was like the best answer ever, Male Reader Anonymous.

I'd append with: "Sure babe, I'm down with the threesome, but let's start rolling this way with your hot buddy "Whatever-His-Hot-Friend's-Name-Is" first, shall we?"

After that, dump this dude.

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A male reader, C. Grant Canada +, writes (22 April 2010):

C. Grant agony auntHe's feeding you nonsense, and doesn't seem to have any respect for the mother of his child. Don't do anything you don't want to, no matter how much he whines.

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A female reader, Xtina356 United States +, writes (22 April 2010):

OK - He's being selfish. You are obviously not into it and his reasoning is total BS. He's just young and horny and wants to live out one of his fantasies. Tell him you want him with another man and this will help you to stop looking at other guys and see how he reacts! Don't let any man push you into ANYTHING that you aren't into. Trust that woman's intuition!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010):

He sounds like an absolute creep!

Tell him you're up for a threesome, but a threesome with another man. Sit back and watch the reaction!

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