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writes:hi! I just meet a new boyfriend now is about two month, I love him soo much, but I dont trust him, my boyfriend is also my boss and their like 7 girls working with him before I started working with them. but one girl since I work there I always find her sitting beside him sometimes sitting on top of him when I try to ask my boyfriend he always tell me dont mind her she is crazy. but is coming too worse that even the girl she dont respect me she use to repeat again and again doing the same think and my boyfriend doesnt stop her. I am getting sick on it I dont know what to do I love him soo much. I feel soo bad when I find them together, I try to understand them but is to hard for me. Please help me what can I do now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): Dump him! He is doing this in the work place? IN FRONT OF YOU? He clearly thinks he can get away with anything and you will just accept it. Dump him. See how he responds and if changes are willing to be made.
If not, then you need to rethink your priorities and what you want out of a relationships and what exactly you will and will not tolerate. Personally, you deserve someone who is going to respect you and furthermore, respect the relationship! He isn't doing that...
I am sorry.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (22 April 2010):
 He has no respect for you and is treating you like a door mat.Have more self worth and get out of there.
If you stay there, you will get more humiliations. Even in your presence,they are doing it openly. He could not care less about your feelings.
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reader, Xtina356  +, writes (22 April 2010):
Do you think this girls behavior is appropriate for a business setting? The fact that she's sitting on his lap and he's not putting an end to it is showing that he doesn't mind it. Saying she's crazy is an excuse, not a solution. Are you sure they never had something going on? Or still have something going on? He obviously doesn't have a problem with work affairs. He's setting a really bad example for being a boss of 7 ladies. Keep your eyes open and don't let your feelings for him cloud your intuition.
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