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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Dreams of sex with my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so i keep dreaming about having sex with my ex. The dreams are always the same, we have sex, i freak out and tell him it means nothing and that it feels wrong. Then i go back to my current boyfriend make love to him and everything is right. I don't understand why this hap... (350 words)

A 26-year old man is beginning to fall for me after his fight with an ex; how can I solve this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I know this may sound weird, but i'll give it a shot: My best friend's boyfriend's brother is almost 26 years old. He recently found out that his girlfriend had an affair with his brother, and was freaking out. Since my bff, her bf and i always hang out, i knew him very ... (139 words)

Into older men and don't know what to do about it! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and I can not imagine myself with guys my age! I think there is a problem with me. Whenever I have a fantasy or anything about making out or having sex, I always see myself with old men, and by old I mean men in their 40s and 50s! I am a very outgoing person and I am at ... (137 words)

Big age difference--I'm afraid of being rejected so I don't show how I feel

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have met somebody who I find completely lovely in every way. He is funny, really smart, he makes me smile all the time, and we share a lot of the same interests, I feel like we kind of have a connection but I'm not sure if he feels the same way. Normally I would be a littl... (230 words)

He's so great that I'm coming across as over-enthusiastic

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i was introduced to a this really nice guy who's a lot like me. he's like me as well in the way that he doesn't quite like overly peppy people or people who smile the whole time. unfortunately when we meet i can't help but smile because he seems far too good to be true and i ... (169 words)

How do I tell him I don't like how he's changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, i have a huge problem: I've had a boyfriend for almost a year now. When we began to go out, he was really smart, funny, kind and fun to be around. That has since changed. He's starting to hang out with the wrong people, and i'm paying for it. he's gotten into drin... (121 words)

Clothes make the woman!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I heard this one guy say something when i was walking down the street. he said ¨clothes make the woman.¨ What does that term mean?... (28 words)

Videotapes of wife with ex....

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) age 36-40 - I found a video of my wife with an ex, she says she thought they had been erased. I knew they had sex and that my wife wasn't a virgin, so I am not so disappointed by that, but rather in the video he finished by giving her a facial. I always fantasize about giving her a ... (75 words)

Help! My husband is a workaholic!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) age - Is there any solution to this tricky situation? My husband is a workaholic. I know, it is so much better than a guy who does not pay the bills. But if you have one if these husbands, you know what I'm talking about. Because of his work, he totally let me raise the kids alone, a... (288 words)

I got married on the rebound and now miss my true love! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I was married for almost 20 years. I divorced almost 6 years ago and have been a single parent. For the past 2 1/2 years I have been in a monogomous relationship and was content until the issue of marriage became the topic. In short, I ended the relationship b/c I could not ... (209 words)

I secretly fancy this woman at work...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I secretly fancy this woman at work. Problem is I don't know if she is interested in women. I am planning to leave my job next month and also want to express my feelings to her but don't know how. She could be married or have a boyfriend. I am a woman with above average ... (69 words)

I just can't measure up to the vibrator.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My MASSIVE problem, someone please....help me. Part 1 : In the beginning.... I have been with this woman for over a year and a half and during this time we have had sex many times. At first everything was great although I was never sure if I ever made her climax. I wo... (577 words)

Profile says looking for friendship. What does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend and i live apart but been together nearly 3 yrs she is on facebook and has commented on her profile she is looking for friendship what does she mean... (31 words)

I kissed a co-worked. Feeling guilty and don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am completly to blame for what I've done but I need advice. About 2 months ago a new guy started working in my office. We hit it off straightaway and flirted, it was harmless and I have a boyfriend and he has a girl friend. We were sent on a course together wednes... (282 words)

All he says is what he doesn't like.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My lover only tells me what he doesn't like, not what he does like in our love life. What does that mean? ... (24 words)

I know the guy is supposed to make the 1st move but I have no confidence!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im 15-19 years old ive always had a confidence problem when it comes to girls and i dont really know why.. i have loads of good friends that are girls and its fine in terms of that but when i start to like a girl it all completely cahnges..and i dont know why im curren... (174 words)

I'm very attractive and always being hit on!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a very actrive female and all my friends boyfriends and husbands try to hit on me. I dont come around and that is the reason. It makes me feel good that i am beautiful, but i dont like the people who i get it from. I have modeled some in the past and have been in many ... (74 words)

Husband never says I love you after we have sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am really upset with my husband, because after we have sex, I always tell him I love him, and he refuses to say it back (he does tell me he loves me at other times). I explained to him that its really important to me to hear it, and that I feel so close to him at ... (190 words)

Best friend wrecked my relationship and I need help moving on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I dont know what to do. I was with this boy november 2009, i was in love with him. I couldn't stop myself, i kept falling more and more in love with him everyday. It took about a week to fall in love with him. Sounds fake, but its true! I'd tell my best friend everythi... (377 words)

I'm afraid I'll cheat on my younger boyfriend and give my virginity to an older guy, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I know I'm very young, but please understand that these days everything varies from person to person, for example I know people barely a year older than me that have actually been together with someone for a few years, others that just sleep around without any respect, and ... (503 words)

I'm desperate to get away from his family and the drama!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I'm finally graduating college, I'm engaged to a wonderful guy, but his mother is causing major problems. He has been living back at home these last few months. When I visit my house and he stays with us, his mother goes nuts, screaming and crying that he doesn't care ... (273 words)

Wife wanted voyeurism, ended up being a threesome...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

30 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, I let my wife open a can of worms and now I regret. My wife said she didn't want a threesome, BUT she was interested in a bit of voyeurism. She said she wanted to have sex with me in front of someone. I finally agreed, not too eager about it, but at the same time i... (429 words)

My ex's parents don't care..should I let them see their granddaughter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - just wandering what peoples views are on my situation Me and my boyfriend of 2 years have broken up, we lived together and have a child.. His mother was the guarentor for our house, when we broke up she phoned the letting agent and withdrew herself. Telling them h... (147 words)

Fooling around and now worried about the consequences

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was fooling around with a friend (unprotected) and first he said that he didn't cum, and when I was giving him head I definitely tasted something and I was wondering if it was precum. Now, as I was very very drunk, I only THINK that there was penetration, mostly because I ... (186 words)

Just found out after 2 years of dating he's married and has 3 kids!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Ive been dating a guy for 2years and this morning I found out he was married with 3kids i am in total shock as i loved this guy i thought we had a future together its like the last 2years together have been a lie, I need help what do i do to move on, how will i ever trust an... (79 words)

Boyfriend putting her above us and its bothering me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a bit of a problem right now with my boyfriend and any help would be appreciated. So we've been dating for almost 4 months and we live about 40 minutes away from each other. Now, we're not used to seeing each other every day but usually 1-2 in the week and tal... (550 words)

G/f and I sometimes have uncomfortable quiet spells..is there something wrong with that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

30 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've been with my girlfriend for just under four months now and everything is great, in general. We are pretty much always on the same wavelength and we're not totally obsessed with each other, both lead our separate lives and because of this we appreciate time ... (483 words)

Experiences with meeting people online

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

30 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, what do people think about meeting people online!? Has anyone ever done it? What was it like?... (18 words)

I'm 18, she's 15 will the age difference be frowned upon?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Just a quick simple question.. A couple of days ago, a girl i'm good friends with asked me out, we get on like house on fire and have all the same interests and stuff but her age is bothering me alittle bit.. Im 18 in a matter of weeks and she's only 15 for the next few mon... (98 words)

I haven't had a boyfriend in such a long time and feel really depressed about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i know i am only young and i shouldnt really be thinking about realionships at this point in my life but i havent had a bf in such a long time i feel like im ugly, fat and just no gd to anyone i know thats stupid to think about myself but i really need someone in my life and i ... (91 words)

I wake up in the middle of the night thinking about my wife having sex with other men

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

30 April 2010 (M)

age - When I was 15 and my wife Susan was 16, we were lovers and I was the first one to ever have sex with her. After a couple of years we drifted apart and later when I was 18 my room mate and Susan became friends and wanted to date, he asked my permission and I said I don't care, ... (327 words)

Not in love with wife and never have been, very depressed

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I became an alcoholic and drug addict when I was 15 years old. I met my wife when I was 17, she was 14. I am now almost 33 years old. When we met, I was drunk and high everyday, and the relationship was for me simply a sexual relationship but she viewed it as much much more ... (495 words)

Why did he have to make himself cum? Am I doing something wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hello i have a important question well it is 2 me lol Ive been kindof seeing this guy on and off for about 6 months we are not in a relationship but oftern sleep together so kinda guess if fuck buddies really Anyway hears my problam, after sleeping with him so many times ... (281 words)

Shaving, losing my virginity and pain! Need advice on all!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hia, I'm 16, and i think that in august i will loose my virginity to this lad i am in love with. We're not going out because he lives about 2 hours away and we think it would be too hard to have a relationship cus of the distance, but we both want to have sex. I am a ... (140 words)

Two lovers, One Broken heart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so this is how it is. im lost between two men that i am deeply in love with. the first guy i met 4 years ago we dated and do to uncontrolable stuff we broke up and decided to stay friends, and until a couple days ago we were just friends who lived 2hrs away from each other ... (284 words)

I'm involved with one girl but in love with another and can't have her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

30 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello there, my story is a bit weird and idiotic... I was in to a relation from 17, which i think was too early for me to jump in to it because after a year or so i started to like another girl from my family and just couldnot get out of her thoughts and hence i proposed... (245 words)

Why cant he just be happy with kissing me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I seem to have a bit of a problem with a guy, everytime we get together and kiss he always asks me to give him a blow job, the thing is we have just started kissing, it's really starting to annoy me because I like him a lot and I have said to him stop asking but he says that he ... (102 words)

How can I stop my boyfriend from being so scared of sex toys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My bf is scared of sex toys... He says he feels intimidated by them, and that he has had a couple of women tell him hes dumped they bought a dildo and showed him the door, one of these girls (i used to know her and she wasnt terribly freindly) slapped him round the face w... (276 words)

What do guys consider a friend with benefits?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What do guys consider a friend with benefits. I don't see a problem kissing someone, touching and possibly maybe giving a hand job or him fingering me as friend with benefits even if it happens a lot. I do think giving blow jobs, him going down on me and obviously sleepin... (277 words)

If I have not had sex for a long time, will doing it again feel like the first time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't had sex for a long time now.When I do it again,is it going to feel like the first time?... (21 words)

Why after 8 years do I feel jealous that my wife has dated a black man?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

30 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife of 2 yrs (together for 8 years), had mentioned casually that she dated a black guy in colllege. Now i feel like Im not good enough to satisfy her beause he was so much bigger. She also has dated a lot mofe guys than me and it makes me jealous. I dont like feeling like ... (73 words)

How can I find a guy who wont mess me around or just want a bit of fun?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i know im only young but im fed up of being messed about by boys and want to find someone that is tidy for a change. when i go out i do get boys numbers but they always just want a bit of fun and nothing else. someone have suggested dating sites? i dont know what to do can ... (66 words)

My husband is infatuated with his half sister!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age - I have a dilemma, my h is from a broken home and spent part of his life in children's homes, so he has issues from his past. His father recently passed away and that brought the estanged family back together for the one day, he met up again with his 2 sister's from his dad's 2 ... (338 words)

I don't know what to think! Please help me out

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Now I have no idea whats going on! I think my boyfriend is going to break up with me. I think this because, 1: He still eats at our lunch table but then he goes outside, that wouldn't bother me at all, but he asked another girl to go outside with him, and he never eve... (139 words)

I don't think I can leave her until there is actual proof she has cheated on me! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

30 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with a confusing lady for 6 months now and I believe she is not only cheating on me but has the belief system in place to continually do so but I have no proof. She is part of a sect headed by a guy called isaac shapiro, within this sect the ... (336 words)

Jealous of girlfriend dancing with other men - help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2821 days ago

30 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So I got married to a woman I was deeply in love with about a year and half ago, we had been dating for over 6 years before we got married and everything seemed (at least to me) good. Then I found out that less than sixth months into the marriage she cheated on me once with a ... (408 words)

How can I build a relationship with my mother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, here it goes.. I've offten wondered.. am I wrong?.. IS all of this my fault?.. Am I bringing all this on myself?..Am I just emotional?.. I keep doubting myself.. and now I wonder..am I broken?.. I've had just the worst relationship with my mom. When I was born.. she had ... (673 words)

Should I listen to what he has to say after he has cheated on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi uncles and aunts! Wel, i'm just gona get on it. Yesterday my bf confessed to have been cheating on me... I'm so confused, angry and sad, i feel betrayed and lied to.. I don't knw what to do, i thought i needed to speak to someone. He confessed after telling me sever... (267 words)

Can I trust my girlfriend again after she left me for another man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

30 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - do i trust my girlfriend again my girlfriend left me for another guy, she slept with him , then a week later told me she had made a big mistake...she was working away with him, so it took her 5 months to finish her contract and return to me..in the process she said she never sl... (222 words)

Talking my mom into leting me having a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 15 and home schooled , im a larger girl (as a little chubby) i keep thinking to my self i want someone in my life to love and hold me , but being out of school i cant really find a boyfriend , my mom dosent even want me to get a boyfriend till im about 18 . i just nodd an... (145 words)