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writes:I'm confuse...I'm falling for the total of three guys...One of the guys is my Boyfriend....I felt bad...guilty. I feel like a wh****...But I cant help this feeling deep within me.The first guy C...He's awesome. He's nice towards me all the time and when ever he sees me lonely most of the time, he escused himself from his gang of friends and talked to me for minutes and sometimes hours. I missed my bus, because I felt rude by leaving him standing. We have the same tastes of music and we can talk to each other alot. When ever im alone he always there and pull me out of the darkness...The second guy...S... He's sweet. I known him for most of my high school years now. He is willing to help me with everything. When I asked him a question, he replied kindly and very friendly. I can play around with him so easy, and he just laugh at my goofing around and silly ways. When I didnt eat lunch at school b/c i dont have enough money, he placed his plate in front of me and told me eat.and the last guy...T... He's so heartwarming, gentle and kind...He's my boyfriend...He helps me through my problems with my family. He been there for me.. He loves me even when im broken. He was there catching me when I fell. even through he cheated on me two times actually, he told me he was sorry and he wouldnt do it again. He was crying too...He crys with me with my pain....We shared a bond...even through we have a long distance relelationship for the total of two years and two months.....I'm confuse...My heart is being torn through my chest. What is wrong with me? Why am I like this?This is not normal right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): its perfectly normal actually.i agree with most the answers.you should get to know each other first before choosing one of them.buh personally i think that the third is the one you shouldn't be with after the fact that he cheated on you twice. they all sound like a nice bunch of guys and like all of them are interested in you.its probably really hard to choose buh just lisen to your heart.choose the one you like and desire. don't choose the rong guy just by looks or anything else buh by the type of person he is
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reader, Kenneth +, writes (22 April 2010):
How could you. You need to stay focused on one guy at a time. Greed is good on wall street but not on love street.Grow up!
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reader, DwayneC +, writes (22 April 2010):
 Its perfectly normal actually but you have to decipher which one has your utmost attention. Who has your heart and your mind? Its easy for someone to have your body but the key is who governs the first two. They all seem like nice guys but being that you and your boyfriend has a long distance relationship you may be wanting the physical relationship that you do not have with him. Maybe the same thing that happened with him the reason why he cheated. But before you do anything you have to sit down and ask yourself whom do you desire more? And i'm not talking about sexually but who makes you feel more complete and who you're actually IN love with and not just falling for. You can stop the falling for in its tracks if you want a particular person and stick to them. Yes there will be that thought but you being in a relationship have to put that to the side and pursue that happiness with that person.
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