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Why do I keep this violent abusive man in my life?

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18 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - Why do I feel a certain way when I break things off with my boyfriend who has a violent history, short tempered and had cheated on me in the past. I'm a single mom of two boys 15 and 9 and I left the kids father who was the opposite from my boyfriend. Its been 5years and we ... (218 words

Do people really believe in horoscopes?

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Do people actually believe in horoscopes? I'm looking for somewhere where I can get a horoscope reading which is actually accurate? Thanks :) X... (31 words

Boyfriend needs space?

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my bf for 2 1/2 years and currently we live together. He just told me a couple weeks ago that something in our relationship has changed and he thinks he needs space to figure things out. The truth is we had been fighting a lot in the last couple months..but not ... (446 words

My boyfriend is going to leave me if I don't fix this !!

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18 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - [Mod note to poster: could you please clarify your age?] I keep messing up with my boyfriend! We have been dating about 10 months. He loves me a lot. And I care about him more than anything. The problem is I can't concentrate and I am so distracted. And this is making hi... (325 words

In love with ex-coworker's fiancée

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18 April 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hello, my name is Tyler and here's my story…it’s pretty long so bear with me. About this time last year I started working at a company with few other employees…one to be exact it was just me this other gentleman and our boss so naturally I became very close to my co-worker and ... (568 words

I've been accused of stalking in the past and I wasn't!

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18 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - I need some help I've been accused of stalking for about 4years 2 years in middle school and 2 years in high school I swear I have never stalked anyone but it seems like it's every girl I talk to( example: hey how are you, or I don't use hand gestures but only hello) will... (125 words

Still thinking of my ex, can't get him out of my head

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18 April 2010 (F - hi i really need help i havnt talked to my ex in 2 years went through a really rough break up since then ive gt a new partner and a 1 year old son my partners a great guy and a brilliant dad but i dont feel i love him anymore i want to but i cant get my ex out of my mind when i ... (90 words

He broke up with me because I wanted to talk about what's on his phone

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - hey. well im 18yrs of age and i've been having a lot of obstacles in my past realtionships. well today my boyfriend and i broke up again all because i wanted to talk about something i seen yesterday in his phone. i wasnt going to fuss or fight about it, i just wanted to get ... (369 words

Would he approve of my dress sense?

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship w/ my bf for a year now. Do you think it's okay for a girl to wear whatever she wants to in a relationship? I know the basics that a girl shouldn't dress all slutty without the bf around, or even at all; BUT I feel like I can't wear skirts to school ... (108 words

Girlfriend watches cartoon porn, is this normal?

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18 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ok I'm in a weird situation. Both me and my girlfriend are 14 and we both love eachother. We've been going at it for nearly 6 months now. 2 weeks ago she admits to me that she looks at porn. This itself seemed very odd since I don't often hear of girls who are porn addicts... (178 words

Was I just her comfort blanket?

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18 April 2010 (M age 36-40 - I hope I can get a few answers or reasoning from people who read this as it's come to the point where its on my mind too many points during the day. I have exams in a month and I just want to not think about it anymore. Not sure how to start this but will just ask this simple ... (657 words

My friend is using me and lying.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

18 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - i have a big problem i met a guy at work a year ago we quickly became close friends and i really like him but havent done anything about it. his wife left him last year and he was emotionally fragile. i have been there for him and counselled him and just been a rock to him ... (188 words

My friend keeps dragging me around then leaving me for someone else

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, A year or so ago my friend came out as bisexual. At first I was okay with it, but now its going over the top, she's 14 years old and talks to girls she doesnt know over the internet and arranges to meet up with them, she asks me to go with her when she's meeting up... (243 words

I'm very confused... am I gay or bi?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

18 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi I am 13 and I am Bi (like guys more than girls though) I am too confused to label myself bi because i'm definetley like guys much more than girls the only thing about girls is i like their personality and thats all with guys i like everything about them. Even though I ... (128 words

Was the whole relationship just a lie?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

18 April 2010 (F age - I had an affair with a married man, I myself am married. The affair lasted for 10 months, it started out as friends, and built into a trusting, wanting, and deep relationship. My marriage was already in trouble and I was just co-habitating with my husband, my lover still ... (639 words

Trying to lose weight for the summer

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I need some suggestions about a diet because I'm in serious need of one. Over the past few months I've put on so much weight its unbelievable. I can barely fasten my school trousers :/ and to be honest its proper getting me down because now that it's getting sunny I want to ... (156 words

One boob bigger than the other!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, im 16 and im really really self conscious of my breasts. basically ever since i was about 13 they have been really uneven, one at least a cupsize smaller than the other. it never used to bother me, but now ive started getting into more serious relationships im getting... (192 words

Trying to get over him and what he did...

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago. we had been together for 6 months and we were serious about eachother and he told me he loved me. one night he broke up with me by text!!!! and we've only been apart for 2 weeks and he's after being with 2 more girls!! how can i ge... (68 words

Will history repeat itself if I go back?

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18 April 2010 (M age - My wife of 20 years and I recently separated because of problems over intimacy and mutual supportiveness. Having put up with this for a long time I finally started an affair with someone else and once my wife found out I was sent packing, six months ago. She now decides she ... (197 words

Would this be classed as cheating?

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18 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years, with him living abroad for the last two and a half. It had been really tough him being away and we have been through some real up and downs but now he is coming back and we are closer than ever and I have been feeling so happy. ... (264 words

I have a boyfriend but I think I'm a lesbian!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi everybody, I'm a senior girl in high school and i've never really had a boyfriend before. I've had some dreams about girls for 2 or 3 years and already asked dearcupid to know if it meant something or not. They said it's just hormones and my mind - i was kinda young.I we... (254 words

Lovers then best friends, but suddenly he doesn't care

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18 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - So I bumped into my ex-bf last week and am struggling to understand his attitude - he acts like he doesn't care at all about my life, but when we broke up, he said I'd always mean the world to him, so now I'm confused! We were together 9 years. Lived together for 7 of them, un... (399 words

I've been rejected my whole life

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18 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - years had bulling and rejection.missing out on love because of rejection. people who rejected me always find love the likes of me does n,t .has left me with a lot of problems.i have being going counselling since i was 6 years old.i see other people who can find love and be ... (194 words

Should I 'come out' to my family?

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18 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - (Mod note: Two questions combined from this OP Hi I am Robbie. I'm Gay. My family have been noticing me being awkward and I've been saying nothings wrong when in Fact there is. Over the Easter I admitted to myself that I'm Gay and I've been sort of different ever since and my s... (261 words

He spilled the beans on our secret relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I have a really big problem right now! I've been meeting up secretly with this guy. When he was drunk, he told another of our friends about us and now it's gotten out. A few of my friends know about it and recently questioned me. I completely lied and denied it, but I... (287 words

Bisexual friends in an awkward situation... How can I help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - dear aunts and uncles.this is a tricky one because its not my problem but the difficulties between 2 of my friends who i love dearly and want to help! one of my best friends (il call her laura for the sake of this) is a closet bisexual. im one of the only people who knows... (470 words

I don't think I'm girlfriend material

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - im 19 and want a boyfriend im fed up of feeling alone. when i go out i do get boys coming up to me and do text them for a while but it never comes to a realionship and i always feel worse when this happens. what do i do wrong? or am i not girlfiend material? ... (57 words

Concerned for my daughter's future

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

18 April 2010 (F age - How can I help my daughter without hurting her feelings? She is making bad choices, messing up her education on a very prestigious university,what was very hard for us to support financially. And she is trying to leave it for a very unrelated art carrier. Everything is wrong ... (198 words

Why do they always find someone else?

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi, im fed up of being along its really making feel down, all i want is a boyfriend but every boy i get close to having a realtionship with either finds someone else or gets back with there ex girlfriend this has happened to me 4 times now in the last 10 months and is making me ... (70 words

All my friends have boyfriends but I'm single...

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - hey, im single and latley im feeling really down and when ever i ask my friends to do something there always to busy with there boyfriends, all i seem to be doing is just staying in and its making me feel worse. what can i do to cheer myself up? ... (50 words

Do we really need more space?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

18 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - my ex and i got back together, he used to live with me and now he is living with his friends he says that it is better that way, that we both can give each other the space we need instead of always being together all the time, what does he mean by that? do you think that is a ... (66 words

Is he gay or did he lie to me?

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18 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - Greetings, I am a 20 year old virgin guy... and I think I am gay. Noone knows I am gay because I don't even know if I am for sure gay or bi. I feel attracted to both sexes but since I am still a virgin I am afraid of going with either for sex because what if I am not aroused... (469 words

Fiance cheating on me with men?

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18 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - My fiance actively seeks head from other men via the computer. I'm so confused right now. He is a manly man and has a history of being with women (2 children with his ex). He travels for business (airline) alot of the time. When he's away, he trolls internet sites for head ... (122 words

I ruined something beautiful and now he doesn't want to know me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - hii...i am an engineering graduate. i got attracted to my classmate when i was in first year. he was interested in me too.we started talking and liking each other a lot. we used to converse in phone calls whole nights..even till 6 in the morning... we were perfect for each ... (397 words

I can't seem to get close to women!

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18 April 2010 (M age 36-40 - Is there something wrong with me if I'm a virgin? I must be inept with women? I'm 22 and everyone around me at uni seems to be getting into a relationships, or having tonnes of one night stands and talking about their exploits whilst all I have to go on is one night where it... (179 words

He tells people we're married but we're not even going out!

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18 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - During the summer when i was 13 i was asked for my phone number by an older boy when while i was at the pool with mu best friend. i shocked myself because i gave him my phone number and i never did that before. When he called we both found out info about each other. Like ... (1121 words

Why is he asking?

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - why would a guy ask his friend to find out if you still like him if you hadn't talked to this guy in awhile?... (24 words

From Ugly Ducking to Swan but now feeling socially inept..HELP??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

18 April 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I'm a 22 year old male, 6'2, I'm averaged size but a little bigger cuz of my height...built like Steelers QB Ben Roethlisberger (haha, that probably isnt the best example at this point in time haha) and Ive gotten that way by losing 50lbs over the past year. ... (722 words

In love with 22 year old teacher

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18 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi, im a 15 year old girl and i really feel i have fallen for my 22 year old teacher. i make excuses for myself, make it okay in my mind since there is only a 7 year difference in age and that if i was 20 then he would be 27 and that isnt weird at all, he isnt married but he d... (386 words

I don't think about him much but I dream about him! WHY?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been having trouble with a guy friend! So I deceided that I needed some space. I wrote him a message saying I needed space but still wanted to be his friend. So we haven't been talking during vacation. The weird thing is that I still have dreams about him. All this week ... (81 words

Ever since my ex, I dump a guy after we have sex

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18 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - Here is my messed up life..... I am an young girl who is confused about what to do, it terms of Sex, I dont know whats wrong with me in that department. I have a low sex drive and sometimes i think am a lesbian. In a country like mine, where homosexuality is illegal,i defi... (300 words

Woman in 30s and never had boyfriend

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18 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am a woman in my early 30s and I have never had a boyfriend. Recently, I`ve been meeting some men but I keep getting rejected because I do not have dating experience aka I have never been in a long term relationship. I have two questions. First is it a very strange thing fo... (148 words

I like my dad's cousin who is 10 years older than me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok i have a huge problem and i cant keep it bottled up anymore i think i like (actually i dont think i like him i no that i like him) my dads cousin he is 10 years older then me im turning 20 and he is turning 30 i dont see him much maybe once a year not even but the ... (281 words

I thought he was going to ask me out but then he didnt

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18 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've been friends with a guy for about years. The last two or three we have been really close. I want to take our rlationship to the next level but don't know how. I can't just come out and say it because he gets very skiddish at the thought of relationships. Over the past ... (142 words

He doesn't want his ex back but doesn't know if he wants me either!

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18 April 2010 (F age - I'll try to be breif. I have been living with my boyfriend for 8 years, have considered ourselves "married" and have built a complete life with each other. We have been a wonderful and happy couple (or so I thought) until 2 months ago he told me he needed to be "alone" for a ... (197 words

Fun texting games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - What are some texting games to play with you boyfriend to make things more fun? Games that are fun yet flirty and sexy. I wanna spice things up and play something else. Or if you could give me some "interesting" truth or dares that would be great.... (49 words

Does the spelling change the meaning behind the words?

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Does love and luv have the same meaning? When a guy tells you he loves u is it more stronger than when he says i luv u? Or are they the same? It sounds the same but when you text it differently are the feelings behind it not as strong?... (54 words

Different sleeping patterns causing problems in our relationship

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18 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - Ok, me and my girlfriend have been doing well for the year and 5 months iwe have been dating. The problem is, we both have different sleeping patterns. She is more of a night owl and I am more of an early bird. Sometimes she gets annoyed at the fact that I go to sleep so ... (116 words

I don't think he's stalking me but why is he doing this?

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey. I'd like a bit of advice with what this guy's up to. He's at college with me, very quiet and shy and he's a friend of a friend. I know him in person but we're too shy to talk so we talk on msn. We do talk sometimes in person and mess about with each other. On msn, h... (201 words

I got in between b/f and mother and now I'm the bad guy!

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriends mother has always been like another mother to me. she would always come to me and talk about things in her family that were troubling her. she told me a few weeks ago that she doesn't like when my boyfriend leaves her to look after his daughter when he is busy and ... (249 words

I'm scared she is going to drink herself to death if I don't do anything...plz help me help her!!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - i absolutely don't know what to do! i have been living with my aunt for over 10 years since my mother works overseas. i have recently noticed that she has been heavily drinking and it is getting worse day by day. i've tried talking to her about this (when she's sober) but t... (267 words

My trust in him has been shattered

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18 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - Can you tell me what you'd do in my situation? It's hard to decide for yourself when YOU'RE the one whose emotionally involved. How do you forgive someone that deceived you by having a secret friendship/emotional affair for over a year. It was something my bf viewed as ... (476 words

Masturbation without penetration

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18 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hello. I and my girlfriend are both 21 and have been together for 3 years.We are both vergins but we do oral sometimes. She often masturbates me. I want to masturbate her. How can I do it witout penetration? I have heard of clitorial stimulation. How is it done? Tell me the ... (101 words

Help! I need some advice about my mothers controlling attitude

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18 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - Help! I need some advice about my mothers controlling attitude! I'm 26 and live at home but am currently house hunting so I'm hoping some of my issues will subside, My mum has a way of making everyone feel guilty and ever since I was small I remember her being this wa... (278 words

I can't stand my roommates filthy habits!

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18 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - My roommate's habits are filthy and dirty. She pokes her nose,spits everywhere and is really dirty! I can't stand it. But i can't even say it straight to her. Please help! ... (32 words

Setting limits on behaviour in a committed relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

18 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - I've been discussing an issue with my mate about setting boundaries to behaviour when out clubbing. He believes it's perfectly fine to let your girlfriend dance with other guys. I'm a bit more traditional in my thinking and worry about it sending out the wrong message if... (278 words

My lost virginity didn't matter to him but now I'm worried I might be pregnant

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18 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay so i'm 14, and i just lost my virginity yesterday, and the guy I lost it to doesn't even care, it was just sex to him. I did anything he wanted. I just wanted to make him happy. So today I find out that he goes back out with his ex. I think we're friends with benefits, but ... (143 words

Classic love triangle

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - So, I've been in a relationship with a man I love very much for about a year now, and we have plans to get married. Whenn my best friend had one of her exes around, who she was about to start dating again, we started talking a lot, mostly about my best friend. I'd never so much ... (153 words

Why was my married lover so nice and now he has turned cold?

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18 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - Two years ago i met a married man and he started flirting with me, of course i didnt pay much attention because i am also married. Well he came on to me so strong that i finally gave him my number. We had been texting for a while and fooled around a couple of times all of a ... (128 words

I commited a crime and might go to prison. When should I tell my boyfriend?

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18 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - I started seeing this guy 2 months ago. We have an intense relationship. We have emailed and talked for hours every day since we met. It's not all sexual, sometimes we just have fun and hang out. I commited a white collar crime out of depression. It's been 2 years but I know ... (189 words

Afraid to be pregnant

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello to everyone! I am writing here because I wanted to hear your thoughts on this personal issue. I am a person who loves and adores kids. I always wanted to have children - to be a mom. I couldn't wait till I would be a mother to my children and experience all the joys a ... (398 words

Is my weight getting in the way of his pleasure?

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - This might be a long story... Well my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 3 years and everything has gone great, theres only one problem... he works out all the time and is super skinny while i'm overweight... our sex life is always so hard because we can't apresia... (106 words

Is it bad to masturbate so much?

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18 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - I am 14 years old and i watch porno. i watch the type of porno that is called hentai or animations "mangas" because they usally have stories. everytime i watch it after im done i go and masturbate. i done it a lot lately. at least 3 times a day. is it bad to masturbate to much? ... (91 words

I have trouble with him not replying for three or four days

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18 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - I need help....my ex and I broke up about 2 months ago and a month ago we started talking again. It was great at first.He is very independent.I get anxious if he doesnt respond right away to my voice mail or text message and has told do not do that i hate it! The first couple ... (243 words

So many breakups! I'm heartbroken and confused..help!

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a teenage lesbian. I thought I'd introduce myself but I can't state my name in here, for safety. I came out a year ago. I didn't want to, I wasn't ready but I was forced. My mother was scrolling through my Youtube channel and found me flirting with another female. I'd ... (1579 words

Found out that he is divorcing and he didn't tell me

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18 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend of five years got into some trouble as of late. Anyway, to make a long story short, I had to ask about a court date for him and they said that the only one they had on file was for his divorce. He never told me that he was married. We have a five year old son. I ... (248 words

Does this girl really like me?

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18 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - okay, so along with the popular girl from my school, I think another girl might like me...but the thing is I don't think she knows I'm 17 and she looks about 19 or so. She works at a resteraunt and all of the girls that work there are extremely pretty. my dad and I usually go ... (187 words

I'm afraid to lose my virginity.

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18 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old and I am a virgin still. I know i shouldn't think so much of it but the only reason I still am one is because every time I've been presented with the opportunity to have sex i got scared that i wouldn't do good enough and backed down. It's not that I am ugly ... (142 words

Is this true about the black rose?

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I was told along time ago that there were a group of people like a club or a gang, that would sleep with you then send you a black rose or some flower that would say some thing like you have aids now welcome to the club is this true? and if it is does any one know the name of ... (91 words

My ex gets upset when I'm with any guy, but I want to ask him out again.

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - i ask you to bare with me in this question as it is a little complex to my mind and there's alot that i need answering lol. i am confused about the feelings that one of my ex's feels towards me. i have known him nearly 2 years now and since we broke up after a month of being ... (531 words

I'm very addicted to online gaming, how do I get my social life back?

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18 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hey guys so I'm a 15 year old guy and recently my life's been a bit of a mess. I've spent the last few year being an on and off total online gaming addict. I droove away all my friends and spent every bit of spare time playing. I use to be top of my class and a fit and keen ... (218 words

I'm 18, is it bad that I masterbate and watch porn daily?

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am VERY young and I watch porn daily and masturbate. Is that bad?... (14 words

What's the good thing about being FWB, not including sex?

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone !!! I want to ask a quick question. What is the good thing about being friends with benifits and by that i mean holding hands, hugging, cute names, making out. (nothing sexual) ?? And what is the bad part ?? thanks alot ... (46 words

I lost my virginity to him, but I can't imagine spending my life with him.

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18 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've met a guy I think I really want to be with. I've never been in a long relationship before. He has, he's been in a few year type relationships where i always do months. I lost my virginity to him recently, although he had slept with 4 people before me. My question is, beca... (125 words

His mom is sufficating us, how do I make her disappear?

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18 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - i like this girl in my class. we talk everyday and we have became best friends. it started when this other guy in our class started hitting on her. she didn't like him at all and he wouldn't leave her alone. so she asked me if i would sit in between them in class. at this point ... (212 words

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