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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My recent behaviour is out of character for me. Is it connected to my father's death 4 months ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :) well i would just some advice on something that has been bothering me. Basically about four months ago my dad died and ever since i have been doing things that i dont normally do like *going out into town *drinking *smoking and there was one night when i went into ... (146 words)

Mother and sisters pressure me to have a boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel pressured to get a boyfriend! Ive only just turned 15 and it seems like the world keeps pressuring me about getting a boyfriend. My mum keeps calling me a lesbian and that makes me feel awful. My older sister( who by the way is married) thinks im strange especially be... (201 words)

I am 22 living at home and my mom is making my life hell!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.. I am 22 living at home and my mom is making my life hell!!! I hate the fact that she is always picking on me for something even if it has nothing to do with me. If she wants something done and both me and my sister are in the house then she will call on me, even i... (290 words)

Should I ask him if he can be a little more affectionate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5354 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello ok so for two years I've been in love with this guy but we couldn't date because of a bunch of obstacles in the way. But now after 2 long years of not being with him we are now together he have been for a whole week now. And I love him but he doesnt know that, so i have ... (123 words)

Is he REALLY that nice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I got of an abusive relationship about a month ago. I recently started seeing a friend of mine I have been friends with for a few years. I was never allowed to hang out with him but always kept in touch with him secretly online. He's the complete opposite of my ex. He's very ... (239 words)

She's 3 years younger than me, should I be backing away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Helloo, I'm 17, 18 in August, and I recently started talking to this girl who I met in school about 3 years ago and I've kind of started to like her, we kissed today but there's one problem, she's 14 and not 15 until May. My best friend says I shouldn't be worrying about it... (137 words)

How do you know whether she's just being nice or if she really does like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know whether she's just being nice or if she really does like me? I started work somewhere new last october, never really spoke to this woman, well I call her a woman she divorced got two kids and I think is 40 and I'm 21, but anyway never really had a lot to do with ... (205 words)

How can I stop feeling so worthless???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi dear cupid audience, how are you all? I want to ask for advice, since this is truly destroying me inside. I need help dealing with regret and guilt, i don't know how to stop me from feeling like im worthless. =( The problem is when i go out. It is not always, but ther... (166 words)

I think that my teacher is flirting with me. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, i'm almost 14 years old, and english is not my language, so sorry if it is bad written. Since 2 school years we have a german teacher, he's pretty hard with all the class except me. First half year i was almost afraid of german class, cause he was SO sticky to me! That is ... (450 words)

Boyfriend is in prison but have fallen for someone else! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay I've been with this guy for a year and a half and he is in prison and I met this other guy about four days ago. The guy that's in prison is ten years younger then me and he has been in there for over a year I have deep feelings for him but he hasn't been there for me for ... (158 words)

How do I stop my step dad bullying me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

24 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My step dad always says nasty and spiteful things to me. He belittles me and tells me that I'm going to fail school because I'm too stupid and he also tells me that I'm never gonna get a girlfriend because no woman would want me, my mom hears him and laughs. I told my sisters ... (111 words)

I've fallen for my son's friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age - Hi I am confused 52 year old housewife with 5 children and some grandchildren but still are able to turn heads if I say so myself. It started when 1 friend of one of my sons and he is only 31 started flirting with me I saw nothing wrong until recently when I developed ... (129 words)

Help with bulimia!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do please help me??:(? am bulimic... i eat then i throw up.. cos after ive eaten... i feel soo fat and the thought of been fat scares me so i throw up everything after ive eaten. am not fat..am UK size 8 and i exercise every day cos the thought of being fat... (136 words)

Is there anything we can do to move past this or is it a lost cause?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My current boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We got together after we had both recently gotten out of breakups. Our relationship was great except for a few occasions when his ex seemed to contact him out of nowhere and he would act strange about it. Then ... (193 words)

Is our relationship dying or is it over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband got a job overseas and things have been okay. I confronted him about an issue involving his ex, and we got through that. things were good, he was sweet, happy, and loving when we spoke, all of sudden it stopped. when I explained how empty his feelings were towards ... (143 words)

Should I make his daughter leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have allowed my boyfriend who is 42 move in with me. He has lived in my home FREE for almost 6 mths. We have been dating 9 mths. He had financial problems so that was the only reason I let him move in. I thought by now he would be able to contribute some money but still ... (323 words)

Just to be sure I'm not pregnant...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m 19 and I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time…my period came about the 6 of April and I think I was ovulating about the 22. My question is that I did bleed a bit and I still am but light. We used a condom (it did not break) and he pull out before Cumming. To be on ... (95 words)

Says he is not ready for a relationship then gets into one with a 19 year old....he is going to be 30!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy for about a year. He had to put a lot of work into getting me to go out with him. When we started dating, he was really romantic to me and very nice. He respected me and was really into me. He told me how beautiful I am and how he likes my smile. The ... (649 words)

It appears he's moved on, should I give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So, my ex and I broke up about three weeks ago. I'm finally over the tears, I think,but I'm still really hurt. He dumped me because of fights that escalated over the past few months..I wasn't expecting it though. I begged for forgiveness, and when he promised me forever, I ... (130 words)

Is this really love that I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it love that i feel? Im unsure. Im sure it is, i mean ive alwyas said i truely love him but i just wondered if this truely love that i feel. Im good mates with this guy. We havent had the great past. I thought he liked me(i got told later on that was true) however some so ... (377 words)

Dealing with a bratty girlfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

24 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - The more I learn about my girlfriend, the more I get turned off. In short, my girlfriend is bratty, and I feel is borderline gold-digger. Ironically, she knows that I think this, and will try to clean my image of her up by saying things like, "I hope you don't think I'm being ... (259 words)

He says he's 100 percent straight but I love him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

24 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm Alex, 17 and gay. I met my now best friend about 8 months ago in collage. He is the most amazing person i have ever met, And i fell completely in love with him. For 8 months i have had intense feelings for him, and would do anything to be with him. I love him so so m... (459 words)

Was I too harsh or were they too disrespectful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really annoyed with my work colleagues! Last week we organised a work night out and because I live closest to where the location was we were going 5 of the girls I work with (we are also mates) came to get ready at my house. I gave them my guest room to get ready ... (323 words)

My dad's best friend is becoming too forward with me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am unsure of what to do in an increasingly complex situation. Theres this man who works for my dad, has done for the last 5 years. He has lived with us for 2, as his 'home' its too far to travel every day to work, he goes home to his wife at the weekends. Recently my parents ... (361 words)

Why hasn't he called? Was I too mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was approached buy a guy exactly one week ago tonight at a wedding. He came up and sparked a convo with me and we totally hit it off. Halfway during our convo he said you have to let me get you coffee sometime and i kinda joked around and avoided it and later on he asked ... (271 words)

Could the bleeding be from a broken hymen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay Im a virgin I used a dildo today for the first time,. Afterwards I was bleedin and still kinda am , did i break the hymen ? please help thanks. x... (32 words)

I'm scared, but I do want to talk to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i need a help. i love a guy from past 3 years. i don't know if he is aware of it or not because long back i was came to know from other people that it has been known to him about me. and till now we haven't yet talked with each other. i love him so much, on other side i am ... (94 words)

Am I about to lose my housing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically, I've been kicked out of uni, and if that wasn't bad enough, we've just received a very angry letter from the council, threatening to take us to court because we haven't paid council tax (This is only the second letter we've got, I think one of my housemates put the ... (154 words)

How do I get over my husbands past, when it keeps coming to the future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello thank you for taking the time to read this. My husband and I have a healthy relationship, the only problem is his past. I have some issues with dealing with these women he has slept with. I understand it's not a huge deal. Yet whenever we are getting to a happy stage ... (412 words)

I know he's still sleeping around, but I'm totally infatuated

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello. i was seeing a guy for 2 months, everything was perfect! It was then revealed to me that he had a gf and was sleeping around with other girls..he went on holiday, and when he came back we got close again...last night it was revealed that he was still sleeping about. ... (114 words)

Doc falling for younger guy at work

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I work as a resident (doctor) in a hospital. Last summer I fell in love with one of the intern technicians (very young, 20, when I was 26). We got along very well and talked a lot at work, maybe too much. He asked me out, came over to my place once and we kissed (after... (471 words)

Is he blaming me for losing the baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey my name is Vicky i can never make my boyfriend cum we lost a baby about 3 mouths ago and i think that he is blaming me for the lost of the baby. plz can some one help me thanks... (41 words)

Sex with him still hurts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 14 months, and we have sex often.. just one problem, it still hurts me if he goes in to far. he wasn't my first, but it feels like he is. he is on the bigger side. but i would have thought i would have go used to it, but i havent. wh... (109 words)

When he's nice he treats me like a princess ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need advice about my relationship with my boyfriend (I'm 16 and he's 17). I've been with him for just over 6 months and I love him too pieces. However saying this it kills me the way he is with me. He told me I wasn't allowed to see my lad mates, (I don't flirt or... (773 words)

Afraid to talk to the doctor in case this is just silly

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey there, I'm quite worried about the size of my vagina and the vaginal opening. When i open my legs it seems to gape and I can feel alot of space inside. During sex quite alot of air gets in, causing embarassment. I've been doing pelvic floor excersises for a while f... (137 words)

My g/f considers himself infallable and the best a girl could hope for

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am 25 year old working gal.. 2 years back :i have been a wonderfull gal.. smart.. intelligent, lively and confident..I have been chat freak and got into a relationship with one of my chat friends.. we met and i really fell in love with the guy and i felt he was the ... (738 words)

Am I a bad person for cutting off contact with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I\'m always making the effort ringing and chasing my long distance boyfriend who has been verbally abusive to me at times and doesn't make the effort anymore. I'm finding it difficult to let go as he sends texts and rings and I reply/go running to him 50 miles from home but he ... (203 words)

How do I get him to make that move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I know, we've known of each other for a while, I've been to a few parties with him now and the first time we had a bit of a spark, nothing major happened, we held hands and we were affectionate and what not, and I don’t know, was just something I liked about ... (158 words)

Did I betray my best mate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend was seeing a guy for around 6 months. ive only been really close to her for around 5 months but ive knew the guy she was seeing for 7 or 8, and since i first met him i liked him. they broke up and a week later i slept with him. since the first time i slept with ... (106 words)

Have I turned off my boyfreind completly? Why has he shut himself out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year. We had our honeymoon stage and roughly around 5 months things started to get a bit confusing, for one reason or another I started asking him all sorts of questions that I was not even questioning myself but for some ... (616 words)

Would you consider me a slut?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i've slept with 13 people, i'm 17, does this make me a slut?... (13 words)

I think I moved her in prematurely... how can I get this spark back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been living together for about 5 months now, and we've only been dating for 6. Her dad is a drunk so I decided to move her out of there to come stay with me... but now it's just like I'm not so interested any more, I love the girl, but I'm not sure what ... (69 words)

Should I make an other attempt to talk with him, should I do it in real life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have a problem with the boy I like. I went to university and got new friends. He was one of them, he is studying the same thing I am. He never really caught my eye until one time my friend started talking to him and when I got his name I but him in my friends list on ... (616 words)

How can get my family to see they're being taken advantage of here???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all! I'm really annoyed about what's happened lately with my aunt. About 8 years ago she left the UK and married an American guy and now lives in the USA. Since she has been there she has never worked because she wanted to stay at home with her 2 kids which is fair en... (285 words)

Yikes!!! I think I may be pregnant! What do you guys reckon?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Am i pregnant? My pill ran out around 7 weeks ago and i'm still yet to get it renewed. i've been sleeping with someone 2 or 3 times a week, for around 5 weeks now and each time he's came inside me. i'm still yet to come on since coming off my pill, i'd say it's been around 9 or ... (145 words)

How do I tell his mum I would prefer my OWN engagement ring and not this family heirloom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a bit of a dilemma and i could do with some input. My boyfriend's mum phoned me today and we had a lovely chat for over an hour, in which she asked me whether myself and my boyfriend were planning on getting married. I told her that it was our plan to at some poi... (255 words)

Help! How can I let him see that having more kids is nothing to be scared of?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all could you please help. my boyfriend and me have been together for 13 years we have had our ups and downs and seperated for 3 years but stayed together, we have a 12 year old daughter and i have asked him for more children for years but he says its not the right time, i ... (132 words)

My husband has an addiction to men and women on Craigslist, am I handling this the right way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

- My husband has an addiction to Craigslist, writing and posting to mostly men and occasionally women. I know he loves me like crazy, and I know that he hurts himself even more than he hurts me. He's extremely intelligent (really, he's a brain), and also very depressed. I'm ... (704 words)

Is he mad I've got a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know what to do, I told my friend I have a boyfriend then he started being a jerk. I mean he started just ignoring me. Then he went silent nobody could get him to talk. Why is he being like this?... (43 words)

I want to feel what love is... how do I leave???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - HI have been in a loveless marriage foor 15 years. We got married because I was pregnant at 21. We are and have always been friends, but the love just isn't there. We went through counselling and things were 'better' for a year or so. We have 2 kids and financially it would ... (347 words)

Aunt Flo ruins everything!!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been flirting with this guy for a 3 months now, fun! But now it's getting serious, for both of us. we talk every night, about everything. Ugh! but on wednesday I got my period, I get a little unsettled a few days before Aunt Flo arrives, and when she gets here I really ... (186 words)

Help! How do I convince my boyfriend to marry me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Cinderella power! I have been with my boyfriend for last 1 year. we both met in college as we were studying in same college. we entered into friendship a healthy and good friendship, then after 3 months later we both fell in love with each other, we were taking care of each oth... (297 words)

How can I still like him in secret without blushing or talking too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Every time that this guy talks to me, I get as red as a lobster. I really like him, but I wish I could stay stealthy. Sometimes when he talks to me, he looks uncomfortable, and his eyes sometimes focus into mine, or dart around the room nervously. How can I still like him in ... (62 words)

Is it okay to be best friends with my teacher?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My english teacher is my best friend, me and her dont see a problem with it, but some of my friends say im being stupid and i cant be best friends with a teacher. We will always be best friends, we decided on that a couple of weeks before the easter holidays, she means the worl... (127 words)

Help for my clingy sister!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - All my friends used to go on that the youngest in the house was the favorite. But I'm the youngest in my house and I never was, it was my sister 2 years older. I know it's very childish to talk about it because I'm 18 and she's 20 but the thing is she always follows our mother ... (235 words)

Office problems...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - 10 years ago I had a HUGE crush on a girl I worked with. I'm not exaggerating when I say she was the sexiest girl I've ever seen. She had a bf when we met, but even after I was pretty sure she was free, I didn't dare come close. I am shy and you know how people are afraid to ... (168 words)

My friends or my boyfriend? Please tell me the right thing to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy i have known for 4 years. We recently started talking and we like each other very much. However, he is about 5 years older than me and has a criminal record. I have never had a boyfriend and i have only a few friends. I'm not sure why but my friends are against ... (202 words)

My crush has a crush on my friend...any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on this guy, but he has a crush on my friend. And he admits it. But he's flirty with me too. I'm not sure... I did get out of a relationship about a month ago... BUT! I really like this guy. His personality meshes with mine so well! I don't know what to ... (101 words)

I had sex the day I was supposed to start my period. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Could I be pregnant if I had sex the day I was supposed to start period but it never came? I'm 16 please help... (24 words)

I broke it off with my ex, what's the best way to rebound from this and find a faithful partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I broke it off with my ex so Im trying to move on whats the best way to rebound from this tradegy and get a faithful partner?... (27 words)

I am uncomfortable with my boyfriend watching porn. How can I get past it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am uncomfortable with my boyfriend watching porn. i have self image problems and am not comfortable with him looking at women who seem perfect. i would like to get past my discomfort what can I do?... (37 words)

My ex and I finally had our first conversation since breaking up...and I thought it was a disaster. Is this typical of every first conversation with an ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well doesn't seem like things are looking too good =( I finally had my first conversation with my ex after a month and a half since we broke up and over 3 weeks of no contact. As I've mentioned before she told me in her emails few days ago that she's been missing me incredib... (559 words)

I lost myself in the relationship at first, but am over that now. What can I do, or not do, to allow things to progress?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - ok, here's the deal... We started dating 6 months ago (long distance)... Things were on fire , running at 100 mph, we had discussed him moving to my state, he has 2 kids in his state and my son is off to college this fall so we made plans for me to move to be with ... (542 words)

Can you REALLY forgive someone after they cheat?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it ever possible to have someone cheat in a relationship, and then really forgive someone? If you really forgive that person in your heart, can you still live happily ever after?... (32 words)

I know he's going to ask me out but I still love a guy who ignores me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so basically this guy in my class start to talk to me an were pretty good friends now an he has a crush on me an we kissed, i know hes going to ask me out next time we chill an i want to say yes but i still love this other guy who lives 2 hours away an for some reason he stop ... (139 words)

Is it ok to go out with a 12 year old when I'm 16?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

24 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it ok to go out with a 12 year old girl when im 16. No its not about sex thats completely retarded at this age. She admitted she liked after her mom told me.... (35 words)

My boyfriend left me again, how do I get over him finally?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I need a little advice..my boyfriend broke up with me last night for the second time in a year. The first time was because we fought over summer break and he needed a breather and so did I. We are college students or I am now..anyway, he broke my heart and for th... (1030 words)

Was my husband having lustful thoughts?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - myself and my husband we had been out for a picnic with a group of friends and their was a female who had worn revealing clothes my husband would look at her in breaks as we were together all the time eating and drinking does this show he was imagining her with him and ... (72 words)

When we're apart I just don't feel happy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - After two years together and a couple weeks without communication, we decided to stay together. He talked to some friends, and he came to the consensus he should stay. On the night of our talk this song immediately came on, "You're my Best Friend", and it was like a sign tha... (224 words)

What are lustful thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - what are lustfull thoughts..?... (4 words)

Fiance thinks he might be missing something by having sex only with me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend been together for 5 years and we are getting married this summer i have been his only girlfriend his entire life he feels insecure because of that and he is constantly wondering what it would be like to be with another female since he has only been with me ... (147 words)

Depressed house mom

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24 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, I am a young mother but sometimes get tired of doing the mother thing, I mean don't get me wrong I love my kids to death but sometimes I just need a little me time. I get up with them in the morning and I go to sleep with them at night. I have some help but it seems like ... (130 words)

Blast from the past--is he mocking me or could he like me too?

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24 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy i used to like at school has just sent me some sexual messages on facebook chat . i have't spoken to him or seen him since we left school ten years ago. He knew i liked him back then ,but i never found out if he liked me, and it was hard to tell. He did keep sitting ... (356 words)

Can I meet the right woman after college?

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24 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 22 year old college senior who is graduating in less than a month. I just got out of a 2 year relationship with a girl who goes to my college who supposedly decided that she never loved me, a few months before I was going to propose to her. This situation has left me ... (365 words)

Does he still love me, Do I still make him feel great? please help !

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24 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfreind and I have been together for just over a year. We had our honeymoon stage and roughly around 5 months things started to get a bit confusing, for one reason or another i started asking him all sorts of questions that I was not even questioning myself but for some ... (587 words)

I keep running into that hot personal trainer, should I make a move?

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24 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I have been hitting the gym hard this year...really investing in my overall well being. Then one day as I 'm working out I notice this personal trainer and boy was he HOTTTTTT!!!! Killer body, beautiful smile, tall, i mean just gorgeous. Then one day when I was talking ... (172 words)

1st communication with ex since the break up

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24 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex will have our first conversation tonight after being broken up for a month and a half and over 3 weeks of no contact but 1 week since she messaged me. I'm trying to use these last 3 hours I have left to gather as much info and insight as I can to make myself less ... (303 words)

I just had a horrible "first time", or what should have been. I'm too hurt to move on, what do I do?

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24 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - "Wow, hun...You're so much smaller than my ex...I'm sorry." That's what she told me when we were just about to...yeah Then she got up, apologized, and left quietly. I felt so terrible after, I actually cried lol. We don't see each other anymore. I've been told almost all... (370 words)

She likes me but doesn't want to end current relationship

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24 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - she told me that her current relationship wasnt going so well, and that she liked me, but she doesnt want to end her relationship... what should i do?... (28 words)

Wife constantly text messaging!

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24 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years, and we have what I think is a mostly healthy relationship. Lately however, she is constantly sending or reading text messages. When we go out to eat, even with our friends, throughout the entire meal she is looking at her ... (105 words)

Best friend and I like the same guys!

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24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okayyy so my best friend likes two guys and they both like me what should i do cause i thnk i might like them too PLEASE HELP ME!!!... (28 words)

How do ladies like to be approached?

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24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so ladies, i am wondering; which way(s) do you like being approached? do you like getting compliments, straight up flirting, or just striking up conversation? any other ways? i'm gay and just trying to get some opinions on this. ... (42 words)

Husband says I am smother him and he needs space but I rarely see him!

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24 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, my husband and I have only been married for 1 1/2 months. He has said on more than one occasion that I am basically smothering him and he needs space. He works in the mornings from about 6:30 am till 4pm and get home around 5 or 5:30 pm, I leave for work at about 9:30 pm ... (86 words)

I think about our make out sessions, is it weird or will I get over it in time?

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24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok has this happened to anyone before?please share your experience.. when i was 18 years old i was dating this guy who was a soap star and he was 20 and then he had just worked in 1 show and i started dating him after the show got over.it was very very successful and he took ... (156 words)

He already "needs space"?

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24 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What does it mean if a man that you only been married to for a month and a half tell you that he needs space, and has told you that on more than one occasion? ... (39 words)

Does my bf wants something else than friendship with his "crush"

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24 April 2010 (F)

age - So I have been dating my bf for a few months now and well his whole story is a mess. I guess there was a girl he really cared about in hs and well he liked her alot like love i think she would be the love of his life. and well they couldn't be together because he messed up and ... (540 words)

I want him back but there's a girlfriend complicating things!

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24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know how to get this guy back i mean we have been talking lately a lot but bad thing is he has a girlfriend.we went out some months back no one really knew because he is 4 years older then me im 13 he is 17.i no he is a little old but we can relate to each other and i ... (152 words)

Confused and hurt with a holiday on the way!

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24 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, My girlfriend and i have been together for over 2 and a half years and its basically both of our's first proper relationship... We had booked a holiday around 3 months ago and fully paid it off together for our first holiday together, Around a month ago we spl... (369 words)

I masturbated because my husband never wants sex! Is this bad?

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24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So one day my husband was at work and i wanted to have sex so bad and we hadnt had sex for 3 weeks and he never wants to so i masturbated and it wasnt as bad as i thought. My husband would be mad. so am i in the wrong for doing that? Do you think there could be a main reason he ... (77 words)

I can't shake the feeling of wanting a baby!

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24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im 16 and i want a baby. im really good with them and ive tried to get over it but i cnt shake the feeling. i have this best friend(friends with benifits) and he says that i lite up when im around babies and weve tlkd about if i was to get pregnant he would take care of me ... (76 words)

My cheating girlfriend got pregnant!

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24 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - what should I do my girlfriend I was with for 4 years in on and off relationship who wanted to have kids and love each other. recently got pregnant but she cheated but didnt tell me so I thought it was mine. I was with her through the whole pregnacy and wants to leave me and ... (82 words)

Why can't I just forget about this?

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24 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, I have been dwelling on something that happened to me when I was a little girl. It started out with me just remembering bits and pieces of it over a course of a few years but, now I could go as far as a few days to a couple of hours without thinking about it. I knew i... (423 words)

Mixed signals, what should I do?

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24 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I cant get over him... me and my bf broke up and after 1 week later we got back together.. the reason why I broke up cause I didint trust him cause his some words contradicting with each other.. then we talked and told him that I will trust him... after that day, we didint even ... (221 words)