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writes: So for back ground information, I"m a 16 year old gay male and my boyfriend is 17. We've been together for 4 months. Well everything is perfect with our relationship, he's the perfect bf. We could spend hours talking about nothing. Hes smart, funny, kinda and is beautiful inside and out. I think he's my soul mate. But I'm having issues. The thing is i get so afraid and nervous around him. He makes me happy but i don't know what I'm scared of. I guess my biggest fear is to lose him, I don't know what I'd do if we weren't together. He completes me. But when ever he holds me and tells me he loves me, i quiver and get butterflies in my stomach. Is this love? How can I overcome this?
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (22 April 2010):
 YEP sounds like you're in love... totally. I had a relationship like that... when I was younger too. Made me nauseous when I wasn't with him. Sounds like you're suffering from something similar - separation anxeity. You should eventually get to a point where it doesn't bother you any more - i.e. the longer you're together as a couple the more comfortable you'll be both with and without him. I'm just happy you both have each other. I wish I would have had a boy-friend... like yours... when I was in High School!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (22 April 2010):
 The answer to your first question: Yep, it's love, or more to the point, it's infatuation.
To answer your second question, you need to read this very carefully: YOU ARE WORTHY OF A MAN LIKE HIM. Don't be afraid that he'll realize that you're not good enough and run off to find some Adonis who is so much better than you. I'm guessing that he feels the same way about you that you do for him.
Work on your self-confidence, buddy. Sounds like you have an awesome thing going (an amazing guy who tells you he loves you). Let his love make you feel on top of the world, and not scared that you'll lose him. You are worth being cherished like you are. :)
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