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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I like him, he likes me, ...so now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so there's this guy that I really like but I'm not outgoing and rarely spend time with him. Today I kissed him (on the cheek!) but I've been felling like a waste of his time because of not seeing him. He really likes me too, kind of a shy emotions guy. Point is, I like ... (98 words)

Have I lost a good friend forever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

19 April 2010 (M)

age - I have a single female friend at work who is quite a bit younger than me, but whom I get on really well with - in fact she is the nearest individual to me I have ever met. I have known her for over 10 years. I think she has always looked up to me and recently has sou... (195 words)

My husband does not appear to be sexually interested in me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for 5 years. The biggest issue in our marriage has always been sex. He just doesn't act that into me. I'm not overweight and most men find me attractive. When I ask him, he says he finds me attractive, yet he never initiates sex, gives me ... (212 words)

How can I tan without burning?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I’m going on holiday aboard this summer and it’s gonna be very hot! I know it’s only April but I need some advice. I’m a bridesmaid at a wedding a few weeks after so I’m not allowed to burn and need to get some kind of tan! I’m fair skinned and I’ve only been abroad o... (142 words)

Unappreciated and never good enough.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - *Op's own title* Why is it no matter what I do my girlfriend allways has negative feedback to say to me? She has 3 kids n I moved here in november from across the states and have taken on the responsibilities that her exhusband don't do. I babysit,clean,drive them everywere n do... (76 words)

Does my step cousin fancy me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys! Okay please dont judge but this is a bit wierd. About two years ago my uncle got a girlfriend. ( he divorced his wife) now he is getting married to the girlfriend. She had a son two years older than me and we get on really , really well. Okay so heres the thing . ... (169 words)

Slept with ex and need some advice!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently split with my boyfriend of 4.5 years. The past 5 months have been a rollercoaster and although we only seperated 6 weeks ago i think i came to terms with it over a long period of ups and downs. We do not get along anymore and he is not ready to commit i thought a ... (222 words)

Is casual sex a bad idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anybody think casual sex is a bad idea? I don't think there is anything wrong with it as long there is contraception being used. What do other people think thank you x... (34 words)

Bridesmaid and groomsmen... should we hook up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend's wedding is coming up in August and I'm a bridesmaid. One of the groomsmen is someone I dated for couple of months two years ago (he's actually the groom's best friend). Well, I never got over him and as far as anyone's told me, he hasn't tried looking for ... (129 words)

He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

19 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to get together with him ... (476 words)

How do I get back my sexual desires for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 16 months now and going strong. We love each other to death, but there's a problem. out of the first year together we spent three quarters apart due to the fact that he's studying overseas. I have never done the overseas relationship ... (239 words)

I think he has intentions for her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A former co-worker of my boyfiend named Roy slept with my boyfriends ex-fiance shortly after they broke up two years ago. My boyfriend found out last year after he and his ex-fiance got back together briefly and she told him about it. He was pissed, and is still pissed even ... (186 words)

He deletes computer history and lies about it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - The past month or two, my boyfriend has been using my computer because his has a virus on it. He has been deleting the history. But then he lies about deleting the history and says that there must be a comptuer "glitch"! I know he is doing this because the websites I go on ... (275 words)

We're both female but I love her so much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've fallen completely in love with a girl and she said she likes me too and we've kissed but she said she doesnt want to be a lesbian and doesnt want to be in a relationship with a girl. she said she doesnt want to be the subject of gossip or anything like that. i dont wa... (107 words)

Is he a sexual deviant or is this a hint that he wants me or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have to ask. This guy is kinda shy in the bedroom but SAYS he wants me. Then the other day he wanted to watch porn and he kept stealing glances at me while we watched it. Then he started to masturbate in front of me! And wanted me to also. Is he a sexual deviant or is this a ... (67 words)

Am I still in with a chance getting back with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

19 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 6 months broke up with me recently for reasons unknown. I still have very strong feelings for her a month later and we still keep in touch and get on really well. So the other day I asked her to meet up with me and I asked her if we could get back together, I ... (176 words)

Where can I take her to hang out as friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like this girl and i want to start hanging out with her before i ask her out, shes 17 and im 18 where could we go?? She's too young to go to a club and that's the only place i know.... (44 words)

Help me out with my boyfriend... what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there friends. I really need your guys help please. I am 17 years old female and I have a boyfriend i mean its being just like around 2 months n week more and i dunno he loves me a lot, he is from some other country and I am also but we stay in the same country. i said to ... (311 words)

I am in agony over this man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my ex boyfriend for a number of years, actually this thursday would be/would have been 3 years since we've been together. He has been VERY abusive emotionally and at times physically towards me in at least 2 out of those 3 years, he has cheated and still is ... (197 words)

I've started liking one of my old crushes again! I found him on Facebook!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi . I hope you can help . I have a boyfriend at the moment , and obviously i have dated quite a few guys since school , as i left 10 years ago , but i recently found one of my old school crushes on facebook , and i've started liking him again. He still looks pretty much the ... (407 words)

My fiance wants to adopt my eldest son but biological father needs to sign forms though he's conpletely out the picture...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Heya, Well I'm a busy full time mum of two beautiful, adorable little boys. My eldest is nearly 18 months and my youngest just turned 7 weeks. I'm very happily engaged to my partner whome I met about 16 months ago now. Althought our eldest son isn't biologicaly his, they are... (411 words)

I think I am falling for my best friend, a girl, again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

19 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I am falling for my best friend, a girl, again. We have tried to go out twice before, and they lasted roughly...a day or so, but they were about a year apart. I think I am getting stronger signs from her that she likes me. So i just confronted her about it. It turns ... (164 words)

What are some signs to look for to see if she is interested in being more then just friends? And how do I keep the conversation going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

19 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So i had a class with this really cute girl at university last fall 2009, i tried to get her to hang out with me on a couple occasions but nothing ever came of it. i had no contact at all with her since January 2010 until she contacted me on facebook last week. so i asked her ... (130 words)

My boyfriend went out with this girl, and said it wasn't a date, but it sure sounds like a date!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So uhm, I had recently broken up with my bf because i was having this strange feeling that he was flirting with his crush, who, by the way, is less pretty, smart, talented and appealing than i am. So i would get really mad whenever id think about the two of them interacting. I ... (500 words)

I can't call a guy, what's wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid I need your help. I'm 19 and "billy" is 21. He is the guy of my dreams. He's real shy but with no self confidence and in a few weeks I was I was starting to fall for him so I told him I didn't think we should talk anymore,we weren't dating. He said he said if my mind ... (134 words)

Why do I stay with this man who drinks every day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age - my man drinks each day and sayes hes not got aproblem its been 3 years now why do i stay whith him help ... (23 words)

Why couldn't he love me? And why hasn't he asked for the ring back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there, First off, I'm a mature woman - 43 years old, and yet here I am in a painful situation after ending a relationship w/a man I was engaged to. I probably never should have gotten into a serious relationship w/him in the first place - he's 10 years older than me and neve... (717 words)

Facebook romance-ish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (M) age 36-40 - There’s a girl (we’re both student teachers) who teaches down the hall from me. We chat online fairly frequently--I usually initiate it, but she’s receptive and sometimes does. She says she doesn’t want a boyfriend or anything. It does seem like a significant amount of time is ... (89 words)

I want him to be hanging on my every word!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy i have fallen for is basically the coolest in the school, but i know hes a bit into me. The thing is, i don't know how i can get him to talk to me more? I want him to be hanging off my every word. Hes the kind of guy you cant get too into a conversation wit... (77 words)

Shall I stay or should I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 6.5 years (married for 3 years). We have always argued and there has never been much 'harmony' in the house, but we used to really show a lot of love to each other and it was always fun making up. However, ever since we got married we have ... (995 words)

How do I handle a workaholic husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) age - How to handle a workaholic husband? I really dont want to end this 20 year long marriage,but my husband is pushing it to my limits.. He is working on the computer, so his work hours are 9-10 everyday or more also on the weekends. He is totally uninterested in sex,and his ... (213 words)

What can I do to be good at sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok me and my boyfriend been together for 5 years on Saturday and he is very good in bed and I feel like I'm not it some times hurt and when I'm on top I stop a lot is there any thing I can do to be good @ sex like him please help me... (55 words)

Why am I a people victim?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Would like to know why I am a people victim and what I can do stop this from happening. I got bullied by my dad from the age of 3, he would call me names and get in my head. Then I had it all frew school, plus I had it at work and now I'm getting it were I live. I'm a very s... (215 words)

My girlfriend had sex with another guy, but she says she was too drunk to realize what was happening.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

19 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone. My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost 3 years now. We went through a rough patch about 1 year into our relationship that I rationalized as her "waking up" and maturing. She was in love with alcohol, like so many young women are, and she knew that I ... (505 words)

She forced me to tell her that I was gay! Leave it or tell her I was lying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

19 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I've just cone back from school and last lesson I was a bit awkward because over the holidays I discovered I was gay and I'm not sure how I should act around my friends (that are straight guys) and my classes because my personality has sort of changed. At the last lesson of ... (181 words)

We went too fast and now he doesn't want a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of weeks and everything was fine until a few days ago, we couldnt get enough of each other. Then all of a sudden, he hits me with a load of crap saying that we went too fast and because we're both busy (him especially with work ... (266 words)

Help in getting over ex....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in love with the same guy for 5 years now, he has been constantly on my mind. We dated on and off for a while, but it never worked out because our personalities clashed (but we always remained friends and never stopped speaking). It got to the point where I started ... (389 words)

I want to lose my virginity... so confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,just wanted to get this out as i don't have anyone to talk to.I'm an almost 17 yr old girl and i'm beggining to feel as though i'm going to die alone.I've always told myself that this would never be something I'd worry about,but it's funny how these negative thoughts catch ... (282 words)

How do I start a friendship with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i am "AD" [moderator replaced names with initials] and i am in love with a girl named "V" but i have no friendship with her and no relation and i wanna to do friendship with her but i scare to do so tell me a good solution to start a frienship relation ... (55 words)

He's been a great friend; can we make it something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend lee tells me he loves me, he says he adores me, he even sent me a poem of his feelings towards me. i really like him, just recieving a text from him makes me so happy! the thing is we have both had a rough couple of years, my best friend passed away in 2008 (lee knew ... (156 words)

I'm afraid I'm going to be3 exposed as a liar

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in such a mess. I have just ended my secret friends with benefits relationship. But not before it got out to my close circle of friends. I have lied to them and have said nothing happened, when it did. The guy I was in the "relationship" with is flirting with my best ... (145 words)

I made a mistake I can't fix!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupids, I fear that a couple of years ago I made a mistake that I know I cannot fix, but want to forget. I don't live with my mum, she and my dad divorced when I was around 2 years old. Since then I had a rocky relationship with her. Sometimes it was good others it ... (407 words)

Friend says she wants to sleep with me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - (Moderator note: broke this into paragraphs to make it easier to follow) One weekend back when I was in school I saw a girl from one of my classes walking by the food court in the mall. I just happened to see that she had some type of accident with her period. I didn't w... (806 words)

Fell for my ex again, but she doesn't feel the same way

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ive fallen for my ex girlfriend again after we split up to years ago because i was going through a tuff time at home. i have made my feelings known to her an says she does still like me and she wants to want me but cant seem to feel the same way she did. should i keep trying or ... (63 words)

Fell for him be he started going out with someone else before I could tell him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys/girls (IM sorry if it seems im pouring my heart out but i dont really have anyone to talk 2 ) im katie in 24 and compleatly lost at the moment, i really likes this guy slept with him 2 fridays ago, then the weekdend of that friday( sunday) he started going out wit... (355 words)

How early is too early?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I am currently in a 3 month relationship with my first boyfriend ... still a virgin hes not .. im not sure tho wether i want to "fool around" yet he tries to but he understands that i am inexperienced haa but i dnt want my nerves to ruin it or leave it too long ? what ... (77 words)

He's in no hurry to divorce his wife! what should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this guy for two years who is separated. he is so good to me and we have such a great relationship. I could never imagine my life without him in it but my problem is everytime I mention him getting a divorce he gets offensive and clams up. I know he has very ... (223 words)

He's talks big about sexcapades, but he doesn't come through in the bedroom!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does my new boyfriend talk big but not act on it? I've been seeing this guy a few months. He lately has been descriptive of what he wants to do to me in bed. He says things like "I wanna Butt F* u" or "are you ready to get on all fours and purr like a cat tonight?" or "you ... (119 words)

Does my boyfriend REALLY want to marry me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend's family don't really like me but I want to get married to him. They would be totally against it. He says if I can get a million fans on my Facebook page he'll marry me anyway. So far I've only managed to get 137. Surely if he really wanted to marry me he ... (96 words)

Unloved with no affection in my marriage...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I been married for ten years now but my relationship with my husband is "rocky". I honestly love him... but later.. I get bored and fell out of love. He cheated on me a couple of times and he even hurt me physically... I longed for his affection and love but for the long we ... (166 words)

Do you ever get over your first love?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have a question that maybe subjective but do you ever get over your first love? I am a happily married 37 yr old and have been with my husband for fourteen years now. My first real boyfriend was when I was 17 and we went out for two years. We lost our virginity toget... (357 words)

Do we have a problem here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is This A Problem? A few months ago my boyfriend and I discussed how to have more intimate time since work and being tired were getting in the way. He came up with the idea of planning midweek overnight rendezvous to make sure we got together. Since then I have planned two... (110 words)

Can drinking alcohol stop the treatment for Chlamidya working? And how can I show him how sorry I am for giving him this STD?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had been with my boyfriend for about 2 and half yrs we split for three months then decided to get back together. During our split i slept with someone else it played on my mind about stds but i was scared to get checked. after about 8 months of us being together again i got ... (188 words)

Can cross dressers really stop doing it and be happy?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my current partner now for nearly 12 months. When i met him hed recently been through a divorced and seperated 8 months prior to his divorce. Hed told me that his marriage hadnt been right for the last 4 years and he knew that it was coming to and end. One ... (782 words)

Pregnant at 16 and very scared, plus to make things worse my boyfriend does drugs!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] Hey, i found out i was pregnant about 5 months ago and im 16. i wanted to get rid of it because im too young to be thinking of starting a family but im too far gone to be taking action. i really d... (170 words)

Will I ever move on from my infatuation with a work colleague? Or should I continue to pursue him despite our marriages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - For almost two years I have been attracted to a married colleague at work. He has 3 kids. I myself am also married with 2 kids. My husband works in another country so I only get to see him other every 2-3 months. It initially started just a simple crush. But as I got to ... (455 words)

Rationalising my past and my girlfriend's past!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

19 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm going through a terrible time right now in my mind and am not sure what to do! I am in my mid 30s. For various reasons I didn't have my first girlfriend until I was 21. This has never bothered me but I have recently met the most amazing woman and this has caused me to ent... (297 words)

I'm worried I might have set my standards too high and I will never meet anyone who is right for me!

This question has 41 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

19 April 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hello, I hope you guys can help. I am almost 25 and a virgin. I can't quite find anyone who is good enough to a) have sex with b) have a REAL relationship with. It's just that I feel as if I have waited for the right guy but all the men I meet have had previous girlf... (205 words)

Why does he want to see me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy and i split up because it seemed as if his interest in me was no longer there, he wasnt makking the effort. Its been a little while now but now hes talking to me again he wants to see me but i can't work out why. does he just want to meet as friends or does he miss me? ... (135 words)

Hey I don't understand this girl! it was all going well then something went wrong!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys, i have a problem. Theres this girl ive been talking to, for about 3 months now. previously, before me and her, she just ended a 2 yr relationship, and i got out of a bad one with no intentions on dating anyone at all (and still have none). It was going all good f... (649 words)

Friends vs lovers - you women mix us guys up!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - What is it with you women? I know it's a woman's option to change her mind, but.... Poor guys on here get so mixed up by you lot! Half the time you tell us to "hang in there, be their friend" when we like someone but the other person is with someone or isn't sure or wh... (90 words)

Why would my friend have sex with him when she knows I do too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, thanks for reading. There is a guy that I like, and when we first met he had a girlfriend, so we were really just friends, but after they broke up we would make out sometimes and we have had sex a few times over the past 6 months. Nothing serious, and we both see ... (268 words)

Boyfriend is going to start working away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my new problem.... basically me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months, 7 months of bliss! weve had a few big fights which we have resolved. but now im facing the worst heart break of all time. my boy has got his dream job, of working in the mines flying in and out. ... (138 words)

He tells me he loves me but then later says he isn't sure?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months, which have been great, for the most part. He's an amazing man, he treats me well, he's very romantic, he really is just, perfect, and he treats me as though I am the most important girl in the world to him. He tells me he loves ... (737 words)

How can I take charge in bed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I have a question. I just got out of a relationship with my boyfriend about a month ago. I was really depressed, and then I started talking to my ex bfs, friends little brother. Ive never been with a younger guy hes 18 Im 22.....or a guy who is bisexual. I like him a ... (304 words)

How much of a chance is there that I'm pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So I have to ask and be concerned, if your "riding" a guy for under a minute with no condom on and when he takes it out and theres jizz on it... is there a chance I'm pregnant? I'm more worried than hell and I've already talked to my mom about it and she ended up crying herself ... (118 words)

I want to have sex with him so he will be happy but I'm scared it will hurt!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im going out with the same boy for three years he wants to have sex and im 13 and hes 15. im really stuck cuz i love him and i want him to be happy but im scared when i do it its gunna hurt and thats what im really scared of. plzz help me if you can ... (58 words)

First date went well but since then no contact??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everybody :) can u tell me what should i do?days ago, we had our first date, and everything went really well. but since then, she stoped talking to me, i allways had to begin conversations, and when i stopped talking to her she hasn't talked to me for 2 days.... after ... (85 words)

Been lying to everyone I care about my job

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been lying to everyone about what I do for work. Not where I work but my position. I've told everyone my position is slightly above what it is. It's my first full time job out of uni and it's really down the bottom of the barrell and I think I was too ashamed to admit... (177 words)

What I consider so special he's done with so many other girls!

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I lost my virginity to my BF but he slept with 6 girls (that I know of) before me. I knew that he wasn't a virgin before we got intimate. This didn't bother me before but now it's bothering me. To me, sex is something special and something you only share with someone you real... (163 words)

I don't know how to respond to my ex's text message

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19 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So my ex responded to my message I sent 2 nights ago. I wrote her saying "I'm sorry to hear things have been bugging you. It is true I am thinking about u but I don't let it absorb my thoughts for I don't yet know what plans are in store for me and I want to leave my life open ... (261 words)

He gets so many texts from his college friend that its making me sick!

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - A couple of weeks ago I had my boyfriend spend the night and realized he was getting a lot of texts by this one girl. I asked him about it and he told me that she is in his college class and that they really connected, also that he doesn't talk to her that much. She comes to ... (213 words)

Had Sex While On Period, Condom Broke But I Take Birth Control.Should I Take Plan B?

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So... today my bf and I had sex while on my period, the condom broke and he "finished" inside me..unfortunately we didnt realize it broke until after the fact. I AM on the pill and I take it daily but Im wondering - should I still take the plan b pill?, or should I be ... (109 words)

My gut is telling me that he's gay and he doesn't realize he is!

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I think the guy I've been seeing may be gay why do I think this? 1. He asked for a threesome with another guy and when I said 'no' he said he was only joking and seriously wouldn't do that 2. He wears spandex under his sweatshirts (he says it is for warmth) 3. We'... (167 words)

Does he have another girl or am I just being too paranoid?

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been suffering from this since months ago. Recently he started to pull back even more. The last time we met was 2 days ago where we were out for a drink. First, I was with my friend then he texted to tell that our outing might be cancelled due to raining. And then my ... (294 words)

I'm unsure what all this texting means, where do I go from here?

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19 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex and I had started talking again. She told me about a week ago after I told her I couldn't be friends right now that she had been trying to reconcile, but I hurt her feelings, and she thought that we needed to get over each other. I ran into her the other day, we talked, ... (322 words)

What does it mean when a boy says he's all sexed out?

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - What does it mean a boy says he's all sexed out? And is that a good or bad thing? ... (19 words)

Why do I feel like this after I give my husband oral sex?

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. How come when I give my husband a blow job, for days afterward I have snot and mucuous in my throat, and during the mornings I end up gagging and coughing? Today I threw up a little because of all of the snot. When I don't do that, my mornings are fine. I told him this and ... (167 words)

My Girlfriend knows I'm crushing on another girl....

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19 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I told my girlfriend that I have a crush on another girl. That other girl is also a very good friend of mine. She is also the girlfriend of one of another good friend of mine. Now I don't like this girl, my girlfriend knows that. it's just a crush but a major crush at that. I ... (205 words)

How do I prevent my mama's boy from turning into his father?

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Am married to a Mamma's boy's and a Misogynist for 10 years, been emotionally fatiqued with comparisons to MIL, berated as performing suboptimally as spouse and constantly suspected of havin affairs (none of it is true) and in a passionless marriage. In any case that is not m... (283 words)

Do couples have to do everything together?

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend doesnt want me to do anything without him. i like to go to concerts but he says no every time, he will always say that artist is crap, even if i know he likes their songs. and then he says if he doesnt go i cant go without him. he doesnt want me going to parties... (172 words)

Confused and conflicted because I want someone that's off limits!

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I have this *little* conundrum. There's a guy I work with who I've known for about 2 years or so. I haven't liked him for the whole time I've known of him, but in the past three months or so I've found myself attracted to him more than ever. He also appears to b... (471 words)

He wants to move out to be with his daughter

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dealing with this guy for almost 6 years now. When I first met him he was involved with someone but things were rocky according to him and I at the time was going through a breakup with my husband of 16 years. We became friends one thing led to another and we fell in ... (248 words)

He's going to visit a nude beach -- should I be worried?

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend I've been involved with for 3 years. He told me not too long ago that he and some of his boys are going on vacation in Jamaica, and that he plans on going to the nude beach there. The way he was talking about it he's been wanting to go for a while and is ... (122 words)

Should I expect to be dumped?? How do I handle this?

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - For the past 3 years, I have been involved with a man, a co-worker, who has been separated. Our involvement has been a "physical" one. We've enjoyed each other very much. I'm 29, and this is the first man I've ever been with period. What I'm concerned about is what I ... (171 words)

I'd like to take it to the next level ...

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been friends with a guy for about years. The last two or three we have been really close. I want to take our rlationship to the next level but don't know how. I can't just come out and say it because he gets very skiddish at the thought of relationships. Over the past ... (142 words)

Should I call him? Or should I wait for him to take initiative again?

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I went on a date with a guy for the first time a day ago. We spent literally eight hours together having fun. He bought dinner etc. and he initiated the date to begin with, and I think it took him a lot of courage seeing as he's younger and we work together. Anyway, he told ... (132 words)

My ex suddenly wants back after a year, should I dump my current boyfriend for him?

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex went out for a year and a half, we had plans to get married, have children and all the rest. Sadly that all came to an end June last year, he had a change of heart and needed to rediscover who he was, and left. I was absolutely heartbroken and I didn't cope wel... (227 words)

Is this really karma, like I believe it is?

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - does anyone believe in karma? cos when i was 16 my mum kicked me out, due to me having a lot of problems and she couldnt cope, but we're closer than ever now. but i lived in 2 hostels at the time, first one was for only a month, and i got bullied just cos this girl was ch... (226 words)

Why is she so upset?

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19 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is upset with me because we both just found out that i gave her chlamydia. I didn't know that I had it. I know this will sound strange but I dont understand her being so upset about it. Now before you call me a dumba** let me explain a few things. I started ... (212 words)

Should I write him to tell what I left out when we broke up?

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Long story short:dated this guy John who was a good guyfriend and it did not work out so we broke up,We are on non-speaking terms,I tried to be friendly and asked him to coffee but he turned me down. We were enagaged for 13 hours after he turned me down for coffee and the ... (535 words)

How do I get past the fact that he had a life before me, so that I can enjoy what I have with him now?

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This has been bothering me for a while now and I don't know how to deal with it. Sorry for the long post but your opinions are appreciated. I first met my BF in June last year. When we met I was also talking to this other guy. After a few dates with each I decided that I l... (555 words)

I want to end this relationship but don't want her to hate me

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19 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi am currently in a relationship n am not happy its not the same as it used too be its the 3rd time that we have been out with each other bt this time is just different were both young but ive had enough but i dont want to break her /heart and her parents will hate me , what ... (63 words)

Forever single?

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19 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - It is hard to describe how much a single two letter word can cause so much pain. From middle school to now I have heard to word no more times I care to count. I have always thought how myself as a nice caring person however I was always isolated, ridiculed, used by others. ... (231 words)

My friend thinks I should talk to me ex-boyfriend, but I don't know if I want to

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i dated this boy like 2 years ago and we went out for a pretty long time and got really deep in out relationship. when we broke up it was because of this huge dramatic thing that happened between me and my fake friends at the time. he broke up with me actually and I t... (185 words)

She told me she cheated on me and broke up with me, but I want her back

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19 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and this girl starting dating around valentine's day. She was my first love. I'm thinking this is the girl im going to marry. We were great for about a month and a half and one day she starts pushing me away. She told me I was clinging and she needed space. I gave her spac... (272 words)

How can I be a good 'mother' and sister to my brother?

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My brother is 11 and we were very close before I had to take guardianship of him because of our mom's alcohol/drug abuse. I'm finding it really hard because he gets upset at me now because I'm having to set rules and be the "parent". He says that I've changed and he doesn't ... (91 words)

We've been dating for 4 months and he still only wants to see me once a week

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I wrote in here about a month ago--about how I am seeing a great guy who only wants to see me once a week on Saturday night. It's now been 4 months--and still just once a week. I kind of tested the waters without putting him on the spot with a direct question. He mentione... (444 words)

I love him as a person but there's no sexual spark!

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it right to stay with someone who you love very much as a person, but the sexual spark isn't there? I love him and want him to be happy. I know my being with him makes him happy, but he is happy with me just being there. I want so much more, like excitement, travel, ... (119 words)

Have I lost my chance with him?

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this guy and it was all good at the start of the school year till i got evil looks off another one of his close friends who is a girl. i stopped talkin to him and something bad happened between them but now i talk to him again. everything is all good between ... (123 words)

Snooping in fiancee's facebook account made me discover he cheated!

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently did a bad thing and snooped in my fiance's facebook account. I read a message in there that said that he had sex with a girl whilst on a boys weekend away. This happened a week after we met (we'd only been on one date) and we weren't exclusive, yet I still feel a ... (99 words)

Bestfriends with benefits?

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I'm in a very confusing situation with my bestfriend. We have been really good friends for about three years. In the beginning of our friendship he liked me and I liked him but he had a girlfriend and we didn't tell eachother about our feelings. So nothing happened but ... (420 words)

He says we should live separately so not to be in each other's faces

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - After my ex and i broke up, he kept texting me that he wanted me back,i told him that we have to work on a few things first and he agreed! so he came over last night and said that we should live separately giving each other space that way we would not have to be in each others ... (211 words)

I think my ex's brother wants sex?

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19 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i have a dilemma. Lately my exs' brother has been coming around to visit my spouse. Their cousins. I had an affair with the brother a longtime ago and it ended bad. But now recently the cousins mom passed away and the two brothers basically despise each other. So i can't help ... (184 words)