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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Age difference of 19.5 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

4 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I recently started seeing someone that is 19 1/2 years younger than myself. We used to work together, but she quit. We have a lot in common and share similar interests. We both own our own homes and don't have any previous baggage from other relationships. She is being ... (128 words)

How old is too old to be a virgin?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

4 April 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hello, Just a quick question: how old is too old to be a virgin? I am 24 but still have not met the right man to become intimate with. I am not in a rush but I would like to know how old is too old? 25? 40? ... (56 words)

My ex has a girl but still wants me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im gona make this short! me and my loved one broke up a month ago.he dumped me 4 another..but weve become good friends.he still flirts with me. bring up old memories. and i fed n of course cuz i still love him and he say he misses us. but he just wont let that girl go. now hes ... (96 words)

I love to watch my wife having sex, but don't get the same thrill if it's another woman. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I love to watch my wife having sex,but i don't get the same rush if it's another woman..Why is that?????... (20 words)

Do I ruin the chances I get and how do I get over my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Its been 2 years and im still not over my ex, He doesn't share the same feelings i understand that. im just so upset i really want to get over him. He was my first bf but why am i so attached him he didnt even kiss me, i feel so unattractive because of him it just hurts knowing ... (398 words)

13, we just met and he wants to have sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ummm this guy i just met wants to have sex and i want to but i am scared because he will be my first and i dont no how bad it hurts? ... (35 words)

Tired of shaving but don't want to wax down there!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im 17 and have been shaving my vagina for 3years now and im tierd of them growing back within a day its a nusence is there anymore solutions to this because i cant just stop shaving as i look really hairy and it isnt atractive at all, but i really dont want to wax so please ... (65 words)

I got dumped by my lover in my affair and now I want him back! How do I do this????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently was dumped from an affair that I had. He was a wonderful man (or so, I thought). I made the mistake of lying to him about a trip I took with my husband and that ultimately ended it. He wanted complete honesty from me and I broke that. However, how honest can you ... (249 words)

Fooling around and now worried that I'm pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sure I'm going to get lectures after asking this but I'm worrying myself sick. I'm a virgin and the 2nd week in March me and my boyfriend fooled around. Now he wore a condom and I had my thong on- I sat on top of him and he got his penis and touched my vagina-o... (126 words)

I like her but she's in an on and off relationship with a guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (?) age 36-40 - OK so I'm 21 and go to university. There is this girl who I'm absolutely crazy about, she's 21 too. Big, big problem though, she has a boyfriend. Normally I wouldn't even think of trying to mess up their relationship but I'm not convinced she wants to be with him. They are a ... (301 words)

When is it time to end things? When is enough enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend has really let me down. he always tells me never to give up on him.. but how do you know if you've got nothing left inside to give? i don't know whether my effort is worth it anymore.. please help me... (49 words)

Extreme pda problem

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 4 months now and we are completely happy, to be honest the best relationship ive had. There is just one thing, lately he has been hanging with me and my friends alot, which i love, but he is a huge pda guy. he always wants me by ... (195 words)

I feel I'm not supposed to have a partner

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel like I'm incompatible with every single girl on the planet. Even though I'm friendly, intelligent, well-built and social (I get along with nearly everyone and always make people laugh) I still feel that I'm just not supposed to have a partner. I'm 18, have never had a ... (169 words)

5 minutes of talking and I'm crazy about him already!

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4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm driving myself crzy over this guy!!! And honestly, I have no clue why so I need advice or maybe a little insight... I am 18 years old and at work there's a UPS guy that comes everyday. Recently I started taking a notice to him and can't get him out of my head. He's... (191 words)

To date my ex brother in law or no?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My Question: Would it be okay to date my ex brother in law? I've read a bunch of post on this with different variations in situations. However, most of the ones I've seen is where the female is having an affair with her current brother in law. Here is my situation: ... (814 words)

My ex boyfriend's brother wants a baby with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ive got a question am seeing my ex boyfriends brother ive got 2 kids with my ex and now the ex boyfriends brother wants a child with me is this the wrong thing to do please help thank you.... (39 words)

Should I continue the relationship even though we can't see each other much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well you might already know from my other questions me and my boyfriend had been on and off so a month ago i finally made my decision to break up for good. now i have a new boyfriend and he's nothing like my old one. we laugh we joke, and you never had a argument(yet]. my mom ... (173 words)

What does this married man feel for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, so I am 21yrs old and I have been seeing a married man for almost two years now (He is 25) When I first met him he wasn't married yet but they had a son and lived 2gether. They got married about 10mo ago. For the first year of me seeing him we never ha... (496 words)

Am I unreasonable for wanting his company more in a stressful time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all My question is really how unreasonable or as the case may be reasonable. The situation is that ive been with my boyfriend for awhile now (nearly a yr) and at the beginning saw him loads and obviously that wears off which i initated as i didnt want to grow... (214 words)

I'm meeting his parents and wondering how big of a deal it is.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for a bit from Feb now. We've been for countless coffees, movies, lunches. He likes me. I fancy him like mad. He's extremly shy and hasnt made a move on me physically but we act like a couple otherwise and everyone thinks we are going out. His eyes ... (166 words)

Can love be extented to multiple people at once?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a thought, I was wondering today, How many people can you actually be in love with at once, for example could you be in love with the person you married and also another person equally???... (36 words)

Jealous of him looking at other women.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am married for two years now,when ever i got out with my husband and when i see him lookinf at girls i start thinking if he is looking at them normally or does he think about women lustfully.. how do i find out whether he has lust for other women..? please help me this ... (62 words)

I've made mistakes and want her back more than anything else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey this is quite long, you should read it because it is quite unbelievable really how stupid i am and how this relationship worked out. Hey, I care (to be honest i think I am in love with her) about this girl a great deal and we were really close, she was my best freind and ... (815 words)

Should I take a chance on an old flame?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 20 years and I am now at a crossroads in my life. I enjoy my Husband's company and I think I still love him. But I don't think I want to be married to him anymore. Any reasons I have for this seam to be minor and could probably be fixed if I really put ... (303 words)

Email saying he's in love with another woman. I want answers!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age - hi i met this man on a dating agency, he works on the oil rigs, we chatted and texted for 3 weeks and got on really well, we arranged to meet up for a meal when he returned from his months leave, we went out on the thursday,and then after i went to his house he made me meals he ... (274 words)

My mother never lets me out of the house

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my mom doesn't let me out the house ever! once in a while she would let me have the rare opportunity to go to a b-day party, but only if it doesn't involve boys! i tried talking to her but nothing changes. I've stopped asking if i can go out cuz i know the answer is no. i feel ... (112 words)

I'm having trouble coping with my emotions and feel like I'm in a void

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I'm deeply hurt, and I feel void. I've been feeling like this for a while, like my life is empty, like I wish my life wasn't so dull. I can't cope with my emotions. And last night, something terrible happened. I was with my, now I suppose, ex boyfriend. We were hanging out... (483 words)

I want to earn her trust back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently cheated on my girlfriend of 5yrs. no sex involved just kissing once at a bar and then she came over to my house the next night.my gf found out after i had lied about it because i was to afraid to hurt her and tell her what i had done. it has been a month sense the ... (166 words)

My boyfriend's proposal was rushed and unplanned, and it doesn't feel right. How do I get over the disappointment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I know it's going to make me sound like a bitch but I am struggling with something and in need of advice. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years. A couple of weeks ago he proposed to me. And I said yes. But it didn't feel right. He went out and got a ring spontaneo... (447 words)

Do guys like getting their ears kissed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf loves to kiss my ears as I will feel really ticklish and turn on when he does so. I tried to rub my lower lips in his ears and kiss his ears. I am just wondering whether will guys be horny when their gf kisses his ears?... (49 words)

My g/f wants me to skip my brother's wedding for our anniversary

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

4 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Dear readers, I have quite the tricky situation on my hands and I would like to know what you guys would do if you were in my situation. Here it goes. Me and my girlfriend began dating on October 8th, 2008. We've been relatively okay, except we do get into arguments over n... (310 words)

I need help to move on from this crush

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I get over a crush?!?! I need help getting over a crush i have over another colleague at work, it started almost a year ago and we do flirt alot when we see each other but back then, when it started I wasnt single and nor was he (he still isnt). Up until recently I... (208 words)

When I spend a lot of time with her I feel claustrophobic, does anyone else have this problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm dating this girl who moved from Arizon to where to Long Beach and we've been seeing each other for four months. Everytime we spend a lot of time together, I start to feel claustrophobic. I've been honest with her about these feelings but we both don't know what to do. I ... (84 words)

It started out as sex, but I'm starting to develop feelings for him. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 23 yr old female and am sleeping with a 42 year old man. I have known him for a while, he has a 6 yr old son and a partner although they do not live together. It started out as sex but I think im beginning to get feelings for him, and possibly have had for a while. I ... (116 words)

He said he loved me, but broke up with me out of nowhere!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, where to start... Been with my bf for nearlly a year and only 3 weeks ago he was telling me how he loved me, i made him happy and that he saw us going somewhere...that week he continued telling me he loved me as usual and then that saturday he ended it...didnt ... (333 words)

I lied to him about my breasts, but if I tell him the truth I'm scared he'll think I'm deformed!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I recently ran into a problem with my boyfriend. When we first started having sex I would always wear my shirt, and he always wondered why. Well, one night we started drinking pretty heavily, and my inhibitions flew out the window, and he saw my breasts. I have inverted ... (122 words)

How do I deal with obsessive, catty BFF's?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Op's own title] Ok, so I've been going out with this guy for about three weeks now, he's the nicest person I've ever met and I totally, totally adore him. But, my friends are acting kinda cold towards me lately,and are saying that I'm choosing him over them, which isn't true... (127 words)

He treats me nicely, but when he's around his friends he ignores me. What should I think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi okay so this guy is rly confusing me hes one of the most popular guys in school and im not im not like a nerd but just like in between okay well he flirts with me all the time (my whole math class notices) and he's my "therapist" he sorta like told me to come to him and ... (141 words)

Do you guys appreciate manicured nails on a girl?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Inspired by a chat on another topic, ... I am wondering guys, do you appreciate seeing a well manicured hand/nails when a girl has hold of your goodies, .. or does it go completely un noticed? I kinda thought it adds to an overall effect and that ya's would, ..but what would... (65 words)

Does true love exist?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you know when true love is true love? or does it even exist? please comment... (20 words)

My boyfriend takes me for granted!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a long distance relationship with a boy who lives about 3 hours away by train. I'm feeling really frustrated recently because I feel like he's taking me for granted. Also his words and behaviour never seem to match. I'm leaving this country in 4 months to go back to my ... (316 words)

My boyfriend is to be our friends child's godfather, and I feel left out.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my friend has just had a kid, but i haven't seen her for ages because i've been at uni. anyway, her kids father is my boyfriends best friend.. and he's asked to be god father. it just seems like i'm completely excluded. he has arranged things with me but he's gone to celeb... (155 words)

Should I tell my friend I have fallen for him even tho he is unavailable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so here is the situation: I am good friends with a guy from work, I would class him as one of my best friends (and the other way around) we spend quite a lot of time together, talk on the phone, text etc. He has stayed over at my house a few times (in a different room) ... (236 words)

I want him to 'want' to please me, not do things just coz I ask.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is always asking of things he can do to keep me happy, and one day I told him i'd like it if he kissed me on my neck. He said he would, then he kept asking why, and saying that we should just kiss on the lips. /: I only wanted to do it causee I thought it look hot... (89 words)

What can I do to stop everyone being hurt in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need advices for my current situation. I am 28 this year. I have been with my hursband(P)for 6 years and married for 2(excluded). He was my first bf. we are chinese and went to Australia study together. 6 months after got married, I had an affair with my working c... (774 words)

How can I turn him on with texts whilst still being subtle?

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4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I get him really turned on through a text, without being obvious? Right now i am in another state away from him for the moment, so i can't just see him. I get turned on kinda easily and when im texting him i have this urge to get him turned on with me. I dont ... (109 words)

I'm happy with my boyfriend but can't stop thinkingof my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I strated dating a guy when I was 17, but then moved to college and we drifted. I met someone else and broke up with him when I was 19. I don't think I was very nice about it and I really think I broke his heart ( He is a few years older than I am). I went out with the guy I ... (275 words)

Is he gay/bi curious or straight? It's really confusing me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 16 and I'm really confused atm. I'm male and bisexual and I have a really good male friend the same age as me and I don't know if he's gay/bi or not. The thing is, the first time we really became best friends was when we went camping with a group of friends and me and ... (226 words)

I can't choose between them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey hi..my name is annie.i am 24 yrs old..now in 2004 when i was 18 i got into a steady relationship that lasted till 2007 august..we broke up because my then boyfriend could never trust me on any topics..later i moved out and agin got into a relationsjip with another wonderful ... (238 words)

SHould I stay with my fiance when I have feelings for my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, here is my problem. I have known this one guy, i'll call him "jim," my entire life, for most of that time he had said he loves me and wants to marry me. for years I had a crush on him but I didnt act on it because i knew how he acted with girls, always moving from one to ... (248 words)

Both seeing someone, but yet wanting one another

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - *OP's own title* So,here is the next prgress about us. We are both seeing someone.he has been with his gf for 2 yrs and ive been with bf for 1 1/2 yrs. We have been texting how much we need and wanting each other. also sexually too. Now, i agreed on having a threesome, ... (130 words)

My ex's family are treating me unfairly, yet they don't know there son abused me whilst we were together, shall I tell them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, any answers or advice on this situation will be greatly appreciated. So thankyou in advance. Im 18 years old, currently studying for my alevels, so that i can go to university and make something of my life, i am in a relationship with a amazing boy whos in the fire... (785 words)

Son bringing home leggy pretty girls and I'm stuck with my lumpy wife!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

4 April 2010 (M)

age - My son has recently started bringing girlfriends home: they're leggy, pretty, polite, pleasant girls. Then I think of my wife - I've got a lumpy, angry, middle-aged wife whose libido went AWOL 15 years ago, who gets out of bed at noon, spends 12 hours shouting at me and the ... (154 words)

I'm interested in fooling around but don't know if I want anything serious!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. So, today I met a guy and he seemed very interested in me. I was sort of interested, but not as interested as he seemed. We ended up exchanging phone numbers, and he told me to message or call him just to say hi. Usually I don't have a problem with situations l... (262 words)

Can I use water to flush myself out after having unprotected sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - can i use water to flush myself out after having unprotected sex?... (12 words)

How do I get her to love me again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

4 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok where should i start !!! My girlfriend and i have been together for almost 5 years. She moved in with me after we dated for 1 year. In the last 5 years we have been threw it all... I have cheated on her both emotionally and physical, and even tho i cheated she stayed with ... (247 words)

Is there anything I should do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a singer in a hotel and my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship. It's really hard for me not to be with him, but i need to work for my sister's.. Anyway, i had a bit of a problem with my boyfriend. I just noticed that this past few months he is not sweet, ... (83 words)

Does he really need time to think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend dumped me about a week ago. I was overbearing, not truthful,and not a very good girlfriend.I miss him, and regret all of this..I just want another chance.. Now, I am giving him his space, but it's hard. He says its hard too, and asked me if id like to talk? I said ... (129 words)

Have I lost him forever?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend are in a relationship since 1 and half years. things got worse.we fought over some issues. and now he says, he wants space. i begged n cried but no use.he is really upset and wanted to break-up instead but since he doesn't want to end it on a bad note, he is ... (174 words)

I'm Christian but I want to have sex.

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

4 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 17 years old and im horny a lot. I masturbate once a day right before i go to bed. sometimes twice a day. I have never kissed a girl, gone out with a girl or had sex. :(...I am a Christian so i want to keep my purity until marriage but i also want to have sex REALLY ... (69 words)

How do I let him see how I really like him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! Well,I am 19 and have known this guy since we have been in 9th grade but but became really good friends in 12th grade. We go to different colleges but live at home still which means we are not far away from each other. Every night practically we talk on fb ch... (282 words)

Does my girlfriend want just a break?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

4 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - She wants to go on a break. I don't know what to do. I still love her but I have a feeling shes using me and at the end of the break she won't want me anymore. The break is for one month so do I knuckle down, keep busy and see what happens in a month or do I break up with her ... (114 words)

My boyfriend is bi-curious, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! I'm new to this but I need some advice. A few months back I discovered that my boyfriend had made an adult match maker account of us behind my back and put some sexual pics of us on it. I monitored it for a while.. found out the password from his email (which I felt so ... (169 words)

Should I go for lunch with my teacher?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Just to give you an insight: A principal I had in middle school agreed to go out to lunch with me when I asked him awhile back. We exchanged numbers and we’ve texted off and on these past couple of months. (Not like crazy, just to set up a day when to go). Some things have come ... (333 words)

Is his love genuine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, well first let me start by saying that I am bi and I am a young guy. Here is my issue, which by the way has been occupying a great deal of my time for a while now...I have been dating this guy i met online about five months ago and in the beginning everything was fine, ... (601 words)

How can I shut myself off to other people and still have a productive life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I'm in college, and I've probably had depression, social anxiety, and aspergers for most of my life. I want to know how to live alone without wasting time feeling bad. What methods do you use when you don't have or want contact with anyone? How can I completely shut myself off ... (141 words)

Long Distance Relationship Bump in the Road.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - *OP's own title* I've been with my BF for two years, the past 9 months have been long distance as I'm in grad school until December. We have had our little fights but now he all of the sudden has been acting very weird. I just visited him for a week and he said that he missed m... (266 words)

Ha! And I thought it would never happen to me!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age - *OP's own title* I am a single middle-aged women, usually sensible and certainly suspicious of online dating. Four months ago I was contacted by a younger man on a mutual interest website. He lives in another country and speaks another language! After a month of messaging we e... (476 words)

I want a relationship, but he doesn't.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

4 April 2010 (?) age 41-50 - *OP's own title* I met this guy 4 1/2 years ago and when i first met him he had told me that he had just got out of a relationship which she left with their 2 girls and that had devastated him. Anyway i felt sorry for him for a long time,then as time had past by we were seei... (583 words)

What do I do about my parents blocking my love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - *OP's own title* My parents won't let me go out with a boy i am in love with (even though I'm 13).They gave me no explaination 4 it. He's a gentleman, takes care of his family, respects all women, and isn't much older than me. What to do?... (48 words)

Difficulty ejaculating in most scenarios.

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4 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've been dating a girl for a very long time now and the whole time we've been dating I haven't been able to cum UNLESS I am the one doing the "work". I can't with head, hand job, her on top, nothing. I can when I titty fuck her or on top of her. Any explaination ... (63 words)

I can't move on.

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4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title* my ex dumped me 5 months ago and i still love him as much as i did then.hes had 2 new girlfriends in the period of time we've been apart.he said we would be together forever and he would love me til we died.but he told my best friend he lied.and when he dump... (116 words)

How do I talk to her?

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4 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I've been having very bad times in the past 5 weeks, mostly because of the breakup with my ex. Well, I've got now the feeling that I want to approach other people, oder girls and have fun in life again :) The problem is that I'm not so shure how to do this ... (217 words)

I want to learn about my hispanic boyfriends culture.

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4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well,Im Guyanese and if you don't know where guyana is its in South America. Anyway I really like this Puerto Rican Guy he's so cute and he's really into me and he wants to go out with me,I agreed but I feel I know nothing about his culture. Well Im the type of person that ... (117 words)

He is cancelling dates and disrespecting my time. How can I make it clear that this is not ok!

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4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I have a question about a guy Ive recently started dating (about a month or so). He seemed to be really interested the first few dates and still does seem to have interest in getting together but had cancelled the last 2 dates. He has a very unpredictable an... (338 words)

I want to have sex but it is against my religion.

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4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me. I come from a very religious country, and aside from that, I'm a Christian. I am 26, female and a virgin. Now I think my body wants to have sex so bad. I want to have sex, but my faith advises me to be celibate before marriage. Now I don't know what to do. I ... (103 words)

She does not mind my advances, appreciates my compliments, but only want to be friends. What should I make of this?

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4 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - If a girl knows you love her, and doesn't mind your advances, and hearing whatever you have to say (which usually a person in love would say to his beloved--usually quite frank), but at the same time tells you that she doesn't see you as a lover, but still wants to remain ... (128 words)

After a lifetime of abuse I am scared I will contine the cycle!

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4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My whole life I have been abused by different guys. I was born and my biological father started the abuse right away, we went on drinking and dug binges and disappeared for days at a time. When he came back he would hit and pinch me until I bleed. He broke my sister’s arm in ... (257 words)

She rarely responds to my flirting but seems to enjoy the attention anyway. Do you think this can go anywhere?

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4 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a happily married middle aged man of 47 but I have developed a very enjoyable and good friendship with a 30 year old single woman who lives at home with her parents. She and her Mum and my wife and I have been out together to the cinema and had a nice meal afterwards. I am ... (153 words)

Do you think he is interested or is being friendly just part of his job?

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4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone... This is going to be a bit long, but I truly have nowhere else to rant about this so please, please take some time to read it and try to give me advice if possible. I'll be thanking you forever. My situation is a bit weird/funny actually. Just a few... (664 words)

Is a 7.5 year age difference a big deal?

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4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is a 7.5 year age difference a big deal? I met a guy who is currently 26 (27 in December) and I'm about to turn 19 in less than a week. He's a very, very nice guy and a bit shy... I was actually introduced to him by one of my best friends who is 27. She had made comments as... (253 words)

Girlfriend is leaving me over my penis size!

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4 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - pls,am not happy with my small penis,pls my people help me,my girl friend is about to leave because of this,please i need your help,help me out?... (26 words)

Is there any chance that he wants to get back with me, or is he just using me?

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4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im new to dearcupid, and right now i really need advice. back in january, my boyfriend broke up with me for somebody else, we dated for about a year and a half and we went through so much together. when we broke up, he told me that he wanted me out of his life, and i told ... (309 words)

I'm still in love with him! How do I get over these feelings?

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4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im still inlove with him. We broke up like 4 months ago,and im hiding my feelings. have you ever been inlove with your ex? and how do you get rid of your feelings?... (36 words)

The sex is too intense!

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4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have an INTENSE attraction for someone, and he has the same feelings for me. When we kiss it feels like my whole body is vibrating and I have literally had an orgasm just "dry humping." We do have sex sometimes but it's almost too much, the instant he's inside me I cum, and ... (194 words)

I want him to leave her for me

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4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having a predicament. I was with "Joe" for 8 years. We met when we were 17 and just broke up a few weeks ago. During the past 8 years I have been very close with his family, in fact I am closer to them than he is. I still hang out with his step-siblings, his step-sister ... (407 words)

Will my friends think I'm a player?

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4 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, i want sex. I do. And i can get it but i always go for the guys i should go for. ie. My best frineds ex's best friend...not a good story. In the end...i seem to always be stuck with the decision of 'the respect oof my frinds' and 'my urge and temptation of sexual ... (338 words)

I love her, but I don't like her!

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4 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi my problem is a bit weird and completely stupid but it is a genuine problem that i cant get over so any help would be great thankyou i have fallen completely in love with someone who i dont even like very much. Im bi (not openly, still coming to terms with it myself but be... (282 words)