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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What would be a sweet and thoughtful present for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 6 months and his birthday is on this coming saturday (the tenth) and i want to do something sweet/thoughtful for a present for him....any ideas?? im open to ALL suggestions :)... (42 words)

Does she mean this as a friend only?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Does these comments that agirl im chatting to online mean ive entered the friend zone? or do girls look for these qualitys in a potential partner. "You're so perceptive and sensitive and funny." I'm a bit confused as to what you Ladys look for and have confused ideas.... (57 words)

Hope for someone like me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

7 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - In short: How do you get a girl to like you?? Long story: I've never kissed a girl, never had a girlfriend, never even really had a lot of female friends! Now I know some of this is due to the fact that I went to an all boys secondary school, but mostly because I'm j... (238 words)

Update: I'm still hurting and need her to know without forcing it upon her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

7 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people long time no see, Well its been a week since the Big Drama between me and my girlfriend. The people who have been following know the deal. But anyway later on that night I called her back after many phone calls she made to me and she was apologizing for ... (678 words)

How do I stop the jealousy?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. Straight to the point. I'm way too jelous. Not like, most women are about their boyfriends, but i'm jelous to the point where, if me and my boyfriend are walking somewhere and he sees some girl he knows, i get so jelous and go in a mood. I hate being like this but i ... (109 words)

Since I cheated on her, she won't say that she loves me! What can I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

7 April 2010 (?) age 26-29 - ok so i feel horrible for this but i cheated on my gf but she said she loved me enough that she would give me another chance but she wants me to still say 'i love you' to her but she wont say it back for a while until she fully trusts me again. I was also going to kiss her the ... (117 words)

Boyfriend gives more love and attention to the dog than to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age - My BF of 12 yrs and I have not had sex for about 2 years. We have been in/out of counseling and are currently seeing a new counselor for one last chance to salvage our relationship. I am 57, divorcedX2, and he is 63, divorcedX3. I am aware of and understand the age related ... (342 words)

He works 24/7 and either he's going to die or our marriage will!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

7 April 2010 (F) age - My husband is workaholic in denial. It slowly destroyed our marriage, what was 25 year long so far. His absence was causing lots of pain,and created a dysfunctional unhappy family..No, I'm not blaming everything on him,but I always tried to fix the gaps. Yet, now we have tro... (262 words)

Choosing between two important men in my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - There are two important men in my life, how do i know which to choose to be with? One of them are my childrens dad and the other is a rebound relationship, and im ingadged to the rebound guy and he does things i dont approve of all the time and my childrens father dumped me ... (83 words)

I made a deal with my husband's dad to marry his son, what if my husband finds out???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 24 year old married woman. I have a husband who will insist on getting up at 2:00 in the morning to go to Walgreen's because I have the sniffles. I get love letters and flowers, and get so much sex that you wouldn't believe me if I told you more. I didn't really lo... (241 words)

He says, he loves me but I can't trust him. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Ive know my boyfriend for 2 years now, ever since i met him he was always interested in me however i wasnt really in to him. But 6 months ago he asked if i wanted to go for a drink, i went and we havent been apart since then and are currently boyfriend and girlfriend. ... (232 words)

Three years ago, she freaked when I told her I loved her. Should I tell her again, now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

7 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've asked this question before but I never get many responses so I'm trying it again. I will have a very long detailed version of this and then at the bottom I will have shorter simplified version, if you want the short version scroll to the bottom now. Ok this is the long... (684 words)

Is it normal for a married, straight woman to get turned on by 'guy on guy' porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've recently become aware that I am incredibly turned on by pornography involving two men, most specifically pornography involving mutual hand-jobs and blow-jobs. I'm am a married straight woman. This isn't something that I can share with my husband as I'm sure he would be... (204 words)

I think I answered his question wrong and now I don't know how to fix it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i was talking about how some women are superficial and feel like if they don't have this expensive wedding and a man with a lot of money that they did not want that man....i in defending some women simply stated that there is nothing wrong with a man with ... (136 words)

How can I keep the scumbag father of my child away from us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I'm 6 months pregnant by a scumbag, When I first found out that I was prego I told the baby's father and he said it wasnt his and to get an abortion....He really did not want any responsibilities for a another child. A few weeks later he strangled me and punched ... (215 words)

Why was my butt wet after sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were having sex unprotected. However, he always pulls out and then proceeds to ejaculate in his hand. We just started having sex not to long ago and this was maybe the 6th time we have? Anyways, after he pulled out and done came my butt felt wet? I asked ... (151 words)

2.5 years and married life needs a little spicing up! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi am married for two and half years now and happy with my married life but it has become a little boring. my husband gets back home late because of his work and is so tired that hardly has time or energy to spend good time with me and if he finds some time with me then he ... (79 words)

I'm afraid boyfriend's past will affect his future with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a 4yr relationship with my boyfriend we have lived together for 3 of thoose 4yrs. Our relationship overall is doing well, we do not fight as much as we did in the past and we are getting to understand eachother better. The issue I see that we do have is, his ... (320 words)

Embarrassing moment from my past--afraid this guy on facebook will spill it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Embarrassing moment - This is not a cry for help - just wanting to know how to get over an embarrassing moment and avoid being a laughing stock. The thing is - when I was a teenager (a few years ago now) teenagers were'nt as aware of things as they are now. Anyway - I remember... (141 words)

If I end it will I have made the biggest mistake ever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfirend for 3 years. We have lived together for 2. He proposed 2 months ago. I accepted. I was initially excited. Not now. I feel very emotionaly vunerable.Im dealing with other issues, Idont know if I dont love him or am going through a bored patch or a... (99 words)

Will he find me unattractive in person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Thanks for reading this, I will try and keep it brief. I joined an internet dating site, and got chatting to a lovely guy for a few weeks, then moved on to texting, emailing and then a few phonecalls. This has been going on for a little over a month, and he has sugges... (320 words)

My co-workers have stopped talking to me and I don't know why!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question it about my job. It been over two month now when it all started. Out of no where my co-workers stop talking to me it bothered me at first. I had no idea what was going on so I send them an email asking whats going on, that I don't know why out of no where they ... (155 words)

I'm addicted to a brutal type of pornography drawings. How will my girlfriend react?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

7 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - If I have an addiction to pornography involving drawings of young girls being killed, then...when should I tell my girlfriend, and what response might she have? ... (26 words)

Is an intensive driving course worth doing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm hoping for some opinions/ feedback. Do u think an intensive driving course is worth doing? I have failed my test 3 times- each time making more mistakes. I found a 12 hour course split over 2 days and then you take the test. It's £350 but i'm considering doing it. I ... (89 words)

My boyfriend will grow out of this, right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I are in a long distance relationship, and after a year of talking/chatting/e-mailing we decided to meet up. Things went great, so I took a seasonal job where he lived and moved in with him for a few months, just to see how it would go. For the most part, thing... (275 words)

Am I asking too much of him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 31 years old and have been married for almost 4 years. We have sex almost every month. I don't want to sound like a pervert but i started masturbating when my husband is not home which is most of the time since he's a truck driver. I know i should understand that when he ... (159 words)

How can I get him to kiss me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I think I really like this guy and I would like to kiss him. I think i am read to kiss him however I just dont know how to. Iv never kissed a guy and I want to know what to expect for the first time. Has anyone got any tips on what to do? Im like clueless and I dont want to ... (75 words)

Do her calls, texts and flirting mean anything? (I have a girlfriend)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

7 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My friend I went to school with calls me randomly and flirts with me. She also txt's me knowing I have a girlfriend...does this mean anything? If culture is a factor...she is from India but has been in this country for over five years. ... (46 words)

Should I quit or should I continue with my desirable lady of my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - should i quit or not, with desirable lady of my life , some years ago, i met a lady, woman of life ,and we have being together for almost 2 years, before i realised this lady senior in age with a year, and show does not know till now, and both of us are in deep love with each, ... (87 words)

Am I wrong for being angered by his constant asking for what's on my mind.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for almost 6 years. We are engaged now , and are moving in together in a few weeks. I have a few issues and would like someone elses point of view. He is a wonderful man , to good to be true in many ways. he genuinly cares about me and I a... (497 words)

I'm in need of ideas for her birthday gift.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, My girlfriends birthday is coming up very soon. I really need some help thinking of an original gift to get her (not jewelry, chocolate, etc.). I'm far from creative and would like a little help with something romantic. Of course I already plan to take her to eat and w... (63 words)

I love him but is that enough to continue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What to do when love is the only thing holding you together? I love him. I want him in my life but that is not enough when we argue about the simple shit. He has a job that keeps him away all the time and that bugs me when he does not even check on me. He does not come home ... (280 words)

How do I just move on from him? He isn't ready for a real woman with real love to offer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey...well i need some advice. okay i just found out that my ex boyfriend has been trying to talk to my cousin and they be flirting in class and was textn while we were together. it hurts me to my soul to know that because he has been telling me how much he really loves me and ... (162 words)

I always thought I was gay but these recent feelings about women have confused me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so at the moment I’m really confused I have always felt things for men, I Think there sexy and someday I wand a boyfriend but recently I have found myself getting hard over Women. I can’t say I really find them attractive and I have never felt like I want... (167 words)

It was so painful, every time I think about trying it again, I freak out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Im 16 Me and my boyfriend tried to have sex for the first time a few nights ago and i was so nervous that it was like there was no hole at all.He tried using his finger and it hurt so much. It was so painful,why was it so sore ? ..and will it always be like that ? ... (86 words)

How can I tell if I'm just a time filler?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been in a relationship for a long time with my boyfriend. it still feels one sided even though i've expressed that i want to see him more. i only see him 3 times a week. how can i tell if i am just a time filler? ... (50 words)

Dreams of pregnancy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. A few nights ago I had a dream that I'd taken a pregnancy test and found that I was in fact pregnant and 2 weeks and 2 days along. The dream seems to focus on how far along. The thing is, I'm not planning for a baby, not as of yet, and have no worries of being pregnan... (128 words)

I want to maintain a friendship with him and keep in touch with him when I leave my place of work.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - There's a guy at my job that i'm about to quit and move away from that i kind of like, but i wouldn't allow anything to happen because i'm about to move in with my boyfriend. i WOULD like to pursue a friendship with him, just see him one day out of work before i leave, i kind ... (176 words)

Is there any way things can work out or anything I can do to make our parents realise how happy we are together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship for the past 2 months and we've suffered many downs, some of which have tested our paitence really far. But we got through it. He is an amazing guy and VERY supportive regardless of his family life he has still managed to help me out with my work and ... (328 words)

I cant afford to visit a dentist, does anyone have any home remedies for toothache?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have been in agony over the last 2 days now with a toothache, it comes and goes but it always comes back. last night i took two asprins and put salt water in my mouth, it did help then i slept, now i have woken up to an even painful toothache. i cant go to the dentist i... (97 words)

Should I call him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey all, thanks for reading this. I met this sweet guy when i was at the mall today. He was selling products, so i went over and pretended to be interested in the products to give us a chance to talk. The minute we started talking, we were getting along fabulously. He was ... (143 words)

How can I move on with my life if I still love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i has been in an on and off relationship for a year. we just recently broke up due to his continuous cheating and lying games. i just found out that he has been trying to talk to my cousin and asking her to come chill with him or what not. that hurts me so bad ... (349 words)

Should I follow my heart or listen to my head?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyrfriend and i have been off and on for the last year, we have had about 3 break ups. 4 months after we first got together he hit me at school and left a bruise on my face. my parents decided that i had to break up with him. so i did as my parents wished and end our ... (280 words)

How do I keep him interested when he has lost interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused and upset. I met a man who shares the same interests and has everything in common with me. We started to see each other 3 months ago after we got to know each other. I fell completely for him- he is perfect to me in every way and he told me the same. I beli... (394 words)

We had an argument over him going to a bar and now I feel bad! Does anyone have any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

- Last night my bf and I got into an argument about him going out with his work buddies after work to play pool. Well, by my understanding he was going to one of the guys' house because my bf had said he was going right down the road. He don't go to bars, so I didn't suspect ... (475 words)

Do I have to wait for the right man or should I get out there and search for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi cupid im mely single 22 years old!!!ever since i dont have any serious relationship and i just have 1 boyfriend!!! I also dont have my first kiss, Do i have to wait for the man I love or should i find him and search for him!!! And the problem is i easily feel in love to ... (71 words)

Do I have the right to hate my brother even though I don't remember what he did to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey well im 15. But when i was 2 from 3 years old my older half brother molested me he was 12 threw 13 at the time i think. I dont remaber it at all. I only know what my mom said. He thought they were next door but my mom wasnt an she cought him in the act and he told her every ... (94 words)

What gift shall I get for my girlfriend to show her I have thought about her while she was away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to get her a gift for when she's back from her holidays, to show her I thought about her so much because it's the case. It doesn't have to be something big since I have a small budget. I was thinking about chocolates but she told me she still has some from new year fro... (125 words)

I want to end my marriage without trying as I don't love my husband

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 yrs married for 1 1/2 yr to a man I knew 2 yrs younger to me.We met 5 times and agreed on marriage.After marriage it took us 1 yr to ve a physical relationship as he was not trying enough, as my work hrs were long, as he never tried to relax me.Finally with help of my ... (653 words)

Whenever things go wrong between us, he starts his emotional torture!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - when i first went out with this guy, i realized his the love of my life. he loved me for what i was. but then i was too possessive about him, and never gave him the space he wanted. and he too never complained until this came up during a fight, when it was not my mistake at ... (411 words)

Will he still chase after me after I sent him a text saying "Delete my numnber"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy I really like, was seeing him intensively for about a month, but then I went away for a month to Thailand. When I returned I saw him once and then he didn't speak to me again for three weeks. I was upset as we were becoming quite close before I left for my holiday! ... (326 words)

The love of my life is married to a monster! Do I help or step back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i have been with the love of my life for five years this year and we have become so close over the five years. We have been through alot, including a near death experience where she was nearly kidnapped. she is married and has two amazing small kids who i love and they love ... (264 words)

I'm 19, she's 15, and she's my second cousin! What can come out of this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

7 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 19 and shes 15... Thats my main concern, if it were 26 and 22 the idea wouldn't be that big a deal. Its just that our age group is a bit more sensitive. There is nothing going on yet, but we are both sending signals to each other and its pretty obvious to us both that sooner ... (327 words)

My boyfriend's sister doesn't want him to better himself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have had quite a lot of problems, but we always manage to get through them. and as far as i'm concerned, that's all that matters. he's had a lot of stuff to deal with and he's only 20. he's been living with his 22 year old sister for the past 3 years... (614 words)

I'm having weird dreams about our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this post might sound a little stupid but i keep having weird dreams every night. dreams that involve me getting accused cheating on my boyfriend and he ends up leaving me, its really long dreams, have dreams that my boyfriend is holding a baby boy in his arms and im p... (97 words)

I was really mean and now she's gone...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been going out with my girlfriend now for 9 months and in that time I have been mean to her on occasions in front of her friends which I deeply regret she now tells me she wants a break which we have done for 2 weeks now she just wants to be friends Im really hurting ... (73 words)

Should I marry my friend to save him from deportation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this is super complicated. My best friends and I were a trio, and one of them needed a way to stay in the USA because he was at risk of being deported. At first I agreed to marry him, but then my parents wouldn't allow me to go through with it and threatened me that they'd ... (104 words)

It's been almost a week and he still hasn't called...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend and her boyfriend have been trying to set me up with a friend of his for awhile now. For about a month we had a hard time all getting together because he works two jobs and I have crazy long work hours myself. Finally last week, she called me while I was at work and ... (317 words)

Obsession with Army Boyfriend's Ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so this is another "Obsessed With Ex" story. I guess I should explain more about myself and why I *think* I'm so obsessed in the first place... Before I met my current boyfriend, I was in a 4 year relationship. V and I grew up as best friends and it was one of tho... (1544 words)

How can I squirt without peeing?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Everytime i masturbate with a sex toy i got to pee after iam done. I been trying to practice female ejaculation. I happened to do it today. But it smell like pee but it didn't look like pee. How can i squirt without peeing if it is pee? Or is it FE? ... (53 words)

I don't think I've ever had a full orgasm!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have three questions in one... Well first off I never really thought of this being bad until I ran across a doctor video and someone came in with a problem I have...and after spending time with my boyfriend it does seem to be bothersome. I have noticed that one of my ... (296 words)

Ready to lose virginity at 13, everyone else has!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: Age posted is not right, poster says they are 13, NOT 19) hi. im greenpink, im 13 years old (i'll be 14 in may) and i think that i am ready to loose my virginty. we just offically met a few days ago (through mutual friends) but i have been crushing on him for a while,... (304 words)

My boyfriend talks to himself! Should I be disturbed about this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend talks to himself. If I would have known this when we first met two years ago, I would have never talked to him. It disturbs me and he sees talking to himself as being more intellectually intuned than other humans. I have no clue what to do. I love him, but ... (80 words)

We broke up, she went back to her ex but 2 months later says she still cares. Do I wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age - ok here is the my story... I met a girl about 2 years ago, we became friend and eventually great friends. she was in a relationship when we met. never apporached her, we were just friends well her relationship ended... we were at a bar with mutual friends when she kissed m... (204 words)

Eye Color Genetics

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have a question concerning genetics. So I have green eyes and brown curly hair and my boyfriend has brown eyes and black curly hair. Also, I am white and he is puerto rican. We have one child with brown eyes and brown curly hair with very light skin. I am curious to know ... (169 words)

Guilt about masturbation!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - When I was 12, I didn't know anything about sex. Not a single thing about it. After I hit 13, I hit the point where my eyes finally awoke. It was around that time that two guys, two grades higher then me, asked me if I had ever masturbated before. Off course, I said no, and ... (207 words)

My boyfriend want to go further, ... I'm nervous and don't know what I want!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old and my boyfriend wants to go further.. I am not quiet sure if i am read tho. I want to go further but I dont know how to.. We want to go into specifics. He isnt a Virgin and I am .. We dont want to have sex or anything.. I told him that will have to wait. Im ... (146 words)

What do girls think when hugging a friend and feeling he has an erection?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

7 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all just wanted to ask a question. I have a cute and really hot female friend, we talk, go out as friends and stuff like that. but every time i hug her, first of - the hug is quit long, second i get an erection. I'm a really NICE GUY, not the one who bang everythi... (115 words)

Is sex more than once a month too much to ask?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 April 2010 (F)

Was not - Was! Boyfriend lying about virginity!

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7 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well my boyfriend and i have been dating for 6 months and before we dated he told me he wasn't a virgin and that he wished he wasn't because it hurt me when we did start dating. he knew i cried and tried to talk me out of it all of the time but i couldn't help the sadness and ... (131 words)

Completely messed up situation with my boyfriend, please help me!

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7 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I need some major advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months and some change. He gave me a key to his house because when I stay the night I will stay at his house when he leaves for work. The only rule with the key is that I let him know ahead of time if I am ... (467 words)

His lack of responses to my text messages has me concerned. What should I do?

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7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok ill make this quick- i recently have been texting a guy, in which we both have the intention to see where things go. Be it just friendship, sex, or more. I really sense he's a genuine guy from what i previously gathered and learned from talking to him. Anyways we planned on ... (335 words)

I have bad luck with relationships! Will I ever find true love?

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7 April 2010 (F)

age - dear cupid, I am a 34 year old female with very bad luck in love. Sometimes I think its my karma, because when i was 14 years old, I betrayed someone's trust, the biggest mistake of my life. Anyway, I have only had unhappy(at best) or horrible relationships since then. The ... (311 words)

Unsure if I should go meet this guy! Help!

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7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi this 19 yr old guy (and im 13) likes me and i like him back and he is planning for me to go to america to meet him when im 18 and im unsure whether to go coz of age differences and that ive never met him before, Sounds like a really sweet, polite, respectable guy and thats ... (92 words)

I am a caregiver and this 11 year old kid has a crush on me! How do I handle this in an appropraite manner?

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7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I know this is a love/sex/relationship ect. advice website, but I'm hoping some one could help me out with this one: I work at a daycare part-time and I really enjoy my job. The age range is 2-11. I am close with all the kids and they really seem to like and respect me. ... (209 words)

Has our relationship run its course, or are we going into another stage?

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7 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my BF for about 8 months. In the beginning we stayed up really late just talking, everything was more special when he was around, I was in another world when I was around him, and things just seemed to great. Over the last month or so, these feelings have go... (246 words)

He doesn't believe I was a virgin!

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7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alrite so theres this guy .. we've been dating about 7 mnths now... and we had sex for the first time ... he was a virgin and so was i !... i've never been physical with any guy in my life expect him. then after the sex he tells me that he doesnt believe im a virgin becu... (207 words)

Anal sex problem!

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7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had anal sex for the first time it didn't hurt and I don't know if he was even all the way in, but i felt him go off... about 40 minutes later i had cramping and diahorrea, is that normal?... (41 words)

How can I stop worrying what others think of me?

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7 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i want to be in a relationship very badly but im afraid. i always think about being rejected and what my friends will think. i know that feeling like that is wrong because i shouldnt care what other people think of me but i cant. i would also like to know aside from how to d... (80 words)

She put my picture on the internet without my knowledge!

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7 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi everyone i am 17 and really need suggestions from the parents out there. My mom thanks i have an anger problem. Today i found out 1 of the girls i hang out with at school took a picture of me and put it on facebook.(WITHOUT ME KNOWING UNTIL I LOOKED AT MY PAGE AFTER SCHOOL). ... (154 words)

This not knowing is really eating me alive!

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7 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am going crazy right now. I was seeing this guy for a few months and everything seemed fine. We were happy, we enjoyed each others company. I felt a connection and I thought he did to. Three weeks ago he sends me a text message saying he is a mess and doesn't know what to ... (535 words)

Smelly genitalia!

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7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is so weird to be writing about this as i can't tell anyone... im 15 and have a new boy friend, im worried i smell around the genital area, i shower a lot and make sure the hair is kept short but i can smell some sort of smell.. im not sure if its my mind playing tricks on ... (107 words)

I believe she's in another relationship.

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7 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - help, i have been seperated from my partner for the past 6 months, we were together for 16 years have a house together and two children a son of 13 and a daughter of 2 and a half, i love her so much, the thing is i think she is in a new relationship, i have been trying to find ... (103 words)

Is fate trying to tell us something?

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7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well, i was in love with my best friend of four and a half years, and i think he loved me back, but he said he didnt believe in love, i was just 'different from anyother girl he'd ever known' etc im sure you get where im going with this so ill be breif as can be! its... (198 words)

Why did my ex register me with dating sites?

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7 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please can anyone out there tell me why my ex would constantly accuse me of going to dating sites whilst we were together,which i did not unless it was to remove my details when we got back together.i recently discovered that my name,age and location has been added to 20+ ... (125 words)

Weary about dating a co-worker, but did I miss my chance?

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7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been flirting with a co-worker for a few months now. Bam! It was intense attraction from the get go. We are both single but hes not ready for relationship at moment. We sexted and talked on phone almost every night. I told him at the beginning I don't screw around at work, ... (238 words)

Will the abortion be safe so soon after the HPV vaccine?

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7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm pregnant but having an abortion, but I'm having the HPV jab before the abortion at school, can I still have it? ... (22 words)

I'm 15 and pregnant

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7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 and pregnant with my boyfriend of 3 years. Yes I know I'm silly please don't bring that up, all I'm asking is for help. Anyway, I have been to the clinic as it is half term, I am getting an abortion, both me and my boyfriend are 50/50 about keeping it, he is a hard ... (119 words)

Why did he break up with me if he likes me so much?

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7 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't understand him. My boyfriend has just broken up with me because he needs 'space' as he wants to do his own thing and is not yet ready for a serious relationship. I find this really confusing because it was only yesterday when we was talking about sex; he asked ... (335 words)

Is it fair to ask my handyman boyfriend to paint for free?

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7 April 2010 (F)

age - My boyfiend of 5 years is a handy man on the side I have asked him to paint my kitchen and he said he would give me an estimate Is it unfair to ask him to do it for free or what is a reasonable labor cost? I dont mind paying but.... ... (55 words)