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*atiemariex3
writes:My boyfriend of two years and I just broke up in Janaury and its been really hard for me espically since he left me for somebody else. But the girl he left me for is really mean to me. I knew who she was before they started dating but ever since they started I only have gotten evil glares from her and she just acts like a complete snot around me. Its so hard to deal with her meanness. Shes in my gym class and I was her partner today and i smiled and told her im not really good at this game and she didnt even say anything. She just acts like Im the scum of the earth. Im never done or said anything to her. I have tried to be nice but I really dont know what to do. I wish I could drop that class but I cant because I need it to graduate which I will in 2 years since Im a sophomore. How can I handle how she acts towards me because she really puts me down and I wish she could just let it go. Im not after the guy I have a boyfriend so I wish she could stop. What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2010): Why do you need to be good with her? If she is mean, just ignore her! Who cares! After all if there is any scum bag here, its her. She stole your bf. She can be nice to you if she wishes but you don't have to be nice to her.
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reader, Carrot2000  +, writes (23 April 2010):
 You're a threat and she views you as competition. She looks for your faults so she can feel superior to you, yet she finds none. This makes her insecure. Even though he broke up with you to be with her, she's still not entirely sure that he chose her and fears that the two of you will get back together.
She's pathetic. Stop worrying about being her friend.
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reader, katiemariex3 +, writes (23 April 2010):
katiemariex3 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I have never been mean to her I even told her that Im not mad at her for anything and she said okay but she still acts like a B****
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2010): Being kind is the best rule.
The next best thing is to ignore her everytime you have an option. It gives you back your power and peace of mind.
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reader, TooGenerous +, writes (23 April 2010):
 If she is acting that way, it is because she feels threatened by you still. Don't let it bother you - just smile when she comes in and take the higher road. If you act like you are damaged by the way she acts towards you - then she will get exactly what she wants. I use to be that way because I was insecure. If it really bothers you, them go up and talk to her about it. Maybe you can become friends with her. And when the boy dumps her for another girl, you will have a lot to talk about!!
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reader, BettyBoup +, writes (23 April 2010):
 Ignore her, she's not worth your time. She stole your boyfriend off you, and now she's with him she probably feels insecure around you because you were with him for two years. So she snubs you to make herself feel better.
You don't have to be friends with this girl, I certainly wouldn't want to if my bf left me for her. So just let her act like a fool and be civil to her when you absolutely have to spend time with her in classes etc. But don't let her get to you, she's not worth the worry honestly!
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