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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm 18 and I'm in love with my teacher 30 years older than me. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in 3 long relationships, all of them lasting longer than a year and a half... Plus many many before that. So I've experienced quite a bit. The feeling I get when I think of my teacher, well, it's much different. It's like a platonic connection or a spiritual kind of ... (969 words)

He cheated once and I've never been able to trust him since

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well i been with a guy for 1 year and a half, and i lost his trust a while ago, he cheated on me with my freind, and that messed ur our relationship since then, i have doubts about him doing the same thing now, he promises me hes not that he only loves me but idk if i should ... (80 words)

Should I end our close friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m in love with my male best friend. We’ve known each other for a while and we flirt and have it all. We have tons of inside jokes, and tease each other. We smile at each other all the time. We share everything with one another. I know things about him that he would never te... (438 words)

My doctor won't give me birth control, what should I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my problem is that my doctor doesn't want to prescribe me birth control for my PCOS and I don't know what to do. Any advice?... (26 words)

My husband has reconnected online with an old crush!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age - My husband had recently reconnected with his high school friends. One of them is a girl who he has said was one of his closer friends in high school. Now that they've reconnected they have been chatting on line at least once a week if not more, sending messages through facebook ... (781 words)

Why do I get urges to pee alot days after having sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys My question is kinda gross! Recently me and bf starting having sex for the first time but ive notice a few days later i need to pee all the time and like more than i ever did befor! Any one any idea of what it could be? Also I feel like im bursting to go to the toi... (80 words)

How do I achieve a sexy, flawless body, minus the fake boobs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I know this is weird to ask, But I want advice on something pretty wild. Okay, I've noticed that in movies,adult, magazine,etc. That women have some beautiful bodies, I want to know how to come about it. Not the working out or big breast. I love mine the way they are. B... (135 words)

I like porn and masterbating, but am I being lied to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do ALL men look at porn and masturbate while in a relationship? My boyfriend insists he doesn't do either. He says porn makes him feel weird to watch and that he never even feels the urge to masturbate when I'm around (he does it when we're apart for extended periods). ... (217 words)

I still run into him a couple times a month, do you think I lost him forever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i broke up with my boyfriend a week ago, we were together on and off for a year!! we lived together. the reason i broke up with him is because he started talkin to many different types of women at work wantin to go to their place and hang out and stuff and also at the ending he ... (335 words)

Should I tell her the truth?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, so i want to know, how to tell a four year old that a man who she thinks is her father is not. should she even be told that at her age? should the man continue to be a part of her life even though the child's mother has disrespected the man's girlfriend and tried to break ... (74 words)

I'm a virgin but seek to have an orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old female and im still a virgin. I always masterbate with my boyfriend with phone sex but i cant seem to give myself an orgasim and make myself cum. I rub my clit and put 1 or 2 fingers in and it feels good but i really want to experience an orgasim the next ... (114 words)

Can you forget someone completely?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend, J, of 10 months broke up with me. We were having a long distance relationship. He says he has to move on because I lied to him. But he still feels for me and that he would never give up hope that we'll one day come back to each other. After all of what happened on ... (276 words)

Is she lying or being overly self-conscious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

21 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Although i recently asked a question, another issue from this arose. Basically, the girl i met online who says she loves me, and also who i text and speak to everyday. She commented on my facebook status, and my mates started to as well so we all ended up speaking... (378 words)

Army boyfriend and engagement !!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey my boyfriend is in the army and is away alot. We have been together a yr and a half now and its been hard him nt bein around, but since he went away before for 3months and came bac and is away alot and i only see him every other weekend we became really close, and also ... (220 words)

Do I give her attention or space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and i have been broken up for 2months now once she found out i cheated on her(only kissing 2 random drunk nights at a bar).we dated for over 5years and i am deeply sorry and dont know how to get her back in my life. i have said how sorry and what a mistake it was ... (137 words)

I really need help with my boyfriend and his addiction

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I hear all the time it's normal for men to watch porn. My boyfriend won't stop watching it. He use to be very honest about it. So with him being honest I went to be honest on how it really effected me. It hurts me to know that I can not please him. Then he started ... (211 words)

Can't afford to pay for someone else's kids!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years now and have a 20month old son! he has 3 children from a previous relationship! his 3 children come and stay on a saturday/sunday and have dinner etc. I am trying to be supportive and understanding with my partner about the ... (160 words)

17 and wanting to move out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there i have a problem and im only 17 so its hard to solve this one cuz i cant legally move out yet, but ok so ALL my friends and my boyfriend live in a town 20 min away and we all go to school together...and well i stay at my bfs house alot but my rents are starting... (242 words)

Just rubbing shoulders or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I belong to about 5 to 8 ethnic groups in India and Western Europe. Girls who are in a relationship seem to like brushing shoulders with me even though they are already in a relationship. After a while some get comfy enough to brush their boob on my arm. Are they trying... (222 words)

They're acting like they're still in high school!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend, but can't stand his friends. I know I have no right to interfere with his friendships, but I feel incredibly uncomfortable and would love an objective opinion of how to handle this situation. My boyfriend of over a year went to high school and colle... (366 words)

Addicted to sex and I want to change my ways

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 20 in the pass 9 years I've been sleeping with over 20 men I feel like I'm a slut I always did that just to having fun not to enjoy it when I think about all the # of men I've been sleeping with that makes me don't wanna live anymore I feel bad about my pass I really wanna ... (114 words)

I don't trust him with my son

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - When I was younger, my father had excessive or uncontrollable anger. He would lose his temper a lot and start yelling at my mother, brother and/or me. My mom gave him a choice of going to anger management or my mom was going to divorce him. My dad went and has not shown any ... (175 words)

More turned on by sexting than by me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age - Help! after 3 years of marriage i recnetly discoverd my husband has been texting sex text line for the last 2 years, i caught him out 5 months ago,discovered he has spent £16,00 on them. After weeks of emotional turmoil i decided to make it work, yesterday i found out he never ... (141 words)

I'm obsessed with my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I need advice...I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 11 Months now. And I am pretty much obsessed with him! It's horrible. When he does something wrong, I find myself apologizing! The most recent issue happened last night. I was working late and he had decided t... (255 words)

I can't believe I was stupid enough not to think he cheated on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do. I was told yesterday that my boyfriend of a year and 5 months that he slept with someone at the start of the relationship. I know the girl as he was sleeping with her before we started going out. Then I was told yesterday that he had slept with her at ... (159 words)

Is he just using me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay basically; im in a relationship with a boy who iReally love. iLost my virginity to him which makes the situation more complex. He is impatient and takes things a bit too literally when he knows iDont mean it. iReally want to be with him but things are not working out how ... (111 words)

Should I keep my account a secret from my family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

21 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I asked a question about a week ago 'Am I Gay or Bi?' and gave read the answers and most if you said Im Gay so I was happy that the decision is made so I joined a Teen Chat Site for Gays and I'm happy chatting and stuff but I hate sneaking around when my familys gone ... (118 words)

Worried about risking the only stable relationship in my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My dear friend and I are currently single. He is a big flirt, Has questionable taste in women, very demanding of their time and affection, and then freaks out when he finds out they are or used to be junkies with complicated stds. I am afraid of commitment. I always seem to ... (297 words)

Is it normal for my boyfriend to be getting turned on by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend watches a lot of the BDSM type porn. The other night, we were in bed watching TV. I tried to intiate sex, but he claimed he was too tired. We were watching a criminal investigative type TV show. They showed clips of a girl that tied up and being sexually ... (221 words)

How do you know if she's had sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - how do you know if a girl has had sex/lost her virginity?... (12 words)

My own words have come back to bite me! how can I get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - me and my boyfriend of 3 years tend to argue and not see each other for a week or 2. i always maintained if any girl comes between us at any time that its over. he`s recently found out through a so called friend of mine that i myself had sex with a guy i used to work with. he ... (123 words)

Is it possible to have a life and be happy after everything that has happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) age - I have a very sad story. I have two son, who are addicted to crack,or other drugs. 3 other children are doing ok. But our life is ruined,because,I can never stop worry ,and feel, I have no right for happiness. We tried to help them many ways,but it does not work. Im so scared ... (134 words)

Depressed and stuck in a rut, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 19 and hate my life, i know there are worse people off then me but i fell really down all the time. all i do is come home from college and sit in my room. all my friends are busy with there boyfriends and i dont know what to do i have tried finding a boyfriend but everytime ... (71 words)

Is my boyfriend lying about the missing condom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i noticed that a condom was missing from mine and my boyfriends stash he got mad when i asked him about it and then he said later that last time we had sex he used two to help him last longer. I didn't notice but we have been together for six years and he has never done this ... (72 words)

Boyfriend cheated on me with my friend, can I trust him again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We have been extremely happy together. We hardly have even have gotten into fights. Recently I have noticed that he has been a little more distracted. Our friend did move in with us a month or so ago. We have been friends with ... (493 words)

Damsel in distress is threatening my relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently published a question on here about a woman texting my boyfriend everyday that I was with him. We finally had a real talk about it last night and he opened up more and told me why he texted her. She told him she was suicidal, she also, told him that her sister has ... (241 words)

Advice on role playing needed please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I want to do role play with my boyfriend and I've already bought the outfit. I want to be a slutty nurse... could anyone give me any advise on what to do and say. I have done a bit of role play before but never done it properly. Any tips and advise please... tha... (60 words)

How do I explain my born-again virginity to my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I are moving in together in 2-3 months. He is a warm, wonderful person. I recently decided that I want to abstain till marriage. Reason? I hit rock bottom last year. I was partying and drinking excessively, and I accidentally got knocked up from... (208 words)

Is it me or am I choosing the wrong guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I have a problem choosing the right guys. I have lots of guys I flirt with around me, and they flirt back. I got a guy texting me for over a year now, but he's too shy or whatever to really ask me out. This other guy I met at a club went out with me three times, we ... (201 words)

Increase in desire for sex whilst pregnant - is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 8 weeks pregnant me and my partner are very happy and excited although it wasn't planned. thing is before i fell pregnant we would have sex 3-4 times a week, sometimes not even that, but now that im pregnant he seems to want it more, we do it atleast 6 times a week now... (128 words)

Wife rejects my advances then uses a vibrator instead?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (M)

age - I'm 50 and my wife is 48 and we have 2 children in their late teens. Our sex life has never been spectacular. My sex drive has always been much stronger than hers and looking back, I would assume that many married couples have had a much more active sex life than we've had. ... (294 words)

Why do guys always stare at me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Everywhere I go, guys always stare at me, or beep their car horns, or try and chat me up and wolf whistle at me. I can't even walk my dog or go get a pint of milk from the corner shop without getting oggled. I dress appropriately, for example at my college we have to... (170 words)

Should I tell my friend I spoke to him on her behalf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, my friend likes this guy and has done for aagggeeesss and shes been talkin about him loads as hes now single. i suggested she spoke to him. she wouldnt so i said i could have a word with him to see how he feels about it. she wasnt all tooo up for the idea but she was ... (290 words)

Lots of eye contact on the bus, but he doesn't ask for my number!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy who gets my bus and I see him every now and again. When I get on the bus he's already on it, and when I go to sit down I usually go sit at the back while he sits in the middle, and he just looks at me lustfully and in awe when I walk past him and we always ... (353 words)

In love with an old teacher, what should I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have mentioned my problem before but I had to delete it . I have been in love with one of my teachers for months now. My feelings are a little rare because he is 52 and I am 18! He is not married and has no kids and he looks younger than his age. I have a very good ... (193 words)

Can they really not have sex in the morning if they 'have to pee'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend's sex life has been declining. We used to have sex at night about 5 times a week. Now we are down to one, maybe two nights a week. He is usually too tired to do it at night, so we have been having morning sex. Well the recent trend is.. he has to pee in ... (201 words)

Unsure where this relationship is going and afraid of getting hurt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I've got a little dilemma on my hands. I've been seeing this guy for a little over a year now, with no title. We spend a day or two a week together for a few hours because our schedules don't mix at times. He is the only one I'm intimate with, and he "tells" me the ... (168 words)

Going in circles - which of us should back down?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay here it is... I met a guy(we will just call him Steve) a little over 2 years ago and we have gone back and forward for the past 2 years because I don't want to stop dating people until he makes a committment to me and he doesn't want to make a committment to me because he ... (616 words)

Is there a future for me and my fiance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - To give you the background, my fiance and I have been together for nearly three years (engaged for one of those). We were close friends for about a year before we started dating. We moved in together just before getting engaged but have not made any wedding plans. My pro... (365 words)

Will any man love an ashamed ex-prostitute?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2681 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am from an abusive family and at the age of 16 I ran away from home. I am ashamed to admit this but I turned to prostitution. I did this for a few months. It is a dark depressing period in my life. I eventually moved in with a friend from school and her family who are ... (139 words)

Why is my boyfriend going on dating websites?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Ok, so I've found out since a week ago that my boyfriend has set up an adultfriendfinder account. We've been together for almost three years, and the thought of this ruining our relationship is heartbreaking.. But on the other hand, I literally nearly got sick whe... (200 words)

Can your brother be your soulmate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my brother are so close and I'm starting to feel like he is my soulmate. Our parents were terrible and were often violent towards both of us and growing up we were close. Being the older one I tried to care for him and be a "parent" to him. I moved out when I was 18 a... (195 words)

I hurt my GFs feelings, and now shes insecure. how can I fix her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and mygirl have always had an oustanding relationship, the best one of my whole life. The problem with her is that we were a bit to open. we always horse play and be goofy cuz were that comfortable wit each other and sometimes wed throw little jokes around like fat jokes ... (196 words)

2 positive tests..does that mean I am pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - yesturday i took a home pregnancy test (i brought two) i took one yesturday which came out positive right away, then this morning i took the other just to be sure and that also came out positive right away. i brought the tests because i was 3 weeks late on my period and my b... (110 words)

Boyfriend angry we broke up and says "Once a whore, always a whore!"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need your help. I have no one else to turn to about this. I can't talk to my family and I no longer am able to talk to my best friends. This is alittle complicated, my boyfriend and I dated in highschool for 2 years and during that time I did some horrible and immature ... (650 words)

Avoiding a mess with anal sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are thinking about trying anal sex. I'am happy to Try but Iam worried about making a mess or something. Are there any good tips anyone could share with me? Would it be unsafe to take laxatives or something?... (42 words)

Two pregnancy tests say "negative" but I still wonder ....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heya .. am an 18 year old who has been on the implant since middle of december, and i havnt been on my period since. a week ago i had a bit of brown stuff in my knickers just like you get when your just finishing a period and when i wipe my self theres blood but its a realli... (171 words)

I know my rage is out of control but I feel it's justified

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help here guys... My boyfriend and I are in a deadlock over this issue. We have been dating for 2 and a half years, we had a really rough patch about a year ago. He cheated on me, finalised his divorce etc. Now during that period we fought like mad. Obviously he ... (604 words)

I'm 19 and still a virgin. Is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

21 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a male, 19, never had a girlfriend and still and virgin. And now im depressed (well probably not really depressed, i just feel really low) and worried sick about it virtually all the time. I dont really know what it is thats making me worry, i just keep thinking one morning ... (352 words)

How do I deal with her inconsiderate smoking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. My girlfriend arrived three days ago, and she is irritating the hell out of me. I'm highly allergic to cigarette smoke, and she insists on smoking on my apartment. Everything in here smells like smoke, and I'm now having a hard time breathing as a result. I was ... (100 words)

I'm grieving and lonely, and I don't know what I should tell her about my feelings for her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

21 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Two months ago my mom lost her long battle with cancer. We are from another state on the other side of the country and none of our relatives were able to come to the funeral. I have no brothers or sisters. My dad passed from a heart attack last year. My best friend and his ... (314 words)

She said I was telling her "I love you" too much, I was too obsessed and too soft! What does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear readers, i’m wih my gf practecly 11 months.And last 2 weeks it’s been a bit difficult, we’ve been arguing each day for nothing.I’ve tried to give her space it worked for a couple of days, bu tthen it began again.her motives were too much work,and family problems.It’s been ... (127 words)

Girlfriend has stopped giving oral...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

21 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Ive been with my girlfriend 2 years now, things are good and we are planning to move in together in the next few weeks. In the bedroom though i have a real issue, oral. At the start, she gave oral regularly (2 or 3 times a week) and said she got off on how it tur... (295 words)

Why is my ex acting so immature?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend whom I broke up with over the phone doesn't want to talk to me so its kind of like we didn't have a closure which now I don't care if we ever do because we haven't talk since. He went back out with his previous ex girlfriend and because we hang with the same ... (127 words)

Is it the right thing to do to warn a partner we might not look so great when naked?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I think as we get older, we become a bit less selfish. But even though that is a good thing, it is a shame that we start to put on a bit of weight. Then when we strip naked before having sex, we have to warn the other person that we might not look as good as expected. Is this ... (109 words)

I have my first session with a counsellor coming up, any advice on how to go about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Ive posted before about a problem ive had about visiting prostitutes and feeling lonely. ive now decided this is a sexual addiction I have and want to see a counselor. Im going for the first session on Saturday with a relate counselor and wanted advise on how to go about ... (144 words)

My partner keeps changing her story about her past, what should I believe?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

21 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - ive been with my partner for 6 years and at the start she told me she had 4 previous partners and liked making me jealous, and it worked and as time went on i asked her how the sex was with them, then all of a sudden she said she only slept with 3, then she said 2 and now she ... (73 words)

I'm in love with my teacher but he shows no interest in me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. please help me i have had hhe same Health and Physical Education teacher for the past 3 years. I am 15 turning 16 at the end of the year. I have completely fallen for him. He is 30 with a wife and two adorable children. I dream about him every night and when i have spor... (158 words)

My wife is not sure she wants to be with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - MY WIFE IS NOT SURE SHE WANTS TO BE WITH ME I've been with my wife for 10 years but now tells me she does want children but not sure if it's with me and that she doesn't think she has feelings for me any more. We've had loads of really good times, I have quite a good job... (386 words)

What should I do? I love him, but he keeps hurting me....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

21 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, Well first a little background. I am gay, fully out to my family and friends and I am accepted by all of them. My boyfriend is bisexual, hes not out to anyone in his family and only out to a few friends. his family is very conservative compared to mine, and when... (368 words)

After only 2 months together my girlfriend thinks I'm boring! How can I change this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 2 ish months says i'm boring. What should i do to make her feel that i'm not boring. Our relationship is still new but i must say that we've been through a lot of things together. Please help! I need guidance for this because i'm afraid that she'd leave me b... (71 words)

I want a boyfriend! How do I go about getting one when I am the only gay in my school?

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21 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I am in my teens and I'm gay. I've been masturbating to gay sex like millions if time and I feel pleasured but the thought that makes me have an orgasm is having a boyfriend and there's no gays in my school except me but no one knows. Masturbating is a way to lower your ... (82 words)

Do I go for "True happiness" or "This is alright"

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21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Right I'm going to skip the nonsense and get straight to the point. I've been with my partner for two years. He has problems due to an accident. He is on a hell of a lot of medications and shows no interest in sex. He is snappy and no matter what he does considers himself ... (330 words)

My ex's cousin wants me to go out with him but I don't want to

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21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so im 15 years young recently i've been saying im over my ex alot of times yet i know im not in fact i think i love him my ex boyfriend.my exboyfriend cousin likes me hes always calling me and seening how am i doing and when im not in the mood he brightens up my day he sees me ... (296 words)

What's going on with my girlfriend?

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21 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - What is going on with my girlfriend? We've been dating for over a year and everything has been going really great. She has been very sweet and everything. However a few weeks ago she went away on a volunteer trip with a group of girls for her college. She got back and everythi... (323 words)

Is his 'busy at work' an excuse?

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21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - For 4 months I chatted to a man over the internet, things had been going really great. Then all of a sudden he stops emailing, texting and calling…completely. 2 weeks went by and I had had not seen him online at all which I thought was rather strange considering he was onlin... (242 words)

Is this prof coming on to me?

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21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I go to college, and I have one professor that's always taken a shining to me. I noticed this first when he tried to help me get a job by introducing me to an employer and praising me in front of him. One day I stayed back to finish an assignment, and we got to talking.... (458 words)

Best friends, or not?

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21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, honestly, by best friend was a guy, but I never liked him more than a friend, I just want to make that clear. Here's my problem though, I had told him something that I didn't want anyone else to know, because it was REALLY private, then one day he just blurted it out during ... (259 words)

Is the relationship over; what should I do?

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21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my fiance now for 5 years we just recently got engaged, I understand I am really young, I am almost 21; but I am really mature. I go to college full time, work part time, and I have had a struggling past through growing up. My fiance helped me through my ... (154 words)

Family is moving and it hurts

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21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well... This is kinda a big deal to me...and i feel awfully guilty. Anyway my parents are deciding to move to another town than the one im living in now...When I first moved to B. I hated it. I loath it. Then I reached High School and I begin to love it. I love all my curr... (307 words)

This dream make me scared to sleep

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21 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, So all I need is some advice or interpretations on this. I've been having this same dream for the past few nights that I keep waking up crying from. So it starts like this... I'm in a black room all alone and I have this feeling of complete sadness like the sadnes... (314 words)

Boyfriend was molested by his sister

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21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known my boyfriend for a total of 5 years, 8 months out of which we have been together. We were very fond of each other as friends and are now in a great, loving relationship. Four months ago, he confided in me about something extremely personal. He said that he was... (476 words)

Is eight guys too many?

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21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this is kind of stupid to ask but i just want to know people's opinion (go easy please :P) i am 18 and over the last 2 years i have had sex with 8 guys. is that too many? does that make me a slut? only 3 of the guys was i in any sort of relationship with. idk im just ... (62 words)

She's curious about a girlfriend

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21 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - recently i have noticed a string of changes between me and my girlfriend. on sunday evening, she opened up and told me while she is in love with me, there is another person who she shares feelings for. i am male, the other person is female. she says she doesn't want to m... (205 words)

Do girls care about circumcision?

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21 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I m uncircumcised I don't know if it's going to be a problem ,i got pretty good size 9 inch and i can pull my forskin back pretty long way and it's not causing me any issues in bed ,and all women have a great pleasure during sex. Since now no women ever complained because i ... (215 words)

Am I making too big an issue about this birthday event?

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21 April 2010 (F) - a friend is having a birthday party..and one part includes her paying for a few of her friends to take a pole dancing class..i have taken the class with her but i am just not that good at it..i can't really do the spins or anything etc...i didn't feel that much pressure b/c its ... (211 words)

She only sees me as a co-worker and friend

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21 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Well about three weeks ago, I started asking this girl at my work place for lunches and hanging out. I thought we were hitting off pretty well. We chatted during our lunches about each other. She even wanted to work out with her so that I will get back into shape. I told my ... (173 words)

I love her, yet I know she could do so much better for herself!

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21 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend now for about 2 weeks, I have never had a problem with going the distance before until recently it has become a problem. Im 20 years old, I hav alot of debt from petty fines, Im quite poor as i am unable to get a job until my court date in a ... (185 words)

My boyfriend of only one month is avoiding me!

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21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i'll just get right to the point. My boyfriend of only 1 month is avoiding me. He stoped calling and hardly ever emails. The last time he emailed he cancelled a date so I called him to say it was all good and I would talk to him later. He acted fine on the phone he told me ... (231 words)

Falling in love with my teacher...

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21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this huge problem...well its not new actuelly seeing that people my age are having them also...but..I feel so confuse. Anyway...I have a feeling im falling in love with my teacher. He's new, just start teaching my class about after Christmas. He's fresh out of college,... (340 words)

How do you confess your feeling to a shy guy without scaring him off?

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21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you confess your feelings to a guy who is very shy without scaring him off as he is a good friend and you want to be more than friends but you don't want to ruin your friendship with him?... (41 words)

She says she is pregnant!

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21 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I started sleepin with this girl in the begining or march. She had he period like 2 weeks later. She called me yesterday and said that she is pregnant. Is it to soon for that to show up on a pregnancy test? Please help.... (44 words)

He never wants to go out, spend any money or do anything!

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21 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ever since the beginning of the year I have felt different towards my boyfriend of 6 years. I used to feel a connection, but now not so much. We still get on very well, but it's like we have separate lives, despite the fact that we live together. When I cook dinner for us, h... (284 words)

He is TOO confusing.

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21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in High School and have already experienced my first love and heart break. Before my last break up I constantly flirted with this guy and I found him handsome, intriguing, smart, funny, endlessly fascinating, and just special. He always paid me attention but I had a ... (269 words)

Could I be attracted to this employee?

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21 April 2010 (F)

age - I have a terrible problem. I am a 50 odd year old female and a manager at a very successful company. I am quite a strict manager. I admit I can be a bit rotten to a certain few of my underlings. I have always been terribly mean to one of my younger girls. She is the n... (457 words)

My boyfriend can't make friends

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21 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I moved to this new city 2 years ago for school. Back home, he had a few friends but they've understandably drifted apart. Here, he has no social outlet besides me. My poor guy tries to make friends but he just can't. He has no one he can just call up to ... (188 words)

He's being a jerk to me! Brainstorming needed please!!!

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21 April 2010 (F)

age - hi i have been with my bf since last august, but there's been trouble in paradise, so to speak. at first everything was i love you and you love me and all this planning and dreaming ... we'd met through an online service quite by accident...but we would talk and then met, hi... (911 words)

Is my lack of desire to have sex and hold an erection all psychological?

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21 April 2010 (M) age - Hello there! I'm asking a man advice here... I'm in such a bad situation. So a few years ago, I lost my erection, now it looks like forever. It was in a middle of an intercourse with my wife. Suddenly it collapsed and since than I slowly lost all my abilities to have sex, and ... (137 words)

Does my girlfriend want to take time out from me???

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21 April 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Here's my situation: I am in a long distance relationship with a woman, and things are as good as they can be from a distance. We meet online every night, and talk on the phone every day, and we have visited each other several times, She's in The South, and I'm on the east ... (430 words)

Am I a sick person???

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21 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When I was around 12 years old I remember humping my little sister's legs a few times. She is 6 years younger than me, I remember one time she asked me to do it (she thought it was a game), realizing what I was doing was wrong and feeling ashamed I immediately stopped and ... (93 words)

He's not in my life any more and I'm sooooo miserable!

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21 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with him and now i'm really sad. at school he doesn't seem to mind that we broke up, he even seems happy about it, but after school my texts my cousin alot cussing her out and blaming her for us breaking up. she doesn't like him so he assumes she was the one to ... (192 words)

How can I show her that I trust her?

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21 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, i have a bit of a concern/ worry for my gf. Its a bit mixed up, but: She thinks that i do not trust her much, when my questions are general noseyness and not wanting suprises. She knows i trust her, she asks if i would like to look through her phone or her e-mails ever... (608 words)