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He comments on other girls and keeps looking at them!

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Question - (22 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2010)
A female India age 36-40, *eema shahid writes:

hi am married for 2 years nw and when i go out with my husband for a movie or to a restaurant and when he finds some good looking girls he tells me look at that girl she is so pretty for example she is so lean or she has beautifull complexion or beautifull hair and he would look back at the female atleast 4-5 times and it really puts me off thinking what is he upto.. please help what does this indicate..

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (22 April 2010):

Honeygirl agony auntHun, turn the tables on him.... start doing the same whilst looking at other men.... Wait for his reaction - he will probably not like it at all - then you can explain to him what he is feeling is what you feel when he keeps on talking about other women!

Honeygirl

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A female reader, Just Diana South Africa +, writes (22 April 2010):

Just Diana agony auntIt means he has no respect for you. There is nothing wrong with appreciating the opposite sex, or same sex, while you are in a relationship, however there are ways to do this. The first look is free, the other will cost on some level and the way your partner is doing it, is costing the relationship. He is being selfish.

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A female reader, rambini United Kingdom +, writes (22 April 2010):

rambini agony auntthis is something you need to be asking your husband. only he can tell you why he does it, and only he can change his behaviour. you need to talk to him and explain that it makes you feel hurt and doubt his fidelity.

if he knows how much it upsets you he may stop doing it, and if he doesn't then you need to seriously question how much he values your relationship.

best of luck x

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