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Is there any way to prevent myself from thinking I could lose her?

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Question - (22 April 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2010)
A male United States age 26-29, *randomguywholikesagirl writes:

I need some help about this. It's been a pretty good couple months going out with my girlfriend. But it's like every minute i spend worrying i could lose her. I don't think it's normal to think this. I trust her 100% but i just live my life thinking that i could lose her. Can you tell me if there's any way to prevent this?

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (22 April 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntLife has got no guarantees and it is full of uncertainties. Live from each day to another and stop worrying about the future. Enjoy the present and accept whatever it may bring.

Try to think positive always.

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A female reader, Elainey Singapore +, writes (22 April 2010):

You are thinking about a question that may not happen at all. Just live at the moment and if things are going to happen it will happen be it good or bad. So don't worry too much, just enjoy your moments with her.

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A male reader, arandomguywholikesagirl United States +, writes (22 April 2010):

arandomguywholikesagirl is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Woah..... geez. You should seriously be like a motivational speaker or something haha. Definitely made me feel better haha. I'll try to live for the moment now. Thanks!

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A female reader, Just Diana South Africa +, writes (22 April 2010):

Just Diana agony auntYou are insecure. Build on your self esteem. Start thinking of yourself as the best thing that has ever happened to her....and not the other way round. Come on! - YOU are the best thing that has ever happened to this woman! Your fear will end up smothering the both of you. Let go....be.....just be....let go of what could happen, might happen.......live in the now as corny as that sounds. You are so afraid of lossing here in the future that it presents you from being with her in the now.........let go........just be and enjoy her here and now.

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