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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need help to bring feelings into the open with colleague please!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age - Mod note: OP's own title Please can you advise me on my problem. I have been very intensely attracted to someone I work with for months and need to sort it out so that I can move on or do something about it. The feeling between us is so intense that I can hardly breath. ... (531 words)

Why is he only showing interest after I gave up and settled for friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - 6 months ago I gave up all hope of nabbing Mr.Married to his job/too busy for a relationship but recently it seems he has taken up more of a personal interest in my life. Who am I seeing? Any one catching my interest? Stating that I shouldn't date anyone and just focus on ... (104 words)

Boyfriend wants a break after 6 years for no explained reason. Help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2631 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. We have had a long distance relationship(the 1st 4 yrs we were 3 hrs away) then 5th yr he moved to Europe for school and we decided to stay together. I loved to europe to to join school as well. Now this yr he has been really fussy ... (294 words)

All of his exs are on facebook..should he delete them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner and I are having problems. Relationship problems. We have been together nearly 10 yrs and have broke up once 2 yrs ago by his choice. At that time he promptly married. To make a long story short he decided he loved me again and wanted to be with me and left his ... (561 words)

Boob jobs usually end in divorce?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2321 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all, enjoyed the site so I thought I would join and ask a few "burning questions" to hear what a different group thinks. Please bear with me, I'm not trying to come across as accusing ANYONE of anything with this question/statement/opinion but I'm simply relaying my own ... (527 words)

He likes me, he loves me, but does he REALLY?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my friend have been getting closer lately. He's told me he likes me and i like him. he has been wanting me to kiss him and hes told me he wants to have sex with me. but he only tells me he wants to screw me, when hes drunk. but hes always telling me he likes me and loves ... (67 words)

I like the wrong guy?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, there are two potential boyfriends in my life: Guy A and Guy B. Guy A is totally perverted, kind of mean, but pretty good-looking. Guy B is really, really nice, smart, religious, outgoing, fun, and, on paper, my soul mate. The thing is, I like Guy A, and I hate it. He's ... (138 words)

Why does he ask me these strange questions in bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for almost 1 year with my guy. We both have previous marriages and have dealt with a lot of "Drama" from both sides over the past year. Our sex life is great! Every night.. and sometimes more than once in a night. Lately (about 2 months now) he ... (180 words)

I'm not sure if I am being played or he is just shy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so there is a guy, and we have been friends for over half a year now, we talk online A LOT and in school. I catch him staring at me sometimes, trying to catch my attention and he often jumps into conversations I am having with other people. I have analysed his body lan... (250 words)

No one remembers his birthday, should I greet him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Probably this question has been posted many times but I just missed the chance to read it. Last month, I told my ex that I prefer if we stop communicating. I have always asked him before but he would just pop out again about a week or two. But now it's been a month and I gu... (230 words)

I want to share a place with someone but not a boyfriend or my parents... any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was diagnosed with the mental illness (bipolar) over a year ago when I was 21, now you're probably looking at this and thinking then you deserve to be alone but what's a plan for not living alone that doesn't include my parents as life partners? I'd dated but never had a ... (54 words)

Lusting is wrong... or is it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Yeah, im a 16 year old kid and having some issues with myself, mostly to do with lust. I know that lust is wrong. When i used to lust it made me want to masturbate. When i did, it felt normal. When i fell in love for the first time i stopped because it felt wrong and it made me ... (159 words)

Is it okay to date my ex's friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago and he has moved on with another girl already. The thing is i now have developed feelings for one of his Bestfriends. I have known him all my life and we have some history. I'm not trying to get back at my ex because thats ju... (90 words)

Could this scare away any future relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I have to be honest here. I'm 26 and I am a virgin and I never had a real g/f before. Now there's nothing wrong with me and I am attractive. For 6 years I've been in school getting my bachelors studying architecture so for those of you that don't know this takes away from ... (196 words)

Does he really care for me... or does he just want inside my pants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy through an online dating site, we emailed back and forth for about a nite and texed about a week, went out on the first date and was instantly attracted to each other. We are both busy with school around this time of the year so in the beginning, we either hung ... (544 words)

My relationship is a real mess... I need your help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, well i need some advice on what i can do about my 4 year relationship, I met my partner 4 years ago, at first we were happy and it was as if i was dreaming, my bf took my then 7 month old son like he was his own, and to this day he has alays been there for him,we then ... (862 words)

My comfort eating...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Well the thing is I'm 12 stone and in my early teens and I have really big issues with my weight! I have fake friends (basically 2 faced but to the extreme and one of them is my cousin) and they used to like me but I went depressed and they were really annoyed with me and then ... (234 words)

Weird fantasy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hello, thanks for your time! I'm 18 and in a long distance (Leeds to London) relationship with a man who is 45, he travels down every other weekend, it's been over a year we've been together now... To spice things up some more we decided we'd admit our fantasies... I said ... (110 words)

She says she doesn't want to be FWB but isn't that what we are??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How do I figure this girl out, before I start I have to say that I am a typical young bloke who is very open and honest. I am very attracted to a girl I work with and we have worked together for about 4 years, we flirt all the time, I was straight forward with her and sai... (239 words)

I'm leaving college in 2 weeks, how can I keep in touch with my teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm leaving college in two weeks for study leave and exams, and hopefully, if I don't have to resit a year, I'll be leaving for good. I've liked one of my teachers for almost the entire two years I've been in college, and have reason to believe the feelings may be mutual. I ... (263 words)

Why does my fiance have the desire to look at porn when we have a healthy sex life?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need a man's perspective on an issue. Me and my fiance have a healthy sex life. I, unlike some women, have a sex drive (I'm not a slut, I am very faithful to him). I try to keep things interesting in the bedroom and I never refuse him when he wants it, unless there are... (227 words)

Is my girlfriend cheating on me... while on the phone with me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I think my GF is cheating on me. I travel for work and I called her the other night and was really horny so we had phone sex. It just seemed too real. We were fantasizing about having sex and she starts getting into it a bit, but as time progressed and we talked dirty s... (181 words)

Will she tell me she wants anal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Will women just come out and say what they want? My wife originally was anti-anal, wouldn't even let me get close. As time has gone on, things have progressed and it was first playing around the outside of her anus, then pinky penetration, then tongue penetration, and now ... (198 words)

What have peoples' experiences been with the implant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I've had the implant done a month ago and I know the doctor has told me the advantages and disadvantages, but i'd like t know from someone else's point of view what it acctually does t you. Thanks... (46 words)

Should I try to figure my ex out or just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I went nc for about a month. Finally on my bray I answered and we talked. She texted later and wanted to meet up sme time in a week. We met and flirted, touched and acted kinda like old times. Over the weekend her rebound guy came to visit her and I felt kinda betrayed. She ... (358 words)

Should I take this job with my half-brother despite our history?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some serious help my older Brother moved in with us when I was 16 we have the same father but not the same mother... but he needed a place to go and my mom let him stay with us he was 17 at the time ...I've seen him a couple of times when we were younger but we didn't ... (300 words)

I really hope this doesn't mean I'm asexual

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's something strange going on in my brain O_o. I posted a question here about a month ago asking about sexuality and I said that even though I had always liked boys, I had lost interest in them and now liked girls, I wanted to know if my sexuality would change alot during ... (260 words)

Is sex painful for me because of too much masturbation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Cupid, I am 22 year old Chinese. I was raised in Hong Kong and received my higher education in the UK. I lost my virginity to my current boyfriend in late January. I have been sexually active for three months now. I never had vaginal intercourse before I met my boyfrie... (371 words)

If they cheat once, will they always cheat again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My former best friend got out of a terrible divorce. Then he got together with another woman after the divorce who cheated on him with several people. He found out by catching her in bed with a guy from work. She slept around with other people from their work as well. They... (140 words)

Husband says he loves me too much to cheat but signs are pointing otherwise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my husband is having an affair with someone he works with. I caught them chating on facebook and told him I did not like it and he said he would stop. The other day he told me he had to work late and his phone was in his locker but when I checked his phone later I saw ... (279 words)

Marriage in trouble. I can't stand my wifes weight or how she dresses

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2937 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - *OP's own title* I am a male, 44 years old. My wife is 41. We’ve been married for 15 years and have one 10 year-old daughter. For the last several years I’ve been unhappy with my wife’s appearance. In my opinion she needs to lose about 15-20kg of weight. She also dresses in ... (1230 words)

Am I obsessed with my boss, or just crushed because I can't have him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had a "crush" on my boss for the past year. (please no lectures on dating the boss- its not happening but can't help what I feel) I can't stop thinking about him even though I know he does not feel the same way. His mood when I see him determines my mood. My daily ... (138 words)

Why won't he initiate sex or tell me what he wants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age - I am a sexually assertive woman who is concerned that my boyfriend does not initiate sex or tell me what he wants. I enjoy sex and BJs and like to start the day with a BJ but it is always me initiating sex - sometimes I feel like I am bothering him. While the sex is great, I ... (115 words)

My boyfriend pressures me to join him in binge drinking.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was hoping someone could help me with this problem. I am in a 3 year relationship with my boyfriend. We are ending college and recently he has been pressuring me to drink heavily. It has nothing to do with sex or anything like that its just every time he drink, he drinks ... (217 words)

First he says he loves me, ...then says he never had any feelings for me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I mentioned 4 months ago that my boyfriend said he was laeving the country for good and he had to look afdter his parents and tahthe couldnt take me with him becaus ethat place isnt for me, conditions are not suitable to live being a thirdworld country. and I wont f... (377 words)

He wants big wedding, I want small , what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem, my boyfriend and I want to get married, problem is, he wants a huge wedding with everyone he's related to at it and all his friends (he's got loads). I was never really into the whole wedding day idea. I want to get married but thing is I don't have many ... (129 words)

Be silent and keep her or speak up and lose her??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - *OP's own title* We were classmates in kindergarten then she transferred to another school in grade school.. in highschool we were classmates again up until 2nd year.. then she transferred again to another city. we lost contact for 10 years and then we got reconnected onli... (209 words)

My boyfriend cheated and got another girl pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - please help im 19 years old. my boyfriend{of 2 years} and i agreed that we would take a break because he was going to jail.. when he was in jail we talked once a week..and both agreed that when he was out we would get back together. he got out of jail cupple weeks ago and asked ... (205 words)

Should I tell her that her Fiance is a cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, here's the problem, my boyfriends' best friend is a cheat. He's been dating this girl for 4 years and they've recently got engaged. Thing is everyone in our social group knows that this guy has cheated on his now fiance in the last 4 years. He's been seen out with other ... (176 words)

Manipulative best friend.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my best friend i say loosely...her mother introduced me to her brother behind her back...and when we were introduced we hit it off right away...then she began telling him stuff like ..don't get into an arguement with her or she will scream and go off and hit you...and that is ... (261 words)

We can't seem to let go of each other even tho he is married.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age - HI ,some advice please but no moral judgments thanks. I have been in a relationship with a married man for what seems like forever about 8yrs and before that about 3yrs same man we had a period where we had no contact because i had moved away. While i know he doesn't love me ... (187 words)

He promised me forever, ...but here I am single after only 4 months.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend, we were only together for 4 months but he pormised we'd always be together, and he was moving away..and promised me long distance would work. However after a week we broke up :( He's over it completely and we're still friends but i still ... (64 words)

Getting cold feet on marriage coz he likes dirty talk.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my bf for a long time, since we have a long distance relationship we have decided not to have sex till we get married, we are going to get married early next year, but i dont know whether i want to go through with it. because mainly i dont think i want a guy wh... (115 words)

Does watching gay porn mean I am a lesbian?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi last night i had a dream i was having lesbian sex with a stunning blonde girl, and lately i have also been masturbating to lesbian porn. im a girl and have a boyfriend who i love been with him for years and im definatly sure of my sexuality, im 100% straight and only eve... (111 words)

Has too much happened for us to have a chance of making it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I can't believe this happened the way it did but here goes. I went to a party with a girl I have been trying to get interested in me for weeks. She got extrememly drunk and she passed out. I took her to my place and she kinda woke up a little bit and she was really coming ... (324 words)

Why cant he just admit he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Men irritate me lol. So I've known this dude for a few years now. I'm not sure if I like him, but I kinda think he likes me. This one time he comes up and stands to the side of me. He just kept staring at me- i kept on waiting for him to stop and to go into the room or whatever ... (245 words)

I am unable to forget my flirtation with my former boss, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi guys I need someone there to tell me whether I am doing the correct thing or not with regard to my extra marital flirtation? I fell for the extraordinary knowledge of my boss in each and everything be it his own field or something elso and should admit that I was attr... (461 words)

How can I stop feeling so sorry for myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have to be honest and tell you all some pretty shocking things about myself. I have a self-pity complex. I often walk laps of the local lake and wonder what could have been. I live in the past. My quesion is...How can I stop feeling sorry for myself? How can I start my ... (177 words)

My husband avoid talking about having a baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for 3 months already. We went for tests because it's been 2 years since we started dating and we never used a condom and never have I fallen pregnant well test came back that we both have a problem anyway when I try to talk to him about ... (184 words)

I'm 9 weeks pregnant but have no symptoms! Is my baby ok?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 9 weeks pregnant. im worried because i haven't had hardly any pregnancy symptoms, i have not had any sickness, at first i had really sore boobs but now they are fine and not sore at all, the only three things i have had is urinating a bit more and tired and of course missing ... (81 words)

I miss the man that sexually abused me as a child! I want a friendship with him but can a leopard ever change it spots?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice, When I was 13 I met a man who was almost 60, and we struck up a bizarre friendship. He understood me and advised me as I was having a lot of personal problems. He took care of me, he gave me lifts places, he listened to me, and i was always welcome just to ... (578 words)

I just don't know how to walk away from him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - well, my Bf keep cheating, dating chatting on facebook. he denied that we are actually together once. i walked out and i came back to him.it's like there's something dragging me to him all the time. He hurts me badly, he doesn't care, he chat with that woman almost everyday. I ... (110 words)

I'm starting to feel he doesn't value me as much as I do with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a long story so I'll try my best to shorten it. I have been in a relationship with a guy for nearly a year now. He won't call me his girlfriend ( I can't sleep over his house or go on trips with him and the fact he was in a 5 yr relationship prior is his reason.. He ... (365 words)

My girlfriend says our relationship will be over if I join the army but I don't think I have any other options!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all, any advice on this is greatly appreciated.Im 19 and my girlfriends 18, weve been together since we were 16, and i can honestly say i think we will be together for many more years, there's just one thing that might prevent that, the army. I fooled around in school... (506 words)

My friend is planning on breaking up with her and I am besotted with her! Should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, so I'm a bit confused romantically right now, I'm currently single, but my best friend has been dating this girl for a few weeks now. I find her completely beautiful both physically and mentally. He however does not feel the same way about her and is actually about to break ... (196 words)

Should I go for it despite being unsure if he is gay or straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am in love with my best friend but he's been in many straight relationships but after looking at everything I think he's gay too but it's against his religon! Well my best friend that was a really nice person that always helped me and when my friends ran off after I ... (257 words)

Can I trust this man to take photos of my girlfriend and her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - First of all I should start by saying that I have trust issues to begin with that I'm not proud of, but they're hard to get rid of. Basically the story is this, my girlfriend told me she was bisexual and we decided that it would be a nice way to spice up our relationship to ... (141 words)

Our sex life is so limited, how can I get her to open up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - *MOD NOTE - I have combined two of the OP's questions for clarity* My girlfriend, has had anal sex before, she said it hurt and she never tried it again. I truly doubt this. she had asked me about it before. i told how i was unsure and she left it at that. i feel like in our ... (229 words)

How long should a girl stick around for just because she loves the guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi out there. I was wondering if anyone has rekindled a relationship with someone who it just wasn't working with originally, and managed to resolve the issues? Problem is, I'm head over heels for this guy who I've spent most of my adult life with, but he has suffered depr... (456 words)

I can't move past the fact he slept with someone else while we were not together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, I posted a question about my issue here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/cant-let-go-of-a-past-one-night.html I have discovered something else now and I'm hoping some of you can help me For those of you who don't want to read the previous post the questio... (430 words)

Is it wrong that I am only dating him because he is a Doctor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys , This isn't so much as a problem but I would just like some thoughts. Last month I was on my mates hen weekend and whilst we were in a local pub another group of guys started chatting to us. None of them particulaly good looking. Now 1 of them started talking to... (208 words)

Does he love me and is this girl more than just a good listener?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,Im 17 this year and my bf is 19 this year. we had been together for 3 years plus going to 4 years. For the past 3 years,I think I've treated him badly, Im always nagging and angry him over a small thing. We breakup many times but ended up together too,because we k... (1002 words)

My violent drug-using ex is threatening me and my family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone.I have a trouble with my ex boyfriend.OK! I'm gonna start tell u how we met.I working at 7eleven. I am cashier.He was my regular customer.Last Christmas we're start talking and make the long story short.We were dating after christmas.On New Year we jump to the next ... (452 words)

Her actions suggest one thing, her words another?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl in my college..and we are best friends she lets me hold hands and is really comfortable with it.. she just broke up 6 months ago.She says that I am better than her ex.. but when i ask her out she says dat she doesn't love me.. she says she just likes me.. ... (76 words)

Divorced and alone, how can I make my life more fulfilling?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok Here we go I will try this .I am a 43 yr old woman who has been married for 28 yrs Always with my husband until he ask for a divorce in feb. of 2008 and then he moved out on his own.I missed him badly but come to realize he wasnt coming back home so i learned to deal with ... (237 words)

Is she stressed, scared, or over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey, i am dating a 19 year old girl, and im 23. we met in december, quickly because close friends, and started to fool around. she had a short term boyfriend, whom after dating for two weeks, was sent to korea for half a year. she quickly there after was romantic with me, and ... (370 words)

Boyfriend has issues with my nude modelling.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and were friends prior to that for approximately 2 years. When we first met, I was a fine art model. I posed nude for photographers and artists. This wasn't a problem until he started to care about me on a more deeper ... (253 words)

Am I being too nit picky? Should I try to reconcile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old and my ex-boyfriend, whom I broke up with yesterday, is 26. I am considering calling him to reconcile/talk and am not sure if this is a good idea. My boyfriend is a wonderful man-- tender, very physically affectionate (borderline physically clingy, but I enjoy ... (899 words)

Boyfriend says he could never marry me because I hate my own mother.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My mother does not support me in anything. I'm in my 3rd semester in college working on a crimal justice bachelors degree. Shouldn't I parent be proud? I guess they should but she isn't. She calls me "worthless" and worst things. So I have tried to reach out a to her. Every ... (283 words)

Our daughter went missing whilst oversea's 4 years ago. How do I let go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Everything I'm about to tell you is true. Four years ago, we had a horrific tragedy occur in the family. We lost our 19 year old daughter to human trafficking. She was a very bright girl; got A's in all her classes and even graduated third in her class. She was also captain... (482 words)

What are the chances I can be pregnant?

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29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m 19 and I had I had protected sex with my boyfriend for the first time on April 23. My period came about the 5 of April usually last about 4 days. My periods are very irregular cannot predict my next one my cycle is typically 30 -35. I believe I was ovulating all the wk from ... (136 words)

My girlfriend got so jealous she threw an iron at my head. Should I dump her?

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29 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating someone for a year now and it has gotten to be very serious. I work the graveyard shift at a resturaunt and a few weeks ago I was very sick and didn't finish my shift. One of the waitresses is a very dear friend of mine lives only a short distance... (650 words)

She says she cant have a relationship coz he ex is stalking her!

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29 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this girl through playing tennis. We were just friends at first. She gives me her number. We speak regularly on the phone, text, e mail etc. Eventually we go on a date. It goes well. There is flirting from both of us, she tells me she wants to go Europe on vacation ... (211 words)

I'd like her as a friend but worry she will reject me.

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29 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. A few months ago I started working with this group of temp workers. We do activities after work and stuff, all in group. A few months ago, I started liking this girl; I thought she likes me because she used to look at me and other signs. A month ago I finally told her I ... (274 words)

How long does losing your virginity hurt for?

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29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am still a virgin but me and friend had almost went all the way and he didnt pop my cherry but almost did. And now Im in a lot of pain. How long will i hurt for? And if we do go all the way, how long will i hurt for?... (52 words)

First Date Nerves.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need your help! I'm finally going on my first date this week. And i'm really scared. Scared of being really shy and have nothing to say. And what if he thinks i'm boring? :O We've already talked once in real life(for like 1 min, that's how we met) but the rest of the time ... (63 words)

How do I tell a guy I won't have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I tell a guy that I want to wait to have sex till I am married? That I am not willing to give it up?... (27 words)

Does he like me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I’m sorry that this is going to be a really long story, but I wasn’t sure what was important or not (‘’,). Well there's this guy at uni (A) which I met a few months ago, but recently I'd say we have become really close friends. Then one day we were chilling with a ... (877 words)

I like this girl and need some tips for asking her out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 13 yearls old and well i like this girl and well im a litle over weight slightly not good looking... and one of her friends hate me. i tried asking her out today but i kind of got well really nervous and decided to kind of walk away, any tips i know i can just ask do you ... (121 words)

Should I have my friend tell him I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I like this guy alot! One of my best friends is friends with him so do I tell my friend I like him or not?... (27 words)

Wondering whether to be honest about 'cheating' before he moves in

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i need advice...bad! i have been with my boyfriend for two years now and we have been through alot together and still have remained in a relationship. things were going to so well but then i kissed another girl. you see i am bi. but this isn't the only thing that has happ... (420 words)

My girlfriend is obsessed with me!

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29 April 2010 (?) age 36-40 - My girlfriend is obsessed with me! We're both 18 and both in out first proper relationship. We've been going out for nearly 3 months now and she's turned into such a bunny boiler it's actually scaring me. Seriously, we're apart for 5 minutes and she bombards me with texts. One ... (253 words)

I said things I shouldn't have said and now he won't talk to me! This is so painful!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am going through a pain like i have never felt before. I'd rather experience physical pain then the feeling i have right now. I had been seeing someone for 3 months. We had a lot of fights and mostly because of me because I would question him on a lot of things due to the ... (222 words)

LDR advice, I love him so much but he makes me feel guilty just for asking him to talk to me. Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I started dating my boyfriend 6 months ago and we fell MADLY in love, either of us had ever felt such intense feelings before and we were incredibly happy. Then a month and a half later I gave my virginity to him, then a week later he travelled back to his moms house (his ... (305 words)

My baby only has his top canines! Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my baby has his two bottom incisors and instead of cutting the top incisors he is cutting the top canines...is this normal?... (22 words)

I get so nervous and queasy around this guy...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I honestly don’t know what the matter with me is. Never in my life have I ever been this nervous and uncomfortable around a guy. I’ve been out on a few dates with him and they went fine. No sparks or fireworks or even instant chemistry. But lots and lots of nervousness. I can’t ... (151 words)

I want to wait until marriage for sex, how can I resist temptation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22, and I finally have a boyfriend, and just lost my first kiss about a year ago. I have always said I'd wait till marriage before sex, but I keep getting tempted. I moved in with him because I had no where else to go. Which is really not helping. We try to hangout in publi... (115 words)

Girlfriend doesn't want sex.

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29 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a college student with a girlfriend of 6 months. We've recently been talking about sex and she mentioned that she does not want to have sex anytime in the near future. We have only been making out with a little groping etc. She is quite high maintenance seems completely ... (99 words)

The spark is gone in our relationship, is this letter appropriate to send?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear all, Okay, where to start, been in relationship for 2 years, at first was the best, everything great and now she says spark has gone etc but whats to be with me, I still have that spark for her but really confused...anyway, I have written her a letter and wanted some ... (1228 words)

How can we get out of the "just friends" zone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with a girl Lora, since we were both in grade 3. We instantly became best friends I always thought she was cute but never really thought about dating her because it felt weird. We hang out all the time and it had caused some problems for the both of us when ... (365 words)