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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I let him finger me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi umm i need help this boy wants to finger mii weve recently dated nd recently brokeup...now he wants to finger mii but im reallly scared can u guys/girls help mii... (31 words)

Was he implying anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - what does it mean when a guy kiss his girl on her forehead or her hand? He is planning to buy a house,so he took me there to see it. what does his action mean? does it mean he include me in his life now? ... (48 words)

Is this going somewhere bad?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my hub is slowly gaining all control over me and getting me into an abusive relationship.. it all started amazing, he was nice in every way. Then he got more angry more easily. He gets mean out of nowhere but is really nice after that but doesn't apologize, just says he ... (138 words)

How do I stomp this clinginess and need for reassurance feeling into the ground before boot camp?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, I just got back together with my ex recently. Right now we are doing the long distance thing until december. My problem is that I can start to feel myself getting clingy. I feel like I need reassurance every day and if we dont have meaningful converstaions every day I get ... (138 words)

He doesn't understand how much it hurt us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I make my husband really see how much pain he has caused me and our children since I discovered his affair? He is very eager to put it in the past and try and move forward. I am too. But I feel like I want him to realize how devastating it is and I don't think he truly ... (62 words)

I'm scared of losing my virginity!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy want to have sex for the first time, but I'm scared out of my pants here. He's not a virgin, and I am, and he said he'd take it slow. Honestly, I'm just freaking out thinking about it. I really think he's the right guy for my first time, but I just can't wrap ... (103 words)

I just want to move on...I don't know how to.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

- Hey people I hope you're well, Okay so in January my ex ended the relationship and the thing is me and him had been through a lot and he is my first love. We were together once before and he ended it I never got over him as you can tell because I stupidly took him back. ... (199 words)

Why did she say she remembers how we used to fall asleep at night together cuddling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So yesterday night my ex and I were talking and randomly she bought up the past between us. She goes "I remembered how we fell asleep together at night cuddling" and I'm thinking oh..boy..i felt like weird after she told me that? I love the girl still after the 4months we broke ... (237 words)

Do you think I still have a chance with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi There's a boy who's been flirting with me for a while. He's always hugging me and saying that he 'loves me', he also goes out of his way to walk me home. At a party we were playing truth or dare, and he admitted that he has got a crush on me. Everyone asked me If I wo... (160 words)

We are going on holidays next month, ..but I don't know if I even want to be with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have bn with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months now and since the start it just seemed doomed!! i recently found out he woz payin to watch girls pleasure themselves on the net, something he has bn doin with previous gfs but they just never found out!! then i had it out with him ... (170 words)

Issues with being bi sexual.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'll try and keep this one as short as possible. So I've had a few relationships in my 24 years. A 9 month relationship with a guy, a 3 year relationship with a woman, a 3 month courtship with a woman and then well I was single for 18 months. See I always thought I wa... (423 words)

I know he is not good for me, but ....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been going out with a guy fot the last year. When we first got together it was brill oh godhe rocked my world, he was sweet but now getting to know him its alot diff.... He doesn work so i pay everything (Which doesn bother me really!!), he dosen like when im... (145 words)

How can I find happiness again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years. As with most relationships, it was absolutely PERFECT in the beginning. Then we found some astoundishing incompatibilities between us which caused problems with jealousy and trust. But we fought to make it work. We're still ... (516 words)

Should I tell my online friend I have developed feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i would really appreciate any advice you can give me as i'm stuck on what to do. i recently met a guy online, i didnt expect anything to happen as i live in ireland and he lives in scotland. for some reason we just clicked in every aspect, we can talk for hours about ... (377 words)

Should I tell him now or at the prom that I really don't like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy asked me to prom a few weeks ago now but I pretended that I'd promised to go with my friends. I really don't like this guy like that or in any way really but because as my friends say, I'm to nice for my own good I agreed to dance with him ( several times ... (128 words)

Can skipping pills leave me at risk of pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Ive recently started the pill and have been really good untill this week, Ive missed 3 days of the pill, and today i had sex where he cum inside me, yeah i have taken the pill 2day as i remembered, but is there still a chance that i could get pregnent, even tho i took it 2day.... (58 words)

Oral Sex - she takes it but wont give it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

9 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married man and i love to have blow from my wife, but my wife dont want to have my pinis in her mouth nor she likes my cum fall on her body. But she loves me licking her pussy. i am not satisfied. how to convince her to give a blow job. please help... (56 words)

Him taking cialis is killing my confidence.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend recently started taking Cialis, and I have no idea why. He gets erections fine and is only 33 years old. We have been together for a while, and he's never had problems getting or maintaining erections. I have always been a very open partner, and we had a very ... (212 words)

Is my boyfriend using me financially?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all heres the thing my bf i think is using me see when i met him he wasnt working and been going around looking for work and things . anyway hes getting benifits and things and just well when he gets paided he will spend it so quickly like in day and then ask me for me m... (156 words)

Is there any future between a muslim girl and a non muslim man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm a chinese non religious man and i'm in love with this muslim pakistani girl. shes also one of my best friends, i've told her that i liked her and she said lets be friends at the moment and i said okay, although i know she likes me too. the problem is i want to start a ... (145 words)

Mr. Right is in all the wrong places

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I have been soul searching for Mr. Right but where is he? I know what I want in a man and its not that my standard are to high because I found all the qualities that I'm looking for yet when I try and date these men that I think are Mr. Right it turns out that the... (428 words)

Acne Problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im having some major problems with skin acne! Ive been to the doctors about 5 times about it and all they've done is given me things that work for about 2 days then the spots all just come back again! ive tried all the leading brands and none of them have worked! my friends ... (97 words)

I am not happy and have not been for a long time and I deserve better. How do I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I move on? Anyone else in the same situation? I would love all the positive feedback I can get on this. We have been married almost 12 years, we have known of each other since middle school. My husband has said he has wanted to be with me as far back as he can remember. ... (527 words)

No vibrator... how can I improvise?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I get a vibrator without ordering it off line and where can I get one that cost less that 20 bucks? What else can I use if i dont have a vibrator or dildo?... (36 words)

Can you love 2 people at the same time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex left me for another girl 8 months ago yet we've still remained in touch. he says he still loves me and would like to think we'll get back together some day. he also admits that he loves her and doesnt know what to do. What's he playing at? You can't love 2 people at the ... (61 words)

She's mad because she thought I wrote it! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so at my study hall at school my friends we screwing around and writing stuff about a girl in that class that i liked. It said something bad about her and me, they told her. That didnt bother me much but now she thinks i wrote it and that im mad at her. What should I do? ... (60 words)

He tells me I blow hot and cold and now the relationship is really messed up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Im really getting fed up of men treating me badly, to the point where I am getting very despondent. After a 2.5 year relatinship with an abuser, we split and I have had a year out being single with the odd date in between, recently I met a great guy off a dating site, and ... (296 words)

2nd cousin and I got close but then things got weird. Now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - please no people saying ewwwwwww gross incest or anything like that...ok so my second cousin (my dad's cousin's son) and i met last year for the first time when i went on holiday to canada..he lives in new york and i live in the uk so we didn't grow up together or anything like ... (528 words)

16-17 year old girl likes 14-15 year old guy?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, I'm not sure if this is a typical occurance, but I haven't been able to find any questions or answers on this topic on here yet. Basically, I have a crush on a younger guy. I have been away for a week on an adventurous training trip, and you end up being quite close with ... (202 words)

Its my life and I should get to be in control? So why is he the one calling the shots?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Following a recent break-up,my ex has been calling and getting in touch with me. We're friends but with the conversations I get annoyed because it seems that he still has control over me, or believes that he does and I need to stop it. Should I ignore all means of c... (258 words)

My friend is dating the guy that I liked first and I'm having a hard time dealing with it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi. ive liked this guy for a really long time, but within a couple of weeks of telling my bestfriend, she says she likes him too. Then, my bestfriend got his email and started talking to him alot on msn. she made us both promise that we would never go out with him if he asked ... (289 words)

I'm terrified something bad is going to happen to the baby. I'm an unlucky person generally!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - took two pregnancy tests, both came back positive right away, it was a huge shock to me as im only 18 i couldn't stop shaking, but i have my family and my boyfriend who are there for me 100%. im 6 weeks pregnant and i decided to keep it, i know its going to be tough bringing up ... (176 words)

Should I let this whole thing go? Or tell him how I feel anyway?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Two years ago I met a foreign guy in place I used to work at. We weren't attracted to each other ( and neither disliked each other). He was in a relationship back then and we just talked a bit for a couple of days until he left work to go back to his country. We didn't keep in ... (324 words)

Did she just reject me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - She said "Ur Crazy" I said "Crazy about you" She said "You are mistaken" I said "LOl. It's true. I am" The she said, "Oops your mistaken again." I said "Lol. Ok I am MISTAKEN!" She said, "I know. It's okay." I was trying to make the situation light, but really it was li... (203 words)

Do I have the right to flip and stop dating him? Or should I ignore the age discrepancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just typed in the e-mail address of the guy I'm currently dating into google, and it came up on 2 websites. They're random websites for cagefighting, but on one it says his age is 23, and on the other it says his age is 24. He told me he was 20 and I know for a fact he's ... (104 words)

Do you think my ex wants just friendship? Why does he come to my house and just sit outside?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, this is going to be really long. Im well into college now, in 2004 i was a sophamore in high school. I met a guy whom was my first love. We were together for a year and a half. I broke things off because he was starting to act like he didnt want me and he didnt try to p... (346 words)

How do I get my dad to realize that my stepmother is the problem too?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hiya, two years ago my dad got re-married and i HATE her. i've written about her before but then it wasn't so bad. she doesn't do anything to me but her even BEING there is awful. i have told my dad this many times but he always takes HER side. saying that its MY fault, t... (187 words)

Questions about drinking and pregnancy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts, I need some insight. I just got married March 27. I found out yesterday my wife is pregnant! :) she took 3 at home pregnancy tests. All positive. We are both so excited. It wasn't part of the plan, but it's a blessing all the same. She just did the bloodwor... (243 words)

Is there any hope that I can get back with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

9 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am still very close to my ex girlfriend. We finished for reasons that were nothing to do with how we felt for each other. I know I definitely still like her and for a while she said we could date again then she said she only cared for me as a friend. We can talk every d... (117 words)

Are men just 'wired' to want to sleep around?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Sandra Bullock. Elin Woods. Shania Twain. Jennifer Aniston. Sienna Miller (both the cheater and the cheatee). Today's news brings information on Gabrielle Beauvouis (can't spell her name) also being cheated upon for 5 years. Kate fucking Gosselin. Elizabeth Hurley. Sarah ... (222 words)

What should I do? Do I tell him the truth or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title* ive liked my brothers best Friend for 4years now:( i think about him all the time. hes soo sweet, charming, caring and very sexy. *when we hug he squeeze me and holds me tight. i really really REALLY like him:( i dont know what to do. *when me him ... (229 words)

My boyfriend is moving too fast for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok well, me and this boy were dating in february and we really liked eachother but then out of no where he broke up with me. We still talked 24/7. We even talked on the phone the night of the breakup. We just still cant get enough of eachother but he kept saying he needed to ... (210 words)

Why can't my boyfriend talk to me about what he is feeling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is being extremely distant. I'm not sure if it's because he is stressed about being in school full time and working full time. Or if it is because he is rethinking 'us'. We have been together 2 years, why can't he talk to me about how he is feeling? When I am down ... (98 words)

I don't feel like I can tell my mum I have got my first period.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, im 13 and yesturday morning, i had blood in my knickers, which im sure was my first period. at first i panicked, but then i calmed my self down and used tissue. i dont feel i can talk to my mum about it just yet, but im worried that it will get out of hand. i have school on ... (124 words)

I told him how I feel about him but he hasn't responded!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do when u tell the guy u like how u feel about him and he says nothing?! I sent the guy I've been dating for 3 months a text after staying over at his for a couple of days that I had a really nice time with him and I really wanna make it work between us and he makes... (119 words)

Does porn improve bj technique

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this one is mostly for the guys.. I was wondering if watching people in porn (i don't just mean pornstars but "amateurs" too) give oral is a good place to pick up tips. What do you think? Would you encourage your gf to copy some of the more porn style techniques if she was ... (60 words)

My girlfriend is texting the guy who likes her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

9 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined into one. What's going on people? Well I found out my girlfriend still texts a guy who she liked and was about to date while we were broken up for a month. We been together 2 years. Yesterday while she was at her internship, I texted her... (367 words)

Is it wrong that I am taken aback by my wife admitting how many people she has slept with?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

9 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my wife are both 30 and been together for 12 months. we recently did the "how many people have you slept with" conversation and she confessed to sleeping with 36 people, mine is 12. am i wrong to feel slightly taken aback by her sleeping with that many people, doesn't ... (62 words)

Fish Odour Syndrome?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a healthy 18 year old girl But ive noticed latley that my down below area has had some kind of odour its not a nasty odour its just quite noticeable. now ive also notcied that my breath has the same smell..ive heard that its called something like fish odour syndrome... (53 words)

I think of myself as a nightmare for a girlfriend but its because of my past!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all any advice on how to help with us will be amazing! So thanks in advance! Im 19 years old, and in university where i met my boyfriend who's 20 years old. Weve been together for 4 months and everything is perfect for him, and everything should be perfect for me, ... (715 words)

I don't want to lose my husband, but I don't want to hurt the 'online guy' by telling him I am actually married either.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

9 April 2010 (F) - i'm 23 years old and married for 2 years now, recently me and my husband has been addicted to this online game, we haven't really have time for each other anymore, we don't go out like we used to. Well, I met this guy from an online game, he was cool and all, i never really ... (257 words)

First date nerves! How can I control this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so here it goes. im 20 years old and i have just started seeing this guy. this is the first time ive dated. ive never even kissed anyone before. but anyways, this entire week ive been sick to my stomach. i even threw up this morning. every time i even think about spending ... (80 words)

B/f accused me of saying he's a player and now doesn't want to see me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a bit confused and need some advice. I am in along distance exclusive relationship. I was talking to my boyfriend during the day .he stated he was just going to go home from work and clean up the house a little. Later that nite i texted him stating having fun yet?...he all ... (144 words)

How can I get confidence to accept me as I am?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this boy on msn through one of my friends and I think he is absoloutely amazing. We've met up a couple of times and I swear I have fallen in love. It seems silly that someone could actually fall in love with someone i've only known for about 2 weeks but I really have, i'd ... (138 words)

Are teenagers confused about their sexuality?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Do teenagers sexuality usually fluctuate? I'm 16 and up until about a year ago I have always considered myself straight. I first liked a guy when I was about 4 years old, and I never really had a time in my life where I didnt like a guy. And I really had strong feelings for ... (212 words)

Single, involved with a married man and know its going nowhere

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am single and seeing a married man who is my colleague (from different department) of 2 years for more than a year now. We are professionals from the same country and working in a foreign country. At the beginning we were just friends. We hung out and lunched with other ... (343 words)

I'm jealous of his online friend and its affecting our marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband is into gaming. At first, I was okay with it. I thought it was a harmless hobby and he was doing some writing for his character. He would have me read his writing and I enjoyed seeing this creative side of him. Now, though, it's starting to hurt. On my birthday,... (612 words)

I'm about to get caught out for lying to my girlfriend.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm going to make this short, Recently I told my girlfriend I've been going to Painting class when I have really been drinking with my friends and just doing guy stuff, Anyhow She wants too see some of my work, Well I cant paint at all, I See this going terribly bad ,What ... (56 words)

I'm dating one brother but have feelings for the other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm in a bit of a mess and need some help. I take responsibility for what's happened as it's my own stupid fault! About 8 months ago I got a part time job in a restaurant working just fri and sat evenings and the occasional sunday. I already have another full tim... (303 words)

Why did my period get lighter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i did sex at a first day of my periods and after that my period get light what is that am i get preganant... (24 words)

Do you consider him as a homosexual or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi please help me out of this. I met this man on the internet and we chat with cam. he's 30 and am 23. we explained ourselves well. i asked him whether he's married or single. he told me that he's married and with one baby girl. the way he chat with me, you might take it he's a ... (244 words)

When should I take the pregnancy test?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It had been 33 days since my last period. I don't know whether I'm pregnant or not. Can I go for pregnancy test or shall I wait for few more days. When will be good time to have test. Please help... (41 words)

LDR making me sad how do I make it a healthy relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in this long distance association for 1 long year now. We met through internet but we're incredibly connected. We like each other a lot and we care for each other. I first fell in love with him and asked him out, But he turned me not. It's not that he doesn't ... (402 words)

Five days late -- could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - On 4th march I had my period. But this month it had been 9th of april but still I didn't get period. Am I pregnant ? How can I be sure ? There are some test strips available in market. Are they good to be believed ? Well they give right result ? I haven't told to my husband. I ... (94 words)

Should I just enjoy his company and not worry about putting a label on it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for over a month.He msgs/we hang daily.Recently he started working ocassionally plus I dont have the gas money to drive over there all the time (he doesnt drive).Lately ive been gettin annoyed cos we'll talk via txt like always but now he doesnt always ... (326 words)

I opened up a little book of hers and started reading about her past...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

9 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old and i met the most amazing girl about 7 months ago. About 2 months into our relationship we decided to have a child together, our parents know and we have talked it through. However she has been sexually promiscuous in the past and has experimented with drugs ... (213 words)

Sex the night before my period -- could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i had unprotected sex the night before my period started but it only lasted a day.can i be pregnant?... (19 words)

I think I'm holding on to something I should let go of

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - OK so this is the final question I have about my ongoing relationship... She won't stop using the dating website and reckons she wants to meet people from all over the world to chat to them. I think it's wrong to be using a dating website if she's settled with me. She say... (371 words)

Yeast infection on penis now peeling! HELP!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Help! Earlier in the week I had a yeast infection on my penis (yes guys get them too). I have had it once before and had read that diluted tea tree oil can help clear it up. I diluted it but not enough and afterwards it sort of burnt. Good news - cleared the yeast infection ... (127 words)

How can I have him choose me over his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We met and have been together since the day we met. We both agree there was an instant connection between us and decided we wouldn't rush things and give our relationship the titles boyfriend girl girlfriend. That was 10 months ago. We don't really argue, talk about the future, ... (172 words)

The longer I stay with him the more I am losing myself!

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9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! All through my life I have never stomached asking other people for help or advice very well. I love to help other people more than anything. Satisfying other people and helping them through tough times always made me feel important...needed. Getting to the point, this is ... (503 words)

Afraid to commit because she seems to have a tendency for flings

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9 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a long distance relationship with a girl I met 4 months ago. Even though we were in college together, we weren't friends until recently when I reconnected with her on facebook. Since then we have been in touch via yahoo messanger and on the phone. We seemed to immedi... (250 words)

Should I have pushed my ex about spending time with me teaching me to drive?

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9 April 2010 (F) - First off, i have been dating and trying to keep busy. Was with my ex for 3 and a half years..it was petty stuff i think that broke us apart.. fighting over things i regret.. no one cheated.. we did have alot of love.. he broke it off... a year later i leave him a vmai... (547 words)

Should I see this married man or wait and see what happend with his wife first?

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9 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - this is a question that i really need answered. i went out with this guy about 16 years ago. for reasons we lost each other. about 10 years ago we found each other. and we were very to have. then about 6 months after that we lost touch again. we found each other about a year ... (312 words)

Leaving for the Navy, ... but my girlfriend wants to get married before I go.

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9 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 23 yrs old, and have been with my girlfriend for about 3 1/2 years now. This isnt including a period of time we were broken up for about 6 months about a year ago. Anyway during this period of singleness, I enlisted in the US Navy. The Navy has been something ive want... (209 words)

Did I injure myself masturbating?

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9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey this is really embarising. Well im 15 and iv never had sex or any thing like that but i do masterbate with this thing i have that works good. Any ways i was usen it in the shower this morning and i was kinda in a wierd position it dint feel that good. A little bit later my... (166 words)

How do I know if I really like him?

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9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i am a junior in hs. this year at my fall prom in October i started dancing with this guy (like grinding). Well after that we started talking for a week when i had a party/movie night at my house. He came over and put his arm arpund me and we held handds but then when he ... (203 words)

Should I keep my relationship with my boyfriend who cheated?

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9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend and I don't know what to do because he asked me to forgive him and he said that he won't do this anymore.Should I trust him? Are men worth of trust?... (40 words)

I'm cheating with my girlfriends best friend.

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9 April 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I've been cheating on girlfriend and feel so bad. Its about a million times worse because I'm doing it with her best friend. The fact that she cheated on me a few months ago isn't making me feel better. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 9 months now. I was ... (245 words)

I can't make my girlfriend cum from oral sex...need advice

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9 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So my girlfriend and I havea great sex life. Great :) She cums, I cum, we both cum it's delightful, but I can't make her cum from oral sex.....and I don't know what I'm doing wrong..... I take her coaching, do everything she tells me, and nothing....then I get th... (102 words)

I just hung out with my ex for the first time in about two months. What now?

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9 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - *OP's own title* I hung out with my ex today for the first time after about 4 months. We dated for almost three years. She started what I believe was a rebound with her best guy friend only days after our breakup, but she hooked up with me twice about two months late... (261 words)

I'm too nervous to keep my erection?

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9 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi- First of all this website is very helpful and I'd like to thank all the people who give such thoughtful answers. Okay, here's my problem. I can't get actually hard or keep an erection around my girlfriend. We've been together for 5 months now and she still hasn't given me... (178 words)

Why is he so hard on me? It is not my fault my tax refund has not come.

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9 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - This may seem like a really stupid scenerio but here goes.... This has been going on for months. Im in a long distance relationship for several years. I am a single mom and I lost my job back in december of 09. I have been struggling for months and was getting a big ta... (367 words)

Am I insecure?

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9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend hasn't called me this week; I would call him, but he works 2nd shift and can only talk on his breaks. I talked to him Wednesday at school, but he hasn't called. I figure he's either in one of his depressed moods, or he's getting tired of me because he is back in ... (147 words)

Why do women find me unappealing?

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9 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, could you provide a list of the most common turn-offs when it comes to females assessing males as possible romantic partners? The following is quite long. So, if you have time to read it and think about it, then I would appreciate some input. :) The motivation for ... (631 words)

Could my friend possibly like me?

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9 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Right, this is the classic question which I know gets asked multiple times by everyone regardless of how much experience they have. Does my friend like me in any way whatsoever?? I've known him for a year and a half. I liked him from March - June 2009 then october 2009 till n... (465 words)

My boyfriend got another girl pregnant!

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9 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am going through a really hard time and im looking for some guidance or advice. im sorry if my questions seem all over the place but here i go. I have been dating my boyfriend since march of 2007... we have been through so much togethor and that is one of the reasons ... (527 words)

I've dated all kinds of people, but I can't find Mr Right!

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9 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I dont understand what I'm doing wrong or if anything at all. I know what I am attracted to but it seems that every time I get involved with some one I get let down each time worse than the time before. Then I see my relatives and friends happily married, I seem to ... (232 words)

Would handsome Hollywood ask out normal pretty girl or woman who is not actress

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9 April 2010 (F) age 41-50 - i have fairy tale question would Hollywood actor go out with normal average pretty girl or woman real or would prefer Hollywood actress who is fake and plastic or real person... (32 words)