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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have just discovered some very loving and sexy texts on my husband's phone to another woman!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age - Please help, I have just discovered some very loving and sexy texts on my husband's phone to another woman called Anne (he is in bed asleep). Something made me look, I have NEVER thought to check before. Don't ask me why because he has always been the best husband so I thought.... (118 words)

Waking up from a dream crying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So, just a quick question. Have any of you ever had a really odd dream and woke up with a jolt and found yourself crying? I cannot remember many details in this dream. The only thing i do remember is a voice speaking to me very softly. And then i just woke up as i say with a ... (182 words)

My boyfriend forgot my name at an important event

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years. His best friend from childhood was having a birthday party. I haven't met his best friend prior to the party. My boyfriend told me it was a big deal to meet his best friend. It was probably more important than ... (150 words)

Is it the weed or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now .. And we've tried to have sex 3 times .. And every time the condom goes on .. He just loses his erection .. However .. When we're doing our lil foreplay (masturbating .. etc) Everything is fine .. He doesn't go down then .. Its just... (167 words)

Was he just being mannerly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The other day there was this guy and he gave up his seat in study for my friend and then he wouldnt sit anywhere near her after lunch. Does that mean that he he likes her because she asked me about him and they talk a lot. Does he like her or not or is he just being a nice guy?... (61 words)

I'm so scared that my life is going to be ruined!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months now and almost a month ago we did it one time without a condom; he pulled out.. I'm so scared. I haven't started and am almost a week late. My periods are irregular tho so maybe that could be why I'm ... (118 words)

Obsessed with my housemate!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not one to usually share but am slowly driving myself crazy with this problem. I moved in to a house share about 2years ago and it was great except I soon fancied one of my housemates. Despite getting on great he never showed any obvious signs but, as I have seen him when ... (247 words)

Should I accept a big pay reduction in order to achieve my dream?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age - I have a good job in education but it was not my dream job. I have always dreamt of working for a large international airline as cabin crew. I turned down a job with BA to take up a management job. Now I am hating it. I love the money but no longer the job. I have interst ... (104 words)

Worried that my over protective father won't accept my boyfriend but tired of living a lie!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend he's 27 years old I'm deeply in love with him I live with my dad and he don't want me to have any boyfriend untill I'm 30. he treats me like a 2 years old girl the only way I could go out it's when I'm going to church or school. he don't even want me to have ... (119 words)

How can I accept my boyfriends past when he has given me an STD?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having a lot of trouble in dealing with my fiance's past. He is 28, and I am 20 and he was the first man that I had ever been with sexually. However, he has had sex with almost 40 other women in his past, including 9 one night stands. I do realize that at the age of ... (355 words)

Fast approaching 30, is life passing me by?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Stuck in a rut with nowhere to turn... I am 29 yrs old, turning 30 in a few weeks. I have been in 2 longterm relationships, however both have ended with not alot to show but heartache. In my first relationship i fell pregnant but had a termination (9 yrs ago) which i have reg... (237 words)

Am I enough for my porn-addicted boyfriend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend won't stop watching porn. He said it's not the girls or sound that turns him to it but the story of how they got their (Blackmail, bribe, etc). The problem is in my past relationships a lot of bad things have happen with porn. It hurts me each time. I'm 19 year... (125 words)

I can't stand the sight of my alcoholic husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hello i have a question about my marriage we have been together for 12 years in the past 5 years we can't see eye to eye my husband is now drinking very heavily and only wants sex when he is tipsi and i can't stand the site of him when he is drinking but i give in just to keep ... (183 words)

Wife with increase in sex drive!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 6 years now, I am in my mid thirties and recently had an extreme increase in libido. I want sex all the time, I fantasize all day about sex, not only with my husband but with other men. I have even fantasized about flirting with my brother in ... (149 words)

Why is he acting kind and funny on Facebook? He's confusing me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey :) Okay so I was on facebook haha, when suddenly my ex said hi to me. We've been seperated for about two months now and I am always the first one to say hi (We never get to talk in person, we go to different schools). I was pretty suprised as to why he did it but I just ... (231 words)

My parents won't accept my boyfriend because he is only 2 years younger than they are!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am 24 years old, my boyfriend is 40. I have 2 boys, and their dads aren't reslly around. I'm not trying to replace their dads i just want a male figure in their lifes. I have dated guys my own age and the don't want the same ehings as me. I've been dating my boyfriend for ... (128 words)

Met a nice guy and we hit it off, but I have a few worries...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was out in town the other night and met this really nice guy in a club. We seemed to get on pretty well and exchanged numbers. Since that night we have been texting neach other everyday and he has asked me to meet up with him when I get back home ( as I moved away to ... (205 words)

How does the pill work exactly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How does the pill work exactly? i mean, i know it helps prevent pregnancy,, but to what extent?like, can the pill take a guy fully cumming inside you without a condom? or does it just work with the pre ejaculate?... (40 words)

How can I stop acting dumb around boys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

20 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I am Gay and I have so much problems but I'm only gonna talk about one. I Act so Dumb around all my guy straight friends and all boys in my year and the thing is I haven't told them I've only told one person wich is my friend that's a girl and I don't know what to do! How ... (68 words)

Is it right to be kissing my best friend? How do I calm my mind down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've turned 17 now.I've been going through a confusing mode in life. I went through a break up four months back.It was heart breaking. I couldn't take it. But i found myself moving on with life. Then,I happen to met this guy through a common friend at a youth club i joined. ... (239 words)

Should I write my crush a letter expressing how I feel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

20 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I have had a thing for my teacher for a while now, but he doesn't teach me and never has he just works at my school.. I don't want advise on how to get him or anything like that but I just want to know peoples opinions on me writing him a letter about how I feel towards him.. ... (68 words)

Besotted by my teacher...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I am 15 years old and I am in love with a teacher at my school who is 25 years old, I may sound naive but it's not a silly little crush and I didn't choose to like him and I have never been a believer of age meaning anything, also he is single so i wont be homewrecking but I ... (163 words)

Does this mean our relationship has run its course???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my partner for 4 years, it hasn't been the easiest ride ever and has had it's abusive moments but not present anymore. we have 2 children together but there is a big question mark over the relatonship, on my part at least. About 2 years ag... (198 words)

How can I forgive myself and move on?

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20 April 2010 (?) age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have had some misunderstandings lately. He had been very unresponsive to my efforts to contact him, and would take hours to reply to text messages, sometimes even a whole day. I knew he was having some problems at home, but couldn't understand why he was ... (267 words)

How can he tell these lies???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am feeling so angry and stupid right now, me and my boyfriend broke up, i found out he was spending nights with someone else, he did not tell me,(although they swear as just friends), he knows that i do not trust him yet as he did cheat on me in the past. she never knew... (239 words)

Psychotic guy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, This is the biggest lesson happened to my life. I am single mom with two beautiful kids and leaving with my married partner for 9 years now. I never been happy in my life as I always fall with a married man. I left the father of my kids and worked outside the c... (227 words)

Where can we go to make love and have some privacy???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone.. i am in a relationship since 3 years.. both of us are perfect for each other.. we share a great bonding together.. i am 21 years old and he is 22.. we study in the same college.. we live with our families in a small town in india.. we talk for really very long ... (411 words)

No sex before marriage please!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 20 and the opposite person it's between 25-27 years old I would like to ask for some advice. I have a boyfriend he really loves me cares about me and likes having sex. I feel the same way too and I think we're meant to be together but I want him to marry me I don't ... (114 words)

Am I doing the right thing or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I doing the right thing or not? My boyfriend and I have been together about 15 months. He is so great in every aspect but one: we fight a lot, and when we fight he becomes someone I barely recognise. At the beginning of our relationship, it wasn't that bad. We had the ... (536 words)

Is she my true love or should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have gotten back with my ex but am not sure it is the best for both of us. She and I had been together for over two and a half years. Most of that time was wonderful. She was very giving and understanding in many ways but also demanding in others (I look back now and see ... (601 words)

I want to work seasonal jobs abroad but my boyfriend doesn't want me to go! Help, I love to travel.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help! I want to go working abroad, to do seasonal jobs but my boyfriend doesn't like it when i go working away. I have only been working away once and he finished with me because of it, although just before i came back he asked me to get back with him, so we are still ... (180 words)

Feeling a little jealous...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year now, and things are going very well between us. She is attractive, and gets approached often by guys. This makes me a little jealous, but I've told her it doesn't bother me. I don't want to be clingy and overprotective, and ... (175 words)

What can I do to move things on and make him feel more comfortable with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me here. Im so confused and unsure what to think. Ive liked one of my mates for a long time. And people have always said he liked me. Back then there was no way we could be together (i wont go into detail but none of that matters now) Ever since we;ve got on better ... (523 words)

No contact since my flirty text... what do I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My best guy friend and I talk/ text almost daily. He seemed fine last time I heard from him over the weekend. I do have a bit of a crush on him so yesterday I made the text a little flirtier...not overboard, but just a little. I did it in a way that if he was interested he ... (178 words)

Is it my fault he is controlling and abusive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me I am so lost...I asked for advice a few months ago about part of my situation...I'm 21 and when I was just turned 18 I cheated on my then boyfriend with a guy who turned out to be a complete stalker/ obsessed compulsive lair. Let's just say I learned quickly from ... (352 words)

Period leakage! Is there anything other than tampons?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have my period for a few months now and i'm nearly 14. My first period was light and lasted for about 3 days, then I had a few more, and they were quite heavy and lasted for about 4-5 days. The thing that worries my is that when I have been sitting down during lessons a... (92 words)

Do I tell my brother the truth about his wife?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My older brother and I went to the same college. I lived in a different dorm than him and rarely saw him in the two years we were at the same school. One night my room mate brought a girl in and had sex with her. They were both very drunk. After my brother graduated he ... (240 words)

Does he have ED...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age - Two and a half years ago I met a guy on a message board...it was actually an erotic message board. He is smart, funny, successful and genuine. Our relationship would be nearly perfect except for the ONE thing I never would have expected...the sex is not good. He gets har... (128 words)

Boyfriend broke up with me, wants to be friends but I don't know if I can because I want to talk about what happened!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 3 months, dumped me yesterday. In the middle of a class, in front of quite a few people. Not sure if they heard what happened, but they were there. I left early to try and collect myself. I ended up going home and crying harder than I've ever cried over a boy. ... (246 words)

Had sex with a co-worker, should I tell my fiance

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance has been in jail going on three months now, his date to be released is May 28th. I love this man with all my heart and soul. We have been through so much with his probation officer and his time. I was able to see him twice a week and talk to him everyday but they ... (236 words)

I just want to talk to my fiancee and she has no time for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (M)

- My fiance is driving me nuts. She's also making me doubt her feelings for me. For work she takes care of this handicapped guy. My girl has made a "best" friend out of this girl that came over one day. Now, she is over there with her for the last week and a half. I am not in ... (190 words)

I want to share my wife with my friends! How do I ask her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2006 days ago

20 April 2010 (M)

age - dear cupid: i am stuipd?? i want to share my wife with friends? it truns me on to think about it. how should i ask her?? do wives enjoy to be pass around to your frieds??... (36 words)

I think about sex all the time and I don't want to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

20 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm always thinking about sex! It's so embarrassing, I can barely even talk to my best friend now because all I can think about is what it would be like to have sex with her. I feel so guilty too because it's not just her I think about, but my teacher, the waitress at the ... (137 words)

Do men use sexual innuendo just as a laugh or because they fancy you

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F) - Is sexual innuendo used more as a purpose to tell someone they fancy them or want them. I know that friends probably say it amongst each other comfortably but if a man fancied a woman enough to want to try and sleep with her, would he use it even if he had known her a few years ... (65 words)

Should I give into my desire to cheat? Or try my best to push it away?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

20 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I really need some help. We have been married one year. I love this woman with all my heart. While we were still dating though. My then girlfriend, now wife, took a trip home to visit her family. They live two states away. While she was over there I found out she had been tex... (387 words)

Married, but unusually attracted to other men! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 2 years now and we have a son. My problem is I develop feelings for other men. The first time was a new employee in my office. I had strong feelings for him to the extent that it affected my work. I had to tell him. He had to quit work and walk out of my ... (269 words)

We lost our babies..but he's so fragile emotionally. Should we grieve over this apart or together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I recently lost my twin baby girls at 23 weeks. I got pregnant after a one night stand. I am confused because I feel like the babies connected us. But he is not emotionally strong. And tries to support me. But it doesnt seem to work. Because we are both so emotion... (106 words)

Can't let go of a past one night stand, he had...am I being too paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I posted a similar question a few days ago but I'm still a bit confused on how to handle this situation. Sorry for the long post guys. In July last year I met two guys I was intersted in. I went out with both of them on dates, no sex or anything like that. After a few date... (484 words)

She's trying to sabotage my relationship with my boyfriend! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my boyfriends' roommate who is also his best friend is trying to sabotage our relationship. We started dating a few months ago, but I have known him and his roommate for years. His roommate is a girl and we were ok friends before i started dating my bf. When my ... (382 words)

Does no sex = no relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

20 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together 10 years. She is 47, I am 36. When we first met (as is usual) we had sex frequently. Within a year of my moving in, sex became less frequent and slightly painful for her. She went to her doctor and I was - according to her - astonis... (467 words)

I feel like an outsider looking in......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hello, I'm not sure what I am asking here but here goes.. I am an only child. I was born to parents who were in thier 40's when they had me so I didn't really get much of the usual upbringing. BEfore my parents had me , they moved from their country of origin to Engla... (277 words)

Do I have the right to see these conversations he has with another woman? Or am I in the wrong here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - For the past month ive been suspecting my bf has not been entirely truthful on where hes been going and the txts hes been recieving, so on his phone bill a number appeared over and over again just as much as mine, so i made up a story and txt it found out it was a woman ( ... (212 words)

Home pregnacy test or blood test, which one is better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How accurate are home pregnacy test? Are blood test better ? Please give me your experince please... (17 words)

How can I be amazing at giving head?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I give my boyfriend blowjobs but i know im not 'amazing' at it any tips to make it better for him?... (21 words)

I think she wants me back, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

20 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay about a year ago me and my gf broke up but we stayed friends, but a few months after she got a new bf and we lost contact, but a couple of weeks we got back in contact and she wanted to meet up, but last night she was pouring her heart out to me saying that she doesnt know ... (84 words)

Painful sex, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F) age 30-35 - i had sex for the first time when my bf fingered me it was so painful but i never had any pain wen i did that to myself.when we had sex it was painful i couldn't feel anything but pain but my bf says that he liked it a lot. and when he went down it was still more painful.... (100 words)

Is it just me or is it getting hard to find a boyfriend these days?

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20 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - since last summer i have been single, i am so bored of it all of my ex-boyfriends have boyfriends and so do all of my friends. . .this is pissing me off and being a pain in my ass i have tried to find a boyfriend and i have joined 3 gay dating sites. . .and none of the dates ... (97 words)

I want to elope with him, and have a baby

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F) age 30-35 - [MOD NOTE: The poster is 17] I am a girl in my teens. I have a boyfriend in his early twenties. We are in love for almost two years and now we have planned to elope soon. I have started my college and I am looking for a part time job, but he says he doesn't want me to work and... (136 words)

I feel that in return for having a child, he should get a vasectomy! How can I make him understand?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 33 years old, run my own business and have been independent most of my life and need to add that am also financially independant. I am 5'3, I enjoy working out and currently got engaged to my 46 years old boyfriend. I financially take care of 3 nieces and my mom (don't ... (332 words)

Does anyone have any creative ideas on how I can meet girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. I'd like help because I don't really have many good friends. I'm lonely as a result of this. Im 25 and I've never really had a girlfriend as such. I'm highly educated, successful and make a lot of money. I'm into my music, play drums and like driving my car. I'm not ... (736 words)

I havent had a period since I have been taking the Mini-Pill, but now I am bleeding! What could this be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay sorry guys I know your not doctors/this is a relationship advice site but I don't know where else to turn...maybe somebody may read this who has been through it. I've been on the mini pill cerazette since September 2009, I havnt had a period since. This was all fine up ... (118 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend that I love him?

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi! my problem is how can i tell my boyfriend,,that i love him???,what should i do??? tnx ;-)... (18 words)

Who here keeps in contact with their exes and if so why?

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20 April 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Who here keeps in contact with their exes and if so why? I personally don't and neither does my bf, but the situations are different. I simply drifted apart from my ex whilst he makes a point of not contacting her. He threw away al their pictures, changed his number and rarel... (70 words)

He delays our marriage and makes me ask Dad to repay his education loans!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i and a person have been in a relationship for 10 years (both emotionally and physically). now i am 29 and he is 30 years old.we were from the same town but studied in different cities till 2007.in 2007 we both were in bangalore till 2009 may.we both are currently working in ... (344 words)

"Nice to meet you" - long-distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - If two people meet (alright, juniors in college), but they live far away (we're talking around 5-6 hours), and they hang out, hook up, go back home, and start talking a lot, everyday, and it's already been over a month, and they're making multiple plans to see each other so... (90 words)

How do I deepthroat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently me and my boyfriend had sex we got really into it so I started to suck his dick but I realized that his dick is too long for me to deepthroat, no matter how hard I try I just can't. Plus I think it will help with the cum going down it is a lot easier if I can ... (94 words)

I am still unsure about getting physical with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been together with my boyfriend for 2months plus and things are getting a little physical now... I began to doubt whether is he really in love with me or is he only interested with my body... with the amount of sexual needs I can provide him with..... But don't worr... (275 words)

I'm afraid to leave her because I'm her entire world. I don't want to be stuck like this either.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well, I am in a rut, and so I decided to post a question out here after reading around and seeing some very helpful answers. However, I've yet to see a case much like my own. I've been with my girlfriend for nearly five years now, and knew her for at least three before we ... (701 words)

I'm practically in love with him! What should I do when I see him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry this might be a little long but i need to explain. So 4 years ago a family moved to my town. I became friends with the girl from the family. She had an older brother who is about 2-3 years older than me. Ever since I saw him for the first time I was attracted to him. ... (581 words)

Men don't really accept me for who I am!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have noticed a pattern in my relationships---the men don't seem to really accept me for who I am. I have a recent ex who did accept me, and does care for me, but due to our differences, decided that it would be best that we remain friends. I am sad, but realize that we ... (344 words)

My boyfriend found out that I love my best friend!

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok...well....i love my best friend....and i have a boyfriend now that i love...and they both really like me...and my best frind lives an hour and a hlf away and my current bf lives with me (long story)...... but... and my bestfriend says that he would date me if we lived closer ... (132 words)

I don't want to just be my ex's "comfort zone"

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20 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex has been contacting me, telling me she's been missing me and thinking of me all day. In one of her recent emails she told me that she misses me incredibly but doesn't know whether talking to me again will make things more or less painful but she mentioned nothing about ... (604 words)

Unprotected sex for last 3 weeks..am I pregnant?

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been having intercourse without proctection for the last 20days last week i started feeling sick randomly and everytime i get up i feel extremly dizzy makes me feel more sick and have a headache also i started smelling things stronger odar and perfume,... (173 words)

Help!! I'm physically, spiritually, and emotionally drained from my lazy husband.

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for nine years and we have three wonderful kids. He works at the local sherrif's department and I work at a local lawyer's office. I work from 8:00a.m.-5:00p.m. and he works from 4:00p.m.-midnight. During the day, he watches our three year ... (238 words)

Caught in the Middle

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been friends with this guy for over ten years u can say in a way we are each others comfort zone. When either one of us a problems with in a relationship we call on one another r if we are not in a relationship we can release stress with each other. Well I started ... (377 words)

Is she cheating, or is there something else lacking in our relationship?

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20 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a problem i drive truck over the road and i like what i do. I am gone for a month and half at a time. I meet this girl and we hit it off right away and been dating for 5 months at first we would talk on the phone for hours on end about everything and latley we barley ... (127 words)

Will our relationship be negatively affected by this?

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boifrend masterbate while talking on the phone evryday. Can this harm me in any way?... (18 words)

I am in love with but don't want to lose my best friend.

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20 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I Am a teenager. Since we became best friends a while ago, I have had feelings for my best friend. Recently I fell in love with her, after her long time boyfriend and her broke up. I desperately want to tell her that I love her, but cannot lose her as my best friend, I would be ... (60 words)

Commitment phobe or moving too fast?

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20 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf was initially driven by lust by mentioned that she wanted to settle down with me for certain in the early stages of the relationship. I was glad that she was so 'in love' but a few months later (and a lot more water under the bridge) and things have settled down and ... (644 words)

Am I his back up plan, his encouragement, or does he see me as a friend?

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20 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi guys !! I was talking to a guy like beginning of last march for 2 wks and the coolest two wks we had the most common things ever..but somethings about like he had some pic of his ex's up on his page and in the beginning of that month asked him and he said he was single and ... (164 words)

I text like there's no tomorrow, and my parents get really mad!

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20 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - So I've gone over my texting limit before, and my parents always get REALLY mad. I think last month I went over by 100 (not even) this time I went over by like 1,600. :( Is there a way to fix this issue?! I don't even wanna know how much it's gonna cost..I have some money so ... (79 words)

My boyfriend simply will not satisfy me in bed.

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We have been reasonably happy except for in one regard: sex. He always wants a blowjob, but he never wants to go down on me or even manually stimulate me. He has only gone down on me 3-4 times within our entire relations... (416 words)

My husband has been cheating all this time

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm in a lot of trouble and need some advice soon. I'm married for just over one year and pregnant with my first child. I married long time boyfriend. I had a feeling he does things with other girls behind my back even before we got married. But I though they were just ... (561 words)

My boyfriend says he doesn't want to marry until until I get a better job

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of four years hasn't proposed yet and doesn't know when he will. We had a discussion last night about it because I'm tired of waiting. Basically he's told me that he can't marry me unless I get a different job that pays more and is more career oriented. I'm curr... (149 words)

Troubled about her sexual past

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20 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well, i just got married 5 months ago with the one i'm in love with but i started having a problem when i think of her ex-boyfriends with whom she had sex before we knew each other. Before our marriage she told me everything about her past; who she slept with and who took her... (103 words)

Which scholarship to take - be close to her now or very close to a year from now

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20 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i need advice. I'm a 19 year old from Ireland. It might sound crazy but I've fallen madly in love with a girl from America who I met online. She's 17. She's from Texas but lives elsewhere now, but is moving back to Texas this summer. I really love her and she feels th... (214 words)

My ex says she misses me but doesn't mention reconciliation

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20 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex has written me back again. This time telling me that she's learned a lot during the no contact period but has been missing me very much, incredibly much and is confused on whether or not talking to me will make things more or less painful. This is the moment I've been... (215 words)

He said he's going through difficult times but I don't want to let him go

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im in love with this guy. ive liked him for 8 months. but we were all over each other at this party and he told me he liked me no he told me he loved me, but then the next day he said he wasnt sure. he said he was going through some sh*t and didnt wanna take it out on me, but ... (126 words)

How can I fall 'back' in love?

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - What's the best way to fall back in-love with a boy you really like? I had asked this boy earlier to blatantly be my boyfriend and he didn't think twice to say no..... But I know I don't like him as much as he likes me...And I feel really guilty. Cause he's a really great guy... (85 words)

It bothers me that he is not bothered by our recent lack of contact.

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I havnt been talking to my best friend. This week we haqve no school. I'm busy and he's been going to red sox games and bruins. It bothers me that he is not bothered by me not talking to him. I dont know what to do? I think about him without trying to. I'm going to forget him ... (93 words)

I rejected his advances, ...but now he has a girlfriend I am jealous.

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I have this guy friend , and we met like in August 2009, and he liked me ever since , i always denied him, or made up something so i wouldn't hurt him , He always makes me laugh , even on the worst days, he makes me smile, hes always there for me, and now he has a girl ... (93 words)

I wanted him to fight for me, ...but he just gave up instead.

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I broke up because he wasn't sure about his feelings for me anymore. We'd been together for 3 years. I told him I couldn't be with someone who wasn't fully committed if I was. But truthfully i had my doubts. 2 weeks passed and he called me to tell me to check... (312 words)

I know I am number 1, ..but it is hard knowing there have been so many other number 1 women throughout his life.

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm in an age gap relationship, and there's one thing that has been an annoyance in that. everythings great, but i keep bumping into small things that make me realize our 19 year difference, and how much he has been through in love. im 18, hes 37. weve been together for almost ... (289 words)

My fiancees friends are always around and I am so sick of it!

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Engaged but boyfriend's friends are always around. What should I do? I've been with the same guy for 10 yrs. I'm 25 and he's 28. We've been engaged for 2 yrs and have two boys together 6yrs and 2wks old. My boyfriend works comes home showers then his friends blow his phone u... (132 words)

Old flame resurfaced, and I'm feeling strange and confused again?

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20 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was over her a girl who for sure liked me bigtime. My best friends said so, family friends, heck they even thought we would be a good married couple even though we were only friends. I was in love with her and asked her out twice with a lot of time in between. Both ti... (219 words)

The woman I am cheating with is cheating on me.

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20 April 2010 (M)

age - I went to china over 3 years ago. Met a married woman who hasnt slept with husband for over 6 years but still live in same house(big house)and yes I know that part is true. Ive been lied to since I first met her and yet wouldnt walk away. Now I know Im being cheated on and I ... (132 words)

My husband makes me feel like a plain Jane.

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been married for about three years and I find myself less intimate with my husband. I feel like I always have to compare myself with other women. I have a low self esteem because his eyes wonder even if I'm there. I've seen things on his phone, he looks at dirty magazines. ... (144 words)

Mutual masterbation. I don't know what to do.

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 years since the 6th grade, now we are in 8th. we have taked about fingering and a handjob. But i don't know what to do, nor do i now what to use if i shave. I just feel like it would be akward the first time. I would really like ... (72 words)

My boyfriend moved to another country and I have to initiate all the contact. Should I try to let go?

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello guys . I was in a relationship with a guy .i met him last year .but 4 months ago he left to usa with his family . when he left at first he was so kinder .and used to call me and he used to say that i wanna come back there and be with you . but now he doesnt .and even... (120 words)

Hunger control methods.

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20 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What are ways to control your hungar because i wanna slim down and get in shape and since food is in my house i feel i need to eat all the time how can i control my hungar and start my diet????... (42 words)

My flat mates wont clean, ...the filth is affecting my health, ... is there a way I can get out of the lease?

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20 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so this isn't a relationship question but I don't know where else to go to for advice. Any help greatly appreciated. I am currently a student living in the UK and share a house with 4 other students. At first things were good and we would have a laugh. But very slowly ... (612 words)

I can't figure this girl out. Did I do something wrong?

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20 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys, i have a problem. Theres this girl ive been talking to, for about 3 months now. previously, before me and her, she just ended a 2 yr relationship, and i got out of a bad one with no intentions on dating anyone at all (and still have none). It was going all good ... (645 words)

Is my ex girlfriend playing games

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20 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - *OP's own title* I have this ex girlfriend I was with for about 8 months and our relationship was very loving and caring to about the last two months. At this point she had grew really distant, so I broke up with her nov 1st 2009. What a stupid mistake i know. But anyway we ke... (361 words)

Why can't I talk to her even tho I want to?

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20 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - sometimes i find myself thinking too much about love , very specially when i last saw twilight , i really dont know why i dont know , however it's not my exact problem , it's i like a girl , when i see her i wish if i can speak to her , well i didnt tell u i dont speak to girls ... (145 words)