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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am trying to get my ex back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am trying to get my ex back. We were dating for few months when i kissed someone else. I came clean the next day and he broke up with me. I know what i did was wrong and i regret it more than anything. I really love this guy and i want nothing more than to be with him. ... (209 words)

At my wit's end with my girlfriend and these arguments!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I feel like I am at my wits end with my girlfriend and need your help/ advice/ opinions. We got engaged 15 months ago and seem to argue abit (which I know is normal) the thing is when we argue, I am the type of person that wants to sort it out more or less straight aw... (461 words)

My boyfriend went to a different state to visit another girl, is she just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We've had our share of the roller coaster. We broke up for 3 months because of him talking to other girls and hiding it from me. But we both realized that we still love each other and to give it another shot. ... (840 words)

He says that he loves me, but he dumped me, what's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex is STILL saying he loves me, it has been a month since he dumped me. I told him to stop saying this to me but he said no, and that he would always love and care about me. He said,why can't you accept my love,whatever form it is in?..What does he mean by this?? I brought ... (107 words)

Should I tell him I love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 years old 14 on thursday I think i love this man who has turned 17 so theres 3 years apart should I tell him i love him or is it too much age gap. We have the same intrests i am just too scared to ask. What should i do?... (53 words)

How do I get over my want of a threesome?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 6 years now and would like to have a threesome with my girlfriend. She does not want to. i also like looking at porn and chatting on the net and understandably this upsets her. she says the threesome(watching porn and chatting as well) will ... (90 words)

Is their brother-sister relationship abnormal?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Brother- Sister situation My boyfriend (27 years old)and his sister (24 years) have a relation that makes me very uncomfortable because- 1. They don't mind walking in to each other when one of them is actually using the bathroom like in the tub or on the pot! 2. Sometimes w... (121 words)

How can you tell if someone is playing "hard to get?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Mod note: OP's own title This may seem like a dumb question but any advice would be helpful. What are the signs someone(in this case a female) close to you, who you are interested in, may be playing hard to get??... (44 words)

Thoughts of sex taking over my life.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - im absolutly desperate! i feel like if i don't f*ck a girl im going to explode. ive tried watching porn and masturbating( im doing it right now!)and its starting to stop working. im not a pervert or anything but in school i have sex senarios with the girls in my class in my ... (63 words)

Bf cheated in the past and all I can think about is him doing it again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months... i knew him for year before though, and i knew him as a cheater... when we first started dating he cheated on me twice... now that months has passed by i thought i can forget but i cant... i keep thinking hell do it again even though ... (169 words)

Looking for no strings attached sex with a friend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a question for everyone out there. i have a friend who i have known for about 5yrs she is quite attractive but i've never seen her as more than just a friend, until recently. the thing is i have never had sex or fooled around with a girl before and i really want her to ... (181 words)

I thought I understood women but I guess not.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - 6 1/2 years ago, I met, fell in love with and married the woman I know I will always love. I’m a man in my early 40's, professional and for both of us, it was our first marriage. After a couple of years just being together, we decided to start a family. Right away, we had a ... (737 words)

When do you say enough is enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When is enough enough???????????????? I'm with my partner over 15 years and we have a mortgage and two kids a two year old and a ten year old and for the last two years since the baby was born we have just not been getting on, fighting over the same things every week, he never... (276 words)

Should I get out of this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all. My girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. In this time we loved each other -- I still do, and she does but there is problems, which I'll explain ahead -- and we even had a baby boy (4 months now). There is a lot going on now. For one thing w... (897 words)

My current boyfriend makes me happy but I still long for my ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right I'm confused. I'm in love with my ex (let's call him X), I miss him so much. But I didn't realise this until recently. He broke up with me about a year ago. This upset me a lot. Since him I've dated 3 guys. Two of those relationships I regret. (nothing happened, jus... (189 words)

Did I take this the wrong way or was he really just tired?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a lover who lives in another town but works long hours, when we dont see each other we do email each other every night,and this can go on all evening.Anyway we were meant to meet up this friday but couldn't because he had to cover someone from work, anyway he hasn't been ... (142 words)

I like them both but which one do I choose?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a boyfriend who on the scale of 1-10 i like him 8. but i like this other boy loads and on a scale of 1-10 i like 9. i thought i loved my boyfriend, but he really really shy and im getting really bored of it, we have snogged once but he hasnt made a move since that. the ... (145 words)

He's a colleague to my ex but I do not want to lose him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well i have dated a guy for about eight months and a half,then we broke up, the relationship was so amazing and fair to the both of us since there was nothing complicated until we broke up over a simple thing..let not take this part of my love life far because i do not even ... (173 words)

How do you flirt when you're shy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my problem is flirting. i used to be pretty shy and even now i still struggle starting conversations with people im not close to. i never really found this a issue until recently though. if a guy (particularly ones i like)talks to me or approaches me i never know how to react. ... (169 words)

Yearning for something else, and cheating to look for it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a bit of a quandry and I hope to get some advice or at least some insight. I've been married to a really wonderful man for the past 7 years and we've been together for a total of 13 years. We have no children. We've been through a lot of ups and downs, emotional... (612 words)

Should I have done it another way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for 21 years and in a relationship with him for 28. Almost once a year my husband will will basically say that he is the one who sacrifices for the family. I stayed home with all of our boys and our last one is now in Jr. year of H/S. He wanted me to ... (226 words)

Why do I have these wet dreams?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have wet dreams about girls I wouldn't actually date. I tend to date exotic girls yet all my wet dreams have been on girls who aren't exotic to me. Why am I having wet dreams about girls I care about and am close to but don't actually want to date!... (57 words)

Painful Pap Smear Test

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had my first smear test today - it didnt go well the nurse started and then said it would be easier if i come back to see the doctor. Im now booked in next week. The problem is it really hurt and i dont want to go back! I know how important it is to have the test done bu... (108 words)

His 3rd date rule is too fast for me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got out of a relationship about a month ago. I started seeing someone new who I have amazing chemistry with. Problem is he's 27 and believes in the 3rd date rule, I told him no and I believe in having sex after I'm in a relationship with someone in which he replied ... (173 words)

I messed up and now I am lost!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - *Op's own title* I was dating a girl for the last month , well when I say dating I mean we were hanging out on a regular basis talking alot we kissed, held hands when we were alone, things like that. I felt like I needed to know where things were going and so I asked, I got... (272 words)

I've tried all sorts of things but keep ejaculating before the main event.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a beautiful girl for two months, everything had been going really well, we seem to want the same out of life and enjoy most of the same things, but we've'tried' to have sex twice three times and it was a disaster each and everyone! the first time as she was ... (243 words)

How do I get an introverted girlfriend to open up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is 18 and im 19 and she is very introverted and never really talks about her problems to me or anyone for that matter. I wish she would open up to me more so I can help her out because she is going through alot right now. She also will never come up to me and ... (134 words)

Does she really want to get to know me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. Ok, here goes my question, which probably has been exhausted here on numerous occasions. - Met a girl at the doctor's office. Left my name and digits with her over the phone. She said she would think about it. She contacted me a few days later. - We went on a... (333 words)

My bf wants me to change the way I look in exchange for his love!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) age 41-50 - My bf wants me to change the way I look in exchange for his love... We started with an internet relationship and everything was perfect until we met in person a few months later. He was the perfect fairytale bf. After he saw me our relationship changed completely but he staye... (294 words)

My older sister is trying to ruin my life.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) age 36-40 - My older sister is trying to ruin my life. She was engaged to this one guy who was a pretty nice guy I thought but he caught her cheating on him. He actually caught them in a sex act. Not intending to be so graphic but my sister is a real b-i-t-c-h. She was giving t... (430 words)

Should I just hold her and go for it and kiss her on the lips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been best friends with a girl for 12 years (we are both 26 and I'm male). We have always been close and despite what people thought, we always said we were just "best friends". During this time I was not aware she was suffering from very low self esteem, she alwa... (304 words)

Ladies, what could be causing this discharge? Is it normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - iis white or yellow vaginal dicharge normal? does it happen often? what r its causes? i ask because my gf has cheated before and has been acting and doing "funny" things again lately.... (34 words)

I don't want to hurt him, but staying doesn't seem very fair either.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't want to hurt him, but staying doesn't seem very fair either. What should I do? Okay, so me and this guy were dating for about seven and a half months before we eventually had some issues and we broke up. Not long after, i started dating this other guy, a friend of both ... (213 words)

I'm gay and I love my straight best friend!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i'm gay and i love my straight best friend, but he doesn't treat me like that. i always give him clues that i love him but he reacts negatively or doesn't react at all. even my classmates are noticing it but i think he treats me like i don't exist and we all think that he is ... (149 words)

Should I have him choose... pool playing or me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm hoping that someone can provide some words of wisdom... It's been one year since I got out of a terrible relationship where the person was a constant liar. I'm in a new relationship but it's long distance and so we only see each other on the weekends. When pool is involved ... (172 words)

I'm a bisexual girl falling for my best friend, a gay guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a bisexual girl and my problem is that i'm falling for my gay best friend (he's a guy). We've been friends for ages and I knew from the start he was gay but we've grown really close. I know many gay guys kiss girls and it doesn't mean anything and i've always been comf... (234 words)

Does he want me to take my shirt off during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So whenever me and my guy have sex, he never takes my shirt off or tries to get me to take it off. I have had a breast reduction a few years back, and I think he probably knows that I'm a little self conscious because of the scars from the surgery. Could that be why he doesn't ... (150 words)

How do people get through this heartache?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am totally broken, can anyone please give me some advice i have been with my fiance for five years, which were the best yesrs of my life, we were supposedly so in love and spent every spare minuite together.i then had two very close bereavements within months of each o... (247 words)

She seems far too focused on moving into our own flat, funded entirely by me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am getting frustrated with my GF I have been toying with the idea of moving to rent a flat for a while, my gf also wants to move in with me but have little commitment in what she has to pay, this is going to be my home only kind of thing. whats stressing me out is she ... (436 words)

He kept on talking to his baby-mama, his other son by another woman is a brat, and I just don't trust him. It breaks my heart!I

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When I married my husband, it was after he cheated on me and I knew the girl was pregnant. But I listened to his apology and believed he was sincere and loved him regardless and was ready to take on the challenge. After we got married, I found out he was texting her all day ... (625 words)

I feel like I have lost everything! Can anyone offer any words of advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This isn't really about love, and it's not really a question but any words would be great. I think I'm cracking up. I lost my job and my fiance in the same month, last year, and am about to lose my apartment cause I have no money. The bills are mounting and although I do ha... (193 words)

Why is it taking me so long to orgasm? And how can I make sex go from feeling good to feeling great?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What do you think about when u orgasm? lately its taking longer than usual, the things that turn me on, really arent anymore...i feel like i need to concentrate on an image of something really sexy in order to orgasm along with getting oral done. Before, even a simple moan ... (147 words)

Why is my boyfriend behaving like this since he found out I am pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Some of you may of seen my last question - Will my parents kick me out of the house for being pregnant at 15 like they did with my sister?. This time its my bf rather than my parents. When I first told him I was pregnant he said he was happy to help. He text me late last nig... (170 words)

Why did he end a good relationship with me to date women who treat him badly, and then rub my face in his new relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Lately I've been ocassionally talking to my ex via txt. Last time we saw each other (3 mo or so ago) we had a discussion bout us being tired of the dating scene, we never had real probs in our relationship and he made it seem he was open to date me again but his life was a mess ... (376 words)

I've never ejaculated! HELP!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I am 13 and I masterbate sometimes but I never ejaculate I've had pleasure like never before and I really like masterbating but I want to ejaculate but it's impossible. I'm gay and I knew because before knowing I was I masterbated to regular wich in never got turned on by... (90 words)

When did I conceive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi well i'm 11 weeks and 5 days pregnant. And i was just trying to work out the day i conceived. does anyone have any idea.. I'm due 11th Novemeber and my LMP was Jan 28th to the 4th of feb... Any help thanks x... (45 words)

Is there anyway I can help my on-line friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im having contact with this girl I met trough the internet for about 3 years or so now, first everything was ok and just for fun.. but I have fallen in love with her.. but that isnt the real problem, the thing is that she might have some mental problems and there is this guy, ... (490 words)

This dating site sent him a text! What should I think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age - Help please. My partner received a text message saying Enter your pin (----) at m.zoosk.com I know I shouldn’t look and I mostly don’t, but I do if he has been nasty to me for a while - because I start wondering what is really behind that. When I checked what tha... (206 words)

Too scared to get infected!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i really love each other that we do everything together, but the problem is he doesnt like using a condom am not so sure whether he only does that with or maybe he even do it with one night stands that he told me use to have in the past. i told him to stop ... (116 words)

Do you think he is playing mind games with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age - i feel so down,in march this year i took my mum out one wednesday afternoon to a place for lunch,unknown to us they had a guy playing a piano.i didnt take much notice to be honest my 80yr old mum enjoyed it! at the end this guy came straight over to me and gave me his card,and ... (711 words)

I love my "friends with benefits" but I don't think he feels the same way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I am in a physical relationship with someone without any word of love ever being said. We are just good friends (with benefits!!! - tho I hate to say this). I am not happy because I am only with him because I love him but he probably doesn't know. I wish I could tel... (106 words)

Is this normal at the beginning of a relationship and how can I resolve it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for coming up to 4 months. I am 31 so is he. I feel that I have matured a lot compared to my behaviour in previous relationships and have learned not to analyse every single thing that happens to be something bad i.e. my partner might not want... (528 words)

How do I suggest marriage to my b/f after pregnancy without making him feel "trapped"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I have a boyfriend of one year and am 3 weeks pregnant with his baby. I have informed him and he seems alittle confused, though he is by my side. We havent discussed the way forward with the pregnancy yet. We had plans of getting married next year. The pregnancy was a mistake. ... (134 words)

How do I get his old feelings back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, So i was feeling disconnected and unappreciated by my bf. Attempted to talk to him about it but he was convinced I was "overreacting" ..one thing led to another, I ended up hanging out with one of his on again off again acquaintances andwhile it wasn't right, I... (470 words)

We don't see eye to eye

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all im going mad my boyfriend and i have been together for 14 years we had a unexpected daughter early on in the relationship, i spent my time at home waiting for him to come bk from the pub or his hobby and tried to make the relationship a succesfull one he was hard and ... (361 words)

Weird pimple on vagina

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have something really weird i had research herped pictures and symtomps and i dont think i have it but but what else could it be? in my vaginal area on my lips i have been having for the laast month like small pimples but i sqeezed them and nothing comes out, if it does its ... (95 words)

I have very little self-confidence left

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I currently live in Tokyo and am stuck here for about another year and a half and I have the same dilemma that any other non-Japanese female has here: I can't find a decent guy. My self-confidence has taken a real dive since I've been here just because of the fact that I can't ... (190 words)

Should I do as my separated husband wishes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I been separated for nearly an year.This guy that Ive been seeing decides to call my husband. His intention was to find out what was going on between my husband and I. Well my husband told him that we were gettting back together and that I was geting rid of my boyfriends baby. ... (231 words)

I have a boyfriend but I like another boy more now..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend, he is really shy and stuff, but the other day i found that i like this other boy a little more than i like him, and he said that he likes me. i know what you are thinking, she is just a silly little girl that should get to know her self before she gets into ... (119 words)

Too hairy down there?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im really hairy down there.. good, bad? im a 16 year old girl and ive been getting really close to this guy he wants to finger me and see me naked but im too scared of him seeing me down there. also i dont know how to ask him if its ok that im hairy, bit of an akward convo... (72 words)

She told me she needs at least 6"

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Huge problem. I have small penis 4in when fully react. I had two previous girlfriends tell mr when can't feel anything it's too small. I know the foreplay part but doesn't work. Now I been with a sweet girl for 6 months she say im her everything. But when we were "gullying ... (97 words)

Husband moved out with another woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my husband have been together since 2003 and married in 2004. We knew each other as friends for at least a year before. I was the one who initiated everything pretty much but he also wanted the same thing. We were crazy for each other at the beginning but after living ... (1325 words)

I feel fatter every time I eat even a bite of food!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - is there something wrong with me? i feel like the fattest person in the world at 48 kg, i know that's not fat or over weight, but everytime i look in the mirror i see a horrible, ugly, disgusting fat creature. my mom says i have a regular body but i feel like she's lying to ... (71 words)

Did I open Pandora's box?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I find myself in a bit of a jam. I have been dating my man for some time now. We have had threesomes in the past, however I do not want to do that anymore and I want to be in a committed relationship with him. A.K.A. monogamous. Thing is he knows that I would not like to share ... (160 words)

Am I just a game to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Help!! This is alittle confussing and may be long..Sorry..I am a married women of about 19 years and have kids. A couple of years ago a old friend of mine came home for and we ran into each other. We exchanged numbers and then things started to develope. We talked all the t... (289 words)

How do I get over the relationship when he made me chose between "all or nothing"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! So my question is how do you get over someone? Like i was in an on and off relationship for about 3 years we were closer than close i even lost my virginity to him. The reason our relationship ended is because i wasn't willing to make the type of commitment he wanted and ... (80 words)

Is it true that for many guys they can totally separate sex from any emotion?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it true that for many guys they can totally separate sex from any emotion? I was a virgin before my current BF but he's had three casual sex experiences, one of them a one night stand. I don't get how he could have sex with girls he didn't care about, or didn't eve... (191 words)

Please Help Me Get A Divorce

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 3 years now, and we have a child together. My husband is physically and verbally abusive daily, and the only time we ever talk about anything is when he is yelling about something. It was never like this until our child was born. I am the only who ... (386 words)

Mate denies cheating but phone number of someone keeps popping up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - If you are in a relationship with someone who has cheated on you in the past and you come across a number in their phone, and when you talk to the person that the number belongs to and they tell you they have been having a sexual relationship with your mate. Your mate denies it ... (196 words)

I want to leave my husband so badly but wouldn't know how to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 22 years old, I have a two year old and an eight month old. My husband and I have been together since we were fifteen years old. I noticed a change in him while I was pregnant with our youngest daughter. As it turns out he has been abusing prescription drugs. Now he hasn't ... (180 words)

Why does my gf have such a big mouth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - for some reason everyone in the school knows everything that goes on between us she tells her friends about everything i say and do and then it goes around i dont mind some things but some stuff is kinda personal. ive told her once before but she didnt the message so what ... (74 words)

Need some advice on how to approach a girl.

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27 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if I could have some advice on how to approach this girl that I have known for about nine years. She has asked me out before but have said no. Me and her have a banquet this Friday and was wondering if I should ask to dance with me and possibly ask her out. I ... (108 words)

Please Help, Father has nothing to do with our son!

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27 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and the ex were together 1 year and half, we were living together and everything was great. Then I found out I was pregnant in feb 2008. Things were still fine he was super excited about the baby but as soon as our son was born in October 2008 things took a 360 degree turn ... (342 words)

Help for food addiction and binge eating

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27 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help. I have a junk food problem and binge eating problem. I have a weakness for McDonalds and I have been there everyday this week. Somewhere down the line I stopped caring about how I looked because my acne was bad. Then I just stopped exercising and began a downward ... (183 words)

Why do guys assess every female's attractiveness, almost automatically?

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27 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. Just fancied asking a question for discussion. I know this is a kind of sweeping generalisation, and I know not every guy is the same, but go with me here... Why do guys assess every female's attractiveness, almost automatically? And why do men so openly comment and discuss ... (565 words)

She says that all I can think about is sex

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27 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for 9 months, she is my first everything, meaning that she was my first first kiss, my first girlfriend, and my first sex partner. I am currently 19 years old, by the way. To be honest, we have made love so many times that I can't even take a ... (673 words)

Why did I send that stupid text?

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27 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, This is so embarressing... I am on holiday and renting a car from a georgous guy who i fancy like crazy, its been a month now ive fallen for him not in love but in lust and we have had many conversations about different things and I don't know if it is just me... (298 words)

Desperate at 13 for a cute girl who isn't a bitch!

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27 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - im desperate for a cute girl who is not a bitch, im only thirteen and i have no idea what a 13 year old pretty,preppy, hockey playing girl would want in a guy, her past boyfriends are all good looking, kind of douche bags and many are hockey players... i dont wanna act like... (69 words)

He says he wants space to 'clear his head', should I be concerned?

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27 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend, who I have been with for 2 and a half years, has asked for 'space to clear his head' admist conflict between his mother and i (not caused by myself, but through her jealously of him having another important female in his life) I find it hard to understand this, ma... (191 words)

Can stress delay a period?

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27 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had protected sex with my boyfriend on April 23. My period came about the 5 of April and I was ovulating all the wk from 19 until the 23 (fertile). My question is we used a condom (it did not break) and he pull out before he came. To be on the safe side after an hour and half ... (94 words)

I cant stop eating!

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27 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hey im turned thirteen 2 weeks ago and i am 200 pounds..... i know this is really big and i really need to lose weight! i dont wanna go through my adolescent years fat, but i cant stop eating! my mom thinks not eating will help but then ill sneak to the kitched and get fatt... (168 words)

Little sister gets away with everything

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27 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My friend is having issues with his little sister and I don't know what to tell him. He's 17 and his little sister is 9. She is getting away with a lot of stuff and he's been attempting to correct her but then he just get's yelled at by his mother for yelling at her. and I ju... (102 words)

Is my boyfriend being overly protective?

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27 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a friend of Keira9312's and I needed some help about my boyfriend. It seems as if he is becoming extremely obsessive and protective of me. It comes to the point where he glares at my other guy friends, or interrupts them to take me somewhere else. I feel like he is my ... (154 words)

Help with a hairy chin

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27 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi...I need some advice. I recently just discovered that I am growing hairs on my chin!!!!! I keep plucking them, but its really beginning to freak me out and I am petrified that my boyfriend will see them and leave me. Is this normal? or is there something hideously wrong ... (81 words)

Controlling boyfriend.

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27 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me, my boyfriend is from iraq, (non-muslim), and he's very controlling, he states this is his culture hoWever I believe it may actually be his personal issues. He doesn't let me go outside without him, even across to the local shop, his reason bEing it's a rough ... (284 words)

Ex wants secret meetings

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27 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I finished in January and him and his sister put me through alot of things that hurt me and on Easter he texted me sayin he wanted us to meet again but not go steady and we've been meetin since Easter and I don't know wheter am doin the right thing because ... (99 words)

I slept with Jonathon Ross' wife - in my dreams!

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27 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Strange dream question alert! Ok, so I dreampt that I was seduced by well known tv presenter, Johnathon Ross's wife! She is someone I admire and see as a kind of role model, I guess! I want to have the same hair as her, so maybe thats why she popped into my subconscious... (By ... (171 words)

13 year old boy cant stop thinking about masterbating..

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27 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - *OP's own title* ok, i am 13 years old and i recently hit puberty to the point where i can now ejaculate, its been about 1 and a half months and since the first time i did ejaculate, i have not been able to stop myself from masterbating on a daily basis.... this is emba... (181 words)

Attracted to fictional characters

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27 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Thanks for all help in advance. Recently, I've started to become attracted to ficitonal characters. I've done so in the past, but not to the extent I have now. I just... feel some sort of chemistry (personality-wise, not like we're communicating or getting along, b/c that'd be ... (103 words)

Virgos and Pisces?

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27 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - why do they say Virgo and Pisces are not compatible? Im a Pisces who has the Virgo rising so I'm half Virgo and half Pisces.Im very picky and anti germ freak like a Virgo.but sometimes i can be clutter but most of the time im clean.i day dream a lot.I can multi task in my mind.... (438 words)

He stares alot does that mean he likes me? Or just being a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

27 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ihave this guy friend and we are good friends intially but lately I have caught him staring at me alot more then usual.Then when I do catch him, he turns his head away quickly. Im not sure whether he likes me that way because we have known each other three years and I used to ... (121 words)

Longing for a boyfriend.

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27 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have been single for as long as i can remember, and it's beginning to make me feel bad. All of my best friends have boyfriends that are hanging around them everyday, and i always feel somewhat awkward. Sometimes I even cry a little because I think there is somethi... (116 words)

I just can't get any affection from my husband!

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27 April 2010 (F)

age - 'human' Hi can anyone help. I have been married let me think our eldest son is 33, we met at least 5 years before that. he used to take the first step and make love to me and used to be kind with conversation. but over the last 10 years I SAY 10 i'v lost count. he will n... (311 words)

My older g/f has men friends she likes to spend time with and it bothers me!

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27 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 35 yo, and my gf is 42...i know big age difference..but we love eachother...I just can't escape the feeling that she is cheating though. She lives 2 hours away and we see eachother three to four days a week. I will catch her getting text messages and holding the phone away ... (261 words)

Why did wife lie about her past? I have a right to know!

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27 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I found out my wife lied to me about how many guys she slept with before me. When the topic first came up when we were dating she told me there was three. I had a very hard time with this because i felt very insecure about myself. At that point i started going to therapy ... (279 words)