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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and i havent been together that long but he told me he was crazy about me. recently though, he said that we rushed into it and he's too busy w/ work and school right now, he doesnt want to fail classes anymore because of girls, which he's done in the past. i know he's a busy guy but it was always HIM calling and making plans. so we decided to take some space, he told me we can get through it but then he also said he doesnt want a girlfriend who he'll only see once a week. he texted me that he was thinking about me but then in another message said that he's really busy and work is a b**** i didnt even know what to say to that so i didnt reply. he called me last night but i didnt answer, he said he wanted to see how i was doing and that he tried to message me but i "gave him the cold shoulder" but seriously how did he want me to respond? so i called him back and left a vm saying to call me but he still hasnt! is he playing games w/ me now because i didnt reply to his texts? what should i do?
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reader, billg  +, writes (23 April 2010):
If he's doing this to you now, anything further will nearly be the same, if not in near future but later he will soon be back to playing games, my advice, if he really really wants you, he will do anything to get you, else call it a ditch
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2010): From the sounds of it he doesn't know how to manage his life very well. He is likely not calling you because you ignored his texts. He sounds very juvenile. Talking to him and letting him know how you are doing, and finding out how he is doing is something that a girlfriend and boyfriend should be doing. His text about working being a bitch is his way of reaching out. Empathize, and try to make him feel better. Often just listening will do the trick.This is one problem with how text messages have permiated our culture. Some things are best when done in a conversation. Good luck. I don't think the game playing is a conscious effort on his part if that helps any.
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