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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 years, i am 14 years old and so is he. We have made out, kissed, cuddle, and stuff but i don't know what the next step should be? Should it be more sexually or something else? i am not sure what to do.
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reader, Just Diana  +, writes (22 April 2010):
 If in doubt do without.
You are too young for sex. The next step my dear girl is to go for a picnic, watch a movie, go for a swim, ....hold onto your innocence....what is the hurry?
You have been dating for three yrs and I applaud you for this duration, however, there is no rush, take it slow, .....wait another 3 yrs! Seriously.....if I could give you a looking glass into the future you may see looking back from there, ...the wait was worth it.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (22 April 2010):
 You are too young to be taking such a huge risk. SEX is a massive risk. Don't engage in it unless you are able and mature enough to take care of a baby. Trust me, YOU AREN'T, and no 10-second orgasm is worth the risk.
You and your boyfriend have been dating since you were 11??? If I were you, I would put the brakes on and be serious with NO GUY. You have a future, and dreams and goals for your life. It's extremely shortsighted that being sexual with a 14 year old is the burning question in your life.
You absolutely do not need sex in your life right now, feelings or no feelings. 14 year olds suck at birth control, and I guarantee that you won't like sex as well as your boyfriend.
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