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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Are there love spells you can cast that actually work?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there are many webistes online claming to cast spells that would really work.there is this spell casting women named ashra she is the us top most american cast speller of 2009 do u think he can really cast a love spell that will work? Please tell me if it's true or all bogu... (55 words)

Did he break up with me because his feelings were too strong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to have a guy have such strong feelings for you, that they dont know what to do with them and they end up just running away from it all? Especially when this person feels like they always need to be the tough guy and it's hard for them to deal with actual r... (150 words)

Is an emotional affair more meaningful than a sexual one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - One mainly for the guys but if any of you ladies have comments................... When you have an emotional affair which does not get physical is that more meaningful to a guy than a relationship which is mainly sex orientated??... (40 words)

How do I stop feeling guilty and like I abandoned my brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my brother were neglected by our parents and we were taken into care. We spent 6 years in various care homes, until 3 months ago when 1 family took me in. So I now live with them My new family have always wanted a daughter having had 5 sons and so they look after me... (209 words)

How do I prove to him I wasn't trying to cheat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy for about a year we just moved into a house together almost 2 months ago I also have 3 kids that r not his but he is really good with them...but for the past 2 weeks we have been fighting about i really dont know he has stayed at his dads a few times ... (208 words)

Have I missed out on love and happiness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - years had bulling and rejection.missing out on love because of rejection. people who rejected me always find love the likes of me does n,t .has left me with a lot of problems.i have being going counselling since i was 6 years old.i see other people who can find love and be ... (194 words)

Should I be flirting with my best friend's boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My bestfriend recently started dating this guy. Hes like one of our bestfriends too. Me and him use to be really flirty and every thought wed date. And I do like him a lot. But now me and him are flirting again and i dont know what to do cause i dont want him to cheat on her ... (85 words)

I had sex with my neighbor. Why does he not seem interested anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi where do i start i split up with my boyfriend of 4 years then a couple of weeks later i started sleaping with my next door neighbour, that went on for about 5 weeks. now he dosent seem bothered anymore we havent spoke for a couple of weeks ive only had a text message saying ... (126 words)

Is his behavior medication related?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

- Hi... Ok where do I start? I've been dating this guy well call him Allen for about...well, over a year now. and recently he went through some medical scares. He has since had to change anti-depressants to something else. because the one he was on was messing up his white blo... (248 words)

What is up with my ex boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up 9 months ago after dating for 7 months. We had a really loving and good relationship. During that time, he had decided to go back to school, move back home, and do other things to better himself. After 7 months, he decided he wanted a break so he ... (445 words)

Does my dad have a Mother Complex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents aren't divorced,I have always lived with them but I was raised by my grandmother therefore I don't have a good relationship with my parents,I'm not close to them.I know my mother loves me but I think my father doesn't love me because he is not an affectionate dad.He ... (476 words)

Should I take my ex back, even though he is unpredictable and a player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I need some serious advice :( My boyfriend "Joe" broke up with me after we got into a little arguement and he started dating this girl "Sally" shortly afterwards. I really liked "Joe" but everybody said he was a player and stuff, so now I got over him and I am dating ... (176 words)

How do I bring up having a baby with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so this is basically a lot of questions about my relationship... one- last year my boyfriend asked me to marry him (without a ring), it was amazing, i thought we were close before but that has made us 'one'. we looked at rings and i picked out one i liked and he was... (261 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to care more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 years. We are both 22 years old, have part-time jobs and go to University full-time. Recently, I feel like my bf seems to care less and less about me. I know he loves me and cares for me, but he has a wierd way of showing ... (244 words)

Does he deserve for me to wait for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 April 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Ok I've had advice from friends and family and just still feel confused..... Ok here's the dilema- I have been with my boyfriend for 4.5yrs, we always spoke about settling down marriage, kids etc but he seems to be a commitment phobe. Anyway 2 years ago I got pregnant and aft... (758 words)

Is he trying to show off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - What does it mean when a fairly recent (teenage) boyfriend asks you to come watch his sports game/music performance? Is he trying to show off?... (25 words)

Suspect husband is cyber-cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - ok here goes i suspect my husband of 15 years is involved with another woman the best part i know her and she is a cousin of his the better part is she lives very far away so physiacl contact is out of the question unless vacations are arranged with our families which has ... (171 words)

Boyfriend knows I don't love him but still wants to keep trying!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I told my boyfriend i wasnt inlove with him,i said i think am still inlove with my ex...i even went 2 the extent of trying 2 break up with him because at that time i was feeling guilty about d whole thing.but he pleaded with me and told me to give it sumtime,i said ok but i ... (182 words)

Would he still want me if he knew I had a son?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - there is a guy who i have been going out with for 3 weeks he dosent know about my son and im scared to tell him in case he dosent accept me and my son are a deal he has me he accepts my son to its starting to worry me so i try not bring up my son in conversation in ... (71 words)

Nearly 15 and never had a period

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi im nearly 15 and I haven't had my period what should I do?... (14 words)

He's using me and I can't help it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i split up from my ex boyfriend in october and i feel that he takes advantage of me because he knew i would do anything for him. i still have very strong feelings for this person and when ever i see him i fall in love again. however, i feel that he takes advantage of me ... (155 words)

Lacking body confidence

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend wants me to send him a nude picture of myself, but im nervous because of my weight. im not really big, im 5'1 and weight 125lbs, but you can see where my tummy stopps. im scared. please tell me what i should do, and how i should pose. Thank you so so much.... (55 words)

Could it be a yeast infection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im 17 almost 18. Well I was wondering if this sounds like a yeast infection, one side is swollen and it hurts somes times and it a littel red? Iv never had one before and i looked it up it said uslly there will be itching and burning and white stuff. But i dont have any of ... (151 words)

Trying to find the root of my depression

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - HI all I feel that I need some serous advice. Yes I am the same Myau, kicking everyone else up the behind. I have answered goodness knows how many posts under my 3 names: notsogreat, Ingwe and Myau. But I do this in truth because I am suffering from depression. I though... (430 words)

Grown man still obeying his parents

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - He tells me he loves me and wants us to be together even if he has to wait forever since his family won't allow us to be together. He doesn't want to risk loosing them and wants me to wait for them to accept us. He is 23 and still listens to his parents. Since he lives with ... (168 words)

Having to choose between our families and each other!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married and love with a married woman. we both are in love for last couples of months. The problem is that both of us loves our family much and never want to do any such things which embarrass our family life and we con't leave without each other. The only indian ... (74 words)

Would he propose just for a Visa?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been dating a kurdish man for 3 years now maybe more hes security on club doors in marmaris ... hes not like the usual he has money own home ,own car and has no interst in coming to england (believe me i have tried many times to get him here )...off back to ee him in three ... (134 words)

I don't trust her reassurances

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - OK so my gf is a tour guide. The problem is that she meets a lot of guys that she keeps in contact with through msn etc. It's making me feel very jealous. Just tonight she was chatting to one guy from Egypt and he was starting to get very suggestive about missing her etc.... (271 words)

Will my husband seek a younger replacement?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

11 April 2010 (F) age - I wonder if man cheats on their wife's,and leaves them for someone else , more often ,than women does/? I have an impression,that in young age maybe it is sort of equal, woman and man both searching,and cheating. But the way I see ,after long marriages,it s almost always the ... (210 words)

Problem with agressive sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for over 4 months now, from the 1st time we met we have either seen each other or talked on the phone every night. From the beginning he has told me about his past, which involved sleeping with a lot of girls. He feels a lot of guilt and remorse for ... (290 words)

We're both rubbish kissers!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've been going out with my boyfriend for a little over a year...and despite that, we haven't really been able to get the whole 'kissing' thing right...for example, our goodbye kisses are often nervous, rushed and awkward. Neither him or me really know how to go about ... (61 words)

Is it love or do I just enjoy the attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age - How can u tell if you are really in love with someone or you are just in love with the distraction and therefore that is why you can't seem to get enough attention from this person. Background: I have recently been in touch via chat with my first real love after nearly 30 ... (144 words)

Nasty discharge around my period

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is embarrassing, but has anyone ever used repHresh? Or douche? Is it safe? And what if you do have a bad odor that comes and goes, mainly during or after your period? And what are normal and abnormal discharges? I'm on Yaz, and sefore and after my period, I get these nasty ... (58 words)

How do you tell if he just wants to be friends or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you tell the difference between a close guy friend and a man interested in more? Recently my guy friend of 5 yrs. and I have gotten really close. We talk or text almost daily, but when we are around each other in person don't communicate nearly as much. He seems to ... (94 words)

I lied about my age, should I tell him the truth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 42 year old woman who often gets mistaken for being much younger. My problem is that I met a guy who is 37 and I lied (as i don't like to devulge my age) and said I was 38. I didn't think we would continue but it seems we have a spark there.The problem now is that I am ... (156 words)

How do we stop these arguments?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i've lived with my boyfriend for 1 and a half year. things is goin very well at first. but now, Alot of things change. yes! we're Stil loving, the only problem is his temper. he has very hot temper. he always wants Me to listen to him. if i don't obey, we will start ... (131 words)

Has she been put off sex for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend of 9months went to have sex for the first time after a long night together, but it didn't really work. We started very slowly as i know she was nervous but as i went to enter her i had to push reasonably hard (she is quite tight) i only got partially inside ... (183 words)

He lied about being a stoner

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Back in high school my boyfriend used to smoke pot (we werent together yet). We are now both 19, and been dating for 5 months. He hasnt smoked weed in about a year. At the beginning of our relationship I strictly said that I dont want him smoking pot or ANYTHING at all while we ... (204 words)

Does giving my mate a hand-job make me gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

11 April 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Ok so last night on Facebook me and my bud were talkin about stuff and we got on the subject of handjobs and exchanging them for a little while we actually agreed to exchange them at my birthday party in summer. But then i got to thinking and was totally creeped out and said no ... (94 words)

He can't make up his mind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - me and this guy have been friends for 8 years, we been sleeping together on and off for about 6 years. i have falling deeply in love with him. he tells me that he doesnt want a relationship, but then he does and say things that make me feel that he love me too. i've stop ... (175 words)

I want a guy who is interested in more than sex

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been single for 16months now and i just wished i had a nice cos i miss the intimacy, the kissing, late night calls, sweet texts, holding hand:( hope find a guy soon. am not ugly..i get guys but they all just want sex cos they all think am sex. but i want a relationshi... (109 words)

Mobile phone malfunction causing my break up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - *MOD NOTE: Question asker's own title* So this is an update of "broke up but I'll still see him around". So, after a fight with my bf and a contraception accident he freaked out and behaved like a complete idiot making me feel rejected and didn't contact me again - or so I tho... (322 words)

Dating one girl but feel the "playboy" urge in me becoming stronger and stronger

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Greetings everybody! I've been having some (what I perceive to be) "bad signs" lately when it comes to my commitment to my relationship. I'm wondering what kind of advice people have for me. A little background information: A few years ago, I moved from the USA to ... (762 words)

I love her and am not prepared to move on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Question: Should I try, or just let go? Seven years ago, I met two wonderful girls here in China where I teach English. Through the course of time, I married one, and have stayed friends with the other. Our marriage took us back to America where we ultimately divor... (634 words)

He says one thing and does another

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Since september, ive liked this guy, B. and for awhile we were soooo close. like for example, he would sing to me and hold me and stuff like that. We were so close it seemed like we were dating. He is a really nice and romantic person. then one day he just...stopped talking to ... (241 words)

Our anniversary soon, what can I do to surprise him on a budget?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend's and mine anniversary is coming up soon. We live together but all our spare cash is going to saving up to buy a place, so we tend to live on a tight budget. I told him I would be happy with a night in with a DVD, but I want to actually surprise him with ... (85 words)

We're saving to buy a house, what things can we do on a budget?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I live together at his parents house, we are saving up to buy a place together so money is a bit tight. Does anyone have any ideas on things that we can do on the cheap to get us out of the house? We both enjoy a night in with a DVD and a cheap takeaway but ... (70 words)

I'm really into her but I have low self esteem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - For about a week now I've been dating a woman 2 years older than me. I've had a few girlfriends in the past, but I keep getting this really amazing feeling around her that I can honestly say I haven't felt before, and I'm really excited about being with her because I think that ... (291 words)

Feeling unwanted and unloved

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

My boyfriend is constantly receiving texts from girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. .right now am doing just great with my bf but am still not ok. .because my bf is recieving messages and calls from different girls. .when i checked his inbox last i saw lots of messages from girls nd even the ones he sent to them. .its so confusing to me because he loves ... (104 words)

He's 50, I'm 18, His ex drives me mad

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together a year and a half. He's 50 and i'm 18(not a problem for either of us). He is currently living with his mother because he's trying to save to get a place for us. He has two children: a boy of 15 and a girl of 16. The girl does her own thing ... (780 words)

How to please the fiancee after making the stupid mistakes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

11 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - *OP's own title* Having problem .... i have got engaged, earlier we used to have a good relation, now from last week or so due to certain issues we are not just talking properly. It used to be long silence over phone, i tries to ask certain questons about her but used to get ... (154 words)

Should I break up with the girlfriend I view as a kid now, ...or wait until her exams are over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 years old and i've been in a relationship for 4 months,this is my second relationship but i feel that i don't love my girlfriend as same as before, every day we talk 2-3 hours i don't know i got bored or what? but i want her and i want to love her as same as i loved my ... (139 words)

I heard my boyfriend having sex in the background during a phone call!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i rang my boyfreind early this morning becouse he was stopping at his mum becouse he had had a drink with his friend and i couldent get him a taxi back. when i rang his phone it answerd and i heard him say turn that off but obviously he answerd it by mistake and i heard hi... (120 words)

Breaking up by text message. I find it rude and immature!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 4 years basically is trying to break up with me through a text message. I feel that is very rude and immature. So I'm thinking about writing this back. " I don’t understand the reason why you send a text to do this. Keep the phone. I will do you the honor and ... (64 words)

He adored me, chased me, won my heart, ... and now he seems to be losing interest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hey guys, ive been going out with my boyfriend for seven months. he chased me for a whole year before that and we became friends before we started dating. it was fabulous, he was sweet, charming, funny and soo attentive. the best boyfriend ever!!! but a few weeks ago things ... (142 words)

My other children hate their autistic brother! I fear this will effect his social development!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age - My son (12) says that he hates his autistic brother (11), he says when he is calm so its not like he's saying it in the middle of the an argument. He says that he controls his life due to the need to keep a strict routine and calls him a retard regulary. My daughter (14) als... (240 words)

Hard after ejaculation - is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title* Hiya I'm a 16 year-old girl, my boyfriend is 18 and we've been dating for a long while. Recently I started giving him handjobs... But after he cums he stays hard. Is this normal?... (40 words)

Should I tell him everything instead of 'playing the game?'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im currently in a situation, where I'm crazy about this guy, i THINK he may feel the same- but we can't really be together, because of distance. We've known each other for about three years, and he moved a couple of months ago. I'm so confused, so torn up inside at the moment, ... (128 words)

World of warcraft is ruining my marriage!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for 14 years this year. It mostly feels to me that we do nothing but argue most of the time, and over the past few years I have lost all respect for him. We have a 9 year old daughter, and I've decided in the past to stay with my husband ... (350 words)

Feelings rekindled for my ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm currently grieving over a recent breakup and I'm aware that in my current mindset, it's not the right time to make big decisions about my life. During the grieving period, you can't really follow your head OR your heart, because everything's so conflicted and mixed up.. I ... (1241 words)

I'm scared my obsession with getting pregnant will push away my husband.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am a 25 year old I had a m/c in november I was so gutted and ever since I have every month been having symptoms that seem that I am pregnant I take a least two tests but when I get my period I am heart Brocken I am starting to feel obsessed with getting pregnant and feel ... (85 words)

How do I go about getting an abortion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 15 ( 16 in 5 days), and my boyfriend is 19. my mum hated it when we first got together but now she is used to it. i really love him and he really loves me we are so happy. but i think i might be pregnant i am really scared but he said whatever happens he will look after ... (106 words)

I trust him, so why do I respond like I do when his ex texts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - 10 months into our relationship and my boyfriend receives a simple text from his ex-girlfriend saying 'Hi Do you have my CV?' and I have to leave the cinema that we're in for 5 minutes and then basically ignore him for the duration of the film and on the way home. I do trust ... (198 words)

My boyfriend says he needs space and is being distant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now. when we were first an item we would spend so much time together like every weekend, as well as a couple nights during the week. and on weekends i would go over his house and spend time with him and his mates. as i am s... (707 words)

My boyfriend is ready for sex but I am too scared and nervous

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey okay im 17 and in all honesty i am fairly new in the whole dating and sex game and my boyfriend whom im been with for a year already want to have sex....problem is i don't because Im nervous and scared as all hell.....what do i do??? HELP!!!!... (49 words)

She told me to text her, I did, but so far no answer

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, i'd really appreciate your views on my situation. Basically, i've been on 2 dates with a girl. First date we had a couple of drinks at a local pub and ended up having a kiss at the end of the evening. Second date we both ended up getting drunk (she wanted a night on the t... (277 words)

He doesn't really love me, but at the same time we seem great together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been with a wonderful guy since November 2009. We met online via a dating service. We have not dated anyone else since we met each other. We both want the same thing, a long-term relationship and possibly marriage, he is 28 and I am 27. Only problem is, he is not in... (682 words)

I am considering being a non sexual escort

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, iv split up with my bf recently and im not taking it very well...i have no interest in any physical contact and think just going on dates would help...with no contact and i dont want it to go any where so is it wrong if i become an escort? on a non-sexual site? where u ... (95 words)

Is he being too posessive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid readers, my bf of two years, (on and off) called me up really late at night because he thought i was doign something behind his back, after seeing my facebook wall. He thinks im flirting with so many guys and that its enough, but there really is nothing to be so wo... (207 words)

She runs hot and cold -- does she have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Guys, I really need your valuable answers. Thank you. Alright, there's this girl i'm in love with for 2 years, but she's attached but I decided to wait. She told me she's with her bf for almost 5 yrs now. But her relationship wasn't going good. Her bf was being unfaithful... (495 words)

Do you think he's into me? Where do I go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry for the wall of text here. I'm on the dating scene again after having gotten out of a lengthy relationship, and it's an interesting ride. I'd forgotten what it was like to have crushes on people. Now to the matter at hand: I had, for a while, kind of a crush on a guy ... (556 words)

He still lives with his parents -- should I wait for him to grow up?

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 29 and have two kids both boys. I am seeing a guy who is 23 and still lives with his mom and dad. We want to be together but his family doesn't want us to be. He says he has to obey his parents. Which if he was a child I would understand but he is 23. So we still talk and ... (85 words)

Her family is moving away -- help me to cope

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11 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well my girlfriend's mom and dad are planning on moving up north and honestly its hitting me really hard i mean i dont think i ever expeted to fall this deep for this girl. But do you guys think we'd be able to make it work if she does move up there? And is there anything i can ... (67 words)

Cinderella complex

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - (OP's suggested title) Hi there and thanks for reading. I need a little bit of adivise about the way my parents/family see me. I am a single woman, 20 years old. I've never been on a relationship with someone and i still live with my family (since the college where i go t... (464 words)

Is she flirting, interested, what?

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11 April 2010 (M)

age - I've hit a stumbling block here. About two months ago, a friend and I went to a restaurant for dinner. The waitress, a very bubbly attractive younger girl captured my attention. I noticed she kept looking at me, giving the flirty smiles and paying us an unusually high amount of ... (711 words)

He used to treat me like a queen; now he lies and cheats

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi tonight i found out my husband is seeing another woman. We have been married for 4 years and got married you I am now 29 and he is 28. We met each other a year before the marriage but fell deeply in love and got married behind our parents back. No one knows they just know we ... (331 words)

He wants to try anal.

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf wants to try anal sex.I kinda want to but I am scard it will hurt . any advice... (20 words)

If I commit now, do I chain my free spirit?

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm very unlucky when it comes to my love life. I have a very free spirit and I like to be free. I've been dating this guy for eight months now and I'm so confused. Everything seemed so perfect until today. I looks back in all the happy times we shared, and I smiled. But ... (200 words)

Is my girlfriend cheating on me? I feel I'm just really paranoid.

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11 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for over 2 years now, Everything has been great, we have done everything together but lately (the past few month) thing's have changed and i am not sure if i am really paranoid or she really is cheating on me? But right now everythi... (1073 words)

Is this guy that I like...two timing on his gf?

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I take a class outside of school, and there's this very good looking guy who is my table partner. I'm almost 18 and he's 21. When I first met him, I asked if he's single, and he didn't say anything. Since then though, he added me on facebook, aim, and skype. Through facebook I ... (197 words)

I'm afraid to call him because it may push him away further. What should I do?

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I posted before about my boyfriend being distant, not sharing his feelings, etc etc. Turns out he was really busy and stressed out this week, and he hasn't called me because he needed to clear his head, and he didn't want to talk to me because apparently I don't help the ... (158 words)

He asked me to move to him and now he's making my life hell! Help!

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I met my boyfriend of two years in London.. we moved in together.. He got stomach problems, couldn't digest his food properly, I asked him to go the doctors in London but wouldn't go cause didn't trust them cause they wasn't Italian, it became very difficult, he treated me ... (636 words)

My ex and I are on again but there are trust issues! Advice?

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11 April 2010 (?) age 41-50 - My ex and I are trying to put our relationship back together, but there are some trust issues blocking the way. Essential background: I spent six years of my life (21-27) loving a man who had serious problems with jealousy, fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, alcoholi... (404 words)

I think he will leave me if I don't have sex with him.

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi my name is xoxoxoxo and i am a virgin and i really want to have sex i have a boyfriend and i really love him hes not a virgin but i am i tried to let him do it but it hurts when he tries to go in so i make him stop is it me what should i do i need help i think if i dint have ... (84 words)

What can make my girl friend start behaving strange?

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11 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - *OP's own title* I have a girl friend,and both of us are in good and deep relationship,suddenly she just started behaving strange to me,if i call,sometime she refuses to pick my calls,i dont know what to do again,because i love her die,infact am totally confused,please help me o... (48 words)

Boyfriends screwing around gave me insecurites how do I face them and still stay with him ?

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title* a while back i found out my boyfriend was screwing around on the computer with otehr girls , i confronted him we talked and worked it out blah blah blah but when i read some of the things that he wrote on the profiles he made it hurts , like one said "loo... (156 words)

Update from post "Can my husband sue?"

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I wrote a post earlier regarding my adulterous affair and questioned if my husband could sue my lover...now ex-lover. Instead of suing, he did a background check on my ex-lover and found out that he was married. He found his wife on a social networking site and confronted her ... (276 words)

He has a low sex drive, yet still masterbates. Why?

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11 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi My partner and I are gay and I find that I am always wanting sex with him as I can not get enough but he has a very little sex drive but is happy to wank everyday with out me can you tell me what is wrong with this.... (50 words)

Cyber Cheating

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help !!! :( i need advice on how to get over pain caused by your boyfriend and or husband. back in december my boyfriend cyber cheated on me , he was doing shit on cam with other chicks and i cant seem to get over it. we talked it out and all got better but its still ... (113 words)

My girlfriend has turned cold. This ain't workin' out for me.

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11 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'm a 29 year old guy, in a relationship, if we can call it that way, with a 21 year old. We had our ups and downs, when there's a problem I frankly avoid it, coz to be honest, I like the gal, she's golden. But she really bummed me out these last few weeks, she's being re... (104 words)

Why does she stay with him when she knows hoe he treated me?

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I am friends with my exboyfriend's new girlfriend and I really care about her! I was verbally and physically abused by him and she knows everything that happened and how he treated me! He even told her himself! But to the extent that it was. She says he has never hit... (82 words)

Am I a lesbian, or have I just not met the right man yet?

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - dear aunts. sorry if this is too long. I met this girl who is doing the same uni course as me and i was immediately drawn to her. im not sure what it is about her but i felt strangely interested in absolutely everything about her. i didnt want to start a friendship with ... (795 words)

I'm too scared to tell anybody I am a lesbian

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Over the last few years i have been atractted but now i have make up my mind that am a lesbian i know people say how can a 15 year old say she is a lesbian but i have totally no intrest in boys what so ever. The problem is that am too scared too tell anyone so how can i get a ... (134 words)

He asked for a break, is it really over?

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had been together for about a year and a half. He just turned 27 and I am 24. He started his new job about 5 months ago, and we had been in a long distance relationship since then. He would be optimistic about our relationship, while I was not. I still wanted ... (197 words)

I am 14, my FWB also 14, could he have been abused?

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - so im not sure what to think, my fwbs (friend with beniffets) he is a player, and i didnt mean to get involed with someone like him, but now i am. and as times gone on, ive realized it not enough for him, he can never get enough. its scary, he has to hook up with someone or he ... (154 words)

My ex is blowing hot and cold and I am just confused!

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11 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex and I were together for 3 years. We broke up in dec. And she started dating her best guy friend almost immediately. I tried to get her back, and slept with her twice in febuary, they were still dating, but ultimately she didn't want to get back together then, she still ... (165 words)

My family thinks I'm a bad parent!

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11 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have 3 sisters, all of us moms. I have 1 son who is 19 and still lives at home. Ever since the time he was born my family has criticized my parenting skills. My family all live in a small canadian town, my husband and I move to california before my son was born. Every year ... (410 words)