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writes:*Op's own title*My relationship has reached a point where I am very vulnerable to cheating on my girlfriend. The truth is that she didn't take care of me (and she acknowledges it) and avoided the subject for far too long. After our conversation, her attitude changed but I'm not sure if it's too late.The other day I almost cheated on her and realized the situation. So I really need to find out if I like her and want to stay with her before something bad happens.I really have deep feelings for her but am uncertain about our future? I have been thinking of taking a break to get my ideas in order, but I don't want to separate to go crazy and go back to her.What do you guys think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBy taking care I meant I wasn't sexually happy. She also didn't want to talk about it. When I finally managed to bring up the question, she acknowledged my point. But alas, it was too late.
Be finally broke up one or two months after I posted the question, we didn't really have much of a future together. Fucking painful, but necessary.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (22 April 2010):
 If you do take a break make sure to not have sexual contact with anyone during this break. The break is for you to think about your relationship, not to have a moment of freedom to have sex with other women. If you want other women you should break it off with her.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (22 April 2010):
 What do you mean, she didn't "take care" of you? What did or didn't she do?
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (22 April 2010):
 Hun, get yourself and your gf off to counselling....
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