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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

After all these months, should I continue to wait for him? He was my first...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i hav a bf we hav 6 years seeing each other he lives 80miles away frm me....11 months ago he said he had to leave to another state for 4 months for work 4 months went by then 5 months n finally i got just a letter...after 8 months he txt me that he missed me n couldnt wait to ... (138 words)

Should I just stay friends with this guy? Move forward and try to make it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5362 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - he says he loves me i feel like i should trust him....but we like to do totally different things but when it comes to us just being together it just feels right.....but i dont know what to do about this feeling that i have that its just not right.....i feel like ive never been ... (527 words)

Forgetfulness -- Is it because you are unimportant or is this a case of absentmindedness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5362 days ago

16 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, first post so here goes(apologize if I am a bit long-winded) This has to do with a "friend" I had a few months ago(friend in commas cuz I am not sure I was their friend). One of the problems we encountered was that I would tell them something and it seems that it wo... (372 words)

Should I be just friends? He is married, too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married mum of twins who has fallen out of love with my husband of 15 years. He was my first love, however we never go out and he runs up parking fines and bills and never pays, so bailiffs are always knocking on our door and he constantly asking me for money even ... (377 words)

Am I supposed to feel down all the time about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am a girl and i have a boy best friend and his best friend(MG) likes me well we like each other and i didn't think our relationship was going to go anywhere because he was sooo wired!! but it was like a week after we started talking and i lost my virginity so someone who i... (102 words)

Saw mom watching a movie with a naked women

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a really akward situation, I live at home with my mum, dad and older sister (when she's home from uni) My parents have been together since they were 16 and 17, and have two children together, me and my sister. The other night I was downstairs on my own and my parents ... (187 words)

He has my number, but I don't hear anything.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - really like this guy i met at the pub, he is a bar man! my friend B works there as well so i told barry i liked this guy B phones me to say that he told him i like him and he wants to be straight with me that he is in touch with an ex, they not getting together but he still ... (193 words)

Should we get married when he gets out of bootcamp?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years, Im 18 and he is about to turn 20. He recently joined the army and this has brought up a lot of conversation about the future and that conversation always leads to the marriage discussion. We love each other very much and ... (189 words)

Told him of my past, idk if he really loves me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for 6 monthz almost 7 and im really in love with him but its not the same as before.he use to treat me really good but after awhile he started treating me really bad because of things i told him about the past n til this day he thinks bad of me. hes ... (618 words)

Old love has turned up again after all this time... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5362 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Many years ago I was involved with this guy who I really cared for a lot. To make a long story short.. He had to go away for a bit in the army and he wrote me a couple of letters. During that time I later married and had a child moving out of the county and later moving home. ... (411 words)

I'm afraid to show my feelings to a boy I like, not sure if he's gay.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

16 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Theirs this boy at school who i have started to have a crush on and i don't know if he is gay or not and i am scared to ask him because i don't want no one to find out. at school he looks at me sometimes like he likes my because he stair directly at me most time but i don't ... (150 words)

How do I help my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend and I have been best friends for four years now and we've had our ups and downs (what teenage girls haven't?) but we've always pulled through and our relationship has remained intact. She's always had a pretty hard time at home (divorced parents who hate... (215 words)

Routine has put the Fire out, how do we get it back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi! ok so i feel weird having to ask questions about my sex life...a part of my life that i have always been really happy with...only and this is probably important - when im with a boyfriend.... my current borfriend ill will be with for 3 years in september..we have been... (281 words)

I just can't seem to orgasm...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately, I've been thinking more and more about orgasms. I've had three serious boyfriends, and three sex partners and I've never had an orgasm once, not during sex or any other sexual activity, besides rubbing and I wonder if I'll ever have one. It never used to bother me, bu... (143 words)

He keeps changing his mind...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship for a little over a year, and it was constant fighting. It was my first relationship, and I really did learn what NOT to do..I hurt him pretty bad,nothing like cheating on him,but I did lie about some things..not intentionally, I can just be dense when ... (338 words)

How get over your friend who doesn't have the same feelings for you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5362 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can you get over your friend who doesn't have the same feelings for you? ... (15 words)

He has time for his friends and revision but none for me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Lately, my boyfriend has been really confusing me. He keeps telling me that he wants to see me, but I always feel as though he doesn't. We used to see eachother a lot - his excuse is that "people change". He tells me he needs to do revision as his exams are coming up soon, ... (216 words)

Is he looking for love or for laughs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - I have a male friend who used to be quite flirtly with me and then seemed to go off the boil. He rang up to ask a question the other day and was obviously in a very good mood and while we were talking I jokingly told him off and he said 'ooh aren't you being rather bossy'. ... (273 words)

Did he write these things to get rid of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i was with my boyfriend for four years, he cheated on me a few years back, we stayed together. Then he was flirting with people. He always kept secrets but id find some out now and then, also caught him out on a some lies. today i saw on his facebook that he'd wrote "just... (225 words)

She came off her pill, but we kept having sex without condoms. I'm starting to panic!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

16 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm writing this because I'm worried, my girlfriend is on the pill, so we have unprotected sex. The thing is she came off the pill a week ago due to a course of medication she was taking, we had sex and stupidly we didnt use protection and i came inside her. The worst thing is ... (153 words)

We've broken up countless times, but this time I don't want him back. What if I'm making a mistake?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I don't know what to do. I had been for my boyfriend for little over 3 years and a half. Of course, we believed we were soulmates. He was my first boyfriend, first love, etc., and he had plans to marry me next year. But of course it wasn't as rosey as it seems. For three year... (591 words)

Some doubts, his penis has a bend in it, does this have anything to do with his feelings for his aunt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am little shy to ask. but want to confirm. my husband's penis is dark and has a bent. is this normal? his sexual desire is very much, that he used to have sexual relations with his paternal aunt. does his penis particularity got some thing to do with it? he says that he dont ... (90 words)

Make or break...???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5361 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I wonder if you can help me. My friend says he loves me and I feel like i should trust him but we like to do totally different things yet when it comes to us just being together it just feels right. I dont know what to do about this feeling that i have but I feel something's ... (469 words)

Am I asking for disappointment if I ask this "lad" out to the pub?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I hooked up with a guy who I would call a bit of a "lad" he's older than me (20) and is very confident ad doesn't stay with one girl very long if any time at all really! I was considering asking him out to the pub or somewhere as I quite like him, am I asking for disa... (62 words)

Why does he send his ex vids of us having sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does my boyfriend do this? He is still in close contact with his ex. They had a long distance relationship for 3 years and they still talk and text pretty regular. I know he sometimes sends her vids and pics of US having sex or...he does things to me while IM ASLEEP a... (123 words)

I woke up to see my boyfriend feeling up my sister!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - One nite me my boyfriend of six months and my step sister drank, I could feel something wrong, later that nite we went back to our house watched a movie n I fell asleep, then I woke up to find my my boyfriend feeling up my sister right over me, I was half asleep. The next day ... (133 words)

I want to have my cake and eat it too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *Op's own title* So I have been in a relationship for about a year in a half. We have been living together for almost a year, but I'm only 19 almost 20. We started dating right after i got out of a bad relationship and moved in when we were only together for about six mont... (311 words)

Broke up, now lost in emotion and don't know what to do

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16 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - *Op's own title* A few weeks ago I broke up with my boyfriend. We had been together for six years. I have gone through so many emotions I am now lost and have no idea what to do or think. I broke up with him mostly because he was so uncomfortable with me making friends that ... (462 words)

Is there a better way to go about getting my ex back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

16 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex tried to reconcile with me by taking t slow. I freaked and told her to stop stringing me along(believing she was just trying to be friends). I teally hurt her feelings. She told me that we broke up bc I pit other things infront of her in my life, and that she thought that ... (204 words)

Nasty comments after my brothers death.

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16 April 2010 (?) age 41-50 - When my brother passed away, an ex-friend from childhood came with her family to the funeral home. She gave me a hug and then said, "I'd say let's get together but I'm moving out of the country- so oh well!" with an evil smirk on her face. (Inside the funeral parlor, in front ... (218 words)

Believeable or Just Another Lie?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend going on 3yrs. and he use to tell me about his exes and the sexual experiences he's had even once said one of them gave better head than me but this third year in our relationship we got into an extreme argument, you know the kind where everthing ... (207 words)

Is it right to fall in-love to a guy friend even if you're in a relationship right now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this question that keeps bugging my mind..I am in a relationship right now but we're on a long distance relationship..It seems like our relationship right now is kinda shaky or I may not healthy anymore..We're almost 2 years and 10 months now...If you we're to ask me,i ... (170 words)

Causes and treatments for psychological impotence?

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16 April 2010 (M) age - What is the treatment and the causes of psychological impotence? I'm 47, and few years ago I lost my sex drive and my erections. Suddenly. Went to doctors,but they have no idea,what is going on, as Im not sick. All tests are normal.. My marriage is falling apart, and I have no ... (58 words)

Should I stay in this or should I leave her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a girl for about 4 months now, when we first started talking she had been in a 4 yr relationship with a guy who she felt wasn't as committed as she was. Well we started talking and next thing you know we were madly in love and not thinking so she left the guy ... (342 words)

He wont marry me!

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16 April 2010 (?) age 41-50 - So, I've been with my BF for 4 years now. We lived together for 2 years and now I bought a house and i live there by myself because I only want him to live there with me once we're emarried. Right, married. Whenever I bring the marriage issue up he just freaks out and we have ... (263 words)

How can I tell if this is an allergic reaction to latex condoms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I was just wondering if anyone is allergic to latex condoms? Me and bf use durex extra safe and every time we use them I get a burning type feeling down there and it really makes sex not enjoyable. I think it may be an allergic reaction but im not sure! Does anyone have any... (75 words)

Should I have an affair with this man or would my ex-boyfriend think badly of me if I did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well,my problem is somewhat weird. I broke up with my bf few months back. I thought i would never get over him but i guess i am over him though not completely. During this time,i met a guy online. I have known him for years. He asked me about my recently changed facebook... (168 words)

I'm in love with my solicitor's daughter!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

16 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I have the biggest problem ever !!! Who could be the worst person to fall in love with?? Your solicitors daughter maybe ! Oh please someone help... this really isnt good... and whats worse, my solicitor is trying to get me work at the same place her daughter works. **** my... (60 words)

Is this why she dumped me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was with my ex for 1 year. Our relationship was tough, as she was restricted, she was a very busy person and sometimes her parents wouldnt let her do things with me such as stay the night. Or go on holiday even though she is 18. Im the opposite, im very unbusy an have all the ... (341 words)

My boyfriend has started to sleep on the couch instead of in bed with me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age - I have a concern about my relationship with my boyfriend. We been involved for four years now, we do live together. I have a problem with him when he sleeps on the couch instead in the bed with me. He has done this in the past with another girlfriend but their relationship was ... (184 words)

Am I having a nervous breakdown?

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I'm having a nervous breakdown. I can't face doing anything, I haven't been going to uni, and in fact, I find it incredibly difficult to do the most simple tasks, like wash up or even have a shower. I am dissinterested in everything, and have begun to shy away fro... (233 words)

Should I visit my ex during this tough time or just give him a card?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do?? do I go see him or not? my ex boyfriend and I were together for 2years..he started accusing me of cheating when i wasn't and i later found out that he was the one cheating and chose the girl over me...saying am a nice girl,loving passionate, caring ... (164 words)

Will my married former lover contact me sometime down the road? I never even got to say goodbye!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a guy for almost a year. Things started to get more serious the past few months, but then we had to stop seeing each other. Apparently, he was married this whole time and I never knew about it. She just recently found out about us, I haven't heard from him ... (192 words)

My love for a colleague is stopping me from being productive at work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im hopelessly in love with someone at work, unfortunately he sees me as a friend only. we share an office, meaning we spend 12 hours everyday in the same room. i kinda asked him if we could date and he made it clear to me that he sees me as a friend. im considering exch... (82 words)

Are we having too much sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, ok so i guess this isnt a huge deal but me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 months. im 17 hes 21. every single time we see each other we have sex, at least 3 times too, we see each other about 3-4 times a week, is this too much? we have good conversation but ... (140 words)

He never seems to be in the mood anymore... how can we get through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I know this is probably a commonly asked question, not just on here but among women in general but I'm too embarrassed to talk to my girlfriends about it. My boyfriend and I have been together a year and our sex life has always been amazing but just lately he's never in... (159 words)

Univeristy is shattering my confidence

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello to everyone who reads my post, hopefully it wont be to long and confussing and maybe i could get some advice. I am at University doing Fashion Design and have almost completed my first year. When people say University is the time of your life...well thats complete... (623 words)

Should I tell my ex I still have feelings for him even though we split up 5 years ago?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - should i tell my old flame that i still have feelings for him, though we broke up 5 years ago. and there has been others after him?... (27 words)

Can you have periods but not ovulate??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all, i just have a quick question cant get any sense from gp. if you have periods, irregular ones and have ovulation pains you must be able to get pregnant right periods equal ovulation, ovulation equals ability to concieve??? or not??? please help thanx xxxx can you have ... (53 words)

I'm not sure how to react now I have found out my boyfriend masturbates over his ex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just unintentionally found out my boy of 3 years (rarely) wanks to the memory of having sex with his ex. (She was his first, and he says he's totally over her - they have no contact) He said it's just a different type of sex, where as we 'make love' it was just sex with he... (107 words)

Is it really messed up that I am in love with him yet he only wants to use me for "sexual fun"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi hunnys I am friends with this man and we are both adults I am 25 and he is 27. We have been friends for a very long time and only recently has it become sexual. We haven't had sex but we have discussed it. we haven't even kissed we have always been very modest with each... (164 words)

She doesn't know whether to take me seriously or not when I flirt with her! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently started flirting with this girl. We knew each other in the past. I wasnt around her much and we werent really around each other enough to be considered friends. But she knows I joke a lot and this is causing problems. When I flirt with her she doesnt know whet... (65 words)

What can I do to help me get the boy I like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - is there something wrong with me? im fat and ugly and i will never get a boyfriend what can i do to help me get the boy i like??... (29 words)

Questions about pregnancy.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If you think you may be pregnant, would you still ovulate and have discharge? ... (14 words)

We had to break up because of our religions! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi cupid i have a girlfriend but we've just broken up and we love each other a lot but problem is that she is sikh and i am hindu and she says her parents wont allow hindu boys. what should i do i cant live with out her plz help ... (50 words)

I have been trying to get pregnant for 7 months and nothing has happened! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have been married for 7 months and im been trying to get pregnant. Im 21 years old and im just wondering is there something wrong with me? Should i be stressing out? I have tried everything but still no baby ... (42 words)

His friends are frustrating me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been on and off for the past year and something that i noticed lately thats been bothering me are his friends (both girls and boys). His friends aren't the friendliest people, i am the most outgoing friendliest person around..but they come off arrogan... (171 words)

I want to ask him for his number, how do I go about doing that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like this guy I work with and I really wanna ask him for his number but I'm so shy and nervous to do it. Does anyone know any good ways that I can ask him for it and what I should say? Thanks... (45 words)

The way I feel is starting to scare me and I have no idea what to do about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, the way I feel is beginning to scare me. I’ve been feeling very very low for about 18 months; I am aware it’s a problem and am doing my best to cope. I went to the doctor about a week ago but found she was unhelpful and pretty unpleasant, so I am aiming to get some ... (405 words)

My best friend is gay...and I'm in love with him! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys im in love with my gay best friend ... although i havent seen him for a while i cant stop thinking about him... it is sort of like will and grace cuz we have made out multiple times before he decided to be completly gay and once after that. i dont know if i can get him ... (118 words)

She has got back in touch after almost a month, what should I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so a month and a half ago my girlfriend of 3 and a half years dumped me for being too obsessive so to say. I posted a question here weeks ago about me wanting to get her back and applying the no contact rule. Well nearly a month has gone by since we last spoke to each ... (370 words)

My mum found out I have been smoking and now she is mad at me, what can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my mum just found out i was smoking, she found them in my bag she no longer trusts me, coz she asked me ages ago if i smoked and i said no i only said no because i didnt want to hurt her she is acting like its the end of the world i have 3 brothers who smoked when they wa... (122 words)

He never has the time to talk to me anymore, should I just end the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a distance relationship for 3 months now i love my boyfriend so much and he say he loved me too but there is a big BUT it seems like he don't love me anymore because he doesn't have time for me. he say everytime that he is busy he don't want to chat with me anymore or ... (77 words)

Is it possible that being told so often can lead someone to believe and therefore make something happen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Morning All, I was again wondering this week, and once I came out of my wonderland, I couldn't help but think of the answer to the question I had thought of... I will try and make as much sense as possible. When someone is told something often, is it reasonable to thi... (259 words)

How can I mend my broken heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age - hi, i hope someone can help me get over this as my heart is so so sore, about 35 years ago i fell in love with a guy we were getting married then something happened and we drifted apart 8 weeks later he was married, the night he got married he phoned me said he had made a ... (574 words)

What does it mean when a girl says you're cute?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

16 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What does it honestly mean? Sometimes people tell me that a girl would say a guy is cute when she likes, or is interested in him. Most times though, people tell me that girls say that when she's not interested, doesn't like him at all but doesn't want to hurt his feeling... (258 words)

Does he like me or am I just hoping that he does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I work with this guy I'm 24 and he's 38 I know its a big age difference but it doesn't matter.. I'm trying to figure out if he likes me so I can do my best to tell him how I feel. We both have the same rank in the job we are both apart of management. I have been having these ... (320 words)

Is being a martyr to the man you love worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a very complicated situation of a relationship...we already have one baby and he is being responsible with him.But we are not leaving in same house he just paying where the place i stay.He never said he loves me but he just say he likes me..years past i keep on ... (185 words)

I think she might be using me and trying to control me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

16 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 27 and my girlfriend is 38. She has a salon and has alot of male clients that she flirts with. Should I be concerned or let that be? She also has her act together and owns a house and 2 condos that she rents out. I on the other hand have been a bit of a late bloomer and ... (147 words)

Should I give up .... Does he even like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys!!! I need some advice!!!! Ok I really like this Virgo guy…. I’m not really sure why exactly because he doesn’t really put himself out there much lol. We met about 5yrs ago. I worked at a mall and he tried to get my number. I was very attracted to him but the timing w... (965 words)

Should I just ask him if we are more than just friends? He gives so many mixed messages!

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a guy friend that seems to only want to be friends however gives mixed messages and can get upset not wanting to "disappoint" me. He constantly calls and wants to hang-out. Should I ask him straight-up if we are more than friends or just leave it be?... (51 words)

Is he just using me to make my best friend jealous?

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I like this guy and I have for a while and he finally aked me to prom, but later that day he confessed in a text that he likes my best friend. I am confused if he is using me to get closer to her or if I am a tool to make her jealous or maybe even something else. I am ... (90 words)

Did I make a mistake by staying with him?

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my bf for a yr. The first summer with him was amazing. Starting off after the summer I found out I was moving. Even though I was moving we decided to stay with each other. After I had left he started to hangout with my cousin. She is a major hoe. They ended up ... (307 words)

Is she a cheater or am I being paranoid?

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16 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i dont know what to think?? is my girlfriend cheating? iv been hurt in the past from this and did have trust issues but then i met this perfect girl we remained very very good friends for a while before we both realized we had strong feelings for each other and i trusted her ... (766 words)

So now what do I do? Should I just continue the flirtation?

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've written on this site before about this shy guy I am interested in. I took everyone's advice and made the move (long story short): (Just a background- we both go to school together. He's a bit shy around me. I always catch him staring at me. His friends were try... (471 words)

We don't have sex and he says he needs condoms to jerk off into. Is he cheating?

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16 April 2010 (F)

age - I am 51 years old. I have been married for 30 years. I met my husband 30 years ago and married him in 2 days. We remain in a marriage. This is not a marriage I want to continue as is. About 15 years ago, I decided to stop having sexual relations with my husband. Because ... (312 words)

My boyfriend is acting really strange, what could be going on?

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 years old, and my boyfriend is 31.We have been dating for almost three years. About four months ago, he wanted a piece of paper and pen to find out what the cost of something would be, i recently found that piece of paper i gave him and he took 722.00 and multiplied it ... (114 words)

Does jelquing actually work? And will my penis be too short for my future wife?

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16 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - okay, I'm 17 years old, I'm a virgin and I do want to abstain from sex untill I'm married. my penis is about six inches long when erect, my question is: does jelquing work and if so, in what stage of my erection should I start the excersize?? and is the size of my penis too ... (76 words)

I'm 17, how would I look if I dated a 15-year-old?

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16 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and I'm wondering is dating a girl that is 15 and a freshman is that low class? She is really nice but would that make me look bad... (33 words)

I don't like her past and wonder if I should stay married

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16 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, i'm 26 male n just got married a couple of months back. My problem is that i'm upset/angry whenever i think of the sex my wife had with her ex-boyfriends and it haunts me like i wish i were dead. She told me her past life with whom she slept with n etc...... And now when i ... (87 words)

Does every relationship have a title?

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my best friend and me have decided to see eachother, we're involved but we don't have the title of boyfriend and girlfriend yet. I guess my question is 'does every relationship have to have a title?" let me explain, we call what we're doing 'best friends with benefits" b... (247 words)

I'm crazy about a girl, but maybe she's not the best thing for me. Should I cut her out of my life?

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Six months ago i met a girl that's 2 yrs older than me. We talked every day for 2 months on msn because she lives far away, and we became really close friends. A few months ago i told her i liked her and turns out she really liked me too, but she said she didnt see the point in ... (237 words)

Did she break up with me because I was too tired for sex?

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am so angry with my ex, she broke up with me, i loved her so much and i did everything for her, she said the reason was that i was not spending time with her and that i took her for granted! she did alot for me too, let me live with her for free, bought stuff for me, cook... (269 words)

I don't love my wife but I stay with her for the sake of the kids and have affairs. What should I do?

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16 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - OK im a 32 yr old male...I have been married/together with my 28 yr old wife for 12 yrs...we have 3 beautiful children under the ages of 12...the last 3 years i have cheated on her with 2 ppl...there is a 3rd person who i have not had sex with but i really like...we started ... (166 words)

I was wondering why no guys ever ask me out...

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I was wondering why no guys ever ask me out. I feel sort of neglected most of my friends have boyfriends or have had one before yet I am left out. I get really good grades am a brunette with brown eyes and am 5'5". I am pretty athletic (I'm not overweight) and people I know ... (132 words)

How can I find out his intentions without getting hurt?

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi agony aunts and uncles, (I posted a similar question recently, but am hoping for some clearer advice having added in some major points) A bit confused as I am in a difficult situation, I really like this guy (he’s kinda my best mate). but after some remarks he has m... (483 words)

How do I make this a special time?? I'm a virgin and she is not.

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16 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - im a virgin but my girlfriend isnt, and i dont want to be bad for our first time, so how do i make this a good and special time, not just another guy??... (34 words)

I am getting my bachelor's degree soon, while my boyfriend has low ambitions and goals! I don't know if I can deal with this!

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am getting my bachelors degree soon, but my boyfriend only has his high school degree he works and he gets 1200 a month, he does not have a bank account and he lives by sleeping at his friends place, i love him so much and he loves me dearly, the thing is i do not know if i ... (106 words)

My parents will not approve of the love of my life... help !

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,, I am in love with the most amazing guy ever. We started off as friends but our feelings both grew until we eventually confessed our love to each other and decided to go for it. we are both muslims but from different cultural tribes. Most people tend not to marry in... (309 words)

My girlfriend and I are depressed. How can I get her to open up more, eventually love me?

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16 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - A little background info... I've been dating my girlfriend maybe 4 months, known her for 2 1/2 years before that. I'm 16, will be 17 very soon. I have depression, insomnia, and a bunch of other crap. My girlfriend is 19, will be 20 before I'm 17, soon. Don't know if that's r... (529 words)

My girlfriends Daughter annoys me and I resent her existence!

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16 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 and I've been dating my g/f for 5 months now. She got pregnant by some one night stand she didnt know when she was 16 and now has a daughter. I find myself becoming increasingly annoyed with her spoiled five year old daughter. Even resentful. Sometimes I find myself just ... (550 words)

Shoud I go along with what he says or not?

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My freshmen yr I moved to a new town and new school. I didn't know anyone at the school so that sucked. But I got to know this boy that got my interest. I actually meet him at a party and we started talking. We ended up messing around and later hooked up. We were together my ... (224 words)

My little sister doesn't know who I am!

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a relationship question about me and my mother. My parents got divorced when i was 10 and i blame my mother because she had an affair, with the guy she's now with. They have a daughter, Grace, who's 4. I live with my father as my mother's boyfriend says he hates me and ... (224 words)

Why am I SOOO emotional?

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Lately I have been realllyyyyy emotional.. I just wanna cry over thee stupidest things! And no I'm not on my period and I'm way to young to be pregnant. I have cried like six times in the past two days over stupid things. I was laying in bed. Just laying there and I started to ... (69 words)

He promised me so many things and then tells me I'm crazy!

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i was talking to this boy for 3 years on n off we was having sex n he promised me so many things n oneday he just put a girl on the fone saying she was his girlfriend it hurted me so much he told her i never had nothing wit me that i was on his dick im crazy i always told him ... (119 words)

Mixed Signs Or Am I Love Struck?

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I usually know what to do but right now I'm CLUELESS. I'm very close to this guy who I have known for awhile. We don't live close anymore due to me moving to Germany. Him and I talk every night and webcam a lot. The other night while on the phone he asked if I liked him. I w... (224 words)

Sister broke up my b/f and I because she was mad at me but he won't believe me!

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - well my boyfriend who i live w and has helped me so much w my 3 kids( not by him) on saturday found in my email that i had made a post on craigs list looking for a guy...but i didnt do it i was at work when it happened i tried 2 explain this 2 him and he came home on wednesday ... (210 words)

Great sex, and intelligent conversation equals no commitment

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been sleeping with this guy for 10 months, 2-3 times a week. Talk on the phone everyday at least 2 hrs a day. But he won't take me on a date or commit to a relationship. I always try to leave but it's the BEST sex ever, and he says the same. ... (55 words)

My wife had a wild bachelorette party. Should I be mad that I missed some fun for the last time?

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16 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for four months now, and overall it has been great. However, I am in an argument with her over her bachelorette trip that she took with her friends before the wedding. I know that these trips are normal for both men and women. But I really feel ... (347 words)

I've married the perfect person but I want OUT!

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16 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hoping someone can help with a little advice. I have been married for almost 2 years now. We have no children and this is both our first marriage. I truly married the perfect person but I want out. There is no other person on the side or even an interest. I just prefer my ... (139 words)

Did he ever really like me or was it just about sex?

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Im confused, I met this guy about two years ago at work, he is 29 and i am 40, (i have been told i look younger), it was a fixed term contract, we clicked, we seemed to get on so well and I began to become attracted to him, but never let him know, because he is a natural flirt ... (535 words)

He's big -- is there anything we can do so it won't hurt?

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, me and my boyfriend are sexually activee butt we measured his penis at it is 10 inches so it hurts is there anyway i can prevent it from hurting??... (31 words)

I am afraid for my chidren! What should I do????

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I had recently posted a question, I got some advise and was later able to find out the truth about him. This is my original question which only made my worries worse when I got my answers, and have to ask one more question. Original question: I am worried about th... (555 words)

Which guy did I get pregnant with?

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - If i had sex with this guy on 7th of sept, had a period on 16 th of sept, went off on 23rd of sept, then had sex with "boyfriend", when did i get pregnant with my boyfriend or the other guy ... (42 words)

Was he just playing me?

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So theres this guy i like. He says im pretty, beautiful, skinny, gorgeous, cye, ect. he also says im like funn and funny and smart. We used to talk all the time and hang out till like 6 on the preschool play ground. we'd lay together and hed have his arm around me and stuff. ... (104 words)

Does he only want me back because he's done with her?

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My man and I had been going out over a year all of a sudden he started talking about this girl at work and how cool she was...next thing they are texting all the time etc...He went to a party with some friends from work and was gone for 4 days. I was calling and texting him to ... (263 words)

If I ask him out I put the friendship at risk

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - the thing is i really like this boy and most of my mates know i think that he likes my to but im unsure. im too scared to ask him out because i swim with him so it would be wierd if he said no!! i really dont no what to do all my mates said i should ask him out. we have a laugh ... (109 words)

Falling for my best friend's husband

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16 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've gotten myself in a big mess here and I'm not sure what to do next. I've got a major crush on my best friend's husband! This is NOT what I wanted to happened or what I planned on. I know many will say she's not my best friend if I could do this, but she really is. We ... (455 words)

Keep having to come up for air during cunnilingus

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16 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - When going down on my partner (cunnilingus), I keep running out of breath. Is there any suggestions on trying to do this more easily without having to keep coming up for air. Also, is it normal for the male to have to thrust harder during full intercourse to help him to cum?... (56 words)