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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Unrequited love.... I now realize she was my first love, should I write this letter to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - unrequited love My flat mate and me fell for each other at uni three years ago. We had lived together for two years and just got on fantastically well, however despite her being a reasonably attractive girl I must admit that I didn't find her sexually attractive. To me she w... (967 words)

My family hasn't even met my g/f and already they don't like her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

28 April 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Ok. Basic story I had a great relationship of 7 1/2 years but there was always something missing, I always wondered if there was someone else out there. Well that someone came along, I really started to like this person because I work with her. It was never very flirty just ... (573 words)

Cool music, great hair, hot style, OH MY!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, so I'm kind of having this problem here. I don't usually write on these kind of things, but I'm soooo confused... Ok, so, my friend set me up with this really hot guy. He's exactly what I look for in a guy... he loves the same kind of music I do, he's funny, he's cute, an... (558 words)

She likes it better without a cover!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

28 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - when my girlfriend and i have intercrouse, with no condom she likes it more cuz she can feel the head more and during it, my penis feels like its getting squeezed, like her vagina is getting tighter and such and her eyes are closed and looks like she likes it a lot what does ... (67 words)

Where and how can I fit in to this womans life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am currently in an on/off relationship with a girl who is a single mum. While I care for this woman and enjoy her company I'm scared of commiting as I can't see things working out long term. Her little boy is a really good kid and I don't see any conflict arising directly ... (162 words)

Negative test but no period! Am I pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - had sex with my boyfriend a month and a half ago, he came inside of me. i havent started my period, but i did a pregnancy test and came back negative. am i pregnant?... (34 words)

Boyfriend won't let me have it and it hurts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I really need some help with my situation because it is upsetting me so much. I am 20-years-old and my boyfriend just turned 22. We've been together for 2 1/2 years. In the beginning of our relationship we were intimate a lot of the time and it was great. And it was ... (375 words)

My friend told me I have a "flatty batty" and now I feel totally insecure.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have some really close friends, but i always feel insecure about myself. I have small boobs compared to most of my friends, there all like b's-e's, and i feel really left out cos im an a. Also one of my close close friends, who is ALWAYS there for me, went to me in games you ... (172 words)

Should I just keep acting this way until I never see him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My best buddy he has always been very nice to me at school. He's always nice to me on the bus. I really didnt talk to him much today and always act like myself when hes around. I always sit in front of him on the bus and he always puts his arms over the seat. It bugs me but I ... (187 words)

It feels like our relationship has gone backwards not forwards!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my partner (also my sons father and father to the child im presently carrying) have recently broke up, after a cupple of days we realised we wanted to be together but the problem is, is the fact he wants to saty in his own house and not our family home where we have been ... (112 words)

Friends with benefits, how do I find out if he wants more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok two years ago after I broke up with my BF I met a guy who I talked to for a little bit but decided to make it a sex only relationship because I didn't want more. It worked out well. We had sex for like 4 months then I got back with my BF. A year later we broke up for good my ... (168 words)

I love my husband but not this forced celibacy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) age - Im an totally sexually deprived. My husband does not have any sex drive. We tried to fix this problem , but never got better. But now, I realized, if I dont want to leave ,its better just leave him alone.He is nice guy,I don't know what happened to him. It is a 23 year ... (156 words)

Does he like me or is he craving sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, i have a dilemma that isn't putting my life on hold, but i'm still a little nervous. Lately i've noticed this cute-ish guy watching me; it's getting a little bizarre. He usually stares at me deviously, or attempts to touch me "unintentionally" like on the legs... (110 words)

Fantasising about my wife with other men

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (M)

age - I have been married 30 years and I keep fantasising about my wife with other men all started about 10 years ago when my wife has a checkup at a private clinic doctor gave her a full examination while I watched I couldn't believe it I got the biggest election over the head ever ... (129 words)

I am not valued, should I leave and how will I cope alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi...i need help here...i met this guy about 2 years back--and i really do love him but lately hes begun making excuses to meet or get intimate--though whenever am in trouble he helps...but if i ask my close friends even they will--i want a guy to be sensitive to my needs--he ... (485 words)

My teacher kissed me like I've never been kissed before

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

28 April 2010 (?) age 26-29 - HELPHELPHELPHELP!!! That is like the 3 time i write here about the sama teacher,, ! last time wrote that he kissed me and i think i kissed back (i had a black out for a moment, don't remember anyrhing for like 15 seconds!),and yeserday he came to me in every break to talk to ... (281 words)

Is it true that all you need is love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyf have been with each other for over 3 years and he really is such an amazing guy but he has anxiety problems which he has had for over 2 yrs and it has hit our relationship hard. He never goes out or does anything but sits in the house all day. He was made red... (421 words)

Bad experiences with guys, I'm starting to think there's something seriously wrong with me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i know to a lot of people this would sound like a ridiculous question and i would deny it was true if it was happening to someone else but it's not and i'm having a really hard time convincing myself that there's nothing wrong with me. So to start out i'm already really r... (542 words)

I want to keep in touch with him, but I don't know if I should! Things were fine until his ex spoke up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i really need some brutal advice here!!! i met this guy in a pub, he works there, he gave me his number but he said that he is texting his ex but he would like to go for a drink with me at some point (and no he is not a player, a few of my friends know him and say he is lo... (273 words)

I sweat buckets, I can't make eye contact when I talk to older people!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I find it really hard to talk to people that I know are older than me. It's not like just not knowing what to say, its more than that. I get red, hot and sweat buckets. I can never make eye contact. It only ever really happnes with people I know are older than me, people ... (151 words)

I get so attached to guys!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I get so attached to guys. If I have a drunken kiss, or even just a nice conversation or flirt with a guy, I immediatyly start liking them. I really hate it. For example, I met a really nice on Friday night, he was obviously interested in me, and I was interested in him ... (152 words)

We are madly in love, but due to his Mother hating me, he has not contacted me for days

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have asked this question a few times on here, but as the situation keeps updating, I feel the need to re-issue it. To cut a long story short, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. His mother hates me, but refuses to explain to him why. I was not allowed ... (860 words)

Having the Define The Relationship Talk

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Having the Define The Relationship Talk. Hugh and I have been seeing each other since last April then he went away for 6 months to fight in Afgan. We were casually seeing each other with all intention of calling it off when he went away, but then we didn’t. I think we both li... (441 words)

So if I love him, do I try and get him back? Or is this just a phase?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So here's my story. I started dating this guy my senior year of high school. Then we went to two different colleges and continued a long distance relationship for another 2 1/2 years. The distance sucked, but we loved each other and wanted to make it work. Until about two ... (354 words)

He says he'll come back if I kick my brother and his girlfriend out!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my ex partner got back together five months ago, after seperating two years before when our son was born. the relationship endend badly last time as he cheated on me time and time again and as much as i wanted to be with him i couldnt take it anymore. when we got back ... (412 words)

How likely is it that the sperm live? And when do I test for pregnancy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Right so, I need some advice. First of all I want you to know that I'm actually 17 and still have a year left in school. Recently I had sex with one of my best guy friends who I have been in love with for about a year. He has told me not to tell anyone which is fair enough a... (244 words)

His ex-girlfriend is pregnant! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid my bf had broken up with his ex-girlfriend for about four months and we have been in love with him for about five months and then his ex came saying she pregnant and he is the one responsible, she also said that since she pregnant she is the one who is supposed to be ... (144 words)

This guy has got me baaaaaddd....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy like jus over a month ago. He's best friends with my friends ex. I slept with him on the first day that we met (we were a bit drunk), I liked him from the get go but I thought that it was just a bit of fun but he said to me that he really likes me.... We ended ... (318 words)

How do I let him know he can go for it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, well, I'm 19 and I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 weeks now. We have been friends for a couple years now and are both virgins. Everytime I see him I can't help but smile and I find him to be a complete turn on pretty much all the time. My problem is when he ... (330 words)

Is this too much to overcome?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, I'll apologize in advance for the length that I'm assuming this post will be, but I've got a complex situation that I'm hoping to get some input on. Here it goes... I have a crush on a very close friend, but I have convinced myself that the odds are stacked too much... (432 words)

How can one be so cruel?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been going over and over this situation if you can call it that in my head for 3 days now and my head is hurting as much as my heart/feelings. I was dating a 40yr old guy with 2 grown up sons for a month. He made a big point of waiting til we have sex from the start b... (636 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend and now I am pregnant but don't know who is father?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my boyfriend and now I am pregnant and I don't know whose is it. I am 18 and live with my boyfriend who is 27 for 1 year, we were having trouble in our relationship and sometimes when he got angry he would slap me if we argue which was starting to annoy me and ... (947 words)

Help in leaving an abusive relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - We've been living together for almost 13 years. After all the reading on the internet I realize that it is an emotionally abusive relationship. No wonder I've been miserable for 12 of those years. We just bought a house 1 year ago, and have $40,000.00 in loans. He had to ... (157 words)

We have a child together but she says we can't have a relationship until I'm 'saved'

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

28 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm confused in my relationship and not sure were it is going. My girlfriend and I met about 18months ago, she had three children to her previous partner, and we now have a child of our own, which I'm real happy for. We love other a lot and want to spend the rest of ou... (141 words)

Been in this relationship for six years and have a yen for a no-strings fling

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I think about having sex with another man but ive been in a relationship for almost 6 years is that normal? Its not like I don't love my Husband I just want to feel new dick with no strings.... (39 words)

How do you know when an ex truly wants to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

28 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you know when an ex really Wants to be friends? We have been talking regularly and she always says yes to hanging out. She mentioned in the past It was her intention, and now a week later says right now were just friends. I did tell her I still hadfeelings for her and ... (103 words)

I sent a rose and chocolates to him and got no response!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I work in a hospital on a temporary basis and I had fancied a Doctor who works in a clinic where I have worked a few times. He never spoke to me before but I caught him looking at me several times and once smiling while looking at my body up and down. The doctor is about 45 ... (183 words)

I am still grieving for my boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend die two year ago but i can not stop think about him i really sad so what can i do to forget it?... (25 words)

Are his actions justified by my cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so ive been seeing this guy for a few months now and about a month ago i cheated on him with my ex. i felt so bad afterwards and expected it to be over but he didnt leave me. hes 19 and im 16 btw. then.... last weekend i did it again. i figured i was done with the ... (479 words)

I want to hook up with my long-distance friend, but we're both in relationships!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have a boyfriend... but i am in love with another guy who lives across the country from me who also has a girlfriend. Well i am heading to where he lives to see my family and him. He is one of my best friends in the whole world. And i was recently talking to him and he is ... (304 words)

I feel second-best to his best friend and am worried she'll take him away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - For three years before he met me my boyfriend was in love with his best friend. She didn't feel the same way. He told me about her early on in the relationship, and said they had sorted things out between them and he didn't have feelings for her anymore. He still sees her when ... (326 words)

She's always comparing me to her ex-boyfriends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Should I end this relationship before we get more attached? My current girlfriend and I have been dating almost 1 year now. Problem is her past. Not that she has a past, but she's always throwing up things in my face. More information, she dated 3 guys before me, I'll call the... (389 words)

Is my ex-boyfriend trying to hurt me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in the process of getting over a break-up. I recently told my ex that being friends with him straight away was not going to happen for me, and that I need time to be just me. He said to contact him when I'm ready but I dunno if I'll ever be. He called me a week ago ask... (335 words)

Watching porn with older men normal??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I have a question I enjoy watching porn and have several fantasies that I would NEVER act out in real life. Trouble is recently I have been going back over in my head porn scenes that I have watched in the past. I have fantasies about older men,(me as the b... (169 words)

I am confused about my sexual identity and feel so alone! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old male. I am an exremely shy and confused person. I have been diagnosed with depression, borderline personality disorder and an eating disorder. Some of my problems are sexual one of which is sex feels wrong to me and I'm afraid of it. (I'm still a virg... (328 words)

Should I tell anyone that I am starting to have feelings for other guys?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

28 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey I'm going through puberty and I'm only starting though I'm starting to have feelings for...guys! I am seriously starting to freak out I started having feelings for girls but not anymore I don't feel turned on looking at boobs 0% ! I started to have these feelings a month ... (94 words)

I'm not sure if my husband still loves me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure if my husband of 10 years still loves me. He was my first so I'm having all these feelings that I'm not expeienced enough for him and that he thinks I'm boring. I'm not sure if he's getting sex elsewhere or if our relationship is salvagable? Does only having 1 ... (61 words)

My girlfriend wants me to get rid of all my pictures and letters from my former girlfriend who died in my arms, is she in the wrong here?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) age 36-40 - I have been dating a young woman for a few months. She is very sweet and I care very much for her. She came over to my apartment when I wasn't home yesterday and my room mate let her in. She went into my room and found an old year book I had and just started looking ... (457 words)

Doe this mean he enjoys my company as a friend or is he attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - When a man you know as a friend sometimes jokes, twists comments you make (innuendo), teases or winds you up from time to time when he sees you an evening out or on the phone does it mean he enjoys your company as a friend or is he attracted to you. He doesn't seem to do it to ... (117 words)

How can I fix our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im just trying gather some feedback on something thats bothering with me an my girlfriend. I've spoke to her about it and it's not really helped. We've been going out about 3 months now and just these past 2 weeks have been totally different. I still like her and she says ... (156 words)

I want my boyfriend of year and a half back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want my boyfriend of year and a half back. i lashed out on him for the first time because i was sick of him constantly verbally abusing me. i know i did wrong and i'm truely sorry - i would never do it again. he's adament he's not going to take me back and i know calling him ... (102 words)

'I think whoever you sleep with, you should let it happen'... what does she mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi when I was in bed with the girl I was dating and we was cuddeling and stuff she said to me 'I think whoever you sleep with, you should let it happen' what does she mean by this?... (42 words)

He told me that I'm his world.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This threw me off a bit last night. We were saying our goodbyes and after our goodnight kiss he told me that im his world. i know this should make me all giddy inside but honestly idk how to feel about it. what do guys means when they say this?... (50 words)

My crush is crushing on the class crush!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love with this pretty girl in my class. We've known each other for a year and hung out together a couple of times. Unfortunately, there's one of these smooth-talking politician types who is always telling jokes and acting fake. He already has plenty of girls crushing ... (125 words)

My boyfriend wants to bring a third!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello again!This is my second article. Well I am with a guy for about a month and im having a great time, when my daughter lets us alone of course. There is always fantasy when we have sex and he seems to want me alot too. Last time he took me to meet a friend of his.T... (160 words)

What do I do now that me and my ex are talking again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i really need some help here, me and my ex have been broken up since Oct. 09 its a lot more complicated then just breaking up but i'll get to the main point. We just recently after 6 months of not talking or seeing eachother have started at least minimal contact again. ... (424 words)

Friendship, love... I'm getting confused here!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I have asked for help previously and got some pretty good advice so I thought I'd try again. I think I made a terrible mistake last night and want to know what I can do to fix it. I have recently broken up with my boyfriend and got a lot of support from my clos... (311 words)

First he had an emotional affair, and now he just doesn't seem interested in me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I just feel like venting some feelings and hope you can give me some advice. Tonight I was rejected by the man in my life, yet again. Recently, I discovered he was having an emotional affair with another girl for just under a year. Nothing happened between... (528 words)

How do I get over these dreams of my ex? What do they mean and how can I stop them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex of 1.75 years a month ago. To be honest, I think we still loved each other (at least I still loved him), but I wasn't really a priority to him anymore. I was always left in the dust, and I don't think he was really ready for a serious relationship. I ... (251 words)

I just found out my partner cheated and has another kid! How can I get over this? It's tearing me apart.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner of 12yrs had an affair 5yrs ago which resulted in a child. I only found out about this when the child was 3. His family and friends all knew about it but he forced them to keep quiet as he didnt want to hurt me. Well it has hurt me even more as he and his family had ... (232 words)

Why didn't I bleed after losing my virginity? My boyfriend doesn't believe me now!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - am a virgin i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend and no bleeding and now my boyfriend think am not a virgin he thinks that i have had sex with somelse. but i know am a virgin , i swear, and don't know why no bleedig i really need help? i don't know what to do w... (69 words)

What does she mean by telling me to stop being awkward?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - what does it mean when a girl says, 'stop being awkward around me, I dont want you to feel awkward, I Dont want you to be awkward the next time we meet, if you carry on being awkward you've got no chance. I can understand you met me in a wkward situation but still. Sorry to ... (109 words)

My boyfriend wants to have sex, but I don't. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well im 16 my boyfriend want to have sex whith me and i keep telling him am not ready and he keeps asking... (23 words)

How do I deal with his emotional blackmail without being found out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, i am from a reserved and conservative family . i tried a lot to get work just for my confidence and ended up with getting placed in a bpo. I had relationship with a guy for 6 months in the work place . when v started he was behaving like a gentle man but latter on he ... (212 words)

What do I do? Everything seems to be falling apart, in spite of how much I love her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

28 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hitting a very rough patch :( This is more of an account than an actual question but I'll appreciate any feedback that can be given. So I've reached a point where my gf is having serious doubts about our future together which is really saddening given everything we ha... (1366 words)

Why does sex hurt so much? Is it him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all just a quick question. Im 19 and 4 months ago i got with my current boyfriend after talking to him for a half a year, i dont know whether this may help but im only 5ft 1 and of a petite build, where he's 5'11, very muscley, and just huge, as in huge hands, feet, mus... (573 words)

Does he love me if he feels the need to cheat?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were dating for 4 years, until about 2 months ago. We broke up due to mutual decisions, which we both realise now are trivial compared to how much we love each other and want to be together. While we were broken up, I slept with someone else, it was nothing ... (141 words)

I really like her, but I'd like to be her friend in the process.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

28 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I like this beautiful girl! The thing is I feel she is out of my league. The thing is we used to talk a bit at school but that stoped. So last week she comes and sits next to me. So we start talking and I say I would help you if I new it (or something like ... (197 words)

Are my dreams guiding me to be with her, or misleading me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

28 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been having dreams this past week about a girl I like; all which has been consecutive. She is one of my good friends who lives down the hall in the dorms. In the dreams, we are usually just hanging out doing whatever. Over each dream I have, we have become closer together ... (169 words)

How do I go from 60 to 0?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

28 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I'm just going to get to the point. I can't seem to go long without sex or beating off. I want to stop doing both. All answers are appreciated. Thanks.... (35 words)

Love and heartache

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28 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my fiance recently broke up-his decision. He says we should just be friends the thing is I don't think he really means this. We are still having sex. We have kids and have been down this road before to only have him tell me he loves me and that I am his soulmate. Why is ... (75 words)

I'm feeling different and bi-curious since losing my virginity

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28 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, ive been totally feeling different ever since i lost my virginity. heres how it started, i went on this 1 mobile chat site and met up with this 1 woman. we went to her place and... did it. she was nice and kind but its just that sex didnt really turned me on at ... (84 words)

Need some advice on making the first move

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28 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently went through a really rough breakup with a girl that I had been dating for a long time. The breakup took quite a toll on me and I am still healing from it, but I have gotten to the point now where I am thinking about starting to meet women again. I am not looking to ... (319 words)

He says he's not a sexual person...what about my needs?

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28 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - It's been 3 years and 10 months that nothing has changed between me and my boyfriend. He does change but then he goes back to his old ways. In the beginning, we were at our honeymoon stage and after that, everything just went down hill. When i ask him why he doesnt make love ... (349 words)

How do I get the dye out of my hair?!!

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28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Help plz! A few weeks ago I asked or rather told my bf I want to dye my hair, he said that I was being silly a few days after I brought the same thing up then he yelled at me and said I'm being silly and his not boss .. Well then I dyed my hair, I had three shades to my natural ... (180 words)

Should I let him go that far before I go away, or wait until I return?

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28 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months plus but we are going to be separated for 3 months. Because I am going for a summer programme for 3 months in a few days time. And yesterday, I was in his room and we make out and things started to get really physical. And wh... (185 words)

I want to move to a better life, but I don't want to lose everyone I know

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28 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - **for the last several months my sister and i have been planning to move to north carolina, the plan was she was leaving in july with her husband and kids and i was going in december. i was very excited to leave and start a new life, away from all my mistakes but today i found ... (285 words)

I want to get to know this guy, but I'm hesitant.

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28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I have a crush on this guy. I always see him on the bus stop when I come from school early. He's beautiful! He has long red dreads and a pale face with the cutest freckles. He's older than me. I think by a lot of years and he might be on drugs or drinking. I can't tell. I ... (172 words)

I have a bad feeling about my boyfriend moving out on his own

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28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - alrighty , my boyfriend moved away for work about 2 months ago , we've had our rough spots but so far everythings going good , the problem is when he got there and till right now hes been living with his uncle but now hes talking about moveing out by himself and i dont feel ... (121 words)

Feelings for my best friend

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28 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - have you ever had a problem that you have drivin yourself crazy over but just couldnt figure it out? well thats pretty much what i have here. i have a best friend that ive had feelings for over the past two years. she is one of the greatest girls ive ever met, she's almost as ... (155 words)

What do I do if another guy is flirting with my girlfriend and wants to get with her?

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28 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 almost 15. I'm a freshman and this guy keeps flirting with my girlfriend. We have been together for a while now and my girlfriend says she loves me. I truly love her too. My girlfriend is the shy type. She doesn't want to be mean or n e thing n i can understand that. ... (234 words)

Should I wait, or will he not go out with me? I don't want to be his rebound

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28 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - All through high school I have known this guy now I"m 22 I have known him since I was about 16 or 17 through the ups and downs of life I have been friends with him in high school we made out a few times we didn't go out we always made out. I always worried about him he got ... (301 words)

Me and my girlfriend are both 15 years old and we BOTH want to have sex. But how do we know if we're both ready?

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28 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help on a desicion. Me and my girlfriend are both 15 years old and we have been together for about 3 months. But we've known each other for a little less then a year. I asked her just recently if she wanted to have sex with me over the summer in June or August. I ask... (215 words)

He's upset and snapping at me -- why?

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28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know whats going on with my boyfriend, he got rejected by the raf becos he has a shellfish allergy, and his so annoyed by that, i understand. since then though he has been in a funny mood with me, and i try an easure him but his telling me to stop, im only trying t... (270 words)

What does one do to accept a relationship is over?

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28 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Just wanting to know how people accept when a relationship is over because one person has commited numerous hurts to the other and no matter what they did, the relationship could never be happy 100% because of the outcomes of the betrayal.. How do you move on from someone you ... (83 words)

Why did she do this? Is there a chance of getting her back?

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28 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, my girlfriend and i have been dating for 6 months but weve been 'TOGETHER" for a year, and she broke up with me...because she says she doesnt ever think she will ever love me.. but yet she is miserable..now that were broke up.. even tho we had a perfect relationship. no ... (117 words)

I want to make this relationship work, but he admitted to molesting his sister

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28 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend just recently told me he had a dark secret. It took me hours to convince him to tell me. After I broke through to him he told me he molested his sister when he was about 11 or 12 and she was 8. He paid her money to give him blowjobs and handjobs. Not sex. I am now ... (206 words)

It seems like he needs more stimulation than just me

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28 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it wrong for a man to fantasize about having sex with other women when he is having sex with his wife? My husband has started looking at porn online and sometimes wants to play it to "get in the mood". I am an attractive woman, but we have been together for many years. I ... (160 words)

I love her but she doesn't want me to join the military

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28 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm sooo confused about this this girl I know doesn't want me to join the marine corps and basicly I love her a lot idk what she thinks of me but everytime I ask her what would she think if I join the military she always said nooooo don't join you'll die, and the other ... (164 words)

I feel like guys don't want to date me because I look so young

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28 April 2010 (F)

- Hi, I jsut wondered what people think about people who look quite a lot younger than they are. I am 22 and some people have recently told me I only look about 18. Sometimes I often personally think that I even look younger than 18. I have started obsessing about this lat... (189 words)

I want to be on the pill to regulate my periods, but I know my mom will flip!

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28 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14, soon to be 15, and my mom loves to act like I'm still five. I want to be put on birth control, not because I'm having sex but to regulate aunt flow. But I know If I ask my mom will automaticly skip to conclusions, and start yelling at me for having sex. What should I ... (77 words)

He tells me the sweetest stuff, but I'm being told he's playing me!

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28 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - To start off, I really like this guy. We have been talking now for over a month, almost 2. He hasn't dated anyone in almost a year. Every day and night we text, constantly and he tells me the sweetest stuff. He says he likes me, but he is not sure if he wants to date yet, or ... (209 words)

Would you tell him with words or body language if you didn't like the increase physical affection?

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28 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Girls, if you had a male best friend who admitted he liked you but you felt you wasn't ready for a relationship (for any reason but for example because you've been hurt in the past), how would you react if your male best friend gradually started to show physical affection to ... (200 words)

We're on a break, should I not go to the club she'll be going to?

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28 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I are on a break and I am planning on going to a club this weekend but she is going to be there. Shall i still go?... (30 words)

love my best friend who I also live with..

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28 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I know there are a million people who have been through this but right now I feel like I'm the only one. I have a great job and live in a great city. I broke up with my ex girlfriend over 9 months ago now. My problem is I'm in love with my best friend and this caught me s... (287 words)