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female
age
30-35,
*olumbusCoffeeAddict
writes:Drama, drama, drama!I am in my last year of school, and I am completely infatuated with a guy who is already taken. Now, before I say anything else, I am NOT a house-breaker. Now we have that cleared up...Next to my school is a (very convenient) cafe, which is the hub of businessmen in the area, as well as the place where my friends and I meet every morning before school...About a month ago, I began noticing a guy who worked there... let's call him Jack. Jack, obviously, also noticed me, for he began sending over little plates of chocolate fish and free coffee (ahh, the way to a girl's heart!). It was obvious he liked me, and before I knew it he had my number... Now, I'd strictly sworn off relationships for my final year of high school, simply because I am hopeless at the cursed things. I'm a sucker for sensitive guys, and he seemed like just that kind of guy... and since I've hurt too many of those types in the past, I kept my distance. However, it was almost impossible! He has these little quirks, and his eyes... ehem. Anyway, I found out that he wasn't the sensitive type I'd assumed... in fact, he came to work hungover on Mondays (he's 19, so 2 years older than me), he smokes, gets high, etc. Ya know, all those things I'd sworn to hate for my entire life... He even has a tattoo (sighs dramatically). All this only seemed to increase my desire for him...Anyway, he stopped sending things to me a few weeks ago, after which he casually dropped into the convo that he now has a girlfriend... Ouch.And yet, he goes out of his way to come and talk to me... We catch each other staring a few too many times... He smiles at me across the room if our eyes meet... But he doesn't reply to my txts unless they have a question mark attached (a change from when I first got his number) and I can never seem to figure him out.I have dreams about smoking (I associate the smell with him), and I always think about him. It's ridiculous! Even my two week term break wasn't enough to get him off my mind! I couldn't wait for school to begin again, so I could bugger off to Columbus whenever I could!Help! I realise this is a silly crush, and it's ridiculous for me to bother, but I'm a Columbus addict. I guess it's the coffee...
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (22 April 2010):
 Try switching to Starbucks :)
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