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writes:Been with my Boyfriend a year, im 18 and he is 24. im 2 months pregnant, getting rid of it wasn't an option we are so happy about it although im scared but i will be ok. now i feel like he thinks he's got me right where he wants me because im pregnant and cant do the things i use to do like party, he still does though. the other night he didn't come back all night.he said he stayed at home, but i dont believe him. i think he is cheating sometimes, (i do have trust issues due from a past relationship)could this be it?he kisses me and tells me he loves me, but now when he tells me he loves me i dont feel special, it just goes into my ear and out the other because i no longer believe he loves me. why would he want to cheat on me? i give him anything, im pretty, and i have a good heart, also im carrying his first child, this should be a special time for us but all i feel is sad all the time and i question him alot. what signs do i have to look out for just incase he is cheating? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): It will be difficult to tell if hes cheating if he doesnt live with you. Maybe you are feeling a little insecure at the moment because you are going through a huge life change and hes out partying. He could be a little more sensitive really! Isnt there anyway you could both live together? It would help him to have a better understanding of what you are going through, give him the chance to be supportive and help him bond better with the baby when it arrives. He needs to start being supportive now so try and find a way to live together so he can feel more involved. Also at 2 months, your body is making some massive changes and you will have emotional ups and downs for a few more weeks. He needs to understand that and be there for you. All the best and congratulations! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): i think that if u have trust issues froma past relationship then its going to be hard for you to trust anyone not just your boyfriend. you have been with him for a year now though so im sure you have the faith in him that he wont cheat on you. also your pregnant, your hormones are going to be all over the place. it wouldnt surprise me if he was at home. he loves you and your carrying his child. be happy :) ! x
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