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writes:okay so i just found out my friend is a lesbian. i am totally grossed out. she has asked me to get physical with her but i said i dont know. i then had a dream the other night that we had sex and i liked it. i kind of want to give it a try now. what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all very much, youve been so helpful and i appreciate it. so we got ready to try and i couldnt go through with it so it must mean its not meant to be. my friend was very understanding and our friendships pretty much back to normal. thanks again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2010): Before you do it, it is best to be sure that you are both mature enough to handle all of the possible outcomes. It really could go either way and you will not know until you are into it. It is one thing to kiss, another to make love. You must feel comfortable enough to be able to let her know if and when you want to stop.I have been in this situation before and I could not go all the way, luckily the girl was very understanding and we could have a chat and a laugh after. It can be a positive experience, with the right person.
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reader, MrReasonable +, writes (23 April 2010):
Keep in mind that it will probably dramatically affect your relationship with that person; any type of physical intimacy with someone always affects the way that the relationship will be in the future. Keep in mind that you are not just making a choice about who you want to have sex with, but it's an entirely different life, being in a homosexual relationship. If you're willing to take that risk, though, then do what you think is best. Just don't walk in blindly, and you should be just fine. You may also want to consider some bigger questions, as sex isn't a terribly light matter; like, is the kind of person that you want to marry going to be okay with you experimenting now or will it hurt them? If it will hurt them, I would avoid it, but if you think that the person that you'll be with (perhaps your lesbian friend) would be okay with it, then go for it. Essentially, just take a look at the whole picture before you make up your mind. Cheers =)-Mr. Reasonable
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2010): Try it- let your friend know its an experiment.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (23 April 2010):
 If you want to try it then go ahead. Just make sure that your friend knows your intentions and you mean nothing by it and might not like it etc...
Good Luck!
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