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male
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41-50,
*anmit11
writes:hi, i am indian husband, just married to beautiful girl four months ago....she is very dominating in our relationship. She earns almost double than me, she forciblly insisting me for leaving my job and be full time househusband. She wants me to do all house hold work. She also treats me as her slave. Recently she forcefully made me wear bangles in front of her friend, which was very humiliating. She has given me 15 days to think for leaving job and become full time her house husband slave? Pls. Suggest Reply to this Question
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reader, raiders  +, writes (23 April 2010):
 Put a stop to it! Don't allow this treatment, this is not a healthy relationship.
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female
reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 April 2010):
 It's difficult to understand why would you want to stay married with her,then. I guess you already know you'll have to find the strength and say no to this abuse. It can only become worse if you do not fight for your dignity.
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reader, manmit11 +, writes (23 April 2010):
manmit11 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your views and replies. She had made me wear her female clothes bra, panty, heels, saree, nose ring, make up and done video shoot for that along with her lady friend. she is doing blackmail to me for that and forcing to be her full time house husband slave. She told she wants my nose to be pierced and she will put a ring. Everynight she is asking me to give her foot massage.
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reader, raiders +, writes (22 April 2010):
Being a househusband is okay and its acceptable but if you don't want to leave your job don't leave it. Now you have to stand up to your wife, don't allow her to treat you this way and continue to get bully. You have to make a change and when she demands things simply say no. Stand your grounds and you might want to take her to a couple counselor or a couples retreat or you might even want to join a support group. I always tell the ladies that the abuse will continue unless they put their foot down and buddy you need to do the same thing put your foot down and stand your ground.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): Grow a pair, and stand up for yourself... She'll respect you more for it, and your relationship will go better too.. If you let her completely dominate you like that, nah thats not good. You have to retain your own identity otherwise they will lose interest, fast. Or, you will find yourself in a very untenable situation..
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (22 April 2010):
Why does she want you to do all the houhold work ? Could you simply share the house chores, or take turns ? Couldn't you just hire a maid, or a part time cleaning lady ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): Don't do it, never let anyone push you around or make you feel bad about yourself. Anyone who makes you feel humiliated doesn't really care about you. Don't quite your job. Tell her no. People like her are really just scared and if you stand your ground and if she really cares for you she will respect your decision. Never go chasing someone like her because if you don't she will be the one running back to you. Good Luck!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): tell her how u feel seriously u cant feel like this..
is she your 1st wife?
if soo tell her that she should help out around where u live..
just because she earns more then you doesn't mean u have to quit ur job.. it helps to have abit more money on the side, :)
hope i helped..
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