A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi all,I am gay.. even though I have not admited openly to anyone yet (and mean it.. i did a couple of times but guys around or girls think I am kidding, even though I say it seriously), 21 years old and a virgin.Well, the fact is that i fell in love with some of the guys (i dont like guys easy.. I mean I like 1 of 20 men I meet ) I met through the last couple of years and the worse thing is that I was sure they were gay but they all (i mean all!) eventually got a girlfriend and had sex with her and so on...I mean what is wrong with me... I think that if someone does something not man-ly is a sign he might be gay or bi.. And when a lot of things happen (and then I fall in love...) boom! He gets a girlfriend...And when I say not "man-ly" things, I mean he hugs me, one of them wanted to kiss me on chick for goodnight (when we went for vacation with school and were roomates), another used to play with my earlobe...Thank god I told none of them I was gay, because I am afraid I would have lost them for sure...As for myself, I am 95 kg and 1.70m tall which makes me fairly fat but in goodshape... Does this has to do with anything? I mean 9 of 10 girls I met and chat had a crush on me since (i think) i understand them better and can be a good friend and bf at the same time... But even though I want to try with a girl, there is always a guy in my head, and I dont wanna do anything with the girl because I believe he is gay and we will eventually be together...Ah.. thank god there is this website so people like you could tell me your oppinion... So my real questions are: Is there any way to know if someone is gay? and is there a chanse of me being BI (because I sometimes catch myself thinking of a girl to be by my side and kiss and so on and feels great...) and not knowing it...?Thanks for reading this,I am looking forward your answers
View related questions:
crush, fell in love Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2010): Thank you all for your answers... I hope more people will tell their oppinion...
A
female
reader, boo22  +, writes (22 April 2010):
 Hi, You're from Greece so why not take a trip to gay friendly Mykonos this year? Be around some people who are openly gay and have your eyes opened.
You might be bi or gay, only time and experience will tell
Good luck x
...............................
A
female
reader, raiders  +, writes (22 April 2010):
 I think you need to come out of the closet completely and have everyone in around you and in your circle know your gay. By doing this you will know for sure if a guy plays with your earlobe, hugs, or kisses you that he must be into you. If you are attracted to girls and think on them sexually than you might be bi-sexual but do understand that you can be gay and find women pretty, sexy, and even day dream of having sex with them. Also start associating more with gay group, that will make you more comfortable and you can find the answers and guidance you might need at times.
...............................
|
