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*illow1989
writes:im want to find love but im worried that i wont. i am 20 an have had 1 serious girlfriend wich ended in disaster she totally ruined my self confidence. i was never very good at meeting new girls and just finding the confidence to talk to a good looking girl was a very rare occasion. the other thing is since splitting with my ex my life has become somewhat sheltered because of my friends gettin new girlfriends and moving away and stuff like that and i also lost my job. can anyone help me?
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reader, willow1989 +, writes (22 April 2010):
willow1989 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have got a new job im just waitin for security clearence to start it
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 April 2010):
The first thing you need to focus on is getting a job and getting out there again. Don't worry about meeting a girlfriend just for now, focus on one thing at a time and get it together again. Right now, the most important thing is that you get your own life back on track. I'm not saying women won't be interested, but women are more likely to be attracted to you if they know you have a clear aim in life. So it's important to be out there trying, even if it goes nowhere for now, to get a job. Women are attracted to a guy who has 'go' and aims in life. Confidence will come to you as you feel better about your own life, and you might even meet one along the way. Right now,focus on your life and getting it back on track. The right woman will come along when you feel good about yourself and you're in a better place.
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reader, - katrina ? +, writes (22 April 2010):
 awh, my heart dropped when i read this! your 20 right? so still young. theres plenty of people out there, im sure you'll find the right person one day. are your friends the same age range as you? 20.. there going to be moving out of home and getting girlfreinds :), your life shouldnt feel sheltered though, you should get out there too! keep your chin up and think that your beautiful! theres nothing a girl likes more than confidence ! x
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