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It was just supposed to be a rebound thing, but she might be pregnant

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Question - (22 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i need help, a girl i started going out with a few days ago(less than ten) might be pregnant because of a burst condom and i don't love her, this was just suppose to be a rebound thing, last a few weeks at max, she cant have an abortion or anything like that because of her religion, she is friends with one of my best friends as well so when she tells my friend my whole family will find out in no time, i cant have a kid at this age, i'm not even in my 20s yet, any advice will be much appreciated

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (22 April 2010):

YouWish agony auntIt's time to grow up dude. Yes, if it's within 3 days, get the morning after pill. Why are you having sex because of a "rebound"? Sex is one of the greatest high risk things out there. For a 10 second orgasm, you're willing to ruin your life.

If this girl is pregnant, time to man up and do the right thing for the kid, because it's not the kid's fault that you were irresponsible, but if you do the right thing, you will profoundly have a good effect on this kid's life, and that's one of the best things you can ever do in life.

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A female reader, msjuicy United States +, writes (22 April 2010):

msjuicy agony auntI'm reaally sorry to hear that. But sweetheart I kept telling people don't have sex with some1 you dnt love or dnt have any feeling for i think you learn a lesson today stop been a player you see how hurt it is you probably can't even focus on ur school or other things maybe theirs only 1 thing is on ur mind rite now "oh my God what I'm gonna do I'm to young to be a father and I don't even have a good job blah blah blah"

ok so if i were you i would buy a pregnancy test for her to make sure she's really pregnant cause she's might be tricking you if it's positive so you most try to find a way to tell ur fox and her's to see how we gonna handle it

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A male reader, The Gentle Man United Kingdom +, writes (22 April 2010):

The Gentle Man agony auntIf she is having the baby, then im afraid there is nothing you can do about it.

If it is under 72 hours since you noticed the burst condom, get the morning after pill immediately.

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