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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Will it hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If ive been 'fingered' quite a fair few times over the last few years, will it still hurt having sex for the first time? ... (24 words)

Is there a way to fix this without kicking him out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel terrible for writing this, but feel I could benefit from some advice on how to approach this situation. I trust my boyfriend, but there is a money issue and I dont want to be taken for a ride. We just moved in together, and he was originally supposed to pay for half ... (560 words)

He didn't care when we were together..was he really hurt when I dumped him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i recently broke up with my boyfriend we were together for quite awhile, the reason i broke up with him is because he never wanted to spend time together he (lived with me)all he did was go to work and as soon as he was finished he went to his friends house until 430 in the ... (302 words)

Physical attraction vs Personality? What to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've recently found myself in a rather sticky situation. This is concerning the man I have been seeing for last 5 months. Its recently become quite serious and we have mutually agreed to be monogamous with one another. However, I find myself doubting my full feelings toward ... (177 words)

I found out my boyfriend's married.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a man for a while and then we decided to move in together. We have now been living together for 3 years. We have often talked about marriage but never really committed. I really didn't want marriage right away, and I think he knew that. Now I am ready and we ... (187 words)

My ex wants back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I need some serious advice :( My ex boyfriend broke up with me after we got into a little arguement and he started dating this girl shortly afterwards. I really liked my ex but everybody said he was a player and stuff, so now I got over him and I am dating a new guy ... (194 words)

I gave him a hickey -- now his mom doesn't want him to see me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

13 April 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Hi I have a problem I gave my bf a hicky on his neck and his parents found out and now his mom thinks I'm a prostitute and he not aloud to come over any more because his mom thinks I'm a prostitute but I love him and now he can't come over how can I tell them it wuz an acedent ... (81 words)

Fallen for best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

- Ok so I have been friends with this girl for over 9 years now and we are truly inseparable. We know everything about each other and always do everything together. She and I are always there whenever we have issues and we always help each other with relationship issues. I ... (115 words)

I take care of the kids, pay for everything, and he tells me he wants a girl on the side??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i wanna to leave my husband because im not happy all we do is argue and i tired of it i support him my two kids and his son every time i turn around im paying for something like child support he can't think for him self i have to do every thing every time i try to do something ... (93 words)

His going to stripper bars makes me feel inadequate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I knew my boyfriend went to strip clubs but until a few days ago I had no idea how much. I was ok with it when I thought it was like 1 or 2 times a month but its more like 3 times a,week!! I was devastated. It makes me feel like im not enough for him or that he is not ... (157 words)

My boyfriend has no confidence

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has very low self confidence. He's always putting himself down. Calling himself ugly. He's also very inexperienced sexually. These are all huge turn offs. I usually go for the confident guys that aren't scared to put there hands down my pants. Catch my drift? I'm a ... (87 words)

We used to talk, now not so well.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy and at the start of the school year we talked no problemn. then one of his friends a girls startin given me evil eyes and i stopped talkin to him for 2 weeks. we talk again and get along but lately i notice he talks to other girls a lot better than me and ... (75 words)

Was he cheating with this emotional affair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have discovered that my husband has been having what people on here seem to call an 'emotional affair'. I have got proof that it was not physical although they were egging each other on with sexual innuendo and lovey dovey stuff. Given that it went on for several months w... (356 words)

Is it fair to say that if she won't do it for me, I won't do it for her?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

13 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend had a lot of sex before she got with me. She was well known for giving blow jobs. We have been together a year and she won't give me one. When I asked her to do it she refused. She said that when she was younger she did it because she wanted to be popular ... (150 words)

Don't want to be pushy, but I can never contact him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have known each other most of our lives and dated in the past but split up when he went to the army. He recently came home for good and we started seeing each other again and recently made things official between us again. Im concerned because it is very hard ... (130 words)

Relationship with a lawyer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age - Can I have a relationship with my lawyer after my case is settled?... (13 words)

How can I calm my nerves?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello guys I need some help. next wednesday I have my music practical! and im freaking out! im so nervous even thinking about it makes my heart race! i need some tips on how to stay calm and not mess this up!! Thank you! xxxx... (49 words)

His phone. Her pics.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - While I was vistiting my boyfriend at college i decided to check his phone while he slept. I know it was wrong but i couldn't help myself. He had all his messages erased but i found in his pictures 2 pictures of a girl naked. when i confronted him about it he said it was ment ... (135 words)

Should I leave the man I don't think I can ever trust again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Husband and I are both 36. Been together 13 years, married 4.5 years. November 2008 I planned to take my husband on a long weekend trip. He was having a rough time of things and I felt that he deserved a treat. The morning we were to leave, I went to my computer and found he... (441 words)

Hair removal creams at Walmart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - anyone know any good hair removeal creams that's at wal-mart? And also any shaving tips would be greatly appreatated.... (20 words)

Mates will make fun of me if I ask this girl out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - theres this girl who likes me. i think she is nice but if i go out with her i will get stick off my mates. what should i do?... (29 words)

Why do we keep getting back together when all we do is fight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - first off, i am gay, and was dating a closeted bisexual girl. i was in a relationship with this girl for about three years. at first, everything was great, like any relationship, but then stuff got a bit rocky. there was a lot of jealousy, there was a lot of anger, but in the e... (166 words)

Waiting--when is long enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy I have known for a few years, but just recently started to hang out with. When we first started texting me, and hanging out with me, he seemed really into me by the things he said and did (we even kissed) Now it seems that unless I text or call him, he ... (170 words)

Involved with daughter's father again but he can be very overpowering!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 38 year old mother of a 16 year old daughter. My daughter's father is now one of the richest people in our state even though is just a couple of years older than me. We were never married but he acknowledged our daughter and has met his financial responsibilities to ... (214 words)

Are we destined to have bad relationships depending on how we were raised?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I've been wondering this for a while now and maybe it's true maybe it's not but I have watched it happen to alot of people, heard famous songs about it, even watched it in movies and those movie ideas had to of come from someone. What I'm tring to say is do bad rela... (296 words)

Do you think the thrush capsule I took has affected my pill?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all just a quick question! I got thrush ages ago, a very mild form of it too the point it only bothered me sometimes and even then that was mainly after/during sex and i had the discharge. I finally got myself to a chemist where i picked up a thrush capsule from boo... (414 words)

In serious need of advice of a complexity!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

13 April 2010 (M)

age - i'm in need of advice .... i know that i should be pretty well versed at my age (47 years old) but i guess i'm really not an "expert" at these things in reality. for the past 4 months i've been in a relationship with a beautiful woman that i love very deeply. she's b... (1182 words)

I can't do without her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

13 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Need you to Advice Me on what to do i Love this gurl so Much and she Love me too we have been for Long,we lost contact for 7 Years last Year i found her Back but before i came around Her she has been dating Somone she told me about it,and she said we should continue she knows ... (106 words)

Should I tell my bus driver that I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my problem is that I really like this guy who just so happens to be my bus driver. Theres not much of an age difference just four years. He goes pretty red when he talks to me but im sure he has no clue whatsoever that i like him. Should I tell him or what. How should I ... (72 words)

Am I finally getting a growth spurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 I got my period when I was pretty young (11), and recently I have gained curves. I am very small in the chest but not my 32B bras fit me perfectly where before there was a little too much room. I weigh 105 pounds and I don't know where these curves have come from. My ... (115 words)

I am a lesbian, how can I get my friend to like me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I like this girl well she is actually a friend and I fancy her and have done for the last few months so I told her. not really my best idea but she was cool with it. Its just am not sure what her sexuality is because she has never said am staight so you can see my problem ... (110 words)

She can't leave him because of money, but want's to marry me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

13 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - iv'e been seeing this girl now for nearly two years and its fantastic, but there one slight problem she lives with another man. We are and were good friends and there was always a chemistry between us and on a night out it all came flooding out, how we both felt etc. It started ... (326 words)

My ex cheated on me and I'm still not over it. Help!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i dated this guy for a little under a year, we were talking about getting married and having kids. but at the end of our relationship (i broke up with him) he cheated on me with my cousin. i went back to him and we were together for a few weeks, then i broke up with him again ... (226 words)

Does who you lose your virginity to really matter?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Well,now I have another dilema.I want to get over my teacher and feel that another guy would help.He's 18 and can drive iv known him for 5 years and he proposed that we have some 'fun',I'm up for it or at least would be if my sister hadn't given him a blow job 3 years ago.I ... (170 words)

His roommate doesn't want me there

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The situation is fairly complicated. I work as much as I can (which is tough since I work at a place that is on a call in/needed basis) and I'm a full time student. As of right now I've been living between my house and my boyfriend's apartment. I pay $400 a month to rent my ... (659 words)

Do I leave him and try to cope on my own?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age - I've met this much older man after my divorce. I was so desperated that in my mind any man will do. We have been together a few years. I am still young and he has aged a lot and health has gone downhill. I still like him but not sexually attracted to me any more. I will be ... (104 words)

Prom transport for my wheelchair-bound date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help! And fast if possible. A friend of mine asked me to prom and of course I said yes (I don't fancy him but we are good friends). I don't regret that I said yes, because I scare guys off anyway and we are very good friends! So yeah, I kind of guessed that he must fancy ... (545 words)

She keeps bringing up the past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i am 30 years old married to my beautiful wife for the last 7 years and just wanted to know are all women the same my wife keeps bringing up the past about when we first met i can say this on here because i don't know anyone on here she keeps accusising me of cheating when we ... (267 words)

Friend has an abusive boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, my best friend has an abusive bf and i dont know what to do to help her. she has bruises up her arm, down her leg, on the stomch and boob because of him. though she says its not his fault, its his ADHD thats doing it and the fact that she 'winds him up'. even if she did ... (104 words)

I feel used and cheap

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I had an argument. And I'm extremely pissed right now. We have been dating for 3 months. Off and on. We have not had sex since wednesday night, well we had sex on sunday (but that doesnt count he says). We got into an argument this morning about it. The week ... (275 words)

How do I get our old selves and love life back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all! I need some help and fast! I have been with my partner for nearly 3 years (this new yrs eve coming) and we have a 1 yr old son together. We have been to hell and back together we lost a baby when we 1st got together and we also lost twin girls last year august time... (157 words)

Is it better if he stays in the army or leaves?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, My boyfriend has just returned to army training, after 2 weeks leave. He has been there for 15 weeks before hand. He has to go to training in england which means he is away from home in Northern Ireland. As soon as he got back he said he wanted to leave he isnt li... (219 words)

Why did he do this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been dating a year in college long distance and everything has been fine, he loves me, i love him. He's transferring colleges and pledging a fraternity. Since he's decided this, he decided we did not need to be together. i've never been controlling...EVER. unlike most of ... (62 words)

Did I do the right thing by forcing his ex away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of ten months is close to his ex who was also his first sex partner. Lately I have seen text messages that were flirty but nothing too much..BUT enough to set me off!! And about a week ago I read a text to her that he sent about a very sexual dream he had about ... (102 words)

How do I show how much more I like her than her boyfriend does?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so my friend calls me the other night around midnight. She's drunk and crying hysterically because she'd recently split with her boyfriend, who she's been on and off with for months now (it's ridiculous, but that's besides the point). I offered to swing by and stop in for ... (215 words)

Has she given up on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So me and my ex have been broken up for about 3 months now. We broke up because she didn't like my lifestyle at the time. You can say that I got into the mix with the "wrong crowd". Since the break up, I've totally cut ties with those people, and started to hangout with some ... (156 words)

We're broke up for the last year, but he still wants to hurt my feelings.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i just broke up with my boyfriend for a year, we share a phone line so i texted him and i told him that he needs to disconnect the line, he said he might! then 3 minutes later he sent me a text saying that i look ugly and that his friends used to say why he is with me, that he ... (106 words)

Women, what is the difference between the men you welcomed and the ones you rejected?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ladies, I am a 29 year old man who is trying to get better at meeting women, that is, selecting perfect strangers as candidates for romantic or sexual relationships, and pursuing those relationships. I want to approach a large number of women based on a fairly superfici... (284 words)

Best friend going abroad.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Belle and I have been best friends for more than 4 years. We have stayed together through ups and downs, joy and sadness... There is nothing I cannot tell her. We are as close as biological sisters. Even though we are at the same age, I consider her my big sister and I'm her ... (370 words)

Fear of being in a relationship..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need some advice because I feel like I'm too screwed up for relationships and yet I want to be in one so badly. My first boyfriend put a lot of pressure on me to do sexual things in our short relationship, and though I liked him, I never loved him so made up my mind ... (406 words)

How can I stop that from happening?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

13 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and have had my first proper girlfriend for 2 weeks now. I've got to second base with girls before but have never actually had my penis properly touched, and my girlfriend has jerked me off twice. The first time she had been rubbing my penis over my pants for a whil... (143 words)

We're both virgins, should he wear one?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am a 21 years old virgin, have a 22 years old boyfriend who is also a virgin. We have been dating for 2 years now. Right now, both of us are deciding to lose our virgin to each other as we love each other so much. But my problem is my boyfriend refuse to wear c... (166 words)

My sister should be with someone better.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in love with my wife. She makes me very happy and we have a very good relationship. I have a twin sister. We are fraternal twins not identical. I have been with my wife for a few years now and things have been really good between us. My sister and I are very close. ... (573 words)

I feel guilty about what I watched.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this sounds really stupid but my boyfriend asked me to watch some porn so I did because he asked me to and I guess I wanted to know what all the fuss is about. Ive watched it on about 4 different occasions and I always delete my browsing history afterwards but I'm ... (170 words)

I'm 41..Do I go for this young guy while I am waiting for Mr Right?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All, I am a very young looking 41 year ol woman and last week met a stunning guy of just 27 in a bar whilst I was out with some work colleagues. There was an instant attraction. I was tipsy, and before long we were kissing and flirting. He asked me for my number - and ... (448 words)

I'm in love but he's gay.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I dont; know what to do..I have a boyfriend and im in love with him hes my age and everything. But then ever since i joind an acting class i have fallen in love with a guy who is five years older than me! I am obbesedded with this guy! I cant stop thinkin talking dreaming abou ... (135 words)

His mother's coming between us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i am a divorced lady, i have a son, last year i got engaged to a younger guy, he knew all about me, we were happy for a year until a month back he lost his job and he has to go home. however his mom hen she came to know of our relationship has poisoned his mind against me that ... (70 words)

Is he cheating on my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my mate has been texting a guy she used to like a lot until yesterday! they were getting on really well. she went on his a social site page to write on his wall and tell him that he cudnt text her til later that night because she woz busy. when she got on their there was 2 ... (315 words)

Am I gay because I sometimes have weird fantasies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

13 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Basically im 14 and not sure if im straight, bi, whatever. I know that i am attracted to girls and have even had occasioinal girlfriends. when i have masturbated i've only ever used straight porn the thing is I dont get at all hard from gay porn but i feel interested in wa... (103 words)

Since his sister texted me my head is all over the place

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive recently split with my boyfriend after two years of being together, we were even engaged. Through our relationship we split twice and this was due to me not feeling that i loved him any more then a week later i realised that i did still love him and got back together, i ... (216 words)

I am having regrets and I want to get even

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this guy we used to like each other buy wen nothin happened bt us he called me boring to all hid friends and even to my facr which i find to be disrespectful but we woud argue but he would always end up in my face flirting. i foumd out he was even trying to gete drunk ... (180 words)

What if I'm not pregnant?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I missed my period for two weeks so i went and brought 2 pregnancy tests, i took one when i got home, it came up postive really quickly, then i tested the other one the next morning (my first morning urine) and that also came up postive quickly. i then went to the docs to g... (175 words)

How can I help to make my sister feel better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i know that my sister's relationship shouldn't really be anything to do with me, but im worried about her. she has been with her partner over 4 years, they live with eachother and was going to start trying for a baby. thing is her partner loves her but he wasn't there for her ... (277 words)

Can absence make things worse instead?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I've been traveling a lot lately. I feel like I've been everywhere in the past month, plus I'm trying to organize yet another trip before I leave again. Is this going to hurt my relationship? My boyfriend is the best I could imagine. He loves me, and I'm not concerned th... (155 words)

Just in case my ex isn't quite over me..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - has anyone ever gotten back an ex? How did you do it? I'm trying to win a guy back that moved to another city and didn't want long distance. we are still friendly, but he is dating other people. I'm going to move to his city now for work and want to rekindle what we had... (66 words)

Has anyone ever slept with an ex you were over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Has anyone ever hooked up with an old ex after they told you they didn't want to sleep with you anymore? As in, you dated someone, then they moved one and said the sex was over but they wanted to be friends (blah blah), you were crushed, etc...then a few months/year/whatever ... (72 words)

Is it over with us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5367 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a guy for a year, he didn't want to commit but we never saw other people. He didn't want to commit because he was planning on leaving for another job in another city and he (and I) didn't want to do long distance. So I would visit and we'd have a nice time and sleep ... (191 words)

My dad doesn't approve ..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 19 years old and so is my boyfriend, we've been together for 2 years and we're very happy. the thing is, that when i'm at university i always go to stay at my boyfriends and he always comes to stay with me (because i live far away)he hasn't got any parents, so it w... (358 words)

I think I might have an eating disorder.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im 17 and have had a problem with my diet since i was 13. this was when i started to put on weight,nd so at 14 i went on a diet. this diet got very extreme though, and by the end of it i was doing about 6 hours of exersize a day and eating as little as an apple. I lost my ... (161 words)

Is 'text only' considered cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - is online sex consider as cheating on your husband if its done by only txt chating and no pictures and cam is used, no personal information is shared also ?... (31 words)

How can a person fall out of love overnight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So here is a background, my boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year. We live about 1.5 hrs apart and see each other at least once a week. He's a firefighter so on the days he is working, he can't always text me. He has this big test coming up in a couple weeks ... (1037 words)

She wants me to introduce her to another guy, ... but I am attracted to her. Should I do it or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok my name is bob Im still in highschool. I really like this girl friend of mine. she doesn't know it. she told me she really likes this guy who happens to be a friend of mine but she doesn't know him but she really wants to. she's asking me to introduce them two. She's very ... (85 words)

How can I win her heart when we have never even talked?

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13 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I dont how a guy can totally win a lady's heart,i love her but she does not know me,we have not even spoken for once,and i need her in my lify,my heart self even desire her,and i dont know what to do,either to call her on phone,or to call her physically,and if i call her,she ... (74 words)

In round about way I accused b/f of cheating and now I haven't heard from him

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I screwed up my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been dating for about five months, and we usually talk everyday and see each other at least two or three times a week (we live far away from each other). The last time I saw him, I sort of accused him of c... (586 words)

How to tell my co worker I like him and find out if he feels the same way

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a huge crush on one of my co-workers.. My first question is I wanna know if he likes me at all.. He has told me that he broke up with his ex over a year and a half ago that he is single and lives alone.. He is 38 and I'm 24 I know its a decent age difference but it ... (123 words)

Confused about my feelings for my bi friend.

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so. Erm, this is hard for me to explain. I don't really know where I'm at right now, I'm kinda confused. So I have this friend. About a year or two ago, she came out to me as bisexual. I've always been very open-minded and an avid supporter of gay rights, never had a ... (608 words)

Trying to get my ex back. How do I keep the momentum going when he does not always answer?

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13 April 2010 (F) - My ex and i were together for a few years and he broke up due to petty things like arguments etc but we did love each other alot. We had pretty much a year of no contact until i left a voicemail. He knows my intentions of getting back together. We have been talking for mont... (465 words)

Trouble sharing the bed!

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have a ton of trouble sharing a bed. Luckily neither of us snores, but he tosses and turns constantly and wakes me up, which means I get angry and wake him up. Whenever I suggest sleeping separately he gets really offended, plus we always snuggle before bed ... (142 words)

Do I call him? Or he call me?

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Guy asked me to hang out 3 times, i asked him once....can i ask again or is it still his call to ask me? idk how this dating thing works.... (31 words)

My fiancé cheated and lied about it til after we got engaged

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13 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiancé cheated on me about 8 months ago. I found out though a text message and she initially denied it but after 15 minutes she admitted to kissing this guy. I took a short break to think and I forgave her because she just kissed him. We have been dating for 5 years now and ... (175 words)

Three guys and a girl, ... who to choose?

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. I know many if you have probably heard this before about a person being in love with someone yet be in love with your ex at the same time. well my boyfriend and i have been together for 4 months now problem is he he is the type of guy who can be very territio... (271 words)

I pushed her away, but now I want her back and she wont reply.

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13 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - we dated 5years back.while in high school.our love was so real that we won the award for the best couple.a year after graduation,we parted ways but without any breakup or fight.we just lost contact and it remained so until few weeks back when she got my contact from a face... (203 words)

About to get married, but now there's a pregnant girl in the midst

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my Fiance when i was 13 yrs old and we dated on and off for 7 to 8 yrs but were getting married next july....i looked on his facebook just to tell him i miss him because i live 20 exits away from him. And i see girls asking him how's his new son and when is he going to be ... (128 words)

No time for every day attention.

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13 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - a case for the female readers in here(guys can say some but this more related to female mind). So, there is a nice girl that i like and would love to have a relationship with her BUT i work alot and im taking courses which makes it difficult to have a relationship as for i dont ... (102 words)

Do straight guys look at gay porn?

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My guy looks at porn..mostly straight but i have found mostly straight with a couple gay sites and then some gay sites then sometimes mixture..no chat rooms just websites..do straight guys look at gay porn or should I wonder?... (40 words)

He constantly bothers me what to do?

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am at my wits end. this guy and i used to like each other but not any more he constantly touches me like my arm and is always bothering me i am tired of fighting with him i punched him pushed him down made him fall i even threw a remote controller at him we argue all the ... (80 words)

Was she a virgin?

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13 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Last year, I slept with this girl once, which was supposedly both of our first times. Although, I never saw any blood from her(which I've always heard indicates her "deblossoming") and she seemed to be not in pain during. She was black, as I am white, and I've heard that a ... (103 words)

If college is the best time of your life then why am I miserable?

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13 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I can hear my roommate having sex with a girl that I like through the walls... I hate college so much and I hate everyone here. How am I supposed to make it through my degree when I have to put up with sick shit like this? Why are the girls and guys such whores? I need to ... (111 words)

I'm not sure I can handle being controlled to this extent

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiancée and i met through our parents and unexpectedly fell in love, so i thought, we are Indian so we are open to the idea of arranged marriage although our relationship was not arranged. We have only been with each other for 10 months but we know its the right thing. he is ... (543 words)

They called me "easy"

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel so betrayed right now. My best friend is a guy {lets call him S} and we have been best friends for a while. So this year we kissed once or twice and that was it. A couple days ago me, S, his cousin J, and a bunch of other girls and guys went to the movies. Nothing ... (307 words)

I always end up being "just friends" with every single guy I meet, how do I show them that I want to be more than that???

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm nearly 16 years old, and i've NEVER had a boyfriend, or even a kiss :S. guys hit on me and stuff, but i honestly don't know how to react, i always get so shy. when a guy would try to get to know me, we always start out flirty but in the end we're just friends . what kinds ... (86 words)

He seemed happy to be done with the relationship

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i broke up with my boyfriend today he was not paying that much attention to the relationship and me, he just came home slept, ate and then went to his friends house to play video games and then went to work, i just felt used, i just could not take it any more we do not have any ... (133 words)

Were not exclusively dating so is it cheating to go on other dates?

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for about two months. We've known each other since last summer and just talked on and off. We have made out and acted as a couple out in public. But still have not had sex or talked about being exclusive. We text pretty much every day. But the last ... (213 words)

What does it mean when my husband says "take what you can get"?

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my huddy been together for 7years and got wed when we make 4 1/2 years .our relationship been ok i think but lately it feel like he is not in love with me .i can not tell him how i feel about everything don't even talk about sex. he said i know he come fast so i just ... (70 words)

I just found out that my husbands friend is secretly in love with me.

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - (Mod note: OP's own title) I recently learn via a friend that my husbands friend was in love with me.... Also, he told this mutual friend something I told him in confidence... What should I do? I want to confront him about telling others what I told him in confidence but at t... (109 words)

Boyfriend doesn't seem to have time for me but I feel so good when we do find time.

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boy friend and i have been going out for almost three months and STILL the only time i see him is on the bus (mabe once a week) and during advisory (on wed.) for 30 min. when i ask him to come hang out at school he says he's doing something (which i admit is possible because ... (158 words)

Torn between two of my friends.

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice. Two of my best friends havn't spoken to each other since early january. I have been trying to hang out with both of them. well kat (not real name) decided that i had to choose who i was going to stay friends with. and i told her that i didn't want to choose. but ... (176 words)

Did my past infidelities cause my wife's cervical cancer. This guilt is eating me alive! Help!

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13 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am married and have been unfaithful to my wife through out our whole marriage, and not with the same girl. I always used protection because I did not want to be responsible for an STD. I have changed and now I am a new man thanks to my religion I am trying to redeem my heart ... (98 words)

No one compares to my first love...what can I do?

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do, I recently got a boyfriend and I like him but the day he asked me out I was thinking about another guy. athe guy I was thinking about was my first love. I still haven't gotten over him and it's been almost 2 years, I don't know what it is about him. I ... (279 words)

He stopped contact, suddenly..did I offend him..did he get bored with me? Any advice?

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I started chatting to a man over the internet about 3 months ago, now all of a sudden he has stop communicating with me. We usually have some form of contact at least every day or every second day either by phone,text or email. But its been two weeks and I have heard ... (121 words)

He is in a band and 10 years older than me! I like him..should I date him?

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a problem. I think I like someone who is in my cousins band. We have met before but that was a couple years ago and we saw each other a while. But now I added him on myspace and I just have a feeling that I like him. I don't know what I should do. Help? Also hes ten ... (87 words)

How do I heal from my Mother's horrible abuse? Please help!

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid...please help me...I was emotionally and sort of physically abused by my mother when I was a teenager...my mother left my family when I was about 9 years old. I went to live with her again when I was about 14. Before that, except for when I was little had never seen ... (890 words)

I'm addicted to a cold and selfish woman who lies, cheats and accuses me of everything! Advice?

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13 April 2010 (M)

age - Did anyone, male or female, ever come across this type of partner? We are seperated now. She lies about an affair and when lies couldnt' work anymore, she went on the offensive and blamed me for 9 years of not loving her and meeting her needs. I took her back 9 yrs ago because ... (311 words)

She's my wife now, but her past indiscretions when we dated bother me now! What should I do?

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13 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My then-girlfriend and now wife took part in a program that tutored our school's athletes back when we were in college together. Many of the young women in the program who tutored the athletes also were very physical with these guys. It was apparently tacitly tolerated and ... (322 words)

I think about my galpal constantly! How do I get through this?

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't even know where to begin. After having a pretty crap year there was always 1 friend that was there for me and, though I know I don't love her, but I feel like I do. I think about her constantly and I practically kiss the ground she walks on. I know I'm a bit unstable in ... (164 words)

Cheated on my bf with his brother! What should I do?

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13 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently I cheated on my boyfriend. I gave his brother a blow job and have had sex with his brother at least 10 times since. I feel really bad because I like both of them but I don't want to tell my boyfriend what should I do.... (49 words)

Worried about having sex for the first time

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13 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old, almost 16, and my girlfriend is 16. We have been together for 6 months, but we were friends before this. We are deeply in love, and care hugely for one another - the thought of losing her makes me feel physically sick. We are both virgins, but have done so... (167 words)