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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he a controlling liar or am I just paranoid?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so here it goes... my bf of almost 4 years and i have had a massive fight because earlier in the day i heard him on the phone talking about going out with his friends i heard the guy on the other end of the phone say yer michelle is coming my bf said who and he said you know ... (190 words)

Did I only just tear my hymen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well I've had sex about 5 or 6 times with this guy, then we didn't have sex for about a month. Then when we tried to do it again it hurt for a minute because I was tighter, but all of a sudden I started bleeding. I thought it was my period because there was a lot of blood ... (94 words)

Why am I sleeping with my boyfriend's Dad?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I really need some advice here. I've gotten myself into a bad situation. I've been dating my boyfriend for awhile (we are both 18), and when I first met his parents there was a spark between his father and I. Now here we are six months later, and his father and I have ... (90 words)

Choosing between guys AND whether to abort or not!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well guys I'm stilled confused. My husband left me about eight mths ago and now I"m pregnant with another guy's baby. My husband recently contacted me with the hopes of us getting back together. When i went to see him he ask if I was pregnant and I told him I was. He said he ... (330 words)

We both like the same guy!

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i've moved schools and and i've meet new friends. I sit beside this guy in chemistry clas and i think im falling for him, but i think he likes me too. I mean we flirt we've got so many things in common and we're beging to speak alot more after class...Well the thing is... (116 words)

He lied to me about having a girlfriend!

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dare c i am in love with this guy am 16 yeras old hes 17 he lives were i live i see him somtime heres the thing some weeks ago i seen him and we went to the park with my sister and his friend he was allways with me saying he liked me and the he said he loved me but after tha... (153 words)

Is he a gem? Or should I be a perfectionist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have met the most incredible guy. He has a beautiful soul - kind, caring, intelligent, honest and selfless. He has impeccable manners such as opening doors for me, etc. I don't feel physically attracted to him totally yet, however when we get talking I tend to forget about ... (413 words)

How do I touch her without her thinking I want sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

3 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - With my girlfriend, we talk, hold hands, hug (sometimes hug on the bed), kiss (also hug and kiss on my bed) but we've never done anything like hmm how to say.. like sexually. I know this sounds like I want to have sex with her but that's not the case, i'm talking about things ... (137 words)

The condom split! How do I tell Mum I want to keep it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I've recently had sex with my boyfriend but the condom ripped i'm only 13 an yes I know I am under-age an silly, but I think I want too keep the baby if I am pregnant, I know there is a-lot more to it than just having a baby! But I will look after it as best as I can, I ... (110 words)

I'm in love with someone else

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3 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im in a relation ship with an incredibly gorgeous girl, the only thing is, im in love with someone else. The girl i love doesn't know about this yet, and neither does my girlfriend, also, my girlfriend lives like two/three bus rides away, which i can occasionally do ... (130 words)

He ran hot and cold -- what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so here goes. me and my ex broke up over two years ago. We had a good relationship and I was his longest. We broke up mainly because he was moving away to study. I think it was very upsetting for both of us, we both cared for one another a great deal. I tried to keep in ... (467 words)

Not pregnant but haven't had a period since August

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, My question is a health one. Im 18 years of age and i started getting my periods when i was 11. I havent had a period since august and this is really strange because i used to be really regular like i was always saying how lucky i was because i knew when i would ... (130 words)

He wants to be with both me and her

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay let me make this simple as possible. My Husband and I have a very strange life. We have been married for 7 years and we love each other.Well we where married very young 23 and 21(me). Neither one of us had a chance to live life. We both have cheated but always make up and ... (104 words)

18, in an unhappy relationship, and pregnant

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - (Moderator’s note: two questions combined) Im 18 years old and i have been with my partner for just over a year now, Before i met him i was in a bad place and was on the rebound i guess due to having my heartbroken from the first boy i ever loved, then he made me happy and i fe... (604 words)

Condom ripped and now I can't get the day after pill because of holiday! HELP!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - erm, i'm 13, and I had sex with my boyfriend yesterday, we used protection but the condom ripped. I know you probably think i'm stupid an yes I know that but I really don't know what to do! I was going to go to a under 16's clinic called 'brook' too get the morning after pill ... (99 words)

How do you stop being controlling?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can you stop being controlling? I know that sounds strange but I,ve been told I,m quite a controlling and I know I am. I,m a type person who has to be on control on everything , Organising party I insist I have to do everything , I,m getting rather paranoid latlely on the ... (69 words)

I don't want him to take my top off!

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been going out for about five months. he regurally takes his top off when making out, when we were making out in a forest he told me he would have taken my top off but i would be cold. he didnt but thing is, i don't want him to take my top off. i am ... (77 words)

Marriage falling apart because of sexual problems!

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3 April 2010 (F)

age - My marriage is falling apart, because of sexual problems. My husband does not enjoy having sex with me. He says it's because I'm to big and feels nothing when we are making love. We've been together for 5 years and maybe have sex 4 or 5 times a years. I've had this ... (234 words)

Why does my boyfriend stay in contact with this girl when he knows I don't like it!

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and this girl works together recently i found out that he was texting her alot asking her if he can come over and stuff i told him to stop he said that it will never happen again now i found out that he is giving her rides to work after i told him i do not feel ... (98 words)

I can't stop thinking about my teacher and what our lives would be like together!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

3 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - How Do I Tell My Teacher That I Love Him?,I've Liked him For About 3 Years and loved him for about a year.we get on soo well and he's realli cute although he is 10 years older he doesn't seem it infact he acts like a 16 year old boy. No matter what I do I can't stop thinking ... (108 words)

I moved on quickly and I still feel guilty towards my ex... why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, just a quick question... well, quick by my standards anyway During the summer, I dated a girl for a couple of months. We had a nice time together, we really developed feelings for eachother in the short time period. When the end of the summer came and I had to go back... (286 words)

Any insight into itchiness after sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

3 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I sometimes get an itchy foreskin after intercourse with my girlfriend of over 3 years. It affects the exterior AND interior (tip) of the foreskin. We have unprotected sex and use lubricant every time. It sometimes occurs after masturbation as well. Sometimes this itch is non-e... (92 words)

Why does my friend behave this way?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my friend whenever am going to her house and am running late she'd call me alot and if dont answer she will texts me. are you coming, why you ignoring me what have i done etc: is soo annoying. and am sick of her aways calling pretty girls ugly. she thinks i shoul... (133 words)

My boyfriend lied to me about another woman so I broke up with him. Did I do the right thing?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend of a year has been talking to this girl at work he says nothing is going on but i do not know! today someone texted him early in the morning he said that it was her but it was a forward text so i believed him. then she texted again and i asked him what she want... (268 words)

Does my boyfriend still love me even though he broke up with me?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 17 and my boy friend finshed with me last week...he says he still likes me but doesnt want to get back with me.... he started drinking the night he finshed with me ...he dropped his friends when we finshed and just wont speak to them about the break up....i asked him was ... (98 words)

He used to be affectionate, now he doesn't even answer my texts!

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy is acting damn strange! When I'm with him he acts very sweet! He speaks to me so well.. Hold my hand in midst of the other folks. Previously, he used to call me every time I got back home and text. Now, nothing! He doesn't even bother to reply to something I s... (108 words)

I supported him during his separation and he repays me with lies

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i need advice please. i dont know what to do regarding my work colleague. he started the job we're in 8 months ago. his wife left him last year and hes used me as a huge emotional crutch which ive been happy about. i really like him, hes funny and we clicked. heres the prob... (359 words)

Does a shared interest in unpopular music suggest we're soul mates?

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3 April 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Let's say that two people have exactly the same taste in music especially if this music is not very popular. Do you think that it's quite possible that they would have good a friendship/relationship or that they're some kind of emotional twins/soul mates? Do you think this two... (70 words)

How can I change my promiscuous ways?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - 3 April 2010: I feel like such a slut. I am only 16, 17 in 2 weeks and I have slept with 14 boys over 2 years I think. I dont know why I do, I just watnt to feel wanted. I get used and it hurts me like mad and i get really really down because I hate myself no boy wants me ... (88 words)

How can I overcome the loss of my unborn baby?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year in September, I got pregnant, I was 16 at the time and I was on the pill, it was just very bad luck. When I found out I was no longer with the guy so I had to make the decision about what to do. Shortly after I found out about the pregnancy I was due to go on holiday... (233 words)

My girlfriend's dog is coming between us

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3 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a woman for about 18 months now. We have had mostly a long distance relationship as we live in different parts of the country, but we have survived long separations and are good about making efforts to see each other. She is planning to move to my city in ... (508 words)

How do I save my friendship without us looking like a couple?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

3 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i love my best friend very much and want to see her happy alwayz but she loves my other friend. i have already told my best friend that i love her. i am happy to see both of them happy together because i just want to see her happiness. if she is happy with him i am also ha... (202 words)

How do I keep a man's interest while saving my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My significant other recently broke-up with me, and the underlying and unsaid factor? Why sex, of course, or rather the lack of. EVERY single serious relationship I've ever gotten into has ended because the man was frustrated that I intend on saving my virginity until marriage... (351 words)

Mixed messages from my ex-girlfriend

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3 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend broke up about a week ago. Things were going great for a while but later she wanted to spend less and less time with me. She asked me if we were going to be bus buddies and I said yeah if you want to be and she said well "duh, why do you not want to be? I ... (980 words)

Will guys judge me because of my lack of sexual experience?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This might sound very crazy but I desperately need some wider opinions on this. I dated my boyfriend for two years and despite being together for so long, we never had sex. It wasn't that I didnt want to sleep with him or that I had specific religious/cultural views, it just ... (287 words)

Boyfriends mother excludes me from family events.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help me out on this! My potential mother-in-law leaves me out of family gatherings such as Easter, inviting instead someone my bf used to go out with, whom she prefers, and whom she has a close relationship with and adores. Every holiday I am thus filled with a terrible ... (170 words)

My ex got the wrong idea by me trying to be friendly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I rescently made contact with my e after about four nonths. T he phonecall was harmless. However he has the wrong idea and is still totally hooked on me and won't refrain from messaging and emailing me. I have assured him the phonecall was innocent and was merely to let him ... (161 words)

Do you think my ex was flirting with me?

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3 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - After two weeks of no contact of my ex girlfriend, I decided to talk to her. I texted her and I was wondering if she was flirting with me? since I was kinda flirting with her (I think) Do you think this conversation was like just to see whats up? or a little flirtation Me: ... (411 words)

My 'goldenchild' sister can do no wrong!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don’t know what to do anymore. My sister has, for many years, liked to stir up trouble between my parents and I by trying to play me off against them and then putting on this ‘saint’ act towards my parents which they fall for every time. The latest example has left... (659 words)

Stalked by a friend. Why did he do this? It's scaring me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im on my home from the store right i feel like im being followed then when im about to turn around i get a txt ok it said "i see you!" so i look around and i see my friend ( its the stalker boy) so i talk to him for a couple minutes then i start to walk again and i look back ... (207 words)

Fed up with guys just looking for sex on dating sites!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey so ive join a dating site.. and i only get guys who just want sex..(i don't have revealing pics on there) so am thinking of putting this on my profile. P.S. don't message me if you speak slang and if your looking for a slu.t. to **** and su.ck your dic.k then keep... (100 words)

Should I try to get back together with my ex in spite of the distance?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Should i try to get back together with my ex? The only reason we broke up was because I moved to another state and we thought long distance wouldn't work. Before we broke up we were really close and didn't have any real problems. We trusted eachother and loved spending t... (126 words)

How can I deal with the long distance?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is going in the raf soon, and he is gonna be going away for months. its breaking my heart cos i know that im not gonna be able to see him. i see him near enough every day. we've been together over a year now. im just so upset i dont know what to do. i know this... (75 words)

Whenever I'm expected to get it up I can't!

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3 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, can anyone give me advice on this? whenever im doing anything sexual with a woman, or even just lying beside her, im as hard as possible, but when it comes to her pleasing me or sex i just cant get an erection! what do i do? i really wana fix this because it destroys my ... (102 words)

How can I handle my undeserved jealousy towards my current husband?

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3 April 2010 (F) age 51-59 - I am now in my 2nd marriage. And I go through my husband’s communications all the time and he doesn’t know… But let me tell you the whole story… My 1st marriage was a terrible one. Mentally and physically abusive. Lasted 5years before I eventually dragged myself out of th... (795 words)

My boyfriend blows me off and gets nasty and I am not sure what I should do

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend of a year has gotten very controlling and jealous. I had to delete my facebook and every guy in my phone because of him. He blows me off every weekend for friends and barley talks to me on weekdays. Then when I go hang out with friends he blows up my phone... (464 words)

Emails, texts, phone calls, a date, texts now nothing.

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3 April 2010 (F)

age - Happy Easter to all the wonderful people on Dear Cupid! I signed up on Plenty Of Fish a week ago. i was inundated with 100s of emails. One guy stood out and we have been on two dates in a week. We had a blast both times. The conversation was flowing all night and we laughed a... (152 words)

My friend is hurting me with his behavior and doesn't seem to get it!

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I talked to my friend last night telling him that he hurt me by being distant. He said that the reason why e doesn’t talk to me is because he doesn’t carry his phone every where and sometimes he is signed on online but he’s not at his computer. Plus he never apologizes to me. I ... (241 words)

I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!

This question has 75 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

3 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is now going around school saying t... (116 words)

Boyfriend won't fly to go on vacation yet he did this with his ex!

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3 April 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hello, I hope you can help. I really want to go on holiday but my bf won't come with me as he is too scared to fly. I understand that but the thing is he has flown before twice with his ex and twice with his mates. He keeps saying that he does want to go away but he is not read... (93 words)

Is it time to break up with him? Please help, it's my first serious relationship.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - *OP's own title* Hey everyone. I really need some help... I am in a relationship with a guy and have been for nearly two years now. He was my first for everything. I mean I dated a few guys before I met him, but it was nothing serious. I always said I'd wait for someone tha... (529 words)

Does the caneston duo oral pill affect the contraceptive pill?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title* Can caneston duo (The pill and the cream)(Thrush treatment) affect the contraceptive pill? Ive searched all over the internet and ive read through the leaflet that came with it 4 times, it mentions nothing. So im not too sure whether i can have sex or not, as i... (121 words)

Should I stick this LDR out another 5 years until we can be together/

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What should I do? I am in a long distance relationship due to military and family commitments.Here is my delemia. We have been with each other on and off for 3 years. He is in another state from me. He was planning on retiring and coming here this summer.He would have been ... (193 words)

Am I leading him on?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't understand what this is supposed to mean? One of my guy friends and me (well I like him, I think - he's 17, I'm 15, we've known each other vaguely since we were about 4 but have been talking for about 6 months) met up yesterday, and literally, all we did was hug and ... (149 words)

What would be the meanest, most heartbreaking way to break up with him?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title* I feel like I can officially say I'm over my old boyfriend. We're in a foreign country, however, and have to live together in the same house for the next three weeks until I go home. I had some suspicions that the guy was cheating on me with some chick from... (222 words)

Is he interested in having a relationship or does he just want to date casually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - *OP's own title* Recently, I started dating this guy. We've been out for a few times, going for drinks and dinners. When we met, he seemed to be really into me, he asked me lots of questions that showed that he wanted to get to know me further and were interested in family back... (502 words)

Does he really love me? What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title* So, I've been dating my best friend since the end of December. He's a very private person and doesn't like to talk about his feelings, even to those he's close to, except when he's tired. When he's exhausted, he has a tendency to babble at a level sometimes reac... (315 words)

Is straying inevitable when partners are not sexually satisfied?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel that its ok for my spouse to look at porn.... but..... My question is???? If your mate (male) is looking at porn and not satisfy his mate (female) then is it safe to say you both will stray??? i am starting to feel his addiction to this is affecting our relationship ... (85 words)

A kiss, ...with a twist. How should I spice it up?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 6 months and i want to kiss him a little differently to normal to make things a bit more fun. any ideas? x... (33 words)

He wont have sex with me since finding out I might be pregnant!

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my partner are certain im pregnant, i haven't tested yet, im a week late so im going to give it another week before i test, im never late this is the first time i been late and i have a few symptoms. ever since i told him i could be pregnant he hasn't had sex with me, we ... (182 words)

Should I approach an eavesdropper to clarify the context of what she may have overheard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel guilty because I was at this casual party/picnic at church last night and I was talking to my new friend about how I felt uneasy last year when I had no money and this specific group at church that collects items for the poor kept asking for things to bring. The leader ... (180 words)

I'm liking a player and I don't want to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - (MOD NOTE) 2 posts made into one Theres this guy i've met 3 years ago we hit it off well but two days later i had to go back to my home town.i messaged him few months ago and he was saying all these stuff how his going to come to my home state and that he cant wait to see me.f... (391 words)

My mate is an escort for financial reasons!

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3 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 31 yo male in long distance relation with a 42 yo guy. I met this guy two years back, when he was in need of money. I felt comfortable with him and proposed for relation, after few months of chatting in internet. He hesitated first, but later accepted for the relation... (215 words)

Is my past causing me to be attracted to older men?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Growing up, I have had a lot of difficulties with my father. Before my mother filed for seperation and left him, he was verbally and emotionally abusive.. and the threat of physical violence was never far off. I lived in a lot of fear of men, especially my father. After she ... (632 words)

Husband & I can't talk and he has fallen in love with his friend!

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3 April 2010 (?) age 41-50 - my husband loves me as a wife but he says i'm not his love.there is mental diffrences between us so we can't discus any topic.he talks with his college and friend and says friend is friend.me should not interfair...he says tthis is not trust..he is honest physicaly and ... (97 words)

B/f caught talking to ex about her nude photos!

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I caught my boyfriend of almost a year and a half talking to his ex about supposed "nuddy" pics he still had on his computer and how nice her body was. I was pretty upset at the situation, but how upset should I be??... (44 words)

Ex colleague wants to meet up. Should I?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have worked with a man for over a year, he recently quit and contacted me stating that he always wanted to know what it would be like to be with me. I'm flattered (he is very attractive) but he recently had a child with his on again off again girlfriend, they are not married ... (80 words)

Does this sound like a one night stand?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - )OP's own title* I've never had anything like a one night stand before. I usually spend months dating a guy before sex comes into the equation, so I have no idea whether the way this guy was acting suggests it was a one night stand or something more. I work with this guy b... (213 words)

Why are all the guys I'm meeting wanting to drag my name through the mud?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title* y am i meeting guys that only wanna drag my good name through the mud. ok so my very first bf lied about sleeping wit me like he was braggimg about it and that ended everything we had. we did not sleep together. then while on the rebound i fell for a play... (160 words)

Was it right to break up with my boyfriend? What do I do?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a few months two nights ago... At the time it seemed like the right thing to do. We were at the point in our relationship were we should either move forward or split and neither of us were ready to move forward. I'm really regretting ... (165 words)

How do I find the balance between overeager, and interested?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So just wanted to know the dating rules. Guy went out with me twice, texts late. I dont wana seem too interested but still kinda mysterious, get him into me....he responds to texts late....shud i reply tonite or tomorrow? shud i not reply at all? if a guy says 'let me know ... (174 words)

Trying to get respect from girlfriend...

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3 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - OK so my main gripe is that my gf likes to continually call me out on "being an idiot" in her words. It's starting to frustrate me but I try to keep my cool so that she can't see it having an effect on me. Take last night for instance, she started to go on about quitting h... (937 words)

Isnt she completely over the line here?

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3 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife was snooping through some of my personal belongings and found a picture of my exgirlfriend and an old letter that she had sent me. She asked me why I had kept those two things and I told her quite honestly that I didn't even know I still had them. They were stuffed ... (230 words)

I am always suspicious of him, how do I trust him?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I heard a rumor about my boyfriend cheating on me, I immediatley freaked out, smacked him in the chest and screamed at him without giving him a chance to explain, left our house and stayed at my friends for the next 3 days. After I left, he didn't call me and try to expla... (249 words)

Should I dump my boyfriend after he lied about what he was doing in Vegas?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months. Everything was pretty good except some little issues along the way until this weekend. He is a sweet guy who has good intentions and he loves me very much and I love him but I need outside opinions. He went to Vegas this we... (183 words)

What can I do to control my jealousy?

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3 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a best friend who is a girl, she once told me "when its me, its only me". she told me this because she felt left out when we both were with other common friends and i was speaking to them. so, i agreed and sticked to that sentence. Recently when there were college ... (123 words)

How do I get from lover to just a friend smoothly?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How does one transition from being lovers to only friends? It started out as this guy and I meeting each other at work. We began talking everyday, calling each other, and eventually we developed feelings for one another. Although neither of us wanted a relationship (he... (240 words)

Boyfriend's best friend assaulted me

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I started to tell the whole, long story. but it turned out to be about 20000 words.. so here is the short version: My boyfriend's best friend forced me to give him head. He was drunk, i was not that drunk. My boyfriend was sleeping on the couch next to where we were. I... (288 words)

Worried husband will leave me if we can't have a child!

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been together 17 years. We are now approaching 40, and we have no children. We both really want a baby so we have tried fertility treatments - no success. We are now in the midst of an IVF cycle. I have loved our 17 years together. Lots of ups and ... (242 words)

We used to be able to talk but now we can't. WHY?

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3 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl I like. We've been out a few times. We have a lot in common. We can usually send each other over a 100 texts a day but recently she's got where she doesn't text back often. She used to be able to keep a conversation going and when it got dull we would always ... (85 words)

My woman is confused if I'm her friend or her lover!

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3 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 30yo male. I have been in a relationship with a 29yo female for nearly 3 months now. Things started off great. Then one day, she suddenly txt me and said she doesn't want to be with me anymore. I was assured there's no 3rd party involved. Few days later, she txt me and s... (189 words)

Everyone asks if we are dating but we're not but I wish we were!

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i have a boy problem. There's this boy, Jason, he's a junior. I like him and he kind of likes me i guess cuz we flirt allll the time at play practice and in school and stuff. I'm a sophomore. well a girl in my class alli, used to have a thing for him too, and still kind of ... (235 words)

He asked me what turns me on and I didn't know what to say!

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I'm 14 and I have my first proper boyfriend, we make-out alot, and he says he enjoys it :) Recently he asked me what turns me on, because this is the furtherest I've ever got with a guy so I don't really know what turns me on as such, so I don't really know how to reply? ... (90 words)

Went out with my ex and its the same old rollercoaster ride

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3 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, Yesterday I had a date with my ex-girlfriend, we date like a year ago, then she broke up and we did not speak for several months. Now she innitiated contact and I aggreed to go out with her. Everything went really wel, she told me she was really having a ... (340 words)

I feel like I want to run away! Do I have a disorder?

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Someone please save me :( Deep down I know something is wrong with me. Mentally. I just can't take it anymore! For so long i've gone bottling EVERYTHING up because I don't want to bore people with my life story or for them to think i'm some crazy person. I don't want to sc... (598 words)

What can I do? Boyfriend getting bored with me!

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 months. and he told me today that he always gets bored with girls and thats why his longest relationship has only lasted 4 months. but he said he loves me so hes going to keep trying. i really do love this guy but i need ... (98 words)

Why is my cousin not talking to me

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have no idea what is going on but my cousin have stopped talking to me for no reason... she lives upstairs..we all live in the same building shes at uni now but she comes down on weekends and holidays and she she has stopped talking to me..i dont know what i have d... (202 words)

My best friend is a girl like me and I've fallen for her!

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3 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old and i've only ever been out with guys but i've completely fallen for my best friend whos also a girl she's always getting with guys butshe's also really touchy feely with me. For example she always holds my hand, cuddles and kisses me and when we got out club... (121 words)