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He said "not now" when I asked him if he would get with me.

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Question - (11 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, *ookatme writes:

Okay.. there is a guy I really really like and he sort of likes me back. He said "not now" when i asked him if he would get with me. Then he said to my friend that he doesn't "fancy" me now but he thinks he will "fancy" me in the future which is why he keeps saying maybe to me. I'm really not quite sure what to do or what he means or even what "fancy" means. please please help me cos I like him so much and would really like to get with him. Thanks so much.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (11 October 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntSo basically, he is keeping you around as a backup? Charming. That doesn't cool your engines at all?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2009):

Bloody Hell, you aren't a library book. He can't put a reserve on you and get you out when he finally decides that he's read all of the other books.

He's said no, so move on and go out with a gorgeous tall bloke and watch his face as he realises what he's missing.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2009):

You may fancy him, but I dont think he's interested you at all really. Better to move on and find a guy who really does fancy you and want to be with you, than wait around for someone who isn't interested.

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