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writes:Two weeks ago, my friend introduced me to this guy. He liked me since that day, I didnt really even think of him since I just broke up with my BF a month ago so. Even if i didnt seem interested in him, he took my friend and me out and we had so much fun. After two days he said he liked me nd tried to kiss me. I obviously didnt want to and explained him bout my resent break up. He asked me to think about giving him a chance. A few days after we ended up kissing but I didnt say I accepted to be his girlfriend.Next day, he came to talk with me, I had planned to tell him that we get to know each other better as friends first and then see what happens, because we cant take things so fast. However, when I saw him I cudnt help falling into his arms like if i was his girl. As we talked, I felt so good with him, we laughed and could talk about so many things, and I ended up changing my mind so I ended up saying that i did want to be his girlfriend.It's been a week since then; I like to be with him, hes good looking, treats me like a princess and makes me feel like I'm the center of his world. Even if that should be a good thing, sometimes I feel like he's too cling and needy. He told me he loved me even before I said YES to him, nd he expects me to love him back the same way. I tell him I need time to say such strong words nd he gets upset. Even if he says he understands and accepts he's really different and that he's of open feelings so he dont like to hold back what he feels.., I still feel a little pressured by him. Ohh one more thing, I also think it's too early for him to be talking to me about having sex, come on we juss met. I wish i could love him the same way, of course I like him and have feelings for him but it's too eary to be love. So i dont know if i should let this go on cuz sometimes I wanna break up him, specially cuz Im going to the National Guard in about 9 months; so I dont want him to be badly hurt, since he's already so into me. Thanks for any comments.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 October 2009):
He's opened up a little too quickly, so I'm not sure he's ready for a relationship of this kind. You're right. It does take time to admit that you love someone, and you've only just got over one boyfriend. It might be a case that he's only really interested in sex. Take this very slowly and see what happens.
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