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30-35,
*rfan4life
writes:I met this guy in May, we went on a couple of dates and made out, and had some good chats on msn, and emailed me when i left the country to study. he said he wasn't ready for a GF, and btw he was the one who suggested the girlfriend thing. But we made out, and he even bought me a perfume. problem is he is in a different country than me, but is like 2 hrs away by plane from me, and i think he is scared of the distance but doesnt want the relationship. Is he using me? also recently I sent him an email asking about where we stand and things, and I know he read it, but he didn't reply.. is he waiting? will he ever reply, is he mad? I really like him and I think he likes me, but I don't know how long I can wait for him.. he is a bit older than me, and we are at different stages of our lives, but I was in town recently and he made excuses not to meet up.. hence i sent the email, so I am not sure if i really screwed it up this time or what.. what should i do?
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reader, prfan4life +, writes (27 October 2009):
prfan4life is verified as being by the original poster of the question Update: Well, we didnt see each other, but he wrote me saying we could still be friends and in a way i'd rather we be friends than nothing, im just glad he wrote.
though last night i dreamt about him. i as working in this bar, and i was on the terrace cleaning something, and i saw him pass, so i stopped and said hey, then we hugged and i asked how he was and he said he was fine, and then we began walking around this secluded area, and we had our arms around each other. one point we stopped and kissed on the lips and it was about to get more passionate, but then i woke up. but the feeling of seeing his face and being that close to him, was really nice.. it was so vivid, and first dream i've had of him for a long time, which is why i remember it so well... what do you think this means, or just my imagination?
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reader, prfan4life +, writes (11 October 2009):
prfan4life is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks. yea it seemed different earlier on, but I am not sure. I'm waiting see if he replies, if not its over. I had a feeling he was using me, but everything he did seemed real. Oh well...i guess he's moved on, and its time for me to do the same..
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 October 2009):
He's not interested in you. He makes excuses, doens't reply. It says it all really. Ditch this guy and find a guy closer to you who will commit and give you the respect you deserve. This guy really isn't interested in you.
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