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*axgirl93
writes:So me and my ex have been broken up for about two months. Ever since the break up I've regretted it and i have tried to do ANYTHING that I can to get him back. He has only told me that he doesnt feel the same way about me anymore and has pushed me further and further away. I didnt know what else to to so the I told myself this would be the last time that I try. I wrote him a 3 page letter describing all of my feelings entirely and how i felt about the break up and about him.Yesterday I asked him to meet me so that we could talk. He came with 3 other friends and acted like a compleat douche bag to me. we were talking about how he had cheated on me and I started laughing out of nervousness so he left me there alone and stormed off with his friends. 5 minutes later I texted him and told him that i was going to give him something but i wasnt anymore because he was an asshole and tried to look cool in front of his friends. He called me right awy and BEGGED me to meet him so we could talk..again. I was still angry but i love him so i met him again. He told me that he was sorry and that he was just mad at me for "acting childish" he apologized for pushing me away and said he still loved me and he felt bad for everything that had happened. He promised me that he would make an effort to include me in his life and at the end we kissed.An hour later he texted me and said that we should "be like we were more". I didnt really know how to look at this. do you think he is just using me to see what he can get? Or does he really want me in his life again. Should i take this chance and run with it, or he is an asshole like the rest of them?
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reader, laxgirl93 +, writes (11 October 2009):
laxgirl93 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks you guys, so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2009): when a guy 'acts' like a douchebag...he's usually not acting. Move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2009): What a dork.
Move on!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2009): He just wants to use you, he acted like a douche bag because he is one.
Try not having a boyfriend for awhile and hang out with your friends, stop all contact with this guy and you will get over him.
Writing a letter to a guy rarely works anyway, they have a limited vocabulary for feelings and they don't want to be dumped on with yours, he won't get it and he won't care so don't go thinking that your letter is the reason he is now wanting you back.. He made it clear when he brought his army with him that he didn't.
He is just playing games with you....and it is clear he is wanting the physical side of things, but he will still treat you wrong because he is a teenage boy with hormones and that is all he has going on.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 October 2009):
Sweetie, he's an asshole like the rest of them! Think about it carefully. He cheated, you poured your heart out and he pushed you away, when you talked to him, he brought his friends and then stormed off and now he wants sex. He wants to use you, so don't let him. He's not worth your time anymore. Find a better guy.
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