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writes:Dear Cupid,Been married for 24 years,but have had an affair for the past 3 years,very experienced lover,[also married},everything my husband is not,even though I love him in other ways... I feel frustrated with him,but can't say. Should I dump my lover,and get back to my peaceful life?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): so let me get this straight. you are having an affair with another married man. and this doesn't concern you. you are only after the sex and nothing else?
do not dump your lover. DIVORCE YOUR HB. yes, divorce him, he deserves better. he needs a decent caring faithful wife instead of a wife sleeping around with a married man. your hb is a good man so he deserves a good decent wife! plain and simple. no fuss. no drama . just marital fidelity.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (12 October 2009):
 I think so, I also believe that in order to gain some normalcy it's important that you come clean to your husband. After being married this long, he's earned the truth from you. And getting back to peace, it's important for that starting over in a committed marital relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2009): omg its bad to start out with that you are even cheating on him!! But based on what u said, if your "lover" is married also...he might not want to end his marrage just yet. i would ask him about that, then if hes willing to end it, and you really love him more than your husband, then you should end it too. just remember not to make any mistakes that you will regret in the future!! i know i dont have any experience with marrage and affairs and that stuff because im only...well im a teenager lol...but i hope i helped:)
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