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writes:In your average friends with benefits situation so obviously we're talking frequent sex here, do you think a guy would sleep with just anyone? I mean if a guy is good looking and he knows it surely he would choose someone that he finds attractive? Or does it not matter because it is not a relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2009): He will sometimes drink water if there's no wine available.Don't listen to the closet homosexuals or unattractive males on this blog telling you otherwise. Men want sex from as many hot chicks they can fit into their schedules. It's the nature of the beast. Unless, of course, the girl in question's offerings are "sub-par." An attractive guy might respectfully decline a less desirable offer unless he's feeling a bit generous on the occasion. Warning: many good looking guys are extremely generous.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (13 October 2009):
 Okay, I still think this is an interesting question. As I have indicated, there were quite a few times that sexual offerings by young (or now much older) females were declined. It was because I have always maintained fairly high standards. It is quite possible that my preferences, which could also be considered just a bit driven by moderate vanity, differs from many guys. In other words, i've been fairly picky all my life, but maybe most guys are not. I don't know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2009):
Horrible title for this question since I think what you are getting at is really the opposite.
Often times wives are surprised that a mistress unmasked turns out not to be so younger/hotter/more glamorous than themselves. What the other woman does have is a supportive, low maintenance personality that meshes well with the man's. The guy doesnt want another woman he has to listen bitch about how everyone at her work are idiots and how she hates all her friends.
So if your question is could some attractive guy have a side relationship with someone a couple of levels "below" him, the answer is yes. I have know a few guys over the years who have had "booty call" girls that that arent a match for them on paper but get on well behind the scenes with a casual relationship. Thats because the girl is fun and happy, not a high maintainance girl like a real gf can be.
If the suspect girl isnt attractive *and* has a bad personality *and* isnt an old childhood friend then you can probably rule her out.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (12 October 2009):
As an older man, I have certainly turned-down many opportunities. Some offers were later somewhat regretted in retrospect, but I think that each man must speak for themselves. Men are not all the same.
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reader, depressed teen  +, writes (11 October 2009):
 if your willing to sleep with him then he is always going back to you because he knows that you are always going to say yes. That is the only reason he is going back to you. sorry
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 October 2009):
There was a study done. Women who wants casual sex and flings tend to aim higher than the usually would. Men who want casual flings will use any women they can, because it doens't matter. It's important that you don't feel used and abused, because young men are far better at splitting sex and emotion than women are. I think you'd be far better off spending time talking to guys, finding out about them and then finding the right guy than having casual sex, because it sounds already like you're feeling a bit used.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (11 October 2009):
Well depends on the man.
But if you're JUST his friend who has sex with him sometimes then you'll probably never know because what he gets up to is really none of your business.
If you want him to be your boyfriend then tell him. And if he says no then get out before you get hurt.
Good Luck!! xx
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