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female
age
36-40,
*iana:p
writes:long story put very short.. he went to college 7 hours away. I stayed back in another college . now everytime he comes he always wants to hangout with me and we end up saying some stuff like we miss eachother we love eachother etc. but I can't help but feel he only uses me for sex he askes for it either straight up or he'll give big hints to show me he wants to do it . it hurts me and I can tell for sure that he really does care deeply about me but how deep? and am I just being blind is he only using me? he tells me sweet things but the way he saids them doesn't look like he means them. what should I tell him? how should I reac?t should I see him again? please answer all my questions!!! I'd really appreciate it 1000000000000000000%!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 October 2009):
He tells you how sweet you are and how much he misses you, then all he wants is sex? I'm afraid he is using you. A guy who wanted more would work hard to make this relationship work. He's not working at it at all. Don't allow yourself to be used, and find a lovely guy at college who will want to be with you for more than just sex.
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