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writes:please help! I am so confuse now. I been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we love each other so much.(I mean I do love him so much). But I broke up with him yesterday.We live in Puerto Rico and yesterday I move back in Arizona with my parents.But I still love him and miss him so much.I can't move on.The reason we break up because he is mama boy.i can't take it anymore.That's why!When I left he cried.And he left the message in my phone he called me my name (he use to call me baby) and he said i forget some stuff and what he ganna do with those things.I told him to trow away.Now i want to back with him.but i don't know if i can deal with his mom bullshit again.I don't know what to do now??? please give me an advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2009): I don't think I can give you any advice but I can write what I think about people. I hope you can benefit from it.
If we love someone, considering we have high enough EQ, we will never say the word break up. It doesn't matter when and where, that hurt the one who love us and will remain a scar forever. That moment, could be frustration or not, will be taken as the moment, he/she doesn't love the partner.
There is no one in this world born perfect. To truly love a person, we take everything including their weaknesses. If it is too much for us, we should choose to talk about it, to see if we can make changes to keep it going.
Individual is unique, myself, I don't care how the partner's family see me, what is care is how she sees me. I love her and will take her to the altar not her family. It might sounds cold hearted but I hope you know what I mean. And of course, because we care, we will never put or question the person in a situation which is difficult. Example, if your mom and I drowning, who you will save first? Something like that.
And we tend to get blinded by love because if we don't we are not in love yet. So, there are times by standers see the clearest thing. Talk and listen to them see if it is a relationship worth sacrifice for.
I know it is easier said than done. And if it sounds like bs lol, sorry because that is how I see things
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reader, YourDestiny11 +, writes (11 October 2009):
 Ok for one, breaking up with someone for being close to their mom is a pitty excuse! The reason you want him back is because you want something you cant have, most girls like a challenge, believe me im the same way and it drives me crazy! If you really love him, talk to him and try to work things out but realize you have to deal with his mom, if you dont think you can then you should just try to move on because it will never work! If i were you i would just try to move on! Good luck!
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