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I met my son's coach and I knew instantly there was somthing between us! Please help!

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Question - (11 October 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2009)
A female Ireland age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I really dont know what to do. My son went to a camp and i met his coach and i know instantley there was somthing.....really wierd feeling. I added him on a website and after a few months he actually began a cunversation with me....to my surprise we where chatting all night and he fels the same as me . i did not give much away but he told me how he felt when he first met me.That was last night. I cant stop thinking about him. I am disgusted with myself as i found out he is half my age, i thought he was a lot older like 28/29. I am 39 and he is a few years younger than i thought he was......i really dont know what to do or how to feel because as flattering as it is and i love the feeling of somebody feeling the same way i really know theres a spark there ....help me please

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2009):

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ok thankyou

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2009):

He's talking to you, so he's interested. All you can do is keep talking to him, and if he continues to seem interested, then ask him how he would feel about taking it further. But like I say, be aware that he probably won't be looking for long term, so don't get hurt! I say go for it :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2009):

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thankyou...i know its hard if you are looking for someone for long term...but im not thinking of that at all. I just dont know if i shoukd ignore him or just go with the glow. I dont want to push him into asking wanting he wants from me....but how would i ask that .....

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2009):

I'm a younger guy who is seeing an older woman, so all I can say is that of you're looking for a relationship that is long term, the truth is this guy may not be right. However, there is nothing stopping you just talking to him and finding out what he wants.

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