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male
age
30-35,
*azzedUp
writes:For the last several weeks, every friday I ask my girlfriend of 5 months, if she wants to hang out after school, and each time she says yes. so i go home, get all my important stuff done, and then return home to get ready and change. after all of this, i wait for her to tell me when to come over. she nevers calls. and when i finally call and ask why she never texted me, she always says, "oh you wanted to hang out?". I don't know what to do. She already told me she doesn't want to fall in love and she acts like she has no emotions at all. Can anyone tell me how to voice my feelings without making her leave me?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (31 January 2010):
You have to be honest with her.
Ask her why she KEEPS standing you up like this.
If you just ask her why she is doing this then she might realise she's hurting you and be a better girlfriend.
She sounds a bit selfish to me, she's happy to have a boyfriend but won't put any effort in or let you into her feelings. That's not fair on you.
She's either in or out of this relationship, she can't be half way.
Good Luck!! xx
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