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writes:me and my ex broke up a couple months ago after she cheated on me with the same guy she left to be with me. Over time I forgave her and tried to be friends. We would text each other every now and then. A few weeks ago she texts me and says she made the homecoming court. I told her if I wasnt busy I would try to go and she told me that I should go. I went and after it was over she came up to me and gave me a hug. That was about it. I didnt feel awkward around her. Just out of the blue she texts me a couple days later and says that she didnt want me at her homecoming. That was the first thing she said to me that day. It hurt pretty bad and we both started sayin hurtful things. She eventually told me to leave her alone so i did. I feel bad about the things I said to her. I want to apologize but she said to leave her alone. What should I do? And why would she text me and say that she didnt want me there after she told me that I should? I would appreciate the advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2009): Sorry guys for not clarifying that she doesnt date the guy she cheated on me for. She's single. Also when we were fussing the other day she went as far as to say that she never liked me and the only reason she dated me is because her aunt made her. That isnt even close to bein true. She told her cousin(who is also my best friend) that she wanted to date me. I dont have an account so i posted anonymously.
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reader, Aunt Shelley  +, writes (11 October 2009):
her boyfriend maybe realised she asked you about it and wasnt happy and as her new boyfriend he is bound to be before you, but to be honest forget her she doesnt know what she has lost, she will soon be trying to come bak once thigns mess up for her, but seriously just forget her get yourself a new girl and have fun with out her:)
love Aunt Shelley
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (11 October 2009):
She's only being nice to you because she feels guilty.
She doesn't want you there because it's probably causing problems with her new boyfriend.
She's putting him above you and to be honest, being friends with her will only stop you from getting over her.
Take this as the end and move on.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 October 2009):
Absolutely leave her alone. She's not worth being friends with anymore. It could be that her boyfriend got worried and asked her not to talk to you. Forget her. She cheated on you in the past and has no hurt you again. Don't give her a third chance. Never bother with her again and move on.
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