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writes:Please help, I am in a 3 month relationship with a guy younger than me by 8 years.When we first dated he lied about his age and I found his ID Doc. but he doesn't know that I know his real age. I found out that he was cheating just a month after we started dating. He apologised and I took him back again. He is neither working nor studying, I am working and also studying. I am working as a Surveyor and have to spend time away from my hometown. He has developed hatred for my job. He does not understand that I am studying. If it happens that he calls me on my cellphone and I don't answer, he sends me nasty messages. I am tired of being treated like this. What could this be? Please help me, I'm stressed. Reply to this Question
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reader, DESTINY 23  +, writes (11 October 2009):
 my guy is 9 years younger then me and he did the dame thing
he would take to me mean and blame all the problems on me . I had him paying rent but it was always late. he take money from me and pay me back in a month . I was in love with him but after a while I just felt with the abuse and the way he talked to me and using my money I left. ive been in a sad and it takes a lot not to call because you want to believe that they loved you but they used you. wake up before you get treated worse.
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reader, bitch +, writes (11 October 2009):
He has trust issues and has insecurity about himself. You should consider ending this relationship. It won't change and you will be under a lot of stress if you continue and he doesn't change. I am sorry you are going through this. Can you talk to him about this and see if you can find a resolution?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 October 2009):
This guy doesn't work, he uses you, he doesn't study, he lied to you, he cheated. He's terrible! Ditch him right now, because he's not good enough for you at all. He'll hurt you and live off you and that's it. There are better guys out there, so please find a good one instead. Don't be used and abused like this. You're better.
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reader, boo22 +, writes (11 October 2009):
 Hi, your question should be, My boyfriend lies and cheats on me, so why do i stay with him?
All this and you've only been together 3 months. He's a stupid little boy with absolutely no repect for you or himself.
Dump him immediately please!!!!
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